Nadim Bashir – Elite Followers #06 Juwayriah RA

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			the wives of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam that we have been covering, primarily, or for
the most part, I have been mentioning them in chronological order, meaning that the order of the
Prophet sallallahu it was something he married them. So inshallah we'll try to stick to that.
		

			They are, if you look in the different books of Sierra, or the books, different books of Hadith,
there is no one set.
		

			There's not, I mean, the names of the names of the wives of the Prophet sallallahu it was setting
them are not exactly in the same order in all the books. Yes, the beginning, few names are always in
the same order, such as Khadija Rhodiola. And then you have soda Rhodiola Unhide. And I showed you a
lot on her, and then have some of your water on her. But then after that, they always are slightly
different. So the wife of the Prophet SAW Allah who is some that we're talking about today, or I'll
be mentioning before you today is, is a wife who was the daughter of a
		

			leader of a tribe. And if you remember the story of isodiol, Allah Allah, in which she was slandered
upon and she was accused. That story initially started from the time the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam he was in the expedition of, but in most of the luck, and if you remember that story, at
the after the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam had defeated the people of banana muster luck. And
he had the whole story goes on and he made God out of YOLO Tirana. It was after this, that in that
journey, he was accompanied by our Isha Viola Tirana, I saw of Yolanda on her on their way back.
That is when she was left in the she was left all alone, where she went into the forest to take care
		

			of her needs. And when she came back, she realized that the caravan had left so this is what that
entire journey was about. So within that journey, this is the journey of the expedition have been
Mustela the province that Allahu alayhi wa sallam found out that there are some people who are
living there, and they are plotting and scheming. against the Muslims, they're planning they're
putting together a plan to come and attack the Muslims. Without them knowing about it. The Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam found out about this and he assigned some Sahaba the Allah Tala on him
that I want you to find out about their plans. And let me know when the Prophet SAW Allah while he
		

			was on was informed about their plans. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he said that instead
of them coming to us, let's go in US surprise them before they surprise us. So the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he gathered all his Sahaba of the Allah Tala and home and they march and
they reached a place where there was a recent place called mod ACR, and the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, he stayed here. And from here he launched a surprise attack. Now once again, let
me make this very clear, because some people may get the wrong understanding. This was not something
that prophesied Allahu Allah He was some he initiated himself. The people have been mustered up will
		

			already initiating an attack the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is simply defending himself.
What we will find in the seed of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is that whenever the
Prophet went to war, whenever the profit center he went to battle, he did not just take the Sahaba
and say, You know what, let's go and terrorize a place. No, there are people who plan against the
Muslims. There are people who came to Medina to fight against the Muslims, and all the time, it was
the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam defending himself. So we have to always keep that in mind.
Now, the Prophet salallahu, it was setting them because of his leadership, he was able to launch a
		

			attack on them. And without taking, I don't, there's not mention of any how many lives are taken,
but it is mentioned that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was victorious. Now, as it is a
normal behavior in our normal practice, that whenever you go and you conquer a land, or a place, the
people of that tribe become yours, meaning that they become your captives. So the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam, what he did was that he took the he took the men, he divided them, he took the
woman and he divided them. Now without going into any kind of implications. The general ruling when
it comes to slaves, is that if a slave woman, a slave woman, who is separated from her husband
		

			because of war, and she's taken as a captive, she is no longer married to her husband. In the case
of God or the Allah denying her. She had already lost her husband.
		

			To begin with, now she was divided. I mean, all the women were divided, like normal, she was divided
and she and her others were divided. And she came into the share of unsavoury companion by the name
of sabich eBenefits or the Allah Tala. When she knowing her status that she is the daughter of the
leader of the tribe, who is still alive. The leader of the tribe is still alive. His name was Al
Hadith, he is still alive. She finds out that she has been put or she is now she belongs to Sabbath
even a place. She went to establish a pace and said that if it is okay with you, let's come to an
agreement and let's create a contract that I will give you nine ohea or which is a a money or a
		

			current currency at that time. She says I will give you nine Okay, yeah. And you let me go. Do you
agree to that? And he said that yes, I do agree to that. But the problem is that she doesn't have
the nine Okay, yeah. Now she came to the Prophet salAllahu alayhi wasallam. She was upset that she
was in the, in the share of service interface with the ultra iron, and she came to Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now remember, I showed you a lot and Ana is accompanying the Prophet in
this journey. I showed you a lot and enhanced says that when as soon as, as soon as joia walked in,
to face a Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam. She says that there is something I noticed about her.
		

			There is something different about her compared to all the other wives, the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam had and what she said she says that she came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam, and she told her she told him, the Prophet alayhi salam about her concern, and that she did
not want to be like this, and she wants some money. The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said
that dua Do you want something that is better than that? The Prophet saying that Do you want
something better than that? And the end she said they Yes, what is that? The Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam says that I will pay the nine Okaya on your behalf, and I am proposing to marry
		

			you. Now once again. It is not a forceful upon her. But the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam is
simply proposing to her. She She was happy when she heard about this. And she agreed and so the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he paid the nine Opia to Saba debonair face, which he agreed
upon, and he took God out of the ultra Anna and he married her. Now there are a few things to know
about this number one, when she came to the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and the way she
addressed the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa salam tells us something about her. When she came to the
Prophet, she never just addressed her as Muhammad Salam, but she address her as a messenger of allah
		

			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now only a person who truly believes in Allah subhanho wa Taala would
address the prophets of salaam by saying, O Messenger of Allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam mean that
she had already believed in Islam, she had already taken the shahada, and now she is coming into the
marriage of Ursula Salah Juana he was sending him geranium of the Allah Tala Anna, it is important
to to make a note here and to bring to your attention, that when we talk about the marriage of the
Prophet sallallahu Ana he was setting them once again we've talked about this before, but just for
just to refresh your memory. Whenever the Prophet SAW Allah while he was married any of his wives
		

			for the most part, it was not for him to fulfill his desires. In fact if you say about how the god
Allah Tala on her, she was 15 years older than him and this was his first marriage. If this was a
man who was truly after his desires, that you will not be marrying a woman who was 15 years older
than her older than him and she had been previously married. So the problem saw why he was married
first things are the Allah turned on her. When she had passed away he may Sodaro the Allah Tala AHA
which has been mentioned about her that she was very overweight and she was not very good looking.
Yet the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam married her was a reason to fulfill his desires
		

			Absolutely not. But because so there will be Allah Tala on her was also a woman that who had no
husband and the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was struggling himself. And so he was informed
or someone suggested to him that if you may so there are the Allah, Allah and Anna she's a woman who
has experience of being a mother and she can take care of your household because the Prophet
sallallahu Arias some cannot focus on his external responsibilities, while also looking at his
internal responsibilities. There has to be someone take care of his internal responsibilities.
		

			While the Prophet took care of the external responsibilities, so this is what the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam did. As far as he God Allah, Allah Allah is concerned. This was something that the Prophet
sallallahu either someone saw in his dream, he just did not go to Aisha the Allah that Allah and
said that I want to marry you. Likewise with Xena Rhodiola Aha, who was the ex wife of his adopted
son Zeto the Allah Tala and this was a marriage that was done by who? Allah subhanho wa Taala after
that everyone else that you see there were all widows besides Aisha Radi Allahu Allah on her she was
the only one who had no record of previous marriages. And that was also because they're providing
		

			some sort of dream. And it is according to our Elpida the athlete of Anderson novel Jamara, that the
this the dreams of the Gambia are messages from Allah subhanho wa taala. They're not like yours and
I are our dreams. So when we see a dream, it may or may not have a meaning. And the meaning may be
very abstract. But here are the messages that were given to the Gambia, in many cases, they were in
the form of dreams. So we see that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam not only that, but you
remember OMA Habiba, we talked about last week, she was a woman who was all the way in Abyssinia, no
person, her father was an enemy of Islam a boost of young she had no one to look after her in
		

			Abyssinia. It was the Najafi who did her marriage than a Joshi paid the Muhammad to her on behalf of
the Prophet sallahu alayhi wa sallam, and then she was then delivered or brought to Medina, then the
marriage was consummated between her and the province that Allah was sending him. The overall
message I'm trying to deliver to all of you is when you study the life of the prophet in all his
marriages, it was either to give solace to these people who had lost her husband, or it was to build
bridges amongst the people. That was the only purpose of the marriages of the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam. So the reason I mentioned this is because there are a lot of people nowadays who
		

			put a lot of questions. They pose a lot of questions about Islam. And majority of us unfortunately,
we are not aware how to answer these kinds of questions. Simple questions like my brother came to me
last week, he said that someone at my office said that who's ISIS? And he says that what should I
say to her? And I asked her brother, are you serious? You don't know how to answer that. That's,
that's, that should be simple. These are sometimes the difficult questions. We need to know how to
defend our religion. This is by knowing the sin of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam. By
knowing why he did the things like Islam, we can then defend the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam
		

			Yes, the problem is some does not need our protection. If there's only one who will protect the
dignity of the Prophet, it is Allah subhanho wa taala. No matter how many people decorate in the
produce cartoons, or anything that is in that any comment that is a derogatory comment to the
Prophet sallallahu sallam, Allah will protect the Prophet SAW Selim. But it becomes our job to know
who the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. Now, when
the Prophet Allah is a major area of the Allah, Allah and
		

			all the other Sahaba of your waterline, who realized that all these captives that we have, they're
all the relatives of God or the Allah Tala. Mm hmm. And it will not be befitting for us to keep all
these people as captives. So what they did was that he freed all of them, they freed all of them,
the Prophet sallallahu Sallam he gave permission, he was okay with it. All the Sahaba they freed all
them, which also teaches us another lesson here is that in any other war, when you study war in
general, even the wars that took place in this country, or in any other country, the captives were
either tortured, they were treated like slaves, and they were treated like more, they were treated
		

			worse than animals. It was only we find in the seed of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam that
the captors were let go, no ransom was taken from them. The promise of not say that I want something
back in return. No. The prophet is on my way. They are the Allah Tala on her. Because of her. That's
why I saw the alotta and she says that no one was a bigger benefit to their tribe, more than 20 or
the a lot and unhappy because of her marriage with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. So this
is something very important to know that the Prophet SAW Allah who is some he did free people. Now,
on a side note, something very important for a for all of you to remember. There was one time that
		

			there was a Jewish tribe, as you know that there were three Jewish tribes in Medina. But you know,
the bunu Karela, and Bonita Anoka. All of them had an agreement with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam, that if we as Jews go to war, the Muslim will be our allies. If you go to war, we will be
your allies. All three of them. They betrayed that trust and that agreement between them and the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam
		

			One of them, their men were killed. Many people believe and they asked that if the prophet is so
merciful than Why did he do that? Why did he do that? The answer to that if someone ever asked you
this question is because that was at that time according to even the Jewish law, even according to
Jewish law, the, the, the consequences of treason, the consequences of treason was taking their
life. Even nowadays, if a person here in the United States commits treason, and there is history of
people who have committed treason here in this country,
		

			then their punishment is a solitary confinement for life. Solitary confinement for life. This is
what this is their consequences. So the consequences are extremely harsh, and they're very severe.
This happened to the time the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam which happens is still in many
places. If there is treason that is committed, your life is taken. So if someone does ask that, you
have to know your history also to give an answer about this. Now let's move on with God. Allah
Tonhalle Duany, Viola unhei says that one time she was sitting in the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam he performed his Saddam Fajr. And then he left after he left jovial water and she stayed in
		

			that same position in her house, until the Prophet SAW allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam came back
in the afternoon, or he came back a little before the afternoon. So joining the Allah, Allah Allah
was sitting from the time of Fajr, all the way to little before before noon time, the Prophet saw
some was gone the whole time. When he came back, he asked her that have you been sitting here the
whole time? And she says, yes, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam said that, well, you know what, let
me teach you four words. Let me teach you four words. I recited this three times, and I was able to
gain more reward. Then the word you have the reward that you have accumulated in the time that you
		

			have sent from after fajr all the way to the afternoon time. Then the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
sallam taught her a DUA, which I'm sure most of you probably know that Subhan Allah he will be
handy.
		

			Then either the holiday What do you Varanasi he was in at the Odyssey he won't be there the kamati
This is dua the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam he taught us a year of your Lord and Anna now
when the ALMA discussed God Allah Allah on how the books of Sierra that discuss joy you Allah, Anna
Anna, they also go into some discussion about fifth because there are some important matters that we
learned from God or the Allah Tala Anna, regarding the subject of FIP. For example, there's just two
I'm going to share with you today. One of them is the subject matter of fasting on Fridays, the
province that Allahu Allah he was sending them he visited visited JD out of the Allah Tirana on a
		

			Friday and saw that she was fasting.
		

			So he asked her Did you fast yesterday? And she said no. He then asked her Are you planning to fast
tomorrow? And she says no. From sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then said that you shouldn't be fasting
today either. You should not be fasting today either. Now, in other Hadith, the Prophet sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam says, None of you should fast on a Friday unless he fasts on the day before or the
day after. mean that you have to fast either on if you want to fast on Thursday, you should be
fasting on Thursday, along with Friday, or you should be fasting on Saturday along with Friday. You
cannot single out Friday and fast on Friday. That's why orlimar such as even a pajama and email now
		

			we're not going to lie Lee who was the author of the other Sunday pain, they both say that it is
mcru It is not allowed for a person to fast and single out Friday. And she and one should not make a
habit too fast on Friday and single on Friday. Another thing that we learned is that which is a term
that is used in English, which is called coitus interrupt us. coitus interrupt us, basically in
Arabic is called Asan. It is when a man is with his spouse, and while they are being intimate, they
this is considered as withdrawal, and I'm going to stick I'm gonna leave it to that. If you don't
understand you can go into a dictionary and look more into that yourself. Okay, about that song.
		

			We'll leave it to coitus interrupt us. This concept of pointless interrupters is a subject or a
debate amongst orlimar that whether it is allowed or not allowed is a Gize or not Gize Is it
permissible or not permissible? The Sahaba of the alotta on whom they said that we wanted to perform
coitus, interrupt us
		

			But we will not familiar with what is in our deen about pointers interrupt us. We went to the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and we asked the Prophet, I think Islam about the subject
matter. And the Prophet alayhi salam says that it is better, that if you do not do it, for if any
soul till the Day of Judgment is predestined, to exist, it will exist. Mina, the Prophet sallallahu,
someone is telling the Sahaba that this is
		

			this is one way of, of
		

			using, you know, there's one way of applying any kind of precaution when it comes to having
children. So but the problem is, as someone's saying that you can do whatever you want to do. But if
Allah subhanaw taala has destined for our soul to come into this dunya it will happen. Now I'm going
to share with you a story that my teacher shared with me. And when my teacher shared this with me,
it was absolutely stunning. And it was shocking. So a story that I have never come across. Once
again, this is just something that he came across because someone he was close to totally informed
him of this story. Because this happened to that person.
		

			A man found out that his wife was expecting a child. He told his wife to take some some pills, to
avoid the pregnancy and to abort the pregnancy. He she took some she took some pills. She took one
pill, she took two pills, and she stopped. She never took any more pills after that, because she
wasn't seeing the effects. But she thought that okay, you know what, let me just go on with a
pregnancy. My teacher told me that the father of that child told him my teacher, that the day when
my child was born, subhanAllah those two pills that his wife had taken, were in the hands and the
palms of that child when he was born.
		

			When Allah subhanaw taala wants something to happen, there is nothing that can stop ALLAH SubhanA
nothing can stop Allah subhanho wa Taala from what he wants to do. In Rebecca for Allah Lima UD,
Allah Subhan Allah wants to do something, there is no power in this world that can come between
Allah subhanho wa Taala and his wishes. Last thing is about Julia Rhodiola has father Julia Viola
that I had, when he found out when he found out about the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, he
was under the impression that God I want to come back. So you went to the Prophet SAW Allah Azza wa
sallam, and he asked her, and what he did was that he brought some camels, but he had kept aside
		

			some in some camels that which he had admire very much. When he came to the Prophet sallallahu it
was setting him and he talked about his daughter, and he says that I brought some camels. The
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked him, that what if? What about those two other camels that
you have tied somewhere else you did not bring with you? As soon as Joe as soon as and when he heard
that, and he knows that? There is no absolutely way that the province of sun could know about this,
how do you know about this, that is when he realized that the Prophet this man is truly a prophet of
Allah. And that is when he took the shahada and he accepted Islam on the Prophet SAW Allah on the
		

			hands of the Prophet sallallahu it was send them finally God or the Allah Tala on her, she passed
away in the in the 50 years in the 53, after hijra, mean that she lived for 40 more years after the
life of the prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she passed away when she was 65 years old, and
Marwan Ibn Al Hakim, who was the leader at that time, the governor of Medina he performed Annika
until today she is buried in genital bulkier. So this brings this brings the life of joy idea to an
end.
		

			You know, Inshallah, we hope hopefully we can benefit from her life. Of course, once again, just
like all the other wives, she was someone who always showed immense amount of respect to the
prophets of Salaam. She was a great Aveda mean that she was a great worshiper, and she wasn't with
tequila mean that she was a person who exercise and exhibited the COA, and all her matters. And once
again I showed you Allah, Allah, Allah and so many others Sahaba especially the wives of the Prophet
sallallahu alayhi wa send them they have so many positive things to say about God Allah to Allah, I
pray to Allah subhanho wa Taala that he gives us the ability to act one has been sent to hurt May
		

			Allah subhanaw taala give us the character good the characteristics that these points that these
people embody. Is that Kamala hate Subhan Allah Hamdi Subhana Allah one I'm not sure there were law
either her illa Anta Nesta Heruka. One of the really exactly Malachite somebody comes to live with
our cattle