Naima B. Robert – Muslim Women Writers Talk Publishing and Beyond Muslimah Author Summit 2022

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The speakers discuss the challenges of self-paying books and finding the right publisher for their writing process. They emphasize the importance of finding a good publisher and illustrator, but note the effort it takes. The process takes time and effort, but ultimately requires attention and dedication. They thank their listeners for their publishing experiences and hope their audience will continue to benefit from their efforts.

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			What channel is this on YouTube?
		
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			Ladies.
		
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			Take it away. It's all yours.
		
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			Today we are going to be talking to
		
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			some of our wonderful authors about their publishing
		
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			journeys.
		
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			So I'm not gonna spend too much time.
		
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			I'm gonna ask everybody to just, to just
		
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			Let's jump right in. So, if you ladies,
		
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			let's just go one at a time. If
		
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			you would just please introduce yourselves
		
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			and tell us the name of your book,
		
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			and whether or not you decided whether you
		
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			decided to do,
		
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			self publishing or traditional publishing.
		
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			So,
		
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			Husna, why don't you begin for us? Thank
		
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			you.
		
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			Tasnawha, assalamu alaikum everyone.
		
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			My name's Husna Rahman and I am author
		
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			of I Lost Something
		
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			Very Special,
		
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			and I decided to go down the self
		
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			publishing route.
		
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			That's me.
		
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			Thank you. Thank you for that, Hosnah.
		
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			Mutia, what about you?
		
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			Hi. Assalamu alikum, everyone. I'm Mutia Badruddin.
		
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			I am the author of Ricky and Z,
		
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			as well as some other books, but this
		
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			is the only one that is available right
		
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			now.
		
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			For WikiCurrency, I went through, a hybrid publisher,
		
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			which is, like, halfway between,
		
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			independent publishing and, self publishing.
		
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			But for my last book, I went fully
		
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			self published.
		
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			Could you tell us
		
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			just quickly why you decided to do 1
		
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			and then you switched?
		
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			So I did hybrid
		
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			earlier because,
		
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			I didn't want to deal with,
		
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			I didn't want to deal with the
		
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			time that it takes to get traditionally published.
		
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			And also, I fee I think that my
		
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			books might not be well accepted in traditional
		
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			publishing settings
		
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			but at the same time, I wanted a
		
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			publisher to do most of the back work
		
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			because I am very busy and it's a
		
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			lot to do self publishing.
		
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			So I wanted them to take care of
		
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			that side
		
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			but I didn't want to wait.
		
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			And then when I came up with Ricky
		
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			Anzhi which was from the law well received
		
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			but the publishers didn't do much for me
		
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			in terms of the public publicity
		
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			and stuff which is what I was hoping
		
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			for so I just thought if they're not
		
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			going to really help me with that, then
		
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			I might as well try it by myself.
		
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			So I did the self publishing for my
		
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			last book, Svolta.
		
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			Now I think I need to try traditional
		
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			publishing just because it's so much work with
		
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			Allahu Alam.
		
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			Thank you so much for that. Thank you
		
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			so much for that. And ma'bruk, ma'bruk, masha'Allah,
		
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			masha'Allah.
		
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			Harsna, I'm gonna go back to you for
		
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			one second. If you could tell us why
		
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			you decided to do self publishing. From them.
		
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			And being new to the publishing, you know,
		
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			from them.
		
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			And being new to the publishing, you know,
		
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			writing author
		
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			industry for like the journey, yeah, I didn't
		
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			realise that sometimes they just don't get back
		
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			to you. And then I had a coaching
		
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			call with Naima and we sort of just
		
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			weighed out the options and she was the
		
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			one that gave me that clarity on going
		
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			down the self publishing route because I I
		
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			just really wanted to get my story
		
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			out there.
		
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			And and it was really daunting to think
		
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			about self publishing but I just felt a
		
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			lot calmer after having that conversation with her.
		
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			And I thought actually, yeah, this sounds quite
		
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			good and I get a lot more control
		
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			over the process as well, which,
		
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			which I'm happy that I had.
		
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			Definitely. Thank you so much. Thank you for
		
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			that, Hosanna. Okay.
		
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			Khosar, what about you?
		
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			Tell us,
		
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			introduce yourself and give us the name of
		
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			your book and what it's about and whether
		
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			you decided to do traditional or self publishing.
		
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			Okay. Assalamu alaikum, everyone. My name is Corso
		
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			Abdulaziz,
		
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			and my book is Tales of Mini Mariam.
		
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			And I went traditional publishing route. I did
		
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			actually do a little bit of a taste
		
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			of it self publishing, but
		
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			6, 7 years ago, life just was so
		
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			busy that, you know, I looked took one
		
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			look at self publishing. I googled it. I
		
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			had a look, but you know what? Not
		
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			for me. So I went back to the
		
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			publishing room. So, yeah, I went to traditional
		
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			publishing. Awesome. Awesome.
		
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			Very good. Very good. And what's your book
		
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			about? Did you tell us? Yeah. Tell Us
		
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			Mini Mariam is a short Islamic stories
		
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			about based on my inspired by my daughter,
		
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			Mariam. So what she got up to and
		
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			then and then the duwas that followed. So,
		
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			for example, having something to eat. What do
		
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			you say after you eat? There's a it's
		
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			it's a little story and then after that,
		
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			the boudoir after it.
		
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			That's wonderful. That's wonderful.
		
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			Thank you for that.
		
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			Shazia, you're next.
		
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			Please introduce yourself. Tell us, your book and
		
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			a little bit about your book and then
		
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			whether or not you decide whether you decided
		
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			to do, self publishing or traditional publishing.
		
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			Assalamu alaikum. I'm
		
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			Shazia Absan. Alhamdulillah. A teacher by profession and,
		
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			alhamdulillah, I've got 2 books published.
		
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			1
		
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			almost releasing in, 2 weeks.
		
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			One is the sleepy farmer. It's an Islamic
		
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			book for Islamic children. It's toddler book. And,
		
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			Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah, got the toddler, the books that
		
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			I'm award as well.
		
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			It's published by
		
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			a traditional publisher traditional Muslim publisher.
		
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			And the Midnight Sun Mosque is being published
		
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			by a,
		
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			mainstream
		
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			publisher or a publisher in British Columbia in
		
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			Canada.
		
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			I did not want to go through self
		
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			publishing because I wanted my master's to be,
		
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			you know,
		
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			scrutinized real well,
		
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			edited real well. And only once things have
		
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			gone through lots of additions and revisions that
		
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			comes out to shine.
		
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			But also
		
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			before I pull up my and as entrepreneur,
		
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			doing my own business, my own daycare,
		
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			I didn't have that time to
		
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			self publish.
		
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			Besides,
		
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			I had no clue about publishing.
		
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			I still don't, I only know how to
		
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			write and get a check.
		
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			So I chose traditional. I
		
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			got to win the traditional publishing.
		
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			Could you tell us a little bit about
		
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			how much time it took you to find
		
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			your publisher?
		
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			It can take anywhere between
		
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			I guess if if the management is good
		
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			and it's gonna be expect accepted,
		
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			you'll find out within within a month.
		
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			Within a month.
		
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			But if no,
		
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			then you won't hear back, period, or just
		
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			a rejection.
		
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			So the the midnight, because it's a real
		
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			story, it's based on a Canadian experience, right,
		
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			where Moscow's actually transport more Canadian, you know,
		
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			related to Canada. It's a real community
		
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			thing. So I got sort of 3 interests,
		
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			but one picked up right away. Is that
		
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			okay? You know what? I'm going with them.
		
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			Similar to the sleepy farmer 1, I only
		
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			heard back from him right away. So but
		
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			if if if it will be accepted,
		
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			it's gonna happen right away within a month.
		
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			Otherwise And then
		
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			sorry. And then and then how long did
		
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			it take from when they said, yes. We
		
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			want this book to when it was actually
		
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			published?
		
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			The Islamic book, that took just a year.
		
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			So I I got a full of both
		
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			the contracts together in, 2020.
		
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			But, 2021,
		
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			before Ramadan,
		
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			my sleepy farmer book was out.
		
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			But the midnight sun mask is gonna be
		
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			launched on 15th of this month of March,
		
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			Insha'Allah. So 2 years, 2 whole years for
		
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			the traditional publishing.
		
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			Yes. Masha'Allah.
		
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			Masha'Allah.
		
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			Thank you. Thank you for sharing all of
		
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			that with us, Shazia. Thank you.
		
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			Tumkeen,
		
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			Assalamu Alaikum and welcome.
		
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			Please introduce yourself,
		
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			tell us a little bit about
		
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			your yourself and your book, the title of
		
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			your book and a little bit about it,
		
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			and then,
		
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			tell us whether you went traditional or self
		
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			publishing
		
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			and why.
		
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			Okay. So, Sono'ikwa, everyone.
		
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			My name is Sam Keen. I am an
		
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			author,
		
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			poet, writer,
		
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			and occasionally speaker.
		
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			My book is called Breathe,
		
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			Reflections and Poetry from the 2020 Lockdown.
		
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			And,
		
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			it's also last year's day Daybreak Press,
		
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			award winner for best poetry.
		
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			So a little bit about the book is
		
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			that it's just,
		
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			it's a book I wrote in a month
		
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			that captures
		
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			my reflections and poetry when the lockdown happened,
		
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			when when we all went into quarantine and
		
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			the world shut down. And so I I
		
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			kinda wrote every single day and captured it
		
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			and put it into a book,
		
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			and that is 3.
		
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			And I went with self publishing. It was
		
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			actually a little bit of a journey to
		
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			decide that.
		
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			I worked with him. And
		
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			so what we did what I did was
		
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			I read it, and then I we worked
		
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			on my manuscript, and then I wanted to
		
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			go traditional route.
		
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			I looked at a few publishers, but then
		
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			I looked at the process of it and
		
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			how much I would be able to be
		
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			involved in the vision of it of it
		
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			coming out, the cover, the title, the way
		
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			the book would be laid out.
		
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			And once I kinda looked into it and
		
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			realized that I'm gonna have to have someone
		
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			else to say in it too,
		
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			I realized that was not the way I
		
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			wanna Breathe to come out.
		
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			I had a vision of Breathe. I knew
		
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			what the what I wanted the cover to
		
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			look like. I knew how the layout I
		
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			wanted to be. I wanted to kinda
		
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			where the floor tree would sit between the
		
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			between the reflections.
		
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			So with that in mind, I thought that
		
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			if I want my,
		
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			you know, more control over it,
		
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			and my vision to come to life, then
		
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			I would have to go, that I would
		
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			choose to go to self publishing. And I'm
		
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			glad that I did because I think it
		
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			looks perfectly as what I had envisioned it
		
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			to look like.
		
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			Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah.
		
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			And something that I will go back and
		
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			ask the rest of the ladies who self
		
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			published, how long did it take you from
		
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			when you finished your,
		
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			let's say, your your final draft to when
		
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			it was actually published?
		
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			I gave myself
		
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			not too long because,
		
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			one thing me and I had discussed was
		
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			that
		
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			this was like, something like a current event
		
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			book, and it wasn't something I wanted to
		
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			sit on for a long time because, you
		
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			know, when we with the different surges that
		
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			were happening, actually, by the end of 2020,
		
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			people were kinda like, in these states was
		
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			kinda going back to normal and was like
		
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			like, oh, okay. Florentine's overall normal now, quote,
		
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			unquote.
		
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			But,
		
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			then
		
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			so the book was feeling like it's gonna
		
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			become irrelevant if it had come out at
		
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			that time. When we had the second surge
		
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			and I felt those emotions rise up again,
		
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			people like, oh, no. We're going through this
		
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			again.
		
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			I felt like that was the time to
		
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			do it. So my I think I gave
		
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			myself
		
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			not more than a month or 2. I
		
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			think it was 2 months, I would say,
		
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			when I when I when I decided what
		
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			the release date would be. And then I
		
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			worked really hard,
		
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			to get it done as much as possible,
		
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			you know, all the little pieces, all the
		
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			stuff publishing people know. And it was hard
		
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			because I did not have this book in
		
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			my hand.
		
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			I didn't hold this book until I think
		
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			a day before the release or something. So
		
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			I didn't even know what it would look
		
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			like if somebody was out there. So I'm
		
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			like, okay. We're going with this.
		
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			Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah. Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Very good. Thank you so much. Thank you
		
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			for sharing all of that with us.
		
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			Farah, assalamu alaikum and welcome,
		
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			And,
		
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			introduce yourself, please, and tell us the title
		
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			of your book, a little bit about it,
		
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			whether you decided to go self publishing or
		
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			traditional, and a little bit about why.
		
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			This is my first book ever.
		
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			And I the book is called Taking Control,
		
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			a Muslim woman's guide to surviving infertility.
		
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			And
		
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			the book is essentially,
		
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			a combination
		
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			of,
		
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			Islamic reminders in terms
		
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			of finding this as finding Islam in your
		
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			faith as a tool to survive such a
		
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			trial,
		
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			but also really practical tools
		
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			on how to survive it every day even
		
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			when your faith is wavering.
		
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			And
		
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			it's a combination of
		
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			what to do if you're going down the
		
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			treatment routes and what's haram, what's haram, what
		
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			what's the procedure, how much does it cost,
		
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			how does it, differ in different countries,
		
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			as well as,
		
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			other parts such as what do you do
		
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			socially, what's what happens in your marriage,
		
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			you know, what happens to your self esteem
		
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			and your self identity?
		
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			All of that. And then it has another
		
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			section. So there there are 3 clear sections.
		
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			And the third section
		
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			is,
		
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			so parallel, you know, getting married, having a
		
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			child is something that we expect. Many of
		
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			us, we grew up expecting that to be
		
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			the norm, and we know that it's,
		
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			to not be able to have a child
		
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			biologically
		
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			is the reality for many men and women
		
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			around the world.
		
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			And, therefore, one section deals with what now?
		
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			If that is not your path,
		
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			what now? You know, what do with your
		
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			future? What other options happens in parenting as
		
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			a to become a parent? What other options
		
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			happens in your marriage? So that's what the
		
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			book is about and it's really for every
		
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			Muslim sister probably in the west or any
		
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			English speaking country, I would say.
		
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			And I think that us can use it
		
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			together, but, really, this is a very,
		
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			specific book to my sisters who have gone
		
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			through this and who feel really alone in
		
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			that environment. So that's what it's about.
		
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			In terms of publishing, I've gone with,
		
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			I've ended up with,
		
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			traditional Muslim publishers.
		
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			I think when I started writing the book,
		
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			I had zero expectations. I said in one
		
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			of the panels I was on yesterday.
		
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			I didn't know I was gonna write the
		
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			book. Lockdown happened. It was an idea always.
		
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			I took a plunge. I wrote it quite
		
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			quickly. I had hamdulillah.
		
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			I spoke to you, and you helped me
		
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			with the initial editing.
		
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			And then you I think you, actually. It
		
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			was you that said,
		
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			why don't you try to send me off
		
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			to a few publishers? I know you were
		
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			thinking of going down your self
		
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			publishing route, but why don't you just see?
		
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			So I sent it off to 6. Initially,
		
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			I sent off to 1 non
		
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			Islamic one and probably 4 or 5 Islamic
		
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			one just because the emphasis there is a
		
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			lot of Islamic emphasis, so that's why I
		
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			was going with the Islamic ones.
		
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			Out of those 6, I've hammed the last
		
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			3, wanted to pick up the book.
		
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			1 or 2 2 rejected it, I think,
		
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			I believe,
		
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			and one never got back to me. Yeah.
		
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			So that was the journey. Yeah. Masha'Allah.
		
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			And, the book is coming out in the
		
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			summer, Correct? Yes. June 2022.
		
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			It's just, was just registered on Amazon and
		
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			all those other outlets just now,
		
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			and then it'll be available for preorder in
		
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			the next couple of weeks. Masha'Allah. Masha'Allah. And
		
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			how long from when you
		
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			finished
		
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			it Yeah. When it was, like, complete to
		
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			when inshallah in June? So what's what's that
		
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			time frame?
		
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			Yes. So yeah. Exactly. The writing period is
		
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			quite quick. And then from the time
		
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			I was sending it off just teasing the
		
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			the the publishing industry,
		
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			from that time to signing a contract, first
		
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			and foremost, I would say it was maybe
		
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			5 months.
		
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			And that's because I actually went with
		
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			second or the third offer, not the first
		
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			one. I think had I done that, it
		
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			would have been done in, like,
		
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			6 weeks probably.
		
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			But all in all, it took about 5,
		
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			6 months. And then from signing the contract
		
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			to now when it would be released was
		
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			exactly 1 year. 1 year.
		
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			Thank you. Thank you for sharing that with
		
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			us, Farah. Yeah. I'm just gonna go back
		
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			to some of our sisters who decided to
		
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			self publish and ask them that same question.
		
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			So you guys can jump in. How long
		
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			from when you
		
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			finished
		
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			to when it was actually published,
		
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			what was that time frame? I really want
		
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			our
		
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			our watchers to understand,
		
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			that that time difference because,
		
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			we always say that when you go traditional,
		
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			it really does tend to take a lot
		
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			longer. But I want our our viewers to
		
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			hear it for themselves from you, the authors.
		
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			So whoever wants to jump in.
		
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			Yeah. For me, personally, it took,
		
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			it took me over a year from the
		
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			time of having the manuscript and yourself, Hind,
		
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			and I'm like, you were the initial story
		
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			editor. So, you know, it was just perfectly,
		
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			completed there. And then I submitted it to
		
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			a couple of publishers. I waited about 8
		
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			to 12 weeks to hear back from one
		
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			of them. And that was 1 out of
		
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			3 or 4, the other I didn't hear
		
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			back from. And then I think,
		
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			I I was my biggest barrier
		
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			because I could have got it out quicker,
		
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			but I think I just had a little
		
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			bit of hesitation, had a bit of doubt
		
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			and I put it to the side for
		
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			a bit. But then in January 2021 that's
		
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			when I started to look for an illustrator,
		
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			found an illustrator and that took about 2,
		
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			3 months for the illustrations
		
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			to be done.
		
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			And then just looking at the formatting and
		
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			getting it,
		
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			edited,
		
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			for grammatical,
		
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			no, grammatical editing.
		
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			So, yeah, it took about over a year,
		
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			but it could have taken a shorter amount
		
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			of time if I hadn't sort of sat
		
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			with it for a bit, and I think
		
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			just that hit from the rejections,
		
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			of the the publishers. You know, like I
		
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			said, I was all very new to this.
		
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			I just oh my gosh, is it
		
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			not worthy, is it not good?' But then
		
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			your self hints and the 9 role kept
		
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			saying to me, you need to get this
		
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			out there because it's so timely, it's about
		
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			grief and loss and there's so many people
		
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			of course experiencing that, they haven't been able
		
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			to say goodbye to their loved ones, it's
		
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			going to
		
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			inshallah, help a lot of people. And that
		
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			was my driving force, and literally that pushed
		
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			me so much, knowing that you believed in
		
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			me and that, you know, knowing
		
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			that you've got these amazing women
		
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			supporting you and who know what they're talking
		
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			about. So, okay, yeah, of course, they know
		
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			what they're talking about. So,
		
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			publishers. But yeah, it took me, it personally
		
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			took me a year because
		
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			of my own doubts and imposter syndrome and
		
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			all of that that could have possibly come
		
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			in the way. But I think I probably
		
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			could have it probably could have been done
		
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			within about
		
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			maximum, maybe about 6 months' time with the
		
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			the illustrations
		
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			as well. And yeah, and alhamdulillah, got published
		
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			September,
		
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			just 2021.
		
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			Masha'Allah,
		
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			ma brook. Could you tell us if you
		
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			could share
		
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			the one thing that helped you get over
		
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			your hesitation and get over your doubts and
		
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			your fears? If there was one specific thing,
		
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			what would you say it was?
		
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			I think, Hind, what it was for me
		
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			was mine, and I said this in one
		
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			of the panels, it was my purpose
		
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			for doing the story, for writing the book,
		
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			is based on a personal bereavement
		
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			of mine. I lost my father in 2018
		
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			and I, and the character, the little girl's,
		
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			character is based on my,
		
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			daughter who was 5 at the time. And,
		
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			and I, I basically didn't know how to
		
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			to speak to her about what had happened
		
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			to her granddad. And and I looked for
		
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			children's books with South Asian, Muslim characters, specifically
		
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			around the topic of grief, couldn't find any.
		
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			And one of my friends sort of, you
		
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			know, pushed me to get in contact with
		
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			Naomi and I did, I joined the academy
		
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			and,
		
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			watched the, joined the master classes, got in
		
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			touch with yourself as well. But that was
		
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			what kept me going, knowing
		
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			that, well, A, it was the purpose, my
		
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			why, for doing this and Naima always said
		
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			that from the outset, she was like have
		
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			your why secured.
		
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			And then also having the amazing support from
		
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			yourself and other sisters as well, Tymke, I
		
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			remember we used to attend coaching,
		
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			fortnightly or weekly coaching
		
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			calls,
		
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			and Tim Keane and other sisters,
		
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			they gave such invaluable advice, which I took
		
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			on board. So yeah, I think they were
		
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			my two
		
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			things that just kept me going because it
		
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			was challenging but Alhamdulillah
		
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			know, I'm just so glad that I did
		
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			because
		
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			I've got some great feedback from it.
		
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			Definitely. Definitely. I'm so excited to have it
		
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			out in the world. It really is an
		
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			important story. Thank
		
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			you. Thank you for sharing that. Thank you.
		
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			What about you? How long from when you
		
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			finished your book or books each, whichever one
		
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			you wanna, discuss,
		
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			and,
		
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			having it actually be published in the world?
		
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			Okay. So
		
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			I wrote Rick and Z over 5 years.
		
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			And it was kind of
		
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			so I've been writing for over 20 years.
		
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			I had 2 books traditionally published while I
		
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			was still in Nigeria.
		
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			Right? Traditional Muslim publishers.
		
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			But Rekiya and Zee, I started writing at
		
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			a point in my life where everything just
		
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			seemed like I was
		
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			really low
		
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			and it was like an outlet for me.
		
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			So it was just something I was doing
		
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			for myself.
		
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			And then the lockdown happened.
		
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			And
		
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			I don't know. With the introspection of the
		
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			lockdown,
		
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			being able to, like
		
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			I was trapped in a different country from
		
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			my family
		
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			because of the global travel ban.
		
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			And so I sat with the book for
		
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			a long time and I
		
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			walked and completed
		
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			it. And so when I sent it to
		
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			some of my friends, they were like, oh,
		
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			no. You need to get this book out.
		
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			And I didn't want to do the whole
		
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			traditional publishing
		
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			thing. So that was when I got the
		
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			hybrid publisher.
		
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			The hybrid publisher, the moment after signing the
		
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			contract and all that, I think it took,
		
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			about
		
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			4 months
		
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			but the high bid publisher for the book
		
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			to be out.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			But when I when I
		
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			did Folta, which is my last book, actually
		
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			an edition of the very first novella I
		
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			that had been
		
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			traditionally published in Nigeria.
		
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			But it it was no longer in print
		
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			and I had people, you know, once I
		
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			came back on social media because of Ricky
		
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			and Z, people started reaching out to me
		
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			like oh, I remember this ebook from 2010.
		
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			Can can, you know, can can can I
		
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			get get a copy? So I thought, okay,
		
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			I would just,
		
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			revise it and put it out, you know,
		
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			self publish, thinking it was going to be
		
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			easy. It wasn't
		
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			because
		
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			because the time after the time I, you
		
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			know, I went to
		
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			edit it, which I was trying to keep
		
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			to the the story and not change anything,
		
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			just, you know, do, like, a surface level
		
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			edition, but not actually change the bone of
		
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			the story.
		
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			Oh, I didn't mention I do write fiction,
		
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			or like most of you, I write adult
		
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			fiction mostly.
		
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			Anyways, so after the editing process and I
		
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			thought, okay, yes, this is the final draft
		
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			I wanted,
		
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			all I really needed was, you know, get
		
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			a professional editor to work with it and,
		
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			the book cover done and the typesetting and
		
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			the layouts and stuff like that. And it
		
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			took me maybe about 6 weeks, 2 months
		
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			to get that done.
		
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			Mostly because I couldn't find a cover
		
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			save my life. Like, we went through
		
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			over 50 covers. It was so ridiculous.
		
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			And, you know, we kept I'm like no
		
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			no
		
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			nah or maybe I would like okay this
		
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			one is good and somebody else on the
		
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			team will be like no that's horrible and
		
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			so we just went over and over. And
		
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			eventually the final cover that we used, it
		
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			was just a case of me saying, you
		
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			know what?
		
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			I am going to go with this cover.
		
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			I like it. And some people are like,
		
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			it's too simple, and they're like, no. We're
		
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			going with this cover. And that was just,
		
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			like, a week or 2 before
		
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			the book was supposed to go live, which
		
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			was crazy.
		
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			We'd set up the preorder and everything,
		
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			but we hadn't come up with the cover.
		
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			So, yeah, it took about 6 weeks. And
		
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			I I wasn't in the best of health
		
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			at that time.
		
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			So I don't know if I had, you
		
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			know, something to
		
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			do with it. Maybe I could have done
		
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			it earlier, but, really,
		
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			it was so much at that time. I
		
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			consumed the date once. And I remember Naima
		
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			in one
		
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			of
		
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			the You're breaking up a bit, Matia. I'm
		
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			not actually sure if you're still with us.
		
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			But thank you for
		
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			Okay. Are you there?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Yeah,
		
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			you're coming sort of in and out. So
		
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			thank you, thank you. I think we got
		
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			just a bit, though. We got the bulk
		
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			of it. So thank you for sharing all
		
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			of that.
		
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			Khosar, would you like to talk about your,
		
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			just your general publishing journey?
		
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			You, I think you had mentioned that you
		
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			were thinking about doing self publishing, but then
		
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			you decided you didn't want to do that,
		
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			and you went with
		
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			publisher. To begin with and then why you
		
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			decided to to go the the traditional route
		
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			and also, like, time frame and the challenges
		
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			that came up. Just talk to us a
		
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			little bit about the the whole journey your
		
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			whole journey.
		
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			Okay. So the whole journey was pretty long.
		
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			So from start to finish, it was 8
		
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			years.
		
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			So,
		
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			yeah. So, I mean, from the start from
		
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			the time I wrote the story
		
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			and then deciding, okay. Fine. I'm going to
		
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			get this published. So I started off with
		
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			seeking traditional publishers.
		
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			I found, my second so I you know,
		
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			you know, the the whole thing. You start
		
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			googling. You don't know who to ask, so
		
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			you Google how do you become an author?
		
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			What do you have to do? How do
		
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			you write the manuscript?
		
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			You contact you go to libraries, and you
		
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			look at, you know, look at books and
		
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			see who the publishers are, and you write
		
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			down all publisher names and you go back
		
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			home and Google again. So lots of Googling
		
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			Googling and,
		
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			excuse me.
		
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			Lots of Googling and then,
		
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			found 1 publisher. The second publisher, then you
		
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			have to write the manuscript according to their
		
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			requirements. And so all of this, as you
		
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			can already tell, takes time.
		
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			Found my second publisher,
		
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			and then the voice goes. So found my
		
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			second publisher, and,
		
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			and, I mentioned last time that I so
		
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			I sent it to her and she agreed.
		
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			She loved it and she said yes. Yes.
		
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			Yes. And I was like, great. Great. Great.
		
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			And that's it. You know? As I was
		
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			saying last time as well, we will have
		
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			busy lives. I thought it's fine. That's sorted.
		
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			Now let's just get on my life. And
		
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			so I've got all of my life. I
		
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			didn't hear from her until 1 year later.
		
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			And, you know, I wouldn't recommend that you
		
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			leave it for a year, but me, I
		
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			was so busy with my own kind of,
		
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			you know, homeschooling life, looking after my kids
		
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			and organizing community events, etcetera, and working.
		
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			So I just left it. So a year
		
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			later, I thought, you know what? I haven't
		
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			heard from that publisher. Let me just get
		
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			hold and see if, you know, what's going
		
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			on. And so I emailed her, and she
		
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			came back to me and said to me,
		
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			I'm sorry, sis. I forgot to let you
		
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			know that we're actually closing down, you know,
		
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			things didn't work out, but good luck with
		
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			your book. And I was like, gee. Yeah.
		
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			Thank you. I wish you would have told
		
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			me before, but, no, I was like, I
		
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			find you, but the journey continued.
		
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			So the journey continued, and so I think
		
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			it was the 5th publisher there that I
		
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			finally, you know,
		
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			said yes. They really liked it. But even
		
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			that then took about I was just checking
		
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			just now. It actually took 2 2 years.
		
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			I signed the contract in 2018, and then,
		
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			you know, things take time because you have
		
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			to kind of then find the you have
		
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			to agree on the contract.
		
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			It goes to the editing process, and then
		
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			you find the illustrator. And then I remember
		
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			sitting in the room with the illustrator and,
		
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			talking to him about my story, trying to
		
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			get him to imagine what I've because it's
		
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			all in my head. It was all in
		
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			my head. It was written down, but still
		
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			to describe that this is what I'm looking
		
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			for. This is the character, give them a
		
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			few pictures. So I mean, yeah, pictures, you
		
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			know, because it was all based on my
		
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			family. So my daughter and my children, my,
		
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			you know, my my my the rest of
		
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			my family. And, alhamdulillah, he did a really,
		
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			really, really good, emotional, excellent job in illustrating
		
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			at the end of it. But, again, it
		
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			took time. And then
		
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			once the book was published, you know, it
		
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			took I I remember the time I I
		
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			couldn't believe that I was Martha. I was
		
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			like,
		
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			it was really,
		
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			until I did not have that book in
		
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			my hand. I remember I was in my
		
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			bedroom, I was sitting on the prayer mat,
		
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			and I remember I looked at my book
		
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			and I thought,
		
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			I'm I'm an author. I just it was
		
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			it was incredible. That that feeling, you know,
		
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			you don't even believe until so I held
		
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			the book, I'm like, oh my gosh, I'm
		
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			an author. And then it's
		
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			like, but now what? You know, you know,
		
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			now I have a so many books, 1,000
		
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			a 1,000 books. What do I do with
		
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			them?
		
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			So then is that process
		
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			because what I hadn't realized was that after
		
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			I signed the contract that I was actually
		
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			agreeing to also help
		
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			publish that book and get that book out
		
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			there, you know, that is that next process
		
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			and I I was clueless again back to
		
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			Google, you know, how do you get, you
		
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			know, one of the tricks, one of the
		
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			the trade. And what what what helped me
		
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			was
		
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			I I was saying that as well on
		
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			the other panel that, I,
		
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			sent a message through Twitter to Naima just
		
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			to tell her that, hey,
		
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			I've just published a book. I she had
		
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			no idea who I was, but I knew
		
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			her only from, you know, yeah. And I
		
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			was just saying that, you know, when you
		
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			thinking, you know, you know someone through their
		
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			books, you actually, you don't know them, but
		
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			still I wanted to tell someone who was
		
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			up then. So I just just tweeted messaged
		
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			her. I said, I've just published my book
		
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			and I'm so happy. And then when she
		
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			tweeted me back, I was like, oh my
		
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			god. I have a message from them. Oh
		
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			my god. So that was my journey. That
		
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			was my beginning with Naima.
		
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			And so, yeah. And from there, she tweeted
		
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			me back and then, you know, then I
		
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			thought to myself, maybe she can help me
		
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			out because I really do need some advice.
		
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			So she offered me a coaching call and
		
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			then that was the beginning of how to
		
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			get myself out there. I decided my publishers,
		
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			you know,
		
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			they actually helped me with them paying for
		
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			the, obviously, amplify
		
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			the amplify course that I went on, and,
		
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			it was amazing. That was the best thing
		
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			that ever happened to me because I've been
		
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			looking at the check
		
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			my checklist. I've brought that out
		
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			literally every single tick tick tick tick tick,
		
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			you know, I'm so proud of that. It
		
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			really is, you know, it's like update your
		
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			update your social media, Facebook.
		
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			Some of these things, I had no idea
		
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			what they meant. Like, you know, Mailchimp,
		
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			I don't know. And, what was it called?
		
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			A lead magnet. What's a lead magnet?
		
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			So I was completely clueless, but but the,
		
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			amplify the course that I I went on
		
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			is a self study course, but it is
		
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			absolutely amazing.
		
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			And if you even if you get stuck,
		
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			Naima is always there for you. And if
		
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			not Naima, YouTube, Zindabad, as we say in
		
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			my language, YouTube's the best. You know. YouTube
		
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			is the best. It's so simple. YouTube actually
		
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			helped me understand what Mailchimp was all about.
		
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			I hadn't focused what was going on, but
		
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			YouTube was the best thing. So, yeah. So,
		
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			nothing really.
		
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			There's more, there's more, but
		
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			Humble. Thank you. Thank you for sharing all
		
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			of that. And,
		
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			we're just so glad,
		
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			to be a part of that because the
		
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			Amplify program,
		
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			the goal of it is really to help,
		
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			authors like yourself. So authors who have written
		
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			the book and maybe the book is already
		
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			out there, and it's about
		
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			getting it more widely
		
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			recognized in in the community and just,
		
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			allowing it for a wider readership, really. So,
		
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			so I'm so glad that, hamdulillah, that you
		
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			found that beneficial. Hamdulillah.
		
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			So ladies, I'm gonna ask you another question.
		
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			So a 2 part question.
		
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			What was your biggest challenge
		
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			along your along your publishing journey? Not the
		
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			writing. So, like, the writing is done.
		
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			Not your writing journey, but your publishing journey.
		
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			What was your biggest challenge,
		
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			and what's your biggest tip for
		
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			authors who,
		
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			or writers who maybe
		
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			want to
		
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			write a book, people who maybe haven't yet
		
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			written a book,
		
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			or authors who have written a book and
		
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			now they're thinking to themselves, well, what now?
		
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			So what was your biggest challenge along the
		
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			way and your number one tip for them?
		
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			So,
		
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			Farah, why don't we start with you?
		
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			Are you here?
		
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			You're muted. You're muted.
		
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			Hi, Yvonne. I'm sorry. I keep taking the
		
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			camera off because my nose and my allergies
		
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			will cooperate.
		
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			So I'm having to blow my nose a
		
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			lot off camera.
		
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			But, anyway,
		
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			I believe I'm in the thick of that.
		
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			So,
		
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			for me, even when I started
		
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			the 1st day of writing,
		
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			for me, getting to this bit, the marketing
		
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			side of it, and getting the book
		
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			actually known and then getting it into the
		
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			hands of enough people, that was always my
		
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			fear, to be honest, rather than anything else.
		
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			So I am at my fear store right
		
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			now.
		
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			But what I'm trying to do is,
		
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			literally next week, I'm gonna sit down, and
		
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			I'm gonna work out my own marketing strategy,
		
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			in terms of with the help of, you
		
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			know, yourself or Nieman or other people,
		
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			and also
		
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			look at the publisher's strategy and see what
		
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			they're doing and try and hold them accountable
		
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			as well-to-do as much as possible.
		
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			One of the things that we're currently doing
		
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			is getting endorsements
		
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			for the book before, you know, folk can
		
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			physically get out there. So that's something.
		
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			But I'm I'm really
		
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			clueless myself with this bit. On on top
		
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			of that, not only being clueless, like, the
		
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			sister said, so obviously you're gonna have to
		
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			do a lot of Google and a lot
		
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			of asking questions and all of that.
		
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			But like I said, when it's combined with
		
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			your with your own biggest fear as well
		
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			or or you think it's a weakness of
		
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			yours,
		
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			it's really challenging. I'm physically, as we speak,
		
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			doing the work to kind of get my
		
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			mindset right for that bit.
		
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			But I know that one thing I don't
		
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			wanna do,
		
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			for me anyway,
		
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			whilst this book is aimed at Muslim women
		
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			and the topic
		
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			is heavily influenced by the teachings of Islam
		
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			and the reminders of Islam, I really wanna
		
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			try and promote it in all mainstream audience
		
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			because I think it is such a crucial
		
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			point and sorry, topic. And it's a topic
		
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			that's decided to be discussed enough like many
		
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			other topics.
		
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			But like many other topics, the Muslim voice
		
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			is not part of
		
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			the part of the experience, and there are
		
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			many Muslims in the west at least who,
		
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			yes, we consume Islamic focused articles, books, YouTube,
		
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			all those things. We also consume a lot
		
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			of mainstream
		
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			services as well. So my goal is to
		
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			try and
		
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			get over the fear,
		
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			figure things out, and really make sure that
		
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			I do
		
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			I just do the sisters that I know
		
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			need to see this book and read this
		
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			book as much justice as I can and
		
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			give them as much opportunity because it really
		
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			hurts my heart that I've written this book
		
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			for them and to support them and for
		
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			it to be their own sporting guide through
		
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			it, but yet they never get to see
		
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			it or hear about it or even know
		
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			it's out there. And they continue feeling alone
		
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			when what that's why to relieve that is
		
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			why I wrote the book.
		
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			So, yeah, it's it's a it's a it's
		
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			a it's a process.
		
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			I'm not there yet.
		
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			So, yeah, that's that's my journey on that
		
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			bit. That's wonderful.
		
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			I think just just to sort of say,
		
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			you know, you said it's a process and
		
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			you're not there yet. I think that,
		
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			along our author journeys
		
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			it it will always be a process. As
		
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			long as you have a book in the
		
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			works, it is a continuous process.
		
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			And so it's important for people to understand
		
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			that because sometimes I think, you know, new
		
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			writers, especially, they go in and they think,
		
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			I'm gonna do this, this, this, and then
		
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			I will have a I I will have
		
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			reached it. I will have reached the summit,
		
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			you know? And it and it's not exactly
		
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			like that. It really is a continuous process.
		
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			And you change and you grow along the
		
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			way. So it's a wonderful process.
		
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			But there is lots of ups and downs
		
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			along the way, like you were saying, lots
		
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			of things that we learn as we move
		
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			along. So,
		
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			thank you for sharing all of that so
		
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			that our viewers can understand that as well.
		
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			Thunqin,
		
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			share with us
		
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			your biggest challenge along the way and your
		
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			most important tip,
		
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			specifically for, like, the publishing side of the
		
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			of the journey?
		
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			So my biggest
		
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			challenge was myself,
		
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			and,
		
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			undoubtedly,
		
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			it was that, like, by far,
		
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			because as much as
		
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			things were difficult or it's it's it's hard
		
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			and, you know, self publishing people say, how
		
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			did you do it? A lot of time
		
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			people reached out to me. There was like,
		
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			how do you do it? It looked so
		
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			hard.
		
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			And I realized that at the center of
		
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			it was myself, my own fears of it,
		
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			my own
		
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			worry about rejection, the imposter syndrome that, that
		
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			Hassan was talking about. Like, I totally relate
		
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			to that because the whole time, I was
		
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			like, what if?
		
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			And that what if got bigger and bigger
		
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			and bigger until it weighed me down and
		
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			and,
		
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			like,
		
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			it just my manuscript was ready in a
		
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			month. Right? So I wrote it in a
		
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			month, and I had sent it, to him
		
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			within within a month or 2 of of
		
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			writing it
		
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			because I wasn't even sure I was gonna
		
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			publish it at first.
		
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			And when
		
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			I remember you sending me sending it back
		
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			to me in the time frame that we
		
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			had discussed,
		
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			and I didn't even open it.
		
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			I didn't open your notes. I didn't open
		
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			what you wrote about it. I didn't wanna
		
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			read it because I was so afraid
		
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			that you were going to tell me,
		
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			maybe not, you know, type of thing. So
		
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			I I just kept it closed. And I
		
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			remember
		
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			several months later, my husband's like, hey. Didn't
		
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			you send that to an editor? Like, what
		
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			happened?
		
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			And I said, I didn't even open it.
		
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			I didn't even open the email. And he
		
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			said,
		
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			well, that's not great.
		
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			Because he's like,
		
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			didn't we, like, you know, say we're gonna
		
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			invest in this and, like, aren't I, like,
		
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			an investor in this this book that you're
		
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			making and instead of my decision to know
		
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			whether or not you're gonna take a pass?
		
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			And I said, I'm not just so afraid.
		
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			No one's gonna like it. It's not gonna
		
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			be good enough. You know? I I feel
		
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			like it'll it'll break me down when I
		
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			hear that editing notes.
		
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			To my surprise, when I opened the email,
		
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			I was, you know, you didn't think, oh,
		
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			you know, you weren't throwing up on it.
		
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			You were saying that it was Alhamdulillah. It
		
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			had some, you know, had some edits to
		
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			be done, but it would it could, you
		
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			know, be potentially published.
		
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			I realized it was my fear, but then
		
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			once I read that, again, again, it took
		
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			me another few months again to not do
		
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			anything on it. And I said, okay. It's
		
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			good, but self publishing is so hard. So
		
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			I just put it away again.
		
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			And I thought that it was supposed to
		
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			be, like, the thing that people do. And
		
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			I'll be honest here. I thought that's what
		
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			you go to when people are when the
		
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			book is not good enough,
		
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			and and
		
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			traditional publishers are rejecting it. So this is,
		
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			like, a second,
		
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			like a second option, not like a first
		
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			option for someone.
		
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			But then I was hearing about from, when
		
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			I used to join the classes, and the
		
00:39:04 --> 00:39:06
			coaching from Naima, I was hearing about people
		
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			who
		
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			who actually prefer to self publish. And I
		
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			kept on hearing about how they had their
		
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			own voice, and it was their own opinion
		
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			and all that stuff, and they had some
		
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			control over it. It it was empowering to
		
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			learn that.
		
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			So I think myself, I would say, is
		
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			the biggest one. Because when I worked on
		
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			my mindset about it,
		
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			things fell into place. As long as my
		
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			mindset kept me at the back saying, no,
		
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			you're you're not good enough,
		
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			for lack of a better word, but just
		
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			like you're not good enough. Your work is
		
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			not good enough. You're not good enough.
		
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			Then I was like, no. It's it's not
		
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			me. And Could you tell us just how
		
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			you how you got over that? Like, what
		
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			was the first
		
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			step that you took to help you get
		
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			over that limiting mindset?
		
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			Having support,
		
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			having people around you to remind you again
		
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			why you want to do it in the
		
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			first place.
		
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			And that includes you, coach. And I remember
		
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			you're like, what happened to the book? And
		
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			I'm like, it's coming. But you didn't give
		
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			up. It's not like you said, well, she
		
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			got that answer, and so I'm just gonna,
		
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			like, it's it's her thing. I mean, you
		
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			you as my editor, you were done, so
		
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			you edited already. But, but you you reminded
		
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			me again again, hey. I hate them. What's
		
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			going on with that book? And I was
		
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			like, yeah. What is going on with that
		
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			book? And then Naima did the same thing
		
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			as well.
		
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			Again, with the you need a good kick
		
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			in the pants type of, you know, she
		
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			she she will be she'll hold your hand
		
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			when she needs to, and then she'll be
		
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			like, okay. It's time to jump now and
		
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			kinda, like, give you the the words that
		
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			you need to hear.
		
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			And my family, my children, and my husband
		
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			were
		
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			always reminding me, like, you know,
		
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			it's so I being surrounded by support is
		
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			great. Is is a really big thing to
		
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			have, and alhamdulillah, I'm glad that I had
		
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			those people who just didn't give up on
		
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			me even though I had given up on
		
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			myself.
		
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			Wonderful. Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Thank you so much. And my one tip,
		
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			if I can add, sorry,
		
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			is that yes, it's difficult but it's doable.
		
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			Of course, definitely, definitely and I think so
		
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			many new writers don't get that you know
		
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			they say they see the finished product and
		
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			they think how do I go from you
		
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			know these letters on my notebook to to
		
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			that, you know? And and and I so
		
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			appreciate you saying that because so many people
		
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			need to hear that and sometimes we need
		
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			to hear that all along the way. So
		
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			I really appreciate that. Thank you, Tumkeen. Thank
		
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			you. You're welcome. Thank you.
		
00:41:24 --> 00:41:25
			Shazia,
		
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			you're up, my friend. Your biggest challenge along
		
00:41:29 --> 00:41:31
			the way and your number one tip. And
		
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			your biggest challenge, also how you got over
		
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			the challenge.
		
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			So I as I said, I, I
		
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			decided to go the traditional route. I did
		
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			not want to go self publishing.
		
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			So for traditional, I think the biggest challenge
		
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			is
		
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			to be
		
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			strong enough to take all the rejections
		
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			and still keep going.
		
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			K? That's so
		
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			nice. So what I was
		
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			just while I was thinking about this, you
		
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			know, when you you have that punching bag
		
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			where people practice on it, you punch it,
		
00:42:06 --> 00:42:07
			it goes back,
		
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			it comes back to this place again.
		
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			So you're being punched with a no every
		
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			time.
		
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			You you take it, move back, and you
		
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			come back again, and do it again, and
		
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			do it again, and do it again. That's
		
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			the biggest challenge, I think.
		
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			But also, I as I mentioned yesterday thing
		
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			is that if you want to do it,
		
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			then you have to keep going at it,
		
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			and you have to work on multiple projects.
		
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			Again, I come from a different perspective because
		
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			if it's an it's it's if it's an
		
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			a a nonfiction book for adults,
		
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			I've heard from Michelle published
		
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			successful authors that
		
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			the picture book market in itself is a
		
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			tough one.
		
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			And it's harder to write them, it's harder
		
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			to edit them, and hard to get them
		
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			out.
		
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			They'll look easy with a few words.
		
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			It's takes longer for them to publish as
		
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			well because of the illustrations.
		
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			So it's a longer journey because if it's
		
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			just a narrative of adult book, it's easier
		
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			to write. It gets edited, gets published faster.
		
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			So
		
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			for me,
		
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			I think when I look at the whole
		
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			thing, like, if you just look at this
		
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			this
		
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			book, the idea
		
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			I got in 2010.
		
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			And I walked into a class when my
		
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			teacher was teaching the. I said, what's that?
		
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			Oh, it's a mosque. Really? It's traveling? Good.
		
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			I got the article and put it with
		
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			me.
		
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			And then I started taking writing courses. I
		
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			think my biggest tip
		
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			would be to keep
		
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			in contact
		
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			and support, but I will be specific.
		
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			Join a writing class.
		
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			Get a coach.
		
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			That's what keeps you going.
		
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			You have friends who give you comments, who
		
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			give you suggestions, and you actually every every
		
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			editing that that gets done, every comment, every
		
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			suggestion, every
		
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			remark, it makes you better at your craft.
		
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			If I'm by myself writing something, it looks
		
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			wonderful to me.
		
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			When somebody else looks as like, oh, I
		
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			don't even think of that. Like, what do
		
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			you mean kind of thing. Right?
		
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			But when that thing is that manuscript
		
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			is looked by multiple
		
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			eyes, multiple different people, different,
		
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			backgrounds, different comments. It just opens your mind
		
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			up.
		
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			So biggest tip for sure, join if if
		
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			if you want to be in the writing
		
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			field, the business, the profession,
		
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			join a writing class.
		
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			I think I don't know when I started
		
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			the EMA first, but but I've been at
		
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			it.
		
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			And the funny thing is that,
		
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			when I am in right I'm taking writing
		
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			this over here, a very good editor who
		
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			does the writing course. I've taken a lot
		
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			with them with with them as well.
		
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			Every time in a writing class, I'm motivated.
		
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			I'm I'm held accountable for. I do it.
		
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			And one one good thing is you need
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:01
			other people's work as
		
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			well. You need an idea. Oh, that's, oh,
		
00:45:04 --> 00:45:06
			that's neat. Maybe I can help her in
		
00:45:06 --> 00:45:09
			that way. So you're surrounded by people like
		
00:45:09 --> 00:45:12
			you, and you keep going at it. And
		
00:45:12 --> 00:45:15
			the moment the class finishes, everything goes back
		
00:45:15 --> 00:45:17
			on the shelf. So
		
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			I know that, okay, once I've joined the
		
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			class, I'm going to write.
		
00:45:22 --> 00:45:23
			But if I stop the class,
		
00:45:23 --> 00:45:26
			life comes in the way. And I just
		
00:45:26 --> 00:45:29
			normal life job. Kids, work, family, everything comes
		
00:45:29 --> 00:45:32
			up, and writing was at the back burner.
		
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			So that's my biggest tip. It takes time,
		
00:45:35 --> 00:45:35
			but
		
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			everything takes
		
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			time. Nothing's fast. Anything good takes time.
		
00:45:41 --> 00:45:42
			It's the quick things that, you know, don't
		
00:45:42 --> 00:45:45
			have value. Like, for me, it's been taken
		
00:45:45 --> 00:45:46
			more than 12 years for this from the
		
00:45:46 --> 00:45:47
			idea
		
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			to to the full thing.
		
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			And I think sometimes
		
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			for because I'm kind of like, I've got
		
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			it put that done by a traditional publisher.
		
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			There's not much work for me after the
		
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			contract.
		
00:46:00 --> 00:46:01
			After the contract, it's just waiting.
		
00:46:02 --> 00:46:04
			But for me, the main work is before
		
00:46:04 --> 00:46:07
			the contract. Keep polishing the manuscript. Like, this
		
00:46:07 --> 00:46:08
			management I wrote once and got it checked
		
00:46:08 --> 00:46:10
			by once, and then I send it to
		
00:46:10 --> 00:46:12
			just for a secret. Okay. I got rejection
		
00:46:12 --> 00:46:14
			that you send it to somebody else. I
		
00:46:14 --> 00:46:16
			got it send it to Alhamdan Naima as
		
00:46:16 --> 00:46:17
			well and Hank as well and Susan Hughes
		
00:46:17 --> 00:46:19
			as well. And I sent it to somebody
		
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			else. Just the the two ideas they give,
		
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			but sometimes they come from a different perspective.
		
00:46:23 --> 00:46:24
			Oh, okay. Let me try that. And so
		
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			how but now I I like, you know,
		
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			I I like how
		
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			said.
		
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			I see her point and I understand very
		
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			well that when you're self publishing,
		
00:46:33 --> 00:46:35
			it's yours. It's your decision.
		
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			Or if the other somebody else takes over
		
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			then you have to go with them. I
		
00:46:40 --> 00:46:42
			am happy. I love the book.
		
00:46:42 --> 00:46:44
			The luscious inshallah is gonna come out now
		
00:46:44 --> 00:46:45
			in 2 weeks.
		
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			But it has changed a lot
		
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			from my original thing.
		
00:46:50 --> 00:46:52
			And I miss and I miss that original
		
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			thing. It actually reminds me of my last
		
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			I'm gonna finish off soon. When I did
		
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			one of my courses the first time I
		
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			did the courses, I was told to read,
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:06
			the, Stephen King's, Stephen King's memoir on writing.
		
00:47:06 --> 00:47:07
			It's called
		
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			on writing memoir of the craft.
		
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			And I remember those words he said, kill
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:13
			your darlings.
		
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			So when you come to editing and stuff,
		
00:47:16 --> 00:47:19
			there's best part you love, but you have
		
00:47:19 --> 00:47:20
			to kill it in order for the book
		
00:47:20 --> 00:47:21
			to go ahead.
		
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			That's a thing. I had a really cute,
		
00:47:24 --> 00:47:27
			catchy phrase that I love in my story.
		
00:47:27 --> 00:47:29
			Guess what? It's not in the book.
		
00:47:30 --> 00:47:33
			It's not in the book. But Alhamdulillah, it's
		
00:47:33 --> 00:47:35
			it's a process and bit by bit as
		
00:47:35 --> 00:47:37
			long as the message
		
00:47:37 --> 00:47:38
			goes out.
		
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			This message is about community of helping everyone
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:42
			affect school inclusion
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:44
			of working together,
		
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			it's okay.
		
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			So,
		
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			So, yeah,
		
00:47:50 --> 00:47:51
			get a writing class.
		
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			Thank you for that. And you said you
		
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			made a lot of great points, and I
		
00:47:55 --> 00:47:58
			just wanna highlight a couple. You said that,
		
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			you have to get used to the rejection
		
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			and something that I I, you know, I
		
00:48:03 --> 00:48:04
			always
		
00:48:04 --> 00:48:07
			I always try to make sure that our
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:09
			new authors understand
		
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			that
		
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			along the way there will always be some
		
00:48:12 --> 00:48:13
			kind of rejection
		
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			and I think that that might put people
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:17
			off from the beginning but I like to
		
00:48:17 --> 00:48:19
			warn them. I like for it to not
		
00:48:19 --> 00:48:21
			come out of the blue because
		
00:48:21 --> 00:48:23
			there will always be rejection. There will always
		
00:48:23 --> 00:48:25
			be, if it's not from
		
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			an editor or a publisher, it will be
		
00:48:28 --> 00:48:30
			a negative review that just sort of, you
		
00:48:30 --> 00:48:32
			know, stabs you in the heart. There will
		
00:48:32 --> 00:48:35
			always be somebody who doesn't get it, you
		
00:48:35 --> 00:48:37
			know, and that's just part of the process,
		
00:48:37 --> 00:48:39
			that's just something that you have to accept,
		
00:48:39 --> 00:48:41
			And like you said, you have to
		
00:48:42 --> 00:48:44
			persevere. You just have to keep going. And
		
00:48:44 --> 00:48:46
			something else that I love that you said
		
00:48:46 --> 00:48:48
			is that you need to get other people's
		
00:48:48 --> 00:48:50
			eyes on it. You need to get other
		
00:48:50 --> 00:48:51
			people's opinions,
		
00:48:51 --> 00:48:54
			and it's you're not looking at your friends
		
00:48:54 --> 00:48:56
			and your family. You really need people who
		
00:48:57 --> 00:48:59
			are in the know to to give you
		
00:48:59 --> 00:49:01
			that feedback. And I always say it's the
		
00:49:01 --> 00:49:03
			negative feedback that helps you the most.
		
00:49:04 --> 00:49:06
			It's not the, this is wonderful. This is
		
00:49:06 --> 00:49:08
			great. That is really good for our ego,
		
00:49:08 --> 00:49:10
			but that doesn't help us grow. It doesn't
		
00:49:10 --> 00:49:11
			help us,
		
00:49:11 --> 00:49:14
			improve our writing or improve our books. So
		
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			thank you so much for all of that,
		
00:49:15 --> 00:49:17
			Shazee. I really appreciate it, and and I
		
00:49:17 --> 00:49:20
			am sure that our our audience will as
		
00:49:20 --> 00:49:20
			well.
		
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			Who have I not gone to with tips
		
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			and challenges, ladies? Forgive me.
		
00:49:26 --> 00:49:28
			I can go, Hind. So, yeah. Exactly.
		
00:49:29 --> 00:49:31
			Yeah, I think everything that was Sisa said,
		
00:49:31 --> 00:49:34
			I can definitely resonate with it. I think
		
00:49:34 --> 00:49:36
			my biggest challenge was just maneuvering
		
00:49:36 --> 00:49:39
			through the self publishing process, knowing
		
00:49:39 --> 00:49:40
			where to begin
		
00:49:41 --> 00:49:43
			and joining the writing community
		
00:49:43 --> 00:49:44
			really helped.
		
00:49:45 --> 00:49:47
			And also finding the right, I guess this
		
00:49:47 --> 00:49:49
			is a tip as well, but finding the
		
00:49:49 --> 00:49:50
			right illustrator
		
00:49:51 --> 00:49:52
			for my book,
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:55
			someone who just portrayed, to depict the image
		
00:49:55 --> 00:49:56
			that I had,
		
00:49:57 --> 00:49:59
			of where I wanted to take the story.
		
00:49:59 --> 00:50:00
			And it did take a little bit of
		
00:50:00 --> 00:50:01
			time and initially I went in with a
		
00:50:01 --> 00:50:02
			different illustrator
		
00:50:03 --> 00:50:05
			and almost signed the contract with them, but
		
00:50:05 --> 00:50:07
			my gut was telling me that something just
		
00:50:07 --> 00:50:09
			wasn't right. And, you know, you always say,
		
00:50:09 --> 00:50:11
			Zennet, go with your gut, I'm like trying
		
00:50:11 --> 00:50:12
			to tell you something.
		
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			And I felt bad. I felt bad
		
00:50:15 --> 00:50:17
			to kind of reject them because I was
		
00:50:17 --> 00:50:18
			like, oh my gosh, you would hurt their
		
00:50:18 --> 00:50:20
			feelings and also, especially she was just so
		
00:50:20 --> 00:50:21
			lovely, bless her. And then I just carried
		
00:50:21 --> 00:50:24
			on looking, on Instagram for another illustrator and
		
00:50:24 --> 00:50:26
			as soon as I saw her work I
		
00:50:26 --> 00:50:27
			was like, oh my gosh, you know, just
		
00:50:27 --> 00:50:28
			like my heart sang
		
00:50:29 --> 00:50:29
			sang,
		
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			she is the one, she's the one, and
		
00:50:32 --> 00:50:34
			everything happens for a reason, isn't it? Whatever
		
00:50:34 --> 00:50:36
			is meant for you literally will not miss
		
00:50:36 --> 00:50:38
			you, because with her,
		
00:50:39 --> 00:50:41
			she illustrated the story, Anita Bagdas, she illustrated
		
00:50:41 --> 00:50:42
			it, she was a formatter,
		
00:50:42 --> 00:50:44
			the cover design,
		
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			and she just threw out the whole publishing
		
00:50:47 --> 00:50:49
			process, she just held my hand through it
		
00:50:49 --> 00:50:50
			and I think I was just so fortunate
		
00:50:50 --> 00:50:53
			because otherwise, because she had illustrated other books,
		
00:50:53 --> 00:50:54
			she had
		
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			the know how and otherwise I think I
		
00:50:56 --> 00:50:58
			would be so lost. That was my biggest
		
00:50:59 --> 00:50:59
			challenge,
		
00:51:00 --> 00:51:01
			just kind of getting through the self publishing
		
00:51:01 --> 00:51:03
			process, you know, uploading
		
00:51:03 --> 00:51:04
			the book onto IngramSpark,
		
00:51:05 --> 00:51:07
			had to find out more about them and
		
00:51:07 --> 00:51:09
			how to do that and then distributing and
		
00:51:09 --> 00:51:11
			all of that. So I think that just
		
00:51:11 --> 00:51:14
			and for someone who had not a single
		
00:51:14 --> 00:51:16
			clue about any of this whatsoever,
		
00:51:16 --> 00:51:18
			you know, it was just really, really challenging.
		
00:51:18 --> 00:51:19
			But having that support,
		
00:51:20 --> 00:51:23
			really helped. And I think, as Shazia said,
		
00:51:23 --> 00:51:25
			one of my tips would be to definitely
		
00:51:25 --> 00:51:27
			join the writing community because yes, you have
		
00:51:27 --> 00:51:29
			your friends and family members and they're always
		
00:51:29 --> 00:51:31
			going to be supporting you and, you know,
		
00:51:31 --> 00:51:32
			they're quite biased aren't they? But,
		
00:51:33 --> 00:51:35
			with my story, after it got published
		
00:51:36 --> 00:51:39
			in September, we still were making changes to
		
00:51:39 --> 00:51:42
			it. So we've now tweaked some things, and,
		
00:51:42 --> 00:51:44
			there's like a second edition, so to speak,
		
00:51:45 --> 00:51:46
			because I did get feedback- what you were
		
00:51:46 --> 00:51:48
			saying Hind, you know, you get feedback from
		
00:51:48 --> 00:51:49
			people, and initially
		
00:51:50 --> 00:51:52
			I took that, you know, I was just
		
00:51:52 --> 00:51:54
			so disheartened by it and they were like,
		
00:51:54 --> 00:51:56
			oh, maybe just make a few grammatical
		
00:51:56 --> 00:51:58
			changes here' and then I was like, this
		
00:51:58 --> 00:52:00
			is my book baby, you know, I've already
		
00:52:00 --> 00:52:02
			got it out there, and it's that hesitation
		
00:52:02 --> 00:52:04
			of, I don't want to change it because
		
00:52:04 --> 00:52:06
			it's out there now, it's published and people
		
00:52:06 --> 00:52:08
			have it in their hands.' And then I
		
00:52:08 --> 00:52:10
			think it just took me a little while
		
00:52:10 --> 00:52:11
			to mull that over
		
00:52:12 --> 00:52:13
			and think that, actually,
		
00:52:13 --> 00:52:16
			she's right, you know, she's right, she's given
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:17
			me this invaluable feedback, which is only going
		
00:52:17 --> 00:52:19
			to support my book and it's only going
		
00:52:19 --> 00:52:21
			to, inshallah, make it better.
		
00:52:21 --> 00:52:23
			And then we did make the changes, and
		
00:52:23 --> 00:52:25
			then Nita and I sat down, we made
		
00:52:25 --> 00:52:27
			those changes, and actually I'm like, yeah, it
		
00:52:27 --> 00:52:28
			does seem a lot
		
00:52:29 --> 00:52:30
			better. And, you know, I had some,
		
00:52:31 --> 00:52:33
			coaching calls and and and just, kind of,
		
00:52:33 --> 00:52:35
			getting more feedback even after it was published.
		
00:52:35 --> 00:52:37
			So, you're absolutely right in what you're saying
		
00:52:37 --> 00:52:39
			earlier about the, it is a continuous journey.
		
00:52:39 --> 00:52:40
			There's no real
		
00:52:41 --> 00:52:43
			destination, is there? You know, you're always looking
		
00:52:43 --> 00:52:45
			to improve it and that's exactly what, and
		
00:52:45 --> 00:52:47
			I'm always thinking about other ideas for the,
		
00:52:47 --> 00:52:50
			for the 3rd edition of it. So yeah,
		
00:52:50 --> 00:52:51
			there's always going to be edits and things
		
00:52:51 --> 00:52:53
			like that. And I think another tip would
		
00:52:53 --> 00:52:53
			be,
		
00:52:54 --> 00:52:56
			for Sisters, for anyone who's thinking of writing
		
00:52:56 --> 00:52:57
			publishing
		
00:52:57 --> 00:53:00
			a book, invest in a really good editor,
		
00:53:01 --> 00:53:04
			join the community, writing community, invest in a
		
00:53:04 --> 00:53:07
			good illustrator, you know, don't just go with
		
00:53:07 --> 00:53:07
			the first
		
00:53:08 --> 00:53:09
			person that you come across just because
		
00:53:10 --> 00:53:11
			they're telling you they know,
		
00:53:12 --> 00:53:13
			what to do or they could help you.
		
00:53:13 --> 00:53:15
			Like, really take your time and find the
		
00:53:15 --> 00:53:17
			right fit. I'm a psychotherapist
		
00:53:17 --> 00:53:19
			by profession, so I know how important it
		
00:53:19 --> 00:53:21
			is to find the right fit when the
		
00:53:21 --> 00:53:23
			client is looking for a therapist.
		
00:53:23 --> 00:53:26
			And it's similar with this as well, find
		
00:53:26 --> 00:53:27
			the right fit because a relationship
		
00:53:28 --> 00:53:31
			that you have with your editor, your illustrator
		
00:53:32 --> 00:53:35
			is key, is key and it really does
		
00:53:35 --> 00:53:35
			come across
		
00:53:36 --> 00:53:37
			in the in the book when you get
		
00:53:37 --> 00:53:38
			it out there and if you have that
		
00:53:38 --> 00:53:41
			strong relationship then you can literally just get
		
00:53:41 --> 00:53:42
			through it all,
		
00:53:43 --> 00:53:45
			together. So yeah, alhamdulillah it worked out well
		
00:53:45 --> 00:53:48
			but but yeah, it is a continuous journey
		
00:53:48 --> 00:53:49
			and I feel like it always will be.
		
00:53:50 --> 00:53:51
			Yeah, Alhamdulillah, Alhamdulillah.
		
00:53:52 --> 00:53:53
			Thank you for that Hosanna.
		
00:53:54 --> 00:53:56
			Before we sign off, I'm gonna ask everybody
		
00:53:56 --> 00:53:57
			and I'm gonna start with you, Hosnah.
		
00:53:58 --> 00:54:00
			If you could sort of give shout shout
		
00:54:00 --> 00:54:02
			outs to the people who helped you along
		
00:54:02 --> 00:54:05
			the way. So your illustrators that you would
		
00:54:05 --> 00:54:07
			recommend, editors that you would recommend,
		
00:54:07 --> 00:54:10
			who, if you're traditionally published or semically published,
		
00:54:10 --> 00:54:11
			who your publishers are,
		
00:54:12 --> 00:54:13
			formatters.
		
00:54:13 --> 00:54:15
			Anybody who,
		
00:54:15 --> 00:54:18
			like an somebody who's written a book might
		
00:54:18 --> 00:54:20
			be looking for these resources. If you guys
		
00:54:20 --> 00:54:22
			I'm just gonna take you one at a
		
00:54:22 --> 00:54:22
			time as we
		
00:54:23 --> 00:54:25
			go across. And if you could share their
		
00:54:25 --> 00:54:26
			names with us because,
		
00:54:27 --> 00:54:30
			for it would really help the the greater
		
00:54:30 --> 00:54:33
			writing community, everybody who's watching, everybody who's looking
		
00:54:33 --> 00:54:35
			for those resources. So, Hosna, why don't you
		
00:54:35 --> 00:54:36
			go ahead? Tell us the name of your
		
00:54:36 --> 00:54:37
			illustrator
		
00:54:37 --> 00:54:39
			and, you I think you said she does
		
00:54:39 --> 00:54:40
			the formatting as well. Well, you take it
		
00:54:40 --> 00:54:42
			away. Take it away. Yeah. Absolutely. You're, you're
		
00:54:42 --> 00:54:45
			right, Hint. So my illustrator is Anita Bagdy.
		
00:54:45 --> 00:54:48
			She's amazing. She's on Instagram and that's how
		
00:54:48 --> 00:54:50
			I found her. She also does formatting, book
		
00:54:50 --> 00:54:50
			design.
		
00:54:51 --> 00:54:52
			She even did my website. Don't forgot to
		
00:54:52 --> 00:54:54
			include that but she literally is a jack
		
00:54:54 --> 00:54:56
			of all trades. So that's Anita Bagdy
		
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			and then the editor of course yourself Hind
		
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			and Naima, you helped me so so so
		
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			much and I'm forever grateful for that, alhamdulillah.
		
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			And also other sisters that helped me after
		
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			publishing process had Mariam Hakim, who's
		
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			the founder of Wow Stories,
		
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			Hajira Memman, who's also an author and founder
		
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			of Shade 7 Publishing Services. They helped me
		
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			so much to kind of think about next
		
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			steps as well. So, yeah, Alhamdulillah,
		
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			I'm so so so appreciative and grateful for
		
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			all of the support I've had. Alhamdulillah, thank
		
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			you so much Hosna. Farah what about you?
		
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			Farah what about you? Your,
		
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			your all the people that you want to
		
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			shout out and please include your publisher so
		
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			that people who are looking for publishers. Go
		
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			ahead.
		
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			You're muted.
		
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			Well,
		
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			it's been 2 years. We should I should
		
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			know better.
		
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			Yes. So in terms of publishers, they're called,
		
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			Tughara
		
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			Books, so that's t u g h r
		
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			a, Tughara Books.
		
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			They are based in, New Jersey, I think,
		
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			in the UK in the US.
		
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			So that's the publisher.
		
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			In terms of the people who were so,
		
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			so, so helpful and instrumental in terms of
		
00:56:07 --> 00:56:09
			getting the book where it is today,
		
00:56:09 --> 00:56:10
			I would say, initially,
		
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			it was the coaching program that is run
		
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			by yourself and Naima.
		
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			I think one of the sisters said it.
		
00:56:17 --> 00:56:18
			I think couple of the sisters said it.
		
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			I think Shashi,
		
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			Shashi even stressed it,
		
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			to be part of a group. So I
		
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			think joining that I think it was a
		
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			12 week program. I was part of the
		
00:56:27 --> 00:56:29
			release program. So that weekly
		
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			accountability
		
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			and having something to work towards and having
		
00:56:33 --> 00:56:36
			that support and seeing other people's wins and
		
00:56:36 --> 00:56:38
			knowing that your wins are providing support to
		
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			others was incredible. So I think that community
		
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			is incredible, especially if it's your first book
		
00:56:43 --> 00:56:44
			you don't know.
		
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			I think yourself,
		
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			I've told you this personally. I think,
		
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			out of everyone, I would say you've been
		
00:56:52 --> 00:56:53
			by far the biggest
		
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			resource to myself
		
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			because I think, genuinely, you've gone way above
		
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			and beyond
		
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			what what you were supposed to do, what
		
00:57:02 --> 00:57:04
			you were supposed to do,
		
00:57:04 --> 00:57:05
			the the the
		
00:57:06 --> 00:57:07
			what to expect,
		
00:57:07 --> 00:57:08
			the contracts,
		
00:57:09 --> 00:57:11
			the huge realization that some people I don't
		
00:57:11 --> 00:57:12
			wanna put people off, but people need to
		
00:57:12 --> 00:57:13
			be aware. In terms of when it comes
		
00:57:13 --> 00:57:14
			to finance,
		
00:57:14 --> 00:57:16
			in terms of, like, if you go with
		
00:57:16 --> 00:57:17
			a publisher, what they get or what you
		
00:57:17 --> 00:57:18
			get is
		
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			very eye opening,
		
00:57:20 --> 00:57:22
			and you realize that's very normal. I think
		
00:57:22 --> 00:57:24
			it's normal, like, the music industry and stuff
		
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			like that as well. But for those of
		
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			us who are not in that world, it's
		
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			shocking
		
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			at first.
		
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			So that's something we'd be really mindful of,
		
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			and I think you made all that process
		
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			make sense.
		
00:57:38 --> 00:57:39
			I would say one of my dearest friends
		
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			who was a a better better reader is
		
00:57:42 --> 00:57:43
			how you pronounce it,
		
00:57:43 --> 00:57:45
			but she went above and beyond again. She
		
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			she really played the editor role, to the
		
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			maximum,
		
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			and and it really, really, really helped. So
		
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			she really told me certain parts that she
		
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			did not like. She did not hold back.
		
00:57:55 --> 00:57:56
			She went in on me. So and I
		
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			needed that because it really improved the message,
		
00:57:59 --> 00:58:00
			and it made sure that there was no
		
00:58:00 --> 00:58:02
			contradictions throughout the the message.
		
00:58:03 --> 00:58:06
			And then the the publishers themselves have been
		
00:58:06 --> 00:58:06
			incredible.
		
00:58:07 --> 00:58:09
			I don't know what hybrid publisher is. I
		
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			would love for somebody to explain what that
		
00:58:10 --> 00:58:11
			is. But for me,
		
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			one of the things that did scare me,
		
00:58:14 --> 00:58:15
			looking at the,
		
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			the was it the traditional versus self publishing?
		
00:58:19 --> 00:58:21
			I think one of the sisters said sometimes
		
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			we think it's a second option. I actually
		
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			think it's an incredible option because
		
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			of so many things.
		
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			But,
		
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			one of the things I was worried about
		
00:58:30 --> 00:58:30
			is using,
		
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			like, my voice and my vision and all
		
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			of that. But I think mainly because it's
		
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			a male led publisher
		
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			and it's a very female focused message.
		
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			They've really allowed me to have a lot
		
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			of opinions
		
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			throughout.
		
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			Even the cover, their first their first edition
		
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			is so funny. It's so funny. It's so
		
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			far from anything
		
00:58:51 --> 00:58:52
			that is positive or that would relate or
		
00:58:52 --> 00:58:54
			do this book any justice. And so when
		
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			I said that to them, they're like, okay.
		
00:58:56 --> 00:58:57
			So what do we do? So that was
		
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			incredible. Like, they're the experts.
		
00:58:59 --> 00:59:02
			But because they realized we're mostly all men,
		
00:59:02 --> 00:59:04
			they knew they needed the female voice,
		
00:59:04 --> 00:59:06
			and they've allowed me to continue having that.
		
00:59:06 --> 00:59:08
			So they were incredible too.
		
00:59:09 --> 00:59:10
			Thank you so much.
		
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			Khosar, please share with us your shout outs.
		
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			Okay. Shout out to my publishers, definitely, IHRC
		
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			It's ihrc.org.
		
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			Definitely,
		
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			my editor,
		
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			Arasu and her team, and Naima and her
		
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			team, And my illustrator
		
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			is Naha Abdullah. Beautiful illustrations.
		
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			But, yeah. And that's it. And my family.
		
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			Wonderful. Wonderful. Thank you so much. Matia.
		
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			I think I'm going to join Muslim's sisters.
		
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			Oh, why do I keep breaking up? Can
		
00:59:45 --> 00:59:46
			you hear me?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Great. So I'm going to join Muslim citizens
		
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			by, giving my first shout out to Kane
		
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			here. You've been really helpful.
		
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			And I remember when I was, launching my
		
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			well, preparing to launch my last book, and
		
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			I was going through so much.
		
01:00:03 --> 01:00:06
			You kept in touch with me weekly. How
		
01:00:06 --> 01:00:08
			are you doing? And your encouragement, it's been
		
01:00:08 --> 01:00:09
			really good. I found a lot.
		
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			My publishers
		
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			my
		
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			publishers were helpful in that when I did
		
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			Wiki and Z, they took all of the
		
01:00:18 --> 01:00:20
			headache off of my head. But because they
		
01:00:20 --> 01:00:22
			were hybrid publishers, like Farah won't get to
		
01:00:22 --> 01:00:24
			know what the difference is, So they
		
01:00:24 --> 01:00:25
			they
		
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			give you,
		
01:00:27 --> 01:00:30
			the a hybrid publisher gives you the advantages
		
01:00:30 --> 01:00:32
			of a mainstream publisher in that they do
		
01:00:32 --> 01:00:35
			the final editing and layout and blah and
		
01:00:35 --> 01:00:37
			blah and blah. But they also let you
		
01:00:37 --> 01:00:37
			retain,
		
01:00:39 --> 01:00:41
			your voice, so to speak, the control over
		
01:00:41 --> 01:00:44
			your work in terms of, you decide the
		
01:00:44 --> 01:00:47
			cover, you decide the pricing, you decide you
		
01:00:47 --> 01:00:48
			keep your rights.
		
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			Really. So it's like they publish the book
		
01:00:50 --> 01:00:52
			for you but they do all of the
		
01:00:53 --> 01:00:55
			function of a traditional publisher.
		
01:00:56 --> 01:00:58
			Some publishers will ask you to pay for
		
01:00:58 --> 01:01:00
			that service, but some of them would take,
		
01:01:00 --> 01:01:02
			would just take a part of your royalty.
		
01:01:03 --> 01:01:05
			So my, my my hybrid publishers was exlibris
		
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			in US, and it really took a lot
		
01:01:08 --> 01:01:09
			of off of me.
		
01:01:09 --> 01:01:12
			And I didn't I wasn't very appreciative of
		
01:01:12 --> 01:01:14
			that at first because I felt like when
		
01:01:14 --> 01:01:16
			the marketing came, they kind of just left
		
01:01:16 --> 01:01:17
			me to it.
		
01:01:17 --> 01:01:19
			Until when I tried to do self publishing
		
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			then I realized, oh my god, they did
		
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			take a lot out of me. So yeah,
		
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			I'm grateful for that.
		
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			When during my self publishing journey,
		
01:01:27 --> 01:01:28
			my editors
		
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			I mean, that, Candy, she was really helpful.
		
01:01:32 --> 01:01:33
			My,
		
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			what's it called?
		
01:01:34 --> 01:01:37
			The the guy that did my cover
		
01:01:37 --> 01:01:40
			my book cover designer. Sorry. I totally forgot.
		
01:01:40 --> 01:01:42
			My book cover designer, he also did my
		
01:01:42 --> 01:01:43
			layout and,
		
01:01:44 --> 01:01:46
			typesetting and everything. Those were really helpful to
		
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			me. But I I think that at this
		
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			point, I should probably just mention my family
		
01:01:51 --> 01:01:53
			because I
		
01:01:54 --> 01:01:55
			I'm I'm an
		
01:01:55 --> 01:01:58
			OBGYN, and I homeschool my kids. And my
		
01:01:58 --> 01:02:00
			life is just really crazy.
		
01:02:00 --> 01:02:02
			And so whenever I am working on a
		
01:02:02 --> 01:02:04
			book or whatever, my kids just
		
01:02:04 --> 01:02:06
			literally just don't see me.
		
01:02:06 --> 01:02:08
			They I just my life is just go
		
01:02:08 --> 01:02:10
			to work, come back, sleep, and then sit
		
01:02:10 --> 01:02:11
			at my computer. And
		
01:02:12 --> 01:02:14
			in the run up to the book promotion
		
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			and all of that, which personally is my
		
01:02:16 --> 01:02:18
			own, you know, biggest challenge, the how much
		
01:02:18 --> 01:02:20
			of yourself you have to give as a
		
01:02:20 --> 01:02:21
			writer, especially
		
01:02:21 --> 01:02:24
			when you self publish to promoting your book.
		
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			It's it's a lot on someone like me.
		
01:02:26 --> 01:02:28
			So my family it kind of became a
		
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			family effort. So my sisters, my brothers from
		
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			all the way
		
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			across the continent, my mother, and then my
		
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			my kids.
		
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			My you know, I have older kids. They
		
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			are teenagers. They are late teens. So, like,
		
01:02:39 --> 01:02:41
			everybody, you do this. You do that. So
		
01:02:41 --> 01:02:42
			it's a lot of, you know,
		
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			good effort, but they've been really helpful.
		
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			The last set of people, I'm definitely not,
		
01:02:48 --> 01:02:50
			like, not the least, are the sisters I
		
01:02:50 --> 01:02:53
			have met along this writing journey
		
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			because I wasn't even I'm I'm I'm kind
		
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			of really
		
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			introvert, so I wasn't even on social media
		
01:03:00 --> 01:03:02
			or all of that before my book was
		
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			gonna come out. My publisher was like, oh,
		
01:03:03 --> 01:03:05
			you have to get on social media,
		
01:03:05 --> 01:03:07
			which I did, and then I met, you
		
01:03:07 --> 01:03:09
			know, a lot of people.
		
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			So Kim is really one of the first
		
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			set of people I met, and she's.
		
01:03:13 --> 01:03:16
			She's always been there. And, you know, joining
		
01:03:16 --> 01:03:18
			this program, meeting more sisters,
		
01:03:19 --> 01:03:21
			and being in a cohort of, you know,
		
01:03:21 --> 01:03:24
			like minded Muslim women writers who are discovering
		
01:03:24 --> 01:03:25
			the journey,
		
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			you know,
		
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			alongside
		
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			itself. And having that support, we, you know,
		
01:03:31 --> 01:03:32
			reach out to each other. We
		
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			amplify each other's voices. It's been really wonderful.
		
01:03:35 --> 01:03:37
			So I have
		
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			to
		
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			say
		
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			that.
		
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			Your shout outs.
		
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			Likewise.
		
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			My shout outs,
		
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			Naima b Robert.
		
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			I
		
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			you know, there's just so much there, but
		
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			but her and everything and anyone who's worked
		
01:04:03 --> 01:04:05
			with her will know and and will attest
		
01:04:05 --> 01:04:06
			to is,
		
01:04:08 --> 01:04:09
			she's the first person
		
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			when my book, hit some Amazon lists.
		
01:04:13 --> 01:04:15
			She was I I forgot what time it
		
01:04:15 --> 01:04:17
			was in the UK, and I just messaged
		
01:04:17 --> 01:04:17
			her.
		
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			And I think I woke her up, but,
		
01:04:20 --> 01:04:21
			but she was right there,
		
01:04:22 --> 01:04:24
			and she has continued to be right there.
		
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			And,
		
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			you
		
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			know,
		
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			having her on my side felt like
		
01:04:31 --> 01:04:33
			reassured me every time I didn't,
		
01:04:33 --> 01:04:35
			think I had it in me to to
		
01:04:35 --> 01:04:35
			proceed.
		
01:04:36 --> 01:04:36
			So
		
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			her and her all the way, alhamdulillah, and
		
01:04:39 --> 01:04:42
			Hand as well, right there beside her. You
		
01:04:42 --> 01:04:44
			know? Batman Robin, like, really like
		
01:04:45 --> 01:04:48
			having them beside me has been just
		
01:04:48 --> 01:04:49
			phenomenal.
		
01:04:50 --> 01:04:51
			And with Hand,
		
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			I love the editing with her because
		
01:04:56 --> 01:04:57
			so many things I learned about my deen
		
01:04:57 --> 01:04:59
			just by having her edit and certain things
		
01:04:59 --> 01:05:01
			that she made me question. Just little words.
		
01:05:01 --> 01:05:02
			She's like, well, as a Muslim, don't we
		
01:05:02 --> 01:05:05
			already have this knowledge and things like that?
		
01:05:05 --> 01:05:07
			I was like, wow. So, they
		
01:05:07 --> 01:05:09
			it went beyond even the writing. We just
		
01:05:09 --> 01:05:10
			it went it was some a connection,
		
01:05:11 --> 01:05:13
			into my deenah, actually. She probably does. I've
		
01:05:13 --> 01:05:14
			never said it to her, but a lot
		
01:05:14 --> 01:05:15
			of the edits that she did in my
		
01:05:15 --> 01:05:17
			poetry and the things that I was trying
		
01:05:17 --> 01:05:19
			to say, and she was like she made
		
01:05:19 --> 01:05:21
			me really, I would say, as a Muslim,
		
01:05:21 --> 01:05:24
			look into certain things more so. And and
		
01:05:24 --> 01:05:26
			how this book is a responsibility beyond just
		
01:05:26 --> 01:05:28
			it being on a shelf somewhere.
		
01:05:28 --> 01:05:30
			That it actually coming from a Muslim writer,
		
01:05:30 --> 01:05:32
			like, we have this intention
		
01:05:32 --> 01:05:34
			and we have this focus for our life
		
01:05:34 --> 01:05:35
			that
		
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			goes beyond just this worldly thing. So, I'm
		
01:05:38 --> 01:05:39
			Alhamdulillah
		
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			glad for having
		
01:05:40 --> 01:05:43
			Muslim sisters who know what they're doing and
		
01:05:43 --> 01:05:45
			who remind us what what we're doing and
		
01:05:45 --> 01:05:46
			why we're doing it for.
		
01:05:48 --> 01:05:49
			I met a beautiful
		
01:05:49 --> 01:05:52
			soul, a really, really great woman by, by
		
01:05:52 --> 01:05:54
			the name of Susie Poole in Poole Publishing.
		
01:05:55 --> 01:05:56
			She's an American,
		
01:05:57 --> 01:06:00
			lady, non Muslim, but, like like, she was
		
01:06:00 --> 01:06:01
			my formatter and she was my book cover
		
01:06:01 --> 01:06:02
			designer.
		
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			But she was also a great person to
		
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			meet because she was so respectful of all
		
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			the things that I wanted.
		
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			The little edits, the pictures. Like, she would
		
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			spend weeks, and she would be like, okay.
		
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			This is what I came up with your
		
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			cover. And I'm like, it's not what I
		
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			want. And at the whole time, she was
		
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			like, tell me what you want. And she
		
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			was will ready and willing to work with
		
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			me. So it was amazing meeting her.
		
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			And I would have to do give a
		
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			shout out to every single person who who
		
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			wrote a review,
		
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			who replied back, who
		
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			who would, be willing to write a review
		
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			on Amazon.
		
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			You know, I have, like, Detroit moms, like,
		
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			the sisterhood at Detroit moms that I work
		
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			with, and all of them were just like,
		
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			okay. You're writing. Let's go. So every single
		
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			sister, every single person, every woman, I would
		
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			say,
		
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			who has,
		
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			who has kind of included me in in
		
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			that process and helped me learn and how
		
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			much they've been valuable to me is is
		
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			is priceless.
		
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			So I'm glad for everyone who's been there
		
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			and all the shares and stuff. I see
		
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			everything. So to zakkal
		
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			to all that.
		
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			Thank you so much for that, Shamkeen.
		
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			Shazia, your shout outs.
		
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			So for this one,
		
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			Naima,
		
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			and,
		
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			my publisher,
		
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			Compass.
		
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			Yes. It's Kathy Bullock.
		
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			Amazing person.
		
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			And Alhamdulillah, Inji Hamzah, my illustrator.
		
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			Like, Allah brought the best people
		
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			for the job. Alhamdulillah.
		
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			And for the midnight sun,
		
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			again, Naima Bint Robert.
		
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			My publishers are Orca Publishers.
		
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			And. And Susan
		
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			Hughes, she also gave me a much a
		
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			very detailed review on the story
		
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			and all the people who have reviews for
		
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			it
		
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			and helped me through it. And, one of
		
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			where my whole journey comes is the,
		
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			where I started my classes regularly was Brian
		
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			Henry's quick
		
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			blog. He does online classes as well.
		
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			Wonderful. Now it's, you know, bit by bit
		
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			by bit. We keep getting better. So thank
		
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			you to everyone.
		
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			Awesome. Wonderful.
		
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			Well, thank you to everybody for being here
		
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			today and sharing your publishing journeys with us.
		
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			I'm sure that our,
		
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			our viewers have really appreciated it appreciated it
		
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			and have learned so much from all of
		
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			you.
		
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			And like I always say, if,
		
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			you know, if Stephen King can do it,
		
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			so can we. You know?
		
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			I think that sometimes
		
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			writers who are just starting out
		
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			see these big names and books that they've
		
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			been reading since they were children and they
		
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			think like, well, I can never do that.
		
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			But you guys are proof
		
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			that you can do that. So I hope
		
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			that our,
		
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			I hope that you all always tap into
		
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			that energy, and I hope that everybody who's
		
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			watching
		
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			stays connected to that energy as well. Thank
		
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			you again for being here,
		
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			and,
		
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			we will see you on, in the rest
		
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			of the the summit.
		
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			Assalamu alaikum, maybe.