Naima B. Robert – Hypergamy, MGTOW, HVM

We just said there,

it's really, really important. And this is one

of the things I mentioned, in the in

my recent videos about red pill

is that it's to do framing.

How do you frame the situation?

So for example,

one of the things the the most common

things that I mentioned about in rental

ideology is that women are hypergamous. Those aren't

the best. Mhmm.

And there was a scenario, like, for if

a if a man who was practice 2

men are practicing, but one of the richer

than the other, who would you choose and

blah blah blah. That there was framing that

in that scenario.

And the interpretation the conclusion is that women

are hypergamous,

but that's according to a particular frame. Mhmm.

Let's we can look at the same scenario

Mhmm. From a different frame and have a

have a and have a different,

interpretation.

So let's look at different interpretation.

Historically speaking,

of the men and women out there who

has generally had more money, who has generally

been more 6 more more stronger, who has

generally been, more dominant, and that kind of

stuff. As in the reason why a woman

may choose a stronger man or a richer

man, because that was generally what was there.

In a scenario whereby a woman is highly

successful and earns a lot more than an

husband,

is that necessarily what she's still gonna go

for all the time? Or is or is

she okay marrying someone who maybe isn't as

successful as that? For example, if a woman

was a doctor, and then really well as

a doctor, and her husband was a chef,

Chefs don't get paid as much as doctors.

Are you telling me that her husband she

wouldn't marry a guy if he's a chef

because because she's a doctor?

If she gets along with him and she

loves him and she has affection for him,

will she is him being a chef really

gonna break the marriage down? It's to do

with framing.

But, again,

I wanna push back on that a little

bit. And then Go for it. Go for

it. Again, because everyone has a frame. Right?

So Yeah. If my frame

is that I've reached a certain point in

my life me, I'm just any person,

miss blogs.

I've reached a certain point in my life

educationally,

financially,

you know, security wise, you know, profession etcetera

etcetera.

I cannot respect a man who is less

than me, who earns less than me, who

has less

than I have And I deserve someone who's

on my level or higher. I know that

you're familiar with this

because women are constantly saying it. Like constantly

saying it And this is something I don't

understand. You know, my my message to women

right now, please stop going on TikTok

and and just talking about your madness

because it's just it's it's so embarrassing to

just see Yeah. Yeah. My sisters in womanhood

just like

onto this social platform.

Platform. All your ridiculous demands,

your ridiculous expectations,

your arrogance, your

your conceit,

your your meanness really and, and disregard

for, for your basic respect

and and just basic decency. I can't stand

it. I I I I understand

why

MGTOW is a thing

because MGTOW feeds on that stuff. So we've

changed the subject guys. We've gone on another

one, something else now. But

MGTOW,

men going their own way, black pill, all

of that,

they are framing.

They allow

those women

and what those women say

about men who are broke,

dusties,

ugly,

ain't got no game, you know, all these,

you know, short, fat, whatever the case may

be. Right? Losers, basically. Mhmm. Mhmm. They allow

those women to to to be their frame.

So now they view the whole world through

the frame of Through that lens. Yeah. Women

want only the top 1%, the top 10%,

they every you know, they don't date under

6 foot and all of the data and

all of that

feeds into the paranoia and the, I'm sorry,

but the nihilism

of you

know, I am not select.

I am not in the top 10%. I'm

not a high value man. Therefore,

what's the point? All women are like this.

Shallow, vacuous,

vain,

demanding,

don't have don't bring anything to the table

and all of that because,

ladies, that's what y'all putting out on social

media, and they just make videos of it.

But anyway But that's the thing is, when

I say women are like this, the question

I say is, is that due to her

innate nature or due to her nurture?

Very good point. Very, very good point.

From what I there was one there was

one really good video I stumbled across which

was, you know, those those feeds on YouTube

where you just click on it. So one

guy went to compare

the desires of women for men or what

they want in a man Yeah. Women in

the west and women from the east, and

he chose Philippine Philippines.

It was completely different. That's totally true. It

was completely different.

As in, they they weren't concerned about any

of the the women that they were concerned

about. It's nonsense. It's literally

postmodern western

society where

just everyone thinks, yeah, it's just delusion.

As, you know, LTR says it's delusion. It's

just this idea that

I qualify for whatever I want, you know,

and what I want is what I should

have. And if if, you know and and,

basically, if you can't bring what I want

to the table, then, you know, get lost.

But again, like, you know, like you said,

people thinking they have time

and that they have all the options.

Yep. Yep. But like I said, even even

when you mentioned, you wanna you said you're

you're educated and you've got you've you've reached

a certain place in your life that you

can't imagine yourself as someone

less than yourself.

That's what you think. I It's a story.

It's a story. Yeah. Yeah. It's a story.

Believe that if you had a man whom

you love deeply, but you because he treats

you well and Yeah. All the other stuff,

then his qualification is overlooked. Even how tall

he is, you'd overlook. Because

he took he you're able you basically, the

question is, are you able

to build this

structure with this person? That's what the question

is. Yeah.

And that's what I'm saying. I think that

that

Go on. From that?

No. No. I was just gonna say that

the

it's it's not

building

a lifestyle

and

an individual lifestyle with a man and kids

attached. One of my other guests mentioned that,

which I thought was so powerful. She said,

Look, you either are going to choose yourself,

and you know, this vision that you have

for yourself.

I'm that kind of woman. I deserve that.

That's the life I want. That's the car

I want to drive. That's the house I

want to live in. That's the kind of

man I see myself with. This vision, right?

This fairy tale that you've that you've got

in your head

and possibly with a man and kids attached

or you're going to join with another human

being and you're going to build something worthwhile

and you're going to put everything you have

into that and you're going to sacrifice for

it and that's going to be part of

your life's purpose.

But the 2 of them are not the

same.

I mean, if you even if you look

even if you just scratch the surface on

on and people speak about what they want

for a marriage, I think you'd probably even

find that

kids aren't even in in the in the

top five things that they want for a

marriage. Oh, yeah. That's Where that where where

it should be the top one. I mean,

what else are you coming together for other

than to have kids and raise another ummah?

That is the primary goal. Because people don't

want marriage. They want a relationship.

They want couple goals.

They want to have the the romance, the

halal romance, you know, the halal love story,

the the that the halal Hollywood blah blah.