Naima B. Robert – Hypergamy, MGTOW, HVM
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The speaker discusses the importance of framing situations and how women are hyper grandmother. They explain that women are more likely to choose stronger or richer partners because of their success and desire for their partner. The speaker also discusses how women are framing their own lives and how they view the world through their frame. The speaker suggests that women are framing men who are not interested in their attributes and trying to make them feel embarrassed. They also discuss the differences between men and women in Hollywood, where women are more concerned with their desire for a relationship and building a structure with a man. Lastly, they suggest that women are not the same as men but have different desires and values.
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We just said there,
it's really, really important. And this is one
of the things I mentioned, in the in
my recent videos about red pill
is that it's to do framing.
How do you frame the situation?
So for example,
one of the things the the most common
things that I mentioned about in rental
ideology is that women are hypergamous. Those aren't
the best. Mhmm.
And there was a scenario, like, for if
a if a man who was practice 2
men are practicing, but one of the richer
than the other, who would you choose and
blah blah blah. That there was framing that
in that scenario.
And the interpretation the conclusion is that women
are hypergamous,
but that's according to a particular frame. Mhmm.
Let's we can look at the same scenario
Mhmm. From a different frame and have a
have a and have a different,
interpretation.
So let's look at different interpretation.
Historically speaking,
of the men and women out there who
has generally had more money, who has generally
been more 6 more more stronger, who has
generally been, more dominant, and that kind of
stuff. As in the reason why a woman
may choose a stronger man or a richer
man, because that was generally what was there.
In a scenario whereby a woman is highly
successful and earns a lot more than an
husband,
is that necessarily what she's still gonna go
for all the time? Or is or is
she okay marrying someone who maybe isn't as
successful as that? For example, if a woman
was a doctor, and then really well as
a doctor, and her husband was a chef,
Chefs don't get paid as much as doctors.
Are you telling me that her husband she
wouldn't marry a guy if he's a chef
because because she's a doctor?
If she gets along with him and she
loves him and she has affection for him,
will she is him being a chef really
gonna break the marriage down? It's to do
with framing.
But, again,
I wanna push back on that a little
bit. And then Go for it. Go for
it. Again, because everyone has a frame. Right?
So Yeah. If my frame
is that I've reached a certain point in
my life me, I'm just any person,
miss blogs.
I've reached a certain point in my life
educationally,
financially,
you know, security wise, you know, profession etcetera
etcetera.
I cannot respect a man who is less
than me, who earns less than me, who
has less
than I have And I deserve someone who's
on my level or higher. I know that
you're familiar with this
because women are constantly saying it. Like constantly
saying it And this is something I don't
understand. You know, my my message to women
right now, please stop going on TikTok
and and just talking about your madness
because it's just it's it's so embarrassing to
just see Yeah. Yeah. My sisters in womanhood
just like
onto this social platform.
Platform. All your ridiculous demands,
your ridiculous expectations,
your arrogance, your
your conceit,
your your meanness really and, and disregard
for, for your basic respect
and and just basic decency. I can't stand
it. I I I I understand
why
MGTOW is a thing
because MGTOW feeds on that stuff. So we've
changed the subject guys. We've gone on another
one, something else now. But
MGTOW,
men going their own way, black pill, all
of that,
they are framing.
They allow
those women
and what those women say
about men who are broke,
dusties,
ugly,
ain't got no game, you know, all these,
you know, short, fat, whatever the case may
be. Right? Losers, basically. Mhmm. Mhmm. They allow
those women to to to be their frame.
So now they view the whole world through
the frame of Through that lens. Yeah. Women
want only the top 1%, the top 10%,
they every you know, they don't date under
6 foot and all of the data and
all of that
feeds into the paranoia and the, I'm sorry,
but the nihilism
of you
know, I am not select.
I am not in the top 10%. I'm
not a high value man. Therefore,
what's the point? All women are like this.
Shallow, vacuous,
vain,
demanding,
don't have don't bring anything to the table
and all of that because,
ladies, that's what y'all putting out on social
media, and they just make videos of it.
But anyway But that's the thing is, when
I say women are like this, the question
I say is, is that due to her
innate nature or due to her nurture?
Very good point. Very, very good point.
From what I there was one there was
one really good video I stumbled across which
was, you know, those those feeds on YouTube
where you just click on it. So one
guy went to compare
the desires of women for men or what
they want in a man Yeah. Women in
the west and women from the east, and
he chose Philippine Philippines.
It was completely different. That's totally true. It
was completely different.
As in, they they weren't concerned about any
of the the women that they were concerned
about. It's nonsense. It's literally
postmodern western
society where
just everyone thinks, yeah, it's just delusion.
As, you know, LTR says it's delusion. It's
just this idea that
I qualify for whatever I want, you know,
and what I want is what I should
have. And if if, you know and and,
basically, if you can't bring what I want
to the table, then, you know, get lost.
But again, like, you know, like you said,
people thinking they have time
and that they have all the options.
Yep. Yep. But like I said, even even
when you mentioned, you wanna you said you're
you're educated and you've got you've you've reached
a certain place in your life that you
can't imagine yourself as someone
less than yourself.
That's what you think. I It's a story.
It's a story. Yeah. Yeah. It's a story.
Believe that if you had a man whom
you love deeply, but you because he treats
you well and Yeah. All the other stuff,
then his qualification is overlooked. Even how tall
he is, you'd overlook. Because
he took he you're able you basically, the
question is, are you able
to build this
structure with this person? That's what the question
is. Yeah.
And that's what I'm saying. I think that
that
Go on. From that?
No. No. I was just gonna say that
the
it's it's not
building
a lifestyle
and
an individual lifestyle with a man and kids
attached. One of my other guests mentioned that,
which I thought was so powerful. She said,
Look, you either are going to choose yourself,
and you know, this vision that you have
for yourself.
I'm that kind of woman. I deserve that.
That's the life I want. That's the car
I want to drive. That's the house I
want to live in. That's the kind of
man I see myself with. This vision, right?
This fairy tale that you've that you've got
in your head
and possibly with a man and kids attached
or you're going to join with another human
being and you're going to build something worthwhile
and you're going to put everything you have
into that and you're going to sacrifice for
it and that's going to be part of
your life's purpose.
But the 2 of them are not the
same.
I mean, if you even if you look
even if you just scratch the surface on
on and people speak about what they want
for a marriage, I think you'd probably even
find that
kids aren't even in in the in the
top five things that they want for a
marriage. Oh, yeah. That's Where that where where
it should be the top one. I mean,
what else are you coming together for other
than to have kids and raise another ummah?
That is the primary goal. Because people don't
want marriage. They want a relationship.
They want couple goals.
They want to have the the romance, the
halal romance, you know, the halal love story,
the the that the halal Hollywood blah blah.