Nadim Ali – Service To Others

Nadim Ali
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The importance of service-oriented personality and not just a false statement is emphasized in the fight against domestic violence and domestic violence in general. The speaker emphasizes the need to be of service to others, prioritize personal and family satisfaction, and be a service worker. They also mention a quote from Muhammad Ali regarding service to others, saying that anyone who takes responsibility for their actions counts for a return. prioritizing service to others is the rent paid for one's room and anyone who takes responsibility for their actions counts for a return.
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And, again, one translation, indeed,

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all praise belongs to Allah, the most high.

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We thank him. We seek his aid. We

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seek his forgiveness, and we seek refuge with

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him from the evil of ourselves and from

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our bad actions.

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Whoever Allah guides, then there's no one who

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can mislead him. And whoever Allah causes to

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go astray, then there's no one to guide

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him. I bear witness that there's no deity

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except Allah who is unique and with our

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partners, and I bear witness that Muhammad is

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his worshiper and his messenger. May the peace

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and blessings of Allah be upon him and

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his family and his companions and those who

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follow them with good intentions

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until the day of judgment.

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All you who believe, fear Allah as he

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should be feared and don't die except as

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Muslims.

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Oh, mankind, be careful of your duty to

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Yorab who created you from a single soul

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and from it created its mate, and from

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the 2 of them, he spread forth many

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men and women.

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Be careful of your duty to Allah whom

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you demand your mutual rights and be careful

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of your duty to the wounds that bore

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you indeed. Allah is over

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you. All you who believe, fear Allah and

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always speak the truth. He will cause your

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deeds to be beneficial, and he will forgive

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for you your sins. And And whoever obeys

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Allah and his messenger, then he has truly

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achieved a tremendous accomplishment.

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Indeed, the best speech is the book of

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Allah, and the best guidance is the guidance

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of Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. And the

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most evil of all affairs are newly invented

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matters, which has no precedence in Islam, and

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indeed all innovations are astray, and each asrays

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in the hellfire.

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Oh, Allah.

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Accept our du'a. Oh, Allah. Save us from

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that.

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And in Hadith,

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on the authority of Abu Huwaida,

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who said that the messenger of Allah said,

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Allah,

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the mighty and sublime,

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be he, will say on the day of

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resurrection,

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oh son of Adam, I fell ill and

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you visited me not.

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He will say, oh lord,

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and how should I visit you when you

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are the lord of the worlds?

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He will say, did you know did you

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know not that

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that my servant so and so had fallen

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ill and you visited him not?

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Did you know

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do you know that had you visited him,

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you would have found me with him?

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Oh, son of Adam, I asked you for

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food and you fed me not. He will

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say, oh lord, how should I feed you

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when you are the lord of the worlds?

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He will say, did you know that my

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servant so and so asked you for food

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and you fed him not? Did you know

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that had you fed him, you would have

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surely found found that that reward for doing

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so with me?

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Oh, son of Adam,

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I asked you to give me drink, and

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you gave me gave me not to to

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nothing to anything to drink. He will say,

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oh, lord, how shall I give you to

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drink when you are the lord of the

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worlds? He will say, my

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servant so and so asked you to give

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him drink and you gave him not to

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drink. Had you had given him to drink,

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you would surely found

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found that with me. This was related by

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a Muslim hadith.

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And when we look at

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this,

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particular

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hadith,

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you know, it talks about

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the importance

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of

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being of service to others, being of service

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to others.

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We and and and Allah

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has throughout the Quran talks about the importance

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of service, of of us giving service. Even

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the prophet, peace be upon him, he would,

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have people check on his neighbor,

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and and it was a neighbor who was

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hostile towards him. She was probably,

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you know, early version of the Karens. You

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know, she would harass the prophet. And one

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day, she didn't harass him and say, well,

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you know, go check on my neighbor and

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then just to make sure she was okay.

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And in this particular ayat, a lot talks

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about in Surah Ta Ma'un. He said, has

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thou

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observed him who believeth, belieth religion?

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That is he who repelleth the orphan and

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urges not the feeding of the needy.

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I woe unto the worshipers who are heedless

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of their prayer

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and who would

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be seen at worship yet refuse

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small

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acts of small kindness. And this, again, is

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sort of to. It's just talking about the

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people who practice their deen from a superficial

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perspective.

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As Muslims, we have to be of those.

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If we're submitting to Allah, we should be

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of service to people. You know? And again,

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it's not about worshiping people. It's not the

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fact that, you know, we're, you know, engaging

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in shirk. But when we are kind to

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creation, then we are doing the work. We

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as as the hadith says that if you

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feed somebody, if you give them drink, you

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know, if you basically help somebody else, it's

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as if, you know, you are basically doing

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the work that Allah is is just so

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fond of. He says you will get a

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special reward for that. It doesn't say that

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you're feeding Allah. It's saying, again, if you

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take care of creation,

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then you will be loved by the creator.

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And just like if you neglect and and

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destroy creation,

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then you will be neglected and destroyed by

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the creator as well. It's an inversion as

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well. So we have to begin the work

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of doing,

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being in submission to Allah.

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You know, if we go, again, go through

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life engaging in self centered pursuits and just

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basically

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just

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just concerned about ourselves,

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then we're not serving Allah. We're not being

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of those who are in service to Allah.

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We're only serving our nafs, and our nafs

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is the again, our lower self, our desires.

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And as the law says that have you

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not seen the person who takes their own

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desires as their lord? You know? And, again,

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so we can worship anything. So we have

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to be of those who are worshiping Allah

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through the service of others. You know, what

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are some of the ways we can help?

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As Muslims, we need to be involved in

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dealing with the the the the people who

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are dealing with homelessness, people who are dealing

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with hunger. We have an inordinate amount of

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violence in this society. We have to be

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of those to

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be involved in the activism to reduce the

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violence. You know, we have domestic violence as

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well. And so we have to find our

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niche and when we where we can give

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service no matter what our career choice is.

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Our vocation is just one thing. That helps

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us get fed. That helps us get clothing.

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That helps us get housing and and and

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drink. But the the vocation is just something

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that you do. Allah has given us all

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168 hours in a week. If we're only

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working 40 hours and sleeping 30,

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then what are we doing with the rest

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of that time throughout the week? How are

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we serving Allah? All he asks is, what,

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2 and a half hours just for the

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5 prayers for the week, just for you

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know, the the he he gave us everything.

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As the last and it says in the

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Quran,

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which of your favors do you deny? He

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gave us everything. And all he asked for

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in return. We fast once a year if

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we can.

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But 2 and a half hours a week,

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if you add all the prayers up, if

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you're just doing the basic prayers, comes up

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to 2 and a half hours out of

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the 168.

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We have to start doing the work, and

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doing the work is a means of serving

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Allah. You know, because if we are so

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stuck on just serving our own vain desires,

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then shaytan

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has us. He will he will be able

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to, you know, pull you into the hellfire

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with him

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as he was given respite until the day

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of judgment.

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And, you know, he would he would take

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people who will take him, you know, for

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the most part as as their lord. So

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we have to be of those who minimize

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the self centeredness and be selfless.

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You know, again, you want to take care

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of yourself first, making sure that you're engaging

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in self care, exercising, eating right, sleeping right,

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taking care of your family. The prophet, peace

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be upon him, said that the best charity

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that we give can be the charity to

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your family. You know, you take care of

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yourself, your family, those outside your family. But

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a lot of times, we do an inversion.

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We wanna look good and be seen of

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men outside of our family unit, but yet

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our family is suffering mentally, physically, and spiritually.

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So we have to be of those who

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are engaging in

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service to others,

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you know, and, again, avoid avoiding self centeredness.

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And, again, what what

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caused shaytan to to basically

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get the punishment that he got is because

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he was so self centered. He was so

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egotistical.

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He was really the first racist. He said,

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you know,

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you know, he looked at Adam and said,

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you know, he's made out of dirt, and

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I'm made out of fire. You know? And

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so, you know, basically, I'm better than him.

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You know? So we have to not feed

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into that shaitonic type of desires because it

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blinded him, and we don't wanna be blinded

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again by our own desires. We have to

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basically

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be of those who are visionaries and be

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of those who recognize that even though

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things may look dim at times,

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Allah got this. You know? But if we

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basically worship him, then what will happen is

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he will he will basically give us all

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of the rewards that we strive for because

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he says you get what you strive for.

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If you strive for nothing, you'll get nothing.

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If you strive to make the the society

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around you better, then Allah will give you

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that. You know, if you're striving for wealth,

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then, you know, he'll give you that. But

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wealth is a test because imagine,

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again, on the day of judgment, any wealth

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that you have can be like a weight

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around your neck. You know? And so if

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we have wealth, we want to basically make

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sure it's moving throughout the society and benefiting

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the people, making sure that the wealth is

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of service to others. Again, if I've said

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anything that's inconsistent with what Allah has given

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us and the prophet, peace be upon him,

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teaches us, I take responsibility

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for that. And if I've said anything in

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which you have gained some new insight, all

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praise is due to

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Again,

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we have to be of service

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to others,

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being of service to others. There's one of

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the, quotes that I like from Muhammad Ali.

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He said that service to others

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is the rent that you pay for your

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room here on earth. Service to others

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is the rent that you pay for your

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room here on earth.

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And, again,

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when we look at that, you know, we

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see that,

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you know,

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what we give, even if we give charity,

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giving out charity is like, you know, said

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in the Quran, just like planting 1 seed

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of corn. And what's the return on that

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one seed of corn? You get, again, a

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stalk of corn, which has several ears of

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corn, and each ear has probably about a

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100 seeds.

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And and that's the return that we get,

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you know, from, you know, the, the planting

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of that one seed. So that's what that's

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the similitude of charity. Each act of charity

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that we do, we will get multiple, multiple

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blessings from that one act of charity. These

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are some of the things that we have

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to recognize that, you know, what we do

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here on earth counts. This is just, again,

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our middle womb, our middle womb. Our true

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life begins in the hereafter. But Shaitan will

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blind us to the fact that, you know,

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again, that that that that, you know, they're

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thinking that this is it. You you know,

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you have people say, well, this is it.

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There's nothing after this. But can you imagine,

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basically, just eternity, no more time? Time is

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killed.

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Death is killed. You know? So that's what

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we're looking forward to. It doesn't mean that

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we can't strive

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to to attain certain things here on earth,

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but we can't allow those things, the the

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goal of attaining things, to be our god,

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to be our object of worship. So we

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have to be of those who are recognizing

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the hereafter,

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but also,

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as as we say in our du'a, you

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want the best in this world and the

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best in the hereafter. And so we want

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to continuously

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strive, you know, for that.

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Our lord, take us not to task if

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we forget or fall into error.

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Our lord, lay not on us a burden

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such as you did lay on those who

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have gone before us. Our lord laid on

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us a burden which we do not have

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the power to bear and overlook our faults

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and forgive us and have mercy on us.

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You are our protector and grant us the

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victory over the disbelieving people.

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