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In this video, a speaker discusses the strategy of reframing and rethinking a situation. They suggest using the frame of opportunity to reframe the situation and create a new outline, structure, and structure for the book. The speaker also invites the audience to participate in a case study program and offers to share more strategies for those who want to write and make an impact on the world.

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			Hey there. Naima B Robert here, award winning
		
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			author, editor and coach to women like you
		
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			who have an idea and want to make
		
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			it into a book.
		
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			So in today's video, I will be talking
		
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			about
		
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			the strategy
		
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			of reframing
		
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			And for my writers out there, who are
		
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			in a current state of flux or uncertainty,
		
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			this is
		
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			your superpower.
		
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			The human being's ability to reframe
		
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			is
		
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			is just it's it's an amazing gift and
		
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			I want to invite you to use it
		
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			right now if you have found that the
		
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			current fear and uncertainty has made you, kind
		
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			of, you know, lose sight of your
		
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			dream, lose track with your plans to get
		
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			your book out in 2020.
		
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			So reframing is very simple.
		
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			All that it means is that
		
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			we understand that
		
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			a situation
		
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			can be viewed in various ways. So for
		
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			example,
		
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			at the moment the frame that you're seeing
		
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			is of me in my scarf, in my
		
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			niqab,
		
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			with, the background of a bookshelf.
		
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			But if I choose a different frame,
		
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			for example,
		
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			this frame,
		
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			which is not a great frame at all,
		
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			you can't see me anymore.
		
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			You can't see me, you can't see what
		
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			I look like, you can't see where I'm
		
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			sitting.
		
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			But the interesting thing is
		
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			I'm still here.
		
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			Does that make sense?
		
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			If I change
		
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			the way that I look at a situation,
		
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			I can change the way I feel about
		
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			a situation.
		
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			So if I use the frame, if we
		
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			decide to play a game and we decide
		
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			to use the frame of
		
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			inconvenience
		
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			to look at the current situation.
		
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			I'm sure that you could spot
		
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			10, 20, 30 examples of things that are
		
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			inconvenient
		
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			right now.
		
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			In fact, I I don't don't don't don't
		
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			don't take me too literally. Don't go too
		
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			far down that rabbit hole. Let's let let's
		
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			come back. Let's come back. Let's change the
		
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			frame because inconvenience is a frame that could
		
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			really take us off right now. Okay.
		
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			Let's take the frame of opportunity
		
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			and let's focus on ourselves as writers.
		
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			What could be great
		
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			about
		
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			this time of
		
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			lockdown, of self isolation, of kind of really
		
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			being much, much more homebound than ever?
		
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			What could be great about that for us
		
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			as writers?
		
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			Well,
		
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			more time
		
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			potentially.
		
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			More time to think,
		
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			more time to write,
		
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			more time to commit.
		
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			Some of the
		
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			some of our most famous writers
		
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			wrote their masterpieces
		
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			in isolation
		
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			because that is a time when you have
		
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			some quiet time. You have time to think.
		
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			You have time to put in the work.
		
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			You have time to to to to do
		
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			this, right,
		
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			when you're not kind of competing with, you
		
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			know, tens of tens of other activities out
		
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			there. You know, friends calling you out, family
		
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			needing you to come here to go there,
		
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			shopping trips, 3, 4, 5 shopping trips, you
		
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			know, to school run, all this kind of
		
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			thing. So
		
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			reframe
		
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			reframe
		
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			using the frame of opportunity.
		
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			Could it be possible
		
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			that
		
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			this time,
		
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			this downtime that we've been given
		
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			is the best thing
		
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			that could ever have happened to you with
		
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			regards to your book.
		
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			Could you be one of those people
		
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			who actually
		
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			uses this time
		
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			not to contract in fear,
		
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			not to zone out and
		
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			just
		
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			take on loads and loads and loads and
		
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			loads and loads of weight from snacking and,
		
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			watching Netflix all day.
		
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			But actually produces
		
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			something
		
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			amazing
		
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			and comes out on the other end of
		
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			this crisis, of this lockdown
		
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			with her book
		
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			in her hand.
		
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			Could that be you?
		
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			And if not, why not?
		
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			So my first
		
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			call to you is to reframe this situation,
		
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			reframe everything about your situation right now. Why
		
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			is this actually the perfect time for you
		
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			to write this book?
		
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			We have a group of women that we're
		
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			working with on a special
		
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			lockdown book experiment. It's a case study program
		
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			and I'd love for you to be a
		
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			part of it. So if it sounds like
		
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			you would enjoy working with a group of
		
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			experts who can help you to get clarity
		
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			on your book, get clarity on your market,
		
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			create your outline, decide on your structure and
		
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			actually write this book all the way
		
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			to your editing point,
		
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			then get in touch.
		
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			Respond to this email, comment below,
		
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			with 'committed'. Let's have a chat to see
		
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			if it's a fit.
		
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			Look out for my next video coming,
		
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			very soon when I will share more of
		
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			my strategies
		
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			for those of us who want to write
		
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			and want to make an impact on the
		
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			world, want to leave a legacy.
		
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			How we can make the most of this
		
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			time right now to stand up and show
		
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			up.
		
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			I'll see you soon.