Nadim Bashir – Khatira – When You Feel Rejected

			So shall I want to continue from last week? Last week, what did we talk about? Anyone remember, we
started off, give you a hint, we started off talking about a Surah,
		

			Surah, Doha and the whole idea about so Doha was that many times we feel that we have been
abandoned. We keep on making dua to Allah subhanho wa Taala we don't see our do as bearing any
results. And a lot of times shaytaan then comes to and says, you keep on making dua to Allah you
pray to Allah, you do everything, and yet Allah does not care about you. And I talked about this
last week and I it was a reminder for myself and everyone that the Prophet sallallahu ala was some
also had some type of a feeling when there was no where he that was sent by Allah subhanho wa Taala
for approximately six months. So we all go through this point in our life, where we feel like
		

			everything's going going against us and where is the help of Allah subhanho wa Taala and we continue
to suit all by Allah subhanho wa Taala he's reminding Rasulullah sallallahu by yourself about his
past. Now, let's try to understand this. Why? Because even today, psychologist, they tell their own
patients, that whenever you fall in depression, whenever you have anxiety, whenever you have any
suicidal thoughts, think about the good times in your life. Think about the times where you were in
difficulty and how Allah subhanho wa Taala he changed the situation and he made it better for you.
So this is why Allah subhanho wa Taala reminds us allah sallallahu Sallam in the same exact way he
		

			says, Hola, Mia Judaica, your team and for our don't remember the time that we found you as a team.
But we say we gave you a place. And what that means is that if you go back into the seat or the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, there were women who came from bunu side. It was a normal
practice that the children who are growing up who were born in makup, they will not raise in Makkah.
They were raised in the villages. And the reason were many, but they came from Busan, they came
early and Halima Sadia because she didn't her family what came from a very poor background. And not
only that, but because she did not have any milk to offer and her kids, her animal, her animals were
		

			not bearing any kind of milk, they were not giving any kind of milk, and they were fatigued. And
that's why they arrived to Makkah late. But before that, all the other women they had already come
to Makkah, and they took the kids who came from poor from rich backgrounds. And then at that time,
it says that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was offered to all many of these women. But
when they found out that the province suddenly is a team, the Prophet alayhi salam does not have a
father. They turned down Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam think about that. They turned down
Rasul Allah salAllahu Alaihe Salam, and that same night even Halima Saudia when she came, the
		

			prophet it son was offered to her and she says that he's a team, I will not take the mercy if
there's any other kids available, and all the other rich kids have been taken from MCO. And that
same night, again, Halima and her husband, they spent the night in hunger, and that same night
Halima, her husband says to her, that we can either go back empty handed, or at least just take this
baby Mohammed, into your custody and into your supervision. And in sha Allah, Allah will bring some
Baraka out of this. And Subhana Allah, the history tells us, Sina teaches us that the next day as
soon as she took Rasulillah Salam into her custody, then as soon as that happens, then her animals
		

			they are starting to not provide milk, her animals become the fastest in the entire group. And not
only that, but Allah subhanaw taala granted so much Baraka in the house of Halima, that, the other
people in the villages, they began to tell their servants that wherever Halima is animals go, you
take our animals there to graze to why, because wherever Halima is animals, they go, they come back
with their bellies filled, they're providing so much so this is where all this is coming from. They
never connected the dots that this is coming from Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, so Allah
is telling the Prophet it is some Weren't you rejected at that time? Have you forgotten that time
		

			you were rejected by how Allah subhanho wa Taala he saved you as a team? Then let me adjudicate even
for our well what Jeddah ballin for hada. And remember the time and Borland here does not mean
misguided There was never a time where the problem was misguided. But this law none here means that
the province is some was not aware of Allah subhanho wa taala. And this is the reality and we find
in the CETA also that right before the age of 40 for almost six months, the province of Saddam
consecutively every single day, he will see something in his dream. The next morning he will see
that being played out right in front of his eyes like as we call it, deja vu. And so not only that,
		

			but what happened after that was that he began to
		

			isolate himself. And he and he stayed in isolation, he would come back home, take some food, go back
there, and he will stay in isolation. And that same place. Not only that, but it's a place where we
all go nowadays. And that is where a lot of that is where now, what happens if you study that this
cave, that is a cave that where you will sit down is a space for only a, you know, a person and a
half, pretty much. And if you sit down in there, the books of history mentioned that that is where
Abdulmutallab also would come and he will stay there at times. And from there you have a direct eye
contact or you have a direct sight of the Kaaba from there also, not because the tall buildings that
		

			you can see it anymore, but at that time, that is why the Prophet SAW he would stay there and he
will have a clear view of the Kaaba at the same time he would sit there and reflect but that is when
Giuliani Asami came, and he provided a way and he brought up Islam because of the holidays, the very
first revelation to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, then Allah subhanho wa Taala says,
Well, what Jeddah in Agana then we found you in a state of poverty and Subhanallah we find in the
Sierra of the prophet that Abu Talib in itself, he he was not a very rich man. He was a poor man,
and he was the one who was looking after Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa salam, after Abdulmutallab
		

			the grandfather passed away. He was there for two years and the life of the prophet of Salaam. After
his mother Amina passed away, he passed away when the Prophet alayhi salam was eight years old, he
then falls into the custody or comes into the custody of his uncle Abu Talib. And he was in a very
poor household, but then Allah subhana wa Donna made him honey, Allah subhanho wa Taala made him
rich how through doing business with honey jar with the Allah Allah. And not only that, but that
opened the doors of marriage and that opened the doors for his family to so Allah subhanho wa Taala
is reminding Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and by the way, it is mentioned albida When he
		

			hire that and once again this is just a rewire that there was one proposal that the Prophet Allah is
some he made to someone during his time before Khadija proposed the prophets Allah there was a
proposal that the preferably some made to someone and that proposed proposal was rejected. And once
again it's a rewire mentioned in that book, but at the same time we find also that isn't this not a
rejection and when we think about you know in our life, many people they go through this you made a
proposal to marry a woman and you get rejected and you feel bad. Like as if there's a flaw with me
there's something wrong with me and Allah subhanaw taala is reminding us was a sign that you went
		

			through all these difficulties in life and yet Allah turn your situation around. So this is a lesson
for all of us that whenever we're going through difficulties in life, Allah can always change our
situation now Allah at the end he gives three instructions to us Lhasa Allah are you setting up
number one for Amalia tema fella Takahara when it comes to a team, do not ever abuse them, do not
mistreat them. And subhanAllah you know, many times when it comes to your team, you know, we if you
don't want to give money you'd like especially when we go overseas, we see you know, kids running in
the streets and so forth. And sometimes you don't want to give money. If you don't want to give
		

			money that's one thing. But never say anything that can break the heart of a team. You don't want to
give don't give, but do not abuse that person. Do not push that person away. Subhanallah we find in
the story of Makkah in the Moroccans at that time the Qureshi people there are highlighted in the
Quran because of their abuse of the 18 kids. Allah subhanho wa Taala mentions for that he can levy
your daughter or your team they would push away these your team kids one is that they would come and
they will ask one has to say no but they would push them and the word yeah adorable in the Quran
implies pushing in such a way that you become defenseless. And so when they would abuse these kinds
		

			of children, this is why Allah subhanaw taala is reminding Ross was a solemn that do not abuse them
because you are also a year team one day two and if you come across one of these children, take care
of them and this is why Rasul Allah Allah some What did he say in a hadith? Anna? What cafeteria
teamie Guwahati UNIFIL Jana i and the person who takes care of a team or like this and Jana, then
the next person was a messiah Illa Allah and how someone who comes and asks you, then do not insult
them. And the word done when it comes to the word NA NA means also a river. But when you talk about
a river, a river gushes out water. Likewise, in the time of the Prophet salaam, these Qureshi
		

			people, what they would do is when are these leaders have the courage whenever whenever they will,
someone will come and ask them, they will begin to insult so it's as if there is a gush of insults
that's coming from them. And this is why Allah Subhan Allah says do not do this to a person who
comes to ask you and then Allah subhana wa Taala says, well unmapping Madeira Bica for Hadith tell
people about the name of Allah subhana wa taala. But one more last thing I want to share with you
also that we learned from this is a team at the end of the day, you know, we The Quran mentions
		

			Your team, but in essence, what is it your team, your team is, you know, today we say an orphan.
		

			But your team is a defenseless person. He's a person who cannot stand for themselves at that time,
even today we find the same situation, to stand. This is Allah subhanho wa taala, telling loweswater
Sonam, that you were in the same state. So always promote the importance of looking after people who
cannot defend themselves, stand up for people who cannot stand for themselves for themselves, speak
out on behalf of those people who cannot speak out, defend those who cannot defend themselves and be
there for those who cannot be there for themselves. Be a voice for those who don't have a voice.
This is exactly what Allah subhanaw is telling us Allah salAllahu Salam. So whenever we find anyone
		

			in a weaker position, we should help them out and remind ourselves that there was a time when I was
also weak and I need Allah's help. And Allah helped me now when this person is in help, he needs
help, I should be there for them. I asked Allah subhanho wa Taala to make all of our affairs easy
for us. And once again, the key thing is, do not ever lose hope in Allah subhanho wa Taala whenever
you feel rejected whenever you feel rejected, remember how Allah subhanaw taala helpless was a
Salam. And he told us about these stories. Allah can also turn our situation around, ask ALLAH
SubhanA whether to give all of us they'll fit Amira will Alameen exactly Mala Hey, Sarah Malik Mata
		

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