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Naima B. Robert
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In this video, a speaker discusses the strategy of reframing and rethinking a situation. They suggest using the frame of opportunity to reframe the situation and create a new outline, structure, and structure for the book. The speaker also invites the audience to participate in a case study program and offers to share more strategies for those who want to write and make an impact on the world.
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Hey there. Naima B Robert here, award winning

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author, editor and coach to women like you

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who have an idea and want to make

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it into a book.

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So in today's video, I will be talking

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about

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the strategy

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of reframing

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And for my writers out there, who are

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in a current state of flux or uncertainty,

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this is

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your superpower.

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The human being's ability to reframe

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is

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is just it's it's an amazing gift and

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I want to invite you to use it

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right now if you have found that the

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current fear and uncertainty has made you, kind

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of, you know, lose sight of your

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dream, lose track with your plans to get

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your book out in 2020.

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So reframing is very simple.

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All that it means is that

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we understand that

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a situation

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can be viewed in various ways. So for

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example,

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at the moment the frame that you're seeing

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is of me in my scarf, in my

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niqab,

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with, the background of a bookshelf.

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But if I choose a different frame,

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for example,

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this frame,

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which is not a great frame at all,

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you can't see me anymore.

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You can't see me, you can't see what

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I look like, you can't see where I'm

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sitting.

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But the interesting thing is

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I'm still here.

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Does that make sense?

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If I change

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the way that I look at a situation,

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I can change the way I feel about

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a situation.

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So if I use the frame, if we

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decide to play a game and we decide

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to use the frame of

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inconvenience

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to look at the current situation.

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I'm sure that you could spot

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10, 20, 30 examples of things that are

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inconvenient

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right now.

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In fact, I I don't don't don't don't

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don't take me too literally. Don't go too

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far down that rabbit hole. Let's let let's

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come back. Let's come back. Let's change the

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frame because inconvenience is a frame that could

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really take us off right now. Okay.

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Let's take the frame of opportunity

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and let's focus on ourselves as writers.

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What could be great

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about

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this time of

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lockdown, of self isolation, of kind of really

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being much, much more homebound than ever?

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What could be great about that for us

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as writers?

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Well,

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more time

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potentially.

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More time to think,

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more time to write,

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more time to commit.

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Some of the

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some of our most famous writers

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wrote their masterpieces

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in isolation

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because that is a time when you have

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some quiet time. You have time to think.

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You have time to put in the work.

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You have time to to to to do

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this, right,

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when you're not kind of competing with, you

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know, tens of tens of other activities out

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there. You know, friends calling you out, family

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needing you to come here to go there,

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shopping trips, 3, 4, 5 shopping trips, you

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know, to school run, all this kind of

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thing. So

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reframe

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reframe

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using the frame of opportunity.

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Could it be possible

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that

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this time,

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this downtime that we've been given

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is the best thing

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that could ever have happened to you with

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regards to your book.

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Could you be one of those people

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who actually

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uses this time

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not to contract in fear,

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not to zone out and

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just

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take on loads and loads and loads and

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loads and loads of weight from snacking and,

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watching Netflix all day.

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But actually produces

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something

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amazing

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and comes out on the other end of

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this crisis, of this lockdown

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with her book

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in her hand.

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Could that be you?

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And if not, why not?

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So my first

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call to you is to reframe this situation,

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reframe everything about your situation right now. Why

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is this actually the perfect time for you

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to write this book?

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We have a group of women that we're

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working with on a special

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lockdown book experiment. It's a case study program

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and I'd love for you to be a

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part of it. So if it sounds like

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you would enjoy working with a group of

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experts who can help you to get clarity

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on your book, get clarity on your market,

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create your outline, decide on your structure and

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actually write this book all the way

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to your editing point,

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then get in touch.

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Respond to this email, comment below,

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with 'committed'. Let's have a chat to see

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if it's a fit.

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Look out for my next video coming,

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very soon when I will share more of

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my strategies

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for those of us who want to write

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and want to make an impact on the

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world, want to leave a legacy.

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How we can make the most of this

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time right now to stand up and show

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up.

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I'll see you soon.

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