Nadim Bashir – Khatira – Prophetic Way of Correcting MISTAKES

			Today's show I want to talk about something that beautifully we learned from the CETA of Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. See you and I we're all human beings we all make mistakes. When the
Prophet said Allah who it was someone make a mistake. Allah subhana wa Tada would correct Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, when ALLAH SubhanA wa Tada saw that after the Battle of a hood
Rasulullah sallallahu sallam was so upset at the Sahaba of the Allah who I knew whom Allah subhanho
wa Taala he told the prophets of Salaam, oh prophet of Allah have a lenient heart have a soft heart.
If you don't have a soft heart, the Sahaba are not gonna come close to you. When Abdullah ibn Al
		

			Maktoum of the Allahu ani came to the Prophet sallallahu ala he was setting them even though the
person did not totally heed the Prophet it is I'm told him that come back at another time. I will
help you then right now I'm sitting with these delegates of the Quran I'm sitting with these
chieftains of the Quraysh and usually I don't I'm not able to get hold of them come back at another
time. Rasulullah saw some did not mean any kind of disrespect towards Abdullah Al Maktoum or the
Allah one, but Allah subhanho wa Taala he said, Yeah rasool Allah. This is not the way you treat
Abdullah ibn Al Maktoum. When the Prophet SAW Selim, he forgot to say in sha Allah, Allah subhanho
		

			wa Taala corrected Rasul allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So we learned that when Ross who lost
her son will make a mistake, ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala was sent away to the prophets I send them but
when others would make a mistake, the prophet it is some he taught you and I, how do we correct
those mistakes? Today Inshallah, I just want to share three important tips that we learned from
Rasulullah sallallahu sallam, that especially for those who are in a position of leadership, a
father is in, in a is in a position of leadership. Parents are in a position of leadership, we all
will find ourselves at some time in our life, beyond our family in a position of leadership. How do
		

			we correct mistakes when people other people make it? We learn from Missoula Solahart he was setting
them whenever he will see someone making making a mistake, sometimes he will get up and he will
leave like we find the case Oh bucket or the Allah one that he was one time talking and there were
some people showing absolute disrespect to obika The Allah one and then obika The Allah one he lost
his cool for a moment and he began to respond back Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he got up
and he left. This is one way the property some he will show his displeasure. Sometimes the problems
I'll send them he will give a verbal he will give a verbal gesture sometimes the problems some he
		

			will give a nonverbal gesture. Sometimes he was you know you when you see the body language of the
province I sent him you knew that this is not something that probably something he liked, but we
also learned some tips that how he will correct mistakes. Number one is that when it came to
correcting mistakes, he was always very gentle. Because see as a leader, if he is not gentle and
everyone else is losing their minds, then it will become a chaotic kind of situation. Think about
this. Imagine today just today. I mean not today literally today, but nowadays that's what I meant
is that when we see kids for example, playing inside the masjid, something very common that we see.
		

			Or some you know some children that bring a ball inside the masjid someone's making noise inside the
Masjid. Yes, it no doubt is a disrespect of the Masjid. But can you imagine the ultimate disrespect
of a masjid is when a Bedouin man comes inside the masjid and he begins to urinate inside the
Masjid. I mean, today we will not see anyone going to that limit. But we find in the case of the
Prophet salaam, and why did these kinds of things happen to teach you and I a lesson that when
someone would do something as severe as an as criminal as urinating inside the masjid, and everyone
is heading his way, and everyone's trying to stop him, first of all, Rasulullah saw some he was very
		

			wise. He said, Let him finish he's already started, you make him stop is going to is going to ruin
more places. He's at least making one place, you know, impure, and nudges that is better than making
more places, nudges so let him finish. Then Rasulullah sallallahu it was something he called him.
And then he taught him he educated him that my brother, my Bedouin brother, this is not the place we
do these kinds of things. This is the house of Allah subhanho wa Taala So next time when we see
someone doing something that is wrong, and we want to correct them, we have to always make sure that
we always are very gentle. This is why even Subhanallah we find even in the Quran, when Allah was
		

			sending Mousavi Islam to fit our own. He's telling him for Gula who Poland lejana This is a coffin,
a tyrant, someone who has claimed to be Malik, Rob and ILA there is no person in the past who has
claimed to be all three, the Quran states that fit and claim to be all three. And yet Allah is
instructing Musa when you go to him and you talk to him, Be gentle in your approach. So this is the
very first thing, the second thing that we learn from the seat of the prophesies.
		

			The law is that we must address the issue, not addressing the issue does not solve the problem. So
we find in the case of Osama immunization, or sama even as he was a son of Zaytoven harissa, who was
the adopted son of Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and by the way, Zaid is the only Sahabi
mentioned in the Quran. Zaid was very beloved to Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam, and his son who summer
was also very beloved to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, we find even when children would
want to get something approved by Rasulullah Salem, they will not go sometimes they will go to
summer even to say that you are so close to the Prophet of Allah Azza wa sallam, you go and you ask
		

			on our behalf, we're talking about a time when Osama urbanization has grown up, and he is sent on an
expedition. In that expedition, he took the life of someone when the Sahaba came back, the Prophet
SAW Salem, he would always get a report, what happened, anything particular in particular that
happened? And that is where you see a lot of the Philippi kind of situations would arise, they will
ask a question, the Prophet alayhi salam will give a response. So anyway, the story came across Rosa
Salem, or the incident that summer even as he took the life of someone, despite the fact that this
man who was killed by Osama even Zayed, he said La Ilaha illa Allah, He took the shahada before he
		

			passed away. Russell was some he called Osama urbanization now, no matter how much he loves him, the
point is you address the situation, you have to address the problem. So what did he do? He asked for
sama sama. Did you do this? See, first of all, he never jumped on him right away. He first inquired
with sama did you actually do this? And he says heroes Hola. I did, indeed. But I did. Because this
man was not saying La Isla de la from his heart. He was saying La ilaha illallah out of fear, he not
want to die. So that's why he said that you don't need Allah. And that is when Rasulullah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam he said to someone even as a very well known saying, Hello Shakta Kalba Did you
		

			open up his chest? And did you gauge and analyze his intention and his heart? How can you know his
intention was sama and Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he kept on repeating these words how shocked
appalled by he kept on repeating these words. And when somebody even as he felt terrible, but we
also learn Subhanallah sin. So addressing the mistake is also very important. But we also learn from
the same story. Part of correcting mistakes is that you don't hold the crime against a person also,
do not criminalize that person forever. And we find in the case of Roswaal Salah right before he
passed away, he sent an expedition. And in that expedition, he made Osama immunization in charge.
		

			Yes. Did he make a mistake? Yes. Did he do something that was absolutely wrong, indeed, but also
awesome, never held that mistake against him, because it was was on knows that there is a lot more
potential to this young man. And if I hold that one mistake against him and to Subhanallah I must
say that today we do this many times, especially when it comes to our young brothers, the youth of
the community, a lot of times we see them doing something that is wrong, and we hold that crime
against them forever. So this is why we learned from Russell wasallam addressing the mistake, but at
the same time never holding that mistake against them forever. And finally, when it comes to
		

			correcting a mistake, never jumping to conclusions, always finding out the story. So in the in
Davia, quickly, in odbl Rasulillah Salam cannot perform Umrah he and the Quraysh they put together
an entire agreement. And they mentioned in that agreement that you will not do aamra This year you
will do another following here. If someone comes to Medina from Makkah, they have to be returned to
Makkah. But if someone comes to Makkah from Medina, they don't have to be returned to Medina. And
part of that clause was that the Quraysh and the Muslims will not attack each other. And not only
that, but all the other tribes. They're gonna align themselves either on on the side of the Muslims
		

			or on side of the Quraysh and the allies, whether they're on the side of the Muslims or the Quraysh
they cannot attack each other. Now what happened was that in the time of the Prophet SAW sent him
one of the tribes of the Quraysh, one of the tribes who were allies of the Kurdish attacked another
tribe that was the ally of a Muslim. So when they when they violated the terms of their agreement,
Rasul Allah Azza wa sallam said hulless now we're going to go to Makkah, and we're going to conquer
Makkah. Now in Medina, there was a Sahabi by the name of how they even be belta Radi Allahu Allah
and have they been rebuilt. Ah, he had family in Makkah, but he was not amongst a Polish. See if you
		

			have family in Makkah, and there are amongst the Quraysh you know that there is still some sense of
security at the fact the fact that they are still the police
		

			the Quraysh may not attack them so there is some sense of security but hardly ever gonna be built I
was not amongst the Quraysh now that he knows that the property you some is now planning to go to
Makkah and and conquer Mecca would have to even be built I did was he sent a letter to the Quraysh.
Now this is a man who has a muhajir a Mahajan companion, his status is very high. Not only was he a
Mahajan, he was a buddy companion also status even becomes even higher. So we know that there was no
sense of doubt when it comes to his allegiance to Islam and Rasulullah Salallahu Salam, but he sent
this letter to Makkah into the Quraysh with the hope that if I do a favor for the Quraysh, perhaps
		

			they will show some mercy to my family in Makkah, they won't do anything to my family in Mecca. So
it was not that he had insincerity. But he had he was afraid for his family. So he thought, let me
do this favor of where he comes to from Allah subhanho wa taala, to Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam that there is a woman traveling to Mecca right now, and she carries a letter, you have to get
that letter from her. I literally Allah on who says that I ze I admit the dad and zubaid We all
three went to this woman, we found this woman, and the Prophet has some he told us that she has a
letter, make sure you bring that to me. When they approach this lady, you have a letter, and she
		

			says, what letter? What are you talking about? And they're like, no, no, you do have a letter. If
you don't give us a letter right now, then we may have to physically grab you, which we don't want
to you either give us a letter, or we may have to grab you and get it out. So she pulled it out of
her hair of the braids of her hair, and she provided it. Then Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam he called
Hartlaub and think about how to him he's coming to the province of Salem. And he has that letter in
his hand. So Hala, and he says ohata What is this? And he says Yara Sula. Wallahi No, no, I don't
have any ill intentions. I don't have any doubts in you. I will not I was not trying to hurt you, or
		

			Allah or his deen or the Muslim community, but you have to understand jasola I have family there and
I care for my family. I care for the protection of my family. And I thought that if I did them a
favor perhaps they will show some love and they will not they will not perhaps they will stay away
from harassing my family. Now once again when I say early, making sure that you don't don't jump to
conclusions at that time. You have people like oh my god Allah Allah yellow Sula, just give me the
permission yellow so Allah, I will take care of this man right now. And Russell was awesome said
Alma. Relax. Okay, relax. And then that is when Surah Mahina was revealed. Yeah, you're letting me
		

			know later taki do I do we what I do well come over here to the owner. You know him Billy. My word.
That was the cover of my joke. I'm gonna hop in here. But the point of this story is the problem
some did not prosecute how to be a rebel da, but he just and this was once again a revelation that
came from Allah subhanho wa taala. The next time don't do something like this. So we learn from the
seal of the prophets of Salah that even when someone doesn't make a mistake, yes, they may do
something very wrong, like how to bid. But we have to always when it comes to correcting mistakes,
we always inquire and find out the entire story before we jump to conclusions. Even we find this
		

			sort of fragility when Allah says yeah, you Lena Amano, injure Confessio Bombonera in fact about a
year know when the privately some send us a hobby to go and collect zakat. And he came back with the
news that perhaps they're coming to attack me and the community was not willing to they're not want
to attack this hobby, who was sent by the prophet Salam. So Allah subhanaw taala reminded the
Prophet when a person comes to you with some news, Fatima, you know, do your inquiry, do your
homework, do your research before you jump to conclusions. So these are just three things inshallah
I want to share number one was addressed the mistake number two is that do not hold a crime against
		

			that person. Number Number three is being gentle. And then the fourth one was do your research
before you jump to conclusions. These are the these are just few that we learned from the sealer
problem that somebody asked Allah subhana was about to give all of us the tofi mirabile Alameen wa
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