Nadim Ali – Don’t Chase The Dunya

Nadim Ali
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The speakers discuss the importance of recognizing and thanking oneself for one's success and contributions to society. They share their experiences of disobeying their supervisor and paychecks, as well as their use of "has been" to prepare for difficult situations and negotiate with people who have been patient. They remind them of the importance of being the one providing for them, even if it is their immediate supervisor.
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In the Islamic terminology, we use a word

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ham to express that, and it is exclusively

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meant for Allah.

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But there are many other forms in which

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Allah praises himself.

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One of

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them

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is. Blessed. Clean.

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Blessed.

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And he says of himself,

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That blessed is the one who created

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death

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and then life.

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So that he will reveal to you. He

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already knows it, but he will show you

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which of you is better

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has a better deed.

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And then he says elsewhere,

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the

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comes around.

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That in those he plays

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a sign,

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aya,

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for those who either want to think

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or those who want to show shukkuk to

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Allah.

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Just in observing the day come and go

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and the night come and take each place,

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we should express shukr to Allah.

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But he says the importance

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of all that and everything he created is

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for our benefit.

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And then what does he want in return

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from us?

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He created

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everything

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perfectly,

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strictly balanced.

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No

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second guesses in this creation.

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And because he's,

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that means he begins everything without a template.

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Someone may create the best car possible, but

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they do not create it from vacuum.

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They created it from a template that exists.

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And even if we go and say the

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first person to make a car, to design

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the car was the first creator or the

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first inventor of the car. He did not

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invent it out of a vacuum.

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He got the idea of the car for

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all the donkeys they were riding.

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That's why the car has 4 wheels and

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the donkey has 4 wheels.

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He didn't device it out of nothing.

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If it is the aircraft, they like the

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ideas from the birds.

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And if it is the the the the

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submarine,

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they like those from the ocean animals.

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And before they came with these things, Allah

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had already asked, suhanahu wa ta'ala, had already

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told us about them in the Quran.

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He says in that

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after telling us everything that we benefit from,

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he tells us of how he gives us

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food from the earth

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and then how he brings the sun and

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the moon to give us rest and activity.

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If you wanna appreciate this, turn your day

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into night and turn your night into this,

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see how much time it will take you

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just to get sufficient rest.

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In other words, if you are a day

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person, if you decide to work at night,

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you there is no way during the day,

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it doesn't matter how many curtains you put

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around. You still feel like you are in

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the day.

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But when the love brings his night,

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you don't need any artificial devices to feel

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rested at night.

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So he goes beyond that and tells us

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that

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that he created

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just as he has described everything else, he

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created

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the,

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save us, that's Nuh,

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from the flood with the boat,

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and then created

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for him similar to those that you write.

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So no human inventor

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is an original inventor

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because it is based on the template.

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But our last invention beginning with you and

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I and everybody else

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did not come from the template.

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So what is the reason for all this?

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For our benefit?

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And for what in return?

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So we may recognize and be grateful to

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him.

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So we

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may recognize and be grateful to

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him. And what does he want? As to

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recognize him,

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I

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have no created man in gin except that

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they will worship.

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That's all he asked for.

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And because he's so merciful, he doesn't say

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worship me 247.

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Just a few hours a day.

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Very few.

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And if you can accomplish that, you have

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the rest of the day for yourself.

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So I wanted to use a story that

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I read from your brother.

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He has passed away.

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Was

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a a writer from,

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Kuwait.

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Passed away quite recently. I think his name

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was Abdullah

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He says,

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as a reminder to himself and all of

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us,

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he said, why are all these struggles?

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He says, note

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Bring the body. Where is the body?

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We wanna talk about coming for your last

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ritual with the.

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No more reference to Muhammad.

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Come.

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And then he says,

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yes, people will stop their work and come

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to visit.

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But

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it doesn't matter how much anybody

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cries for you.

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It's only gonna be for a few days,

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maybe a few weeks,

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maybe a few months.

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When it's more than 6 months,

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we

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seek for them psychological

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care.

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But these were people who care for you.

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But if they are in a state of

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mourning you for more than 6 months, we

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find them help so they can move on.

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And if Allah bless you with wealth

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and give the people you leave behind wisdom,

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they give it out in charity.

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Yes. Of course, they take their share as

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defined by Allah, but they give it out

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in charity.

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And that is the best thing that can

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happen for you, whether they give it out

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in charity

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or they share it as Allah has ordained.

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And even when they do that, you are

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still accountable for how you got it.

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Account for.

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Of a cent you would have come for.

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Yet he said from the beginning that before

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you were born,

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every flesh of food you will have eaten,

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every place you will have walked to,

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any achievement you will have made

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has already been written.

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So how can the quest for that which

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has already been given

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detract you from the obedience of the one

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who gave it?

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You sign up for a job

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And the boss is in the penthouse.

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And he says at 5 o'clock, this is

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what I want at this place. Your paycheck

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is $500

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a week.

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It doesn't matter who else is do what.

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When it's time to do what he wants,

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you can do that first. Even if it's

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your immediate supervisor because it only makes sense.

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He pays

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the bills.

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He rides a check. So his way is

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final.

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But in our case, we all agree. No

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no one amongst us doubts that Allah is

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the one who provides for us. No one

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ever doubt that.

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But sometimes, we have to disobey them

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to eat.

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Because in that instant, we forgot that he

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is the one who provides.

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So disobeying him is the most logical way

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at that time to just get in that

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piece of food.

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But how often have we watched the stories

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of people who have been patient and have

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not disobeyed

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him?

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Things turn around.

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And if they don't turn around, it is

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only preparing you for a better day.

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If you are somebody who deals with jewelry,

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the blacksmith knows that the hotter their fire

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and the longer the metal stays in it,

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the better it comes out.

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And that's the way Allah has designed us.

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Otherwise, why would the Rasulullah

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go for weeks or months without

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any food being cooked in this household?

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And that and that did not only happen

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when he was in a weaker position.

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It continue to happen

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when you have about a 10th of the

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known well under his feet.

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When you had a 10th of the known

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well under his feet,

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he still

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slept hungry.

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When we speak of wealth,

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we cannot

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overlook

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Abu Bakr Sadiq

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and Osman bin

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Osman bin Affan

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pages a wealth

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as soon as he enter Madinah.

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And he and pages a very beautifully.

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It was the only one that well, that

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had good drinking water.

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Tasty drinking water.

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And it belonged to a Jew.

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So he negotiated with this person. He thinks

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I'm not selling it. So what I would

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do, I'll send the right to use it

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to

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you.

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So I and my family, we use it

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today, and the Muslims use it the next

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day or this few days, and they use

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it the next. And he accepted the offer.

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And we all know that that wasn't the

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only offer, the only

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instant that he spent feasibility.

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You could in buying the freedom of many,

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many early

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believers,

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including Bilak Rabban.

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So this well,

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after he finally became

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very awesome.

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So there was a rich person.

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So was Abu Bakr Siddiq.

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But they also slept hungry.

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One of the commentaries when I and your

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granddad says,

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and you will be questioned about what you

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do with the benefit,

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any benefit that Allah gives you. Many of

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us say

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that

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it was

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a very small piece of food.

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One day.

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Was hungry. He couldn't find anything to eat

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and he went to the house of

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and he didn't have any to eat either

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and they both ended up at the House

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of of man and they have just a

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tiny piece of food that they shared among

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themselves,

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maybe a few days

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and after they finished eating it,

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he read this

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I think in our time, the way we

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may like it to is just that I'm

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hungry and I come to your house and

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you don't have anything and we go to

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the house and they don't have anything

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and they give me a few cakes.

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One that, given how hungry I am, I

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know I can finish it alone.

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But we have to share it among 3,

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4 of us. And after we have shared

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it,

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you say, wow. I'm not sure what you

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did with this benefit.

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That thing wasn't enough for me alone. That's

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how we will say.

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But the lesson we should learn from you

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this is that this was a rich person.

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So the brother said because of all these,

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don't chase the dunya at the expense of

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your arkula.

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Because if you are not from a good

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household,

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instead of giving what you left behind for

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charity.

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Or splitting it as a day,

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it may be the main reason

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that they fight them amongst themselves

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for the rest of the tent.

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Something you struggle for.

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You are accounting

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rendering an account of that to Allah, and

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it is a cause of fitting out amongst

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the people you left behind.

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It's very possible. It happens all the time.

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So the brother

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reminds us of all these, a very beautifully

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written advice.

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And the only reason why we could say

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his name or we had to say his

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name is because he gave us this reminder.

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Otherwise, this is just another.

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So Allah says

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in

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the positioning

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alternating

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positioning of day, night, night, day

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is a sign for those.

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What is one of the signs?

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It is our

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march

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towards

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the Africa.

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Fortunately,

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he did not give.

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There is no formula for it.

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None.

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It is not the person who is old

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that passes

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nor the one who is young nor the

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one who is sick

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or the one who is most healthy. There's

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no formula to it and there's no place

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to it

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and there is no.

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Just nothing can predict

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it. And it is as possible today

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as it was yesterday

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or the day before. So what do we

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do? It's

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just to be ready.

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And it's not asking for a whole lot.

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When you stand for Sarat, make it and

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make it sincere.

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