Naima B. Robert – Advice for Muslim Writers about Writers Block!

Naima B. Robert
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A book coach is offering a series of coaching tips to their premium clients. They encourage them to reframe and ask themselves if they have writer's block, to ask themselves if they have it, and to talk it out. The coaching process involves going back to brainstorming, writing, and discussing the topic of the book.
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I'm trying sis. I am trying to write

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my book but the words just aren't coming.

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Sound familiar?

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Sounds like the dreaded writer's block if you

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ask me and it's something that I've heard

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so many times since I started coaching writers

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all over the world. So what is writer's

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block and what can you do about it?

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Well, my name is Naima B Robert and

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I'm an award winning author of almost 30

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books for children, teens and adults. And I

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happen to be a book coach and I'm

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on a mission to help create 2 122

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Muslim authors by the end of the year.

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So in this series,

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I'm offering you some of the coaching

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that I offer

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my premium clients.

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So let's have a chat about writer's block.

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Everyone's heard about it. Many of you who

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may have experienced it before. And when it

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comes to working on a book,

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you know, that feeling of just feeling

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like there's a blockage

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is very, very real. So when I have

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a weekly coaching call with my clients and

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one of them says, you know, I feel

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like I'm blocked. Just the words are not

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coming. I don't know what to do about

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it.

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I always invite them to reframe because writer's

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block is something that everybody accepts as a

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reality. Right? I personally

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on the side of challenging that notion

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because Seth Godin was the one I believe

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who said, you know, everybody's going on about

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writer's block, but have you ever had speaker's

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block?

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Most of us don't feel so comfortable saying

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that we've had speaker's block because we all

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pretty much have thoughts. We have ideas. We

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have opinions. We have something to say.

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When it comes to writer's block for some

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reason,

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we get stuck. So what I say to

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my clients is firstly,

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reframe.

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Ask

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yourself, do I have writer's block? If I

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was speaking, if I was sharing this story

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verbally, would I not know what to say?

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The answer is usually

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no. I would know exactly what I want

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to say. That's why I'm writing the book.

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So what I say to them is okay,

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talk it out. After you've done the reframe,

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you've kind of asked yourself that challenging question.

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Say, is this really writer's block or is

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there just a resistance coming from somewhere?

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Reframe that, ask yourself, you know, if this

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was a speaking, would I know what I

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wanted to say? The answer is yes. Talk

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it out. In our program, we share certain

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tips with our clients on how they can

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use talk to text, where they can speak

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the words into their phone and it will

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type it for them, but talk it out.

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Don't stop when you think you have writer's

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block.

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Move to audio,

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record your voice saying whatever it is that

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you want to say, Alright? And make up

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your word count that way. That's one of

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the tricks that we use in our program.

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It's helped many of our authors get to

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where they want to get to when it

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comes to their word count. Right? So talk

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it out. And also

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remember that a lot of the time losing

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track of what is it you were

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saying can be

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a hint that your planning

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is perhaps not detailed enough.

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We get all our clients to plan their

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books right at the start to do the

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heavy lifting

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before they start writing.

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But if your chapter headings are very vague

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and you haven't broken down each chapter into

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subheadings and included the topics that you're going

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to cover in each chapter

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In your planning stage, you may find that

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basically you just don't have enough planning for

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that chapter. You haven't done enough brainstorming.

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You haven't done enough of the heavy lifting

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to get to that chapter and be super

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clear on what exactly you want to say

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in this chapter.

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So that is another thing that you could

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do. If you know what you want to

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say, talk it out. If you really genuinely

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are at a loss as to what am

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I supposed to be saying here, doing here,

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you need to go back to the brainstorming

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stage. You need to give yourself a fresh

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sheet of paper, you know, a fresh whiteboard

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and literally do a brain dump and get

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all your ideas on this particular topic. Just

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dump them out. Okay. Have a look at

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what you've got and start grouping it into

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compartments. That make sense.

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Put that into a list and then go

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back to your writing and start to write

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the things on the list. Make the points

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on the list, share the experiences on the

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list, tell the stories on the list and

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take them off as you go along. That's

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the process that works for my clients but

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tell me what you think. Let me know

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in the comments

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what was useful for you and if you

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would like to be one those 222 Muslim

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authors that we celebrate at the end of

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the year,

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simply comment apply on this video and we'll

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send you information on how you can work

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with us. I hope that was useful

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and I will see you on the next

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one. And don't forget your book is your

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legacy.

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So let's get it right.

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