Nadim Bashir – The Smiles and Tears of Prophet Muhammad #15 – Expressing Emotions

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			men
		

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			saw the house
		

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			in
		

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			nanny Mina most Nene
		

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			said I want a coma Rahmatullah here but I care to Bismillah R Rahman Rahim Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil
Alameen wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah Muhammad wa ala alihi wa sahbihi. Germaine I'm about, you
know, Subhan Allah. So many times I've seen this happening before, that when people go to the
graveyard, they have lost a loved one. A lot of times they began crying over there. And at that
time, you know, people will put their hands or their arms around the person who was crying, and they
will say sober, sober, sober. And a lot of times we don't understand what truly what somebody is. We
don't understand that. What can we do and what can we not do when someone passes away from our
		

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			family. So we find in the Rasulullah, sallAllahu, it was something in his life, that there were two
different occasions where he had to come face to face with death from his own family members. And
there were many other occasions too, but today, I just want to highlight just two of them. First of
all, we find that once Rasulullah sallallahu he was sent him he came with Andromeda and Ofra yo,
lotta onto his home. And at that time, his son Ibrahim, was at the point where he was breathing his
last, he was going through the, you know, what we refer to as the security remote. We're talking
about that this is right before he passes away. And the fact that that he passed away Rasulullah
		

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			sallallahu. It was sent him he had tears in his eyes, and he was crying. The Prophet saw him was in
pain. And at that time, I'll throw him in alpha Yalta and even he questioned Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa salam. And he said that Isn't this like, against saba? Isn't this against, you know, what
you have taught us You have told us to be patient. And at that time was Allah so Allah wa T, he was
salam. He basically said something to the effect that it's this is not against Sabah. This is
absolutely this is fine. This is in line with SUBUD. Because somebody basically means that do not
say anything that is disrespectful to Allah subhana wa taala, or you're questioning Allah subhanho
		

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			wa taala. And then not only that, but he also said that this is there are no supernatural things.
And there are no things that happened in you know, Mother Nature, that is attribute to this death,
because at that time, there was an eclipse that took place. And some people even said that is this
happening because Ibrahim passed away. And he said no, this is not the case. The sun and the moon
are the Ayat of Allah subhanho wa Taala and has nothing to do with the death of Ibrahim. Now this is
one situation the other one that we find is not only with his child, but we find in the case of his
own grandson now and we have his own daughter sending a message and at this time the problems that
		

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			somebody's seen with this habit of the Allah that I'm home, and the messenger comes and says, you
are being asked to come because your grandson is in the process of reading his last and at that
time, he first just sent a message out that you know, everything comes from Allah subhanho wa Taala
in Rila, Hema Allah Houma ALPA, that everything that he takes and everything that he gives, it's all
from Allah subhanho wa taala. And then not only that, but he advised to be patient for your spirit.
Well, yeah, to say that put your trust in Allah subhanho wa Taala and, and expect the reward from
Allah subhanahu wa to Allah. And then when another the messenger came back again and said that no,
		

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			you're asked again to come physically. And then he showed up. And at that time, he picked up his
grandson. And he was also you know, think think about the prophets of salaam he was just a he was
such a manifestation of Rama and mercy. And anyone who has an iota amount of mercy and Rama in their
heart. Imagine watching a child just coughing and just have difficulty in breathing, any person's
heart would melt. And the problem he's seeing this, and he begins to cry, and he's just so much in
pain. And again, the Sahaba they said, Yeah, rasool Allah, is this not against Saba, and he says,
No, this is Rama, the ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala he puts in the hearts of the believers or in the hearts
		

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			of anyone who he wishes. So what we learn from these two stories is that emotions is not something
that is contrary to our deen even SubhanAllah. We hear about the story about you know, the person
who came to power somebody says yes, Allah give me advice and he says Do not get angry. What that
actually means is not that we cannot get angry, we can get angry. There were times when Ross was
salam. He even got angry. They are times when the problem he cried. So our deen has not taught us
that we cannot express our emotions. What our deen has taught us is that as a result of those
emotions, there are things that people will do that are not right
		

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			And that's what you have to stay away from. When you see someone from your family passing away. Do
not say things such as Why did Allah do this? And couldn't Allah not find anyone else? When you
become angry, do not behave like generally an angry person would do and you you know you lose all
control of yourself. So this is something that we learned from our deen we learned from our prophets
that Allahu Allah he was sending them and this is the meaning of Sabra. I ask Allah subhanho wa
Taala to give us the understanding of our deen, may Allah subhana wa Taala make our o'clock like the
o'clock of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and may Allah give us the ability to behave in
		

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			all aspects of our life like we have seen from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam and mutable
Alamy to Zakouma La Jolla. Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh
		

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			Oh, what's the guilt or I don't
		

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			feel
		

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			genuine I leave