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			in so Look man, Allah subhanho wa Taala talks about Lachman giving advices to his son.
		

			And what's beautiful about all these advices is that majority of these advices are about
spirituality. First of all, local man begins by giving his son and advice that do not ever
commiserate with Allah subhanho wa Taala you have to shake biller initial color Illuminati, we also
find that he gave us his son and the advice that remember that wherever you are, if you commit an
act on the Day of Judgment, it does not matter from wherever you did and wherever it is. Allah
subhanho wa Taala will bring it forth. Yeah Buddha yeah in intercom with kala hubba Muhammad and in
fact a comfy soft rotten office somewhere where it will fill out the TB Allah Allah will bring it
		

			forward. Yeah, Bonilla up the mistletoe mobile my roof one Hi Mancha. Oh my son established your
prayers, enjoying good, bring people towards good always encourage people to do good and prevent
what is wrong in society. And that he gave other advices when it when it comes to a club. There is
one advice in there Subhanallah that does not begin with Yagoona Yeah, there is one advice that does
not begin with Oh my son, I'm giving you this advice. And that is the advice regarding parents. Now
the question is that why not? Because in all the advice it says yeah, Buddha Yeah. Buddha Yeah. But
in the advice that it begins or that talks about respecting parents and what are the rights of
		

			parents, Allah subhanho wa Taala says well was saying now we Allah subhanaw taala refers it to
himself we gave this advice to them why the Allah Subhanallah they mentioned that the reason why
Allah did this is because Hallo C'mon, giving all these advices related to spirituality related to
solids related to amount of money I Monica in o'clock and character, and he would have also told
him, they respected me, it would have come off as if look man is selfish. He's using the opportunity
to get something for himself. And this is why Allah subhanho wa Taala did not refer that to look
man. Rather, he referred that to himself, Allah subhanho wa Taala that we have told him, the human
		

			being the human race, not just the Muslims the entire world, because this is a world problem. This
is a universal problem, that usually when children they grow up, they become very disrespectful to
their parents. One is disrespect and one is disagreement. I've talked about this before. If a person
says I disagree, that I this is not the the way that I want to do something, then that is simply a
disagreement. A disagreement is not disrespect. Many parents at times feel that if my child
disagrees with me in my choice, then that's considered a disrespect. There are two different things.
So Allah subhanho wa Taala he says, Well, what sinal in Santa BYD, they that treat your parents with
		

			the highest level of respect. And then what's also beautiful is that while there's an advice for the
in this for parents, that when it comes to your children, do not try to use Deen to try to you know,
have them respect you rather, we teach our children that this is what Allah wants from you, not me,
this is what Allah is expecting from you. When a person hears that this is what Allah is expecting
from me, that any person who has a shred of respect in their heart for Allah subhanho wa Taala they
will do exactly what Allah subhanaw taala wants them to do. Then Allah subhanaw taala also teaches
the what is the responsibility of a child or a child even when they grow up, they're still they're
		

			still the son, they're still a daughter to to their own parents. So Allah subhanho wa Taala says, if
it comes to the point where in Jaha Dhaka Isla and to sneak a be that if they force you or they
compel you to break the order of Allah subhanho wa Taala here in this ayah and so Look, man, Allah
talks about shake, but when Allah talks about shidduch it means anything else, if the parents compel
if the parents push, and they try to push and push their children, to commit a haram to do something
that is wrong, something that has been deemed by our religion as completely wrong, Philip Voltaire
Houma now Subhanallah was beautiful about this is Allah simply say, she said, do not obey them.
		

			Allah do not say be disrespectful. Allah simply said further to to Houma was Sahiba Houma duniya ma
rufa, and be around them, while Sahiba Houma give them your sofa, give them your company fit duniya
ma rufa in this dunya in a way that is acceptable in society and
		

			Subhan Allah, Allah, Allah, they say on this based on this is that Allah subhana wa, the old man
said is that Allah is not telling you. Allah is not telling us that when you go to your parents, you
sit there and you correct your parents, you know, many of us when we grow up, we feel and we know
that perhaps our parents might be doing something that is wrong. Sometimes our parents are doing
something that is perhaps not the best course of action. Sometimes they don't have the right
understanding about something, or they may have a different understanding about something, and
compared compared to what our understanding is, and we feel, and we feel compelled that every single
		

			time I sit down next to my parents, I need to correct my parents, I need to show that when it comes
to my knowledge, I'm superior than them and knowledge. When it comes to authority, I am worse, I'm
more I have more superiority, even though I mean they have and they are just right now they're weak
at this point. But right now, at this point, I am such an I am that and I have such a position as
duniya we usually like to, you know, showcase that kind of position. Allah subhanaw is telling us
that that's not our job. When you come to your parents, even though they may be doing something that
is wrong. Yes, you correct them once. But if they keep on doing what they're doing, and if they feel
		

			like that they're doing something the right way, was saw Haibo who might fit dunya ma rufa just go
there and give them your company, give them your Saba your job is not to sit there and correct them,
because at the end of the day, they are your parents. So these are advices that Allah subhanaw taala
has given once again this is not coming from local man to his own son, this is coming from Allah
subhanho wa Taala to the entire mankind, that every one of us we find ourselves in a position that
we are a parent and we find ourselves in a position that we are the son or the daughter to someone
else, if we can, you know abide by these kinds of rules. Inshallah, you will see that the the
		

			relationship that has been fractured between parents and children, inshallah it will come together,
because on one end, a parent is teaching his child that this is not what I'm telling you to do for
my own selfish reasons. I'm telling you what Allah has telling you to do. Allah is telling you to
show show respect to your parents. And not only that, but then as as children. If we go to our
parents, no matter what they're doing, and how they live their life, sometimes we may disagree with
how they're living their life also, that's not our place. Yes, we can explain to them one time but
then after that, we go and we give them our server, we give them our company and we show our o'clock
		

			to our parents so I ask Allah subhana wa Tada to make us feel amongst those who apply these
teachings and who understand these these things and then they apply them and the best way in their
life. I mean, no, but I mean, Zack Malachite said I'm only going to label a cartoon