Nadim Bashir – Khatira – 2 Important LIFE ADVICES from Surah Yusuf

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The transcript discusses the use of the word "na matter" in Arabic language to describe the experience of pain caused by people. It is emphasized that protecting oneself from hazards and evil is crucial, and that sharing information and not showing one's blessings is crucial for overall well-being. The speakers emphasize the need to be happy and not show one's blessings, as well as the importance of being careful when sharing information.

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			Yesterday in Osaka we we finished sort of use of and sort of use of offers so many lessons and so
many reflections Allah subhanho wa Taala one thing that we find very common in the entire Quran is
that the beginning of every single Surah has a connection to the ending of the surah for example
SOTL Bacara, Allah subhanho wa Taala began to Sudha by talking about what Iman and Latina Umino I
believe we have a Munna sada of in Morocco now moving on the very ending of the surah Allah subhana
wa Tada talks about Munna Rasool will be on ZTE him Robbie, we know this is something that's very
beautiful about the Quran. Even when you say you sort of use of also we find a connection between
		
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			the beginning of the surah and the ending of the surah Allah subhana wa Tada he says in the
beginning, na na ko so Allah acid and ASASI Bhima oh hi na na kaha the Quran that ALLAH SubhanA is
revealing to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, a very beautiful Surah one of the best stories
in the Quran. But the stories of the Quran are not there just to tell us a story. The purpose is the
it has to have a reflection. There are lessons that we learned from them, and hence at the very end
of the surah Allah says what lacquer they can also see him aber autoloaded Al Bab the in these
stories, there is an era and by the way, the word Ebro in the Arabic language means something that
		
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			you hear in something that changes your life, something that you can reflect upon. So when you say
the entire sort of use of from beginning to end, Allah subhanho wa taala. He has mentioned so many
gems and there are so many lessons that we can learn from Surah use of today Inshallah, I just want
to explain or go through just two important lessons that we can learn from Surah Yusuf, first of
all, is a pseudo use of was revealed in Makkah. That means that if you study the history of Makkah,
we learned that the closest people to Rasulullah sallallahu it was setting them were the ones who
were causing the most amount of pain to the Prophet sallallahu it was salam. It is for this reason,
		
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			that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he says that there is no prophet like me who has been
threatened about our deen the way I have been threatened and no profit before me has been being
caused pain, the way I have been caused pain in regards to this, Dean, why do you think that is
because you study stories of the past where people were sawed in half. There were more afflictions,
more pain that was caused too many MBL before the reason why the Prophet Allah Islam said this is
because in the past, before the Prophet alayhi salam, pain was caused by strangers, in the case of
the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam, it is his own brethren, the people who are the most closest
		
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			to him, those are the ones who are causing the most pain to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
and it is a well known fact that when, when the when the people who are the most closest to you,
when they cause pain to you, that cut is more deeper, that pain is more deeper, that's a pain that
it takes more time to overcome. So the very first thing that we learned from this surah is that the
most closest people to you in your life will cause you pain, think about use of it is Saddam, it is
his own brothers, his older brothers, they're supposed to look and take care of the of their younger
brother. But instead of that, they put his life at risk. They threw him into a well, this is use of
		
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			Adi Islam being caused pain by his own brothers. And then not only that, but every single story has
a same theme if you think about it, when when you somebody has some is in the palace. And you have
the wife of the King trying to tempt trying to bring you tried to throw us fighting some into
temptation. She's trying to commit haram. Imagine the husband, if he when he found out that my wife
is trying to become intimate with a slave inside the house. How much pain this caused the husband.
Then on top of that, it was a useful cause of pain. It was his own wife who caused that pain. Then
on top of that we find in the same story, the father being caused pain by his own children. When the
		
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			children came and they were gentle Allah Cammisa. He beat them in Khabib one thing that a father
cannot bear is when the children tried to make him a fool. The father is thinking to himself, I'm
older than you. I'm more wise than you. You're trying to make me into a fool. The father feels
disrespected at that time. And what did Jacoba you some say? He says FASAB Varun Jamil at this
point. I'm going to exercise patience for the sake of Allah subhanho wa taala. We also find in the
same story of use of Alehissalaam being caused pain verbally by his own brothers that years later,
when use of it your son is now the financial minister of Egypt. These brothers they have come after
		
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			so many years and use value some is seeing them they don't know its use of use of knows them. And
use of other use Salam he
		
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			applied a tactic in order to keep Binney I mean with him at that time what are the brothers say?
orlu es Rico for the Celica hula hoop in Kabul? Yeah, there, you know he had a brother to his
brother was also evil. Okay? So think about you surrounding yourself again being caused pain. So
pain after pain after pain, this story teaches us that the most closest people to you in your life
will inevitably sometime down the road in your life, they will cause you pain. Sometimes the pain
comes to the parents, sometimes it comes from the children. Sometimes it comes from your most best
friend is sometimes it comes from people that you can you thought you can depend on. This is the
		
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			story, but what do we learn and what can we do in these kind of situations? The very first thing is
when people cause us pain, remember that Allah subhanho wa Taala he when he tells us these stories,
we remind ourselves that we're not the only ones who have been treated like this Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has also been treated like this, all the Gambia before this, they have
also been treated like this. So I'm not the only one who has who is going through this. The second
thing how to overcome this is remember that Allah subhanho wa Taala knows, Allah knows our pain.
sootel hedger suited hijo was revealed also in Makkah, Allah subhanho wa Taala tells us allah
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, wala pradhana Alamo anaklia Lee casada Ruka be Maya coloane whatever
they say to you, we know about it. Now Ilm. We know very well what they're saying to you. And then
what Allah subhanho wa Taala tell Rasulullah sallallahu Are you something to do in that situation?
When they say things and they hurt you for Sabir behind the Rebecca welcome in a Saturday. Establish
your relationship with Allah subhanho wa taala. See, when it comes to human relationship, I can
build a relationship but eventually one day I may become I may be betrayed. Someone may say
something to me that can really hurt me. But well Allah He the relationship in which a person is
		
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			never betrayed is a relationship between a human being and ALLAH SubhanA wa Taala that's a
relationship that Allah will never ever betray. So Allah subhanho wa Taala is telling Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam for Serbia behind the Rebecca welcome Mina Sajid in. Another thing that
we can do when we are hurt by people when they do things to us is remember that do not ever put
yourself in that situation as the Prophet sallallahu wasallam has told us now you will the whole
McMenamin Jarin, widened Murata, no believer is stung by the same hole twice, meaning that you don't
commit the same mistake again. When you have been betrayed by someone. You don't ever go back. If
		
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			you've been betrayed one time by a person, for example, in business, you don't go back in business
with that person. So this is something that we learned the very first lesson that we learned from
the story of use of adding the story from the Surah Surah use of is that people were the most
closest to us they made hurt, they may hurt us. The second thing that we learned from the story,
which is very, very important is especially in the age of digital media, social media, we often have
this habit that whatever blessing and Norma Allah has given us, we like to show this to the entire
world. I'm going for a vacation, you put on Instagram, you're going for anything you're enjoying
		
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			something with your family. Everyone wants to put on Instagram first of all is we learn from the
story that ALLAH SubhanA wa Tala, if he gives you a neuroma, if he gives you a blessing, remember
that there are so many people who are devoid of those blessings. And when we share these kinds of
happiness and these kinds of things on social media, we are putting ourselves out there and someone
can have hazard or evil is against us use of it is some has seen a dream in the law at the Ashura
coke oven was shumsa Well, carburetor only Saturday. I've seen this dream he comes to his father.
His father understands he has hikma he has wisdom. He says, Don't tell this to your brothers.
		
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			Because your brothers they will be they will have they already have hazard and jealousy against you
that hustle and jealousy will only intensify if you tell them these kinds of things. And not only
that, but you're Googling some also understands how to protect his own children. When you're
promoting Islam many years later, when he was fighting some is now the financial minister of Egypt.
And there's a drought that has come and it has affected the lands around what do jacobellis Some do
he sent his kids that go and bring something back from from Egypt, but what they did was well
jacobellis, some did was extremely smart, he tells his children that when you enter into the
		
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			courtyard of the king, and when you enter into the palace, let the Holloman Babin why then what the
Holloman of whoever in Waterford recall that enter into different doors. Why? Because at that time,
people used to be envious of those people who had boys. And these boys were not just boys, they were
men. And think about these were 10 Brothers or 11 brothers at that time, and these were eventually
the children of bunnies saw it. So anyone who will look at that
		
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			This entire family has come, immediately they may have hustled against these brothers, they may have
hustled against Jacoba husana. This is why Jacoba you some is protecting himself, that and he's
protecting his children from becoming the victim of someone else's hazard. So this is why in life,
when Allah has given us a blessing, well, Allah, He, there is no need to show the entire world, the
most important thing is that we want to be happy, if Allah has given us and you and me a blessing,
and I keep it to myself and I am happy. That's the whole point. What's the need to show the entire
world? What's the need to have to show the entire world and gain their approval and gain their
		
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			likes? If we are happy? That's all that matters. So this is why it is very important that we don't
ever always do there are some people who do it occasionally, hey, no problem. But there are people
who do this on every single thing, anything good in their life, they put it out when your children
graduate, and over and over again, you put out things for them, you put yourself you put your
children in danger in one way and in a certain capacity to be honest. So that's why we have to be
very careful. And what we have learned from allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is the best way to
protect ourselves from hazards and from evil i is what I would attain pull out all the rubble
		
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			further pull out robbing us, we don't also Formosa Allah wa salam ITIL Corsi, these are things that
we can all do on a daily basis. So please make sure you protect yourself. So these are two things
that we have learned from the story of us fighting isn't Of course there are many other things but
number one is, you will always be caused pain by people who are the most closest to you. And number
two is that do not always showcase your blessings that you have we have been given by Allah subhanho
wa Taala say Alhamdulillah and move forward in life. Ask Allah subhana wa Tala to make us amongst
those who take heed and take lessons from the Quran. Middleboro Alameen Desikan Malachite
		
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