Mustafa Umar – Islamic History 101 Lecture#6 Life of the Prophet

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The speakers discuss the history and cultural significance of the Islamic Republic, including the struggles of economic hardship and the importance of finding evidence to support a logical possibility. They also touch on the importance of knowing one's own values and abilities in society and the importance of faith in one's actions. The speakers emphasize the need for evidence to support a logical possibility and discuss the importance of praying and worship in bringing people to the point of understanding the truth. They also mention the holy bus and its importance in bringing people to the point of understanding the truth.

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			So, we left off at marriage and family.
		
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			So,
		
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			the prophet salawasalam
		
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			had a reputation
		
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			throughout Arabia or throughout Makkah in particular of
		
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			being a very honest person. Now a woman
		
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			by the name of Khadija,
		
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			she hired him to go and trade some
		
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			of her merchandise in Syria.
		
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			So Syria is one of the main places
		
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			where the caravans would go because there's a
		
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			lot of merchandise over there. So
		
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			she
		
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			decides that she wants to go ahead and
		
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			choose him.
		
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			Why did she choose him? Because
		
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			she's a smart businesswoman,
		
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			and she says, you know what? Let me
		
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			get someone who's really, really known for his
		
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			honesty. So she hires him, and he goes
		
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			to Syria.
		
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			He trades the merchandise that, you know, she
		
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			sent him with.
		
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			And on top of that, he takes some
		
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			of that money and he buys more merchandise
		
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			and he comes back with that merchandise
		
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			and he trades it back in Makkah as
		
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			well. And he gives her all the profits.
		
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			Right? The extra profit that he didn't actually
		
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			need to give her, he gave her part
		
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			of that profit as well. Because the deal
		
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			was that he just goes to Syria and
		
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			he sells, you know, on her behalf and
		
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			that's it. The transaction is over. But he
		
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			took some of the other merchandise which was
		
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			on sale, bringing it back, selling that, and
		
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			giving her extra profit. So she's really impressed.
		
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			And she sent one of her employees
		
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			along with him. Obviously, she's not a she's
		
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			not a foolish woman.
		
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			She does not just send, you know, a
		
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			guy with all the money. So some some
		
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			person she's never tested before. So she sends
		
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			one of her employees along with him to
		
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			go and make sure that, you know, he's
		
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			handling everything.
		
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			And when that guy comes back, he starts
		
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			explaining to her. Says this man that you
		
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			hired this time, we've never seen anyone like
		
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			him. And he started describing all the details
		
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			about, you know, how the, you know, how
		
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			the prophet used to do this and he
		
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			used to do that and all of these
		
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			amazing things. And she was getting really impressed,
		
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			you know, and she was just,
		
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			wow. I didn't realize this guy is so
		
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			amazing. And she says, yes. And she hears
		
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			about all his qualities and everything.
		
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			And then she goes and she kind of
		
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			researches him, like, in the city. And she
		
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			kind of she knows about him. She's heard
		
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			things about him. But the the the intimate
		
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			stuff that, you know, she heard about, you
		
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			know, when you travel with somebody,
		
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			you get to know who they really are.
		
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			Right? When you hear something like this is
		
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			a very honest person. This is a very
		
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			nice person. It's one thing. When you go
		
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			and you meet them and you sit down
		
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			with them for a few hours, it's another
		
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			thing. When you travel with them for a
		
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			few days in the middle of the desert
		
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			when there's hardship,
		
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			maybe water is running out sometimes, maybe, you
		
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			know, the, you know it's it's not easy.
		
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			When people because traveling is a hardship especially
		
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			at that time. Even people today get annoyed
		
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			when they're traveling. Imagine traveling through the desert
		
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			at that time. When you're with somebody you
		
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			get to know what type of person they
		
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			really are. You get to know their temperament.
		
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			You get to know their behavior. When they're
		
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			involved in business,
		
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			you get to know what type of person
		
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			they really are.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So, you know, the the news comes back
		
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			to Khadija. This this is what the guy
		
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			did. This is exactly what he did. This
		
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			is his character. This is how he behaved,
		
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			and she's just really really interested. She this
		
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			is amazing. This guy is not only a
		
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			great employee to have, he would be actually
		
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			great husband to have as well. So she
		
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			proposes to marry him. K? She proposes to
		
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			marry him and
		
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			the thing is
		
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			remember this, she is
		
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			her, she is his boss. Right? She is
		
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			a wealthy woman.
		
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			He is not that wealthy. He's a he
		
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			he doesn't even have capital of his own.
		
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			He has to take other people's merchandise.
		
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			But at the same time,
		
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			he has to pay her a dower or
		
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			what they call dowry. He has to pay
		
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			her a dower because that's what the culture
		
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			is at that time. So he has to
		
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			go and approach his other family members in
		
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			order to raise some of the funds so
		
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			that he can actually accept her proposal and
		
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			get married.
		
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			Which shows you what? Which shows you that,
		
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			you know, it's it's another side lesson, you
		
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			know, for the Muslim community in this time
		
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			is that if someone doesn't have the means
		
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			to get married,
		
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			generally the family was there to support them.
		
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			But today, if you live in individualistic
		
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			society, the family says, you know what? You're
		
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			on your own. Until you graduate or until
		
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			you get a job or until you make
		
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			money, you're not getting any help from anyone
		
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			from anywhere.
		
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			It's a difficult situation.
		
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			In the tribal society at that time,
		
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			he was given help. So it's not like
		
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			even he wanted to get married, but he
		
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			has to marry a woman from a high
		
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			status, he had to bring a dowry. But
		
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			he had to get help from his uncle
		
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			and from his other family members as well
		
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			at the same time. So they were married.
		
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			Now Khadija was quite older than him.
		
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			Khadija was quite older than him, and this
		
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			is important to know. So some sources say
		
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			that she was 28. Some sources say that
		
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			she was about 40.
		
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			K? So she could have been either. It's
		
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			a big discrepancy,
		
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			but for sure she's older than him. Right?
		
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			At least by quite a few years. Maybe
		
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			there's another source that says 30 something around
		
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			there, whatever it may be. Now the thing
		
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			is this,
		
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			men in that society,
		
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			right, who are interested only in looks
		
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			and who are interested only in the sensual
		
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			desires,
		
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			what kind of women do you think they
		
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			would be wearing?
		
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			Younger women. Right? Women who are much younger
		
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			than them or women who are kinda, you
		
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			know, at their prime and all of that.
		
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			And it shows you the type of person
		
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			the fact that he's accepting
		
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			shows you the type of choice he's making.
		
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			He's making a choice that it's not just
		
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			about the woman's looks. Although she was not
		
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			a bad looking woman, she was a good
		
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			looking woman as well. But since she was
		
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			quite older, number 1. Number 2, she's been
		
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			widowed twice.
		
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			Meaning, she's had 2 husbands before. She's had
		
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			children before. Both her husbands have passed away.
		
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			Now if you're a person who's looking for
		
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			sensual pleasure and all of that like people
		
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			alleged against the prophet, does it look like
		
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			you would go and marry someone who's already
		
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			been married twice before?
		
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			No. That's generally not what people in most
		
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			societies would prefer. And he was 25 years
		
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			old at the time. So he was still,
		
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			you know, in his prime. He was still
		
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			quite young at that time, and that's when
		
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			he got married. Now there have been married
		
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			and they had 6 kids
		
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			over a period of years. They had 6
		
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			kids,
		
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			2 boys and 4 girls.
		
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			What happened to the 2 boys?
		
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			They died in infancy.
		
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			Right? They died in their infancy. Okay?
		
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			But it just so happened that they were
		
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			gonna get some more boys in the family
		
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			anyways. So there was a a man by
		
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			the name of Zaidib al Haritha.
		
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			He was,
		
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			he was a slave,
		
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			and he was how did he become a
		
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			slave? He was captured during a raid on
		
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			one city that he used to be from.
		
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			And he was captured and he was taken
		
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			and somehow he ended up in, the possession
		
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			of Khadija because someone traded him and gave
		
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			him her and somehow they got that way.
		
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			What did they do with the child? They
		
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			adopted him as their own child, as their
		
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			own son. Right? So it shows you what
		
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			type of people they are. Khadija and Muhammad,
		
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			what type of people they are, what kind
		
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			of family they are, they adopted him as
		
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			a son. Even though he was taken from
		
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			another tribe and he was sold into slavery
		
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			and all of these things. His story we
		
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			will cover in detail in the 2nd year
		
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			in, Islamic history,
		
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			3. InshaAllah live, companions of the prophet. So,
		
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			now you have another boy coming into the
		
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			family. It shows you his very important,
		
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			his his characteristics and his qualities. They could
		
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			have kept the person, made him work, do
		
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			whatever. He adopted him as a son and
		
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			he even when he adopted him he said
		
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			and he's going to inherit from me and
		
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			I'm going to, you know, he's going to
		
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			inherit whatever we whatever, you know, we pass
		
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			on to him as well. So full adoption
		
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			which was not allowed in Islam later on
		
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			but at this point in time there was
		
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			there was no revelation, there was nothing.
		
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			Another thing ended up happening. There was a
		
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			famine in Makkah. So famine means short supply
		
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			of food. Things are very difficult economic hardship.
		
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			So Abu Talib was undergoing economic difficulty.
		
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			So
		
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			they realized, like his family members,
		
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			realized that he's in need of help. So
		
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			they said you know what we want to
		
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			go and we want to help you. Why
		
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			don't you give us one of, you know,
		
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			one of the children?
		
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			You know, we can take care of them.
		
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			We'll feed them and everything because he had
		
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			a lot of kids as well and that
		
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			is difficult in the family you know to
		
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			feed another person to take care of them
		
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			you have to have someone you know because
		
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			the women were working at that time they're
		
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			outside you know you know
		
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			what do you call it milking the goats
		
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			and the sheep and all of these type
		
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			of things So you have to, you know,
		
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			take care of these things. So the prophet
		
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			salaam and Khadija,
		
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			they took Ali into their household.
		
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			And Ja'far who was another child of Abu
		
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			Talib was taken into another household. And we'll
		
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			talk about Ja'far later. It's just just know
		
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			that 2 of the children were taken away
		
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			from Abu Talib just to help him in,
		
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			you know, during his time. Why is all
		
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			of this important? It's important because they were
		
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			a happy family of 8 people despite the
		
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			fact that they had lost
		
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			2 sons.
		
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			Right? Four daughters,
		
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			2 kind of sons, 1 in the household,
		
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			1 adopted,
		
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			and husband and wife.
		
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			Right? So we're talking about a family man.
		
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			Right?
		
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			When people go and they look at, you
		
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			know, presidential candidates and when they look at,
		
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			you know, who do who should we vote
		
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			for? Who should we look into? What is
		
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			one of the things that they look at?
		
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			They look at is this a family is
		
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			this a family person? Right? Does this person
		
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			because when you're just a alone
		
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			like a loan shark or a lone ranger,
		
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			you know, one of those kind of things,
		
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			you may have certain talents and certain abilities,
		
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			but people in society want to see that,
		
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			you know what? Can you handle your family?
		
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			Can you take care of your wife? Can
		
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			you take care of your kids? How are
		
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			you with them and all of that? It's
		
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			a very important thing in that society, and
		
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			it's still a very important thing in many
		
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			societies. So they were a happy family, normal
		
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			family just living, you know, doing their thing.
		
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			Not worshiping idols, but at the same time,
		
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			just living their own life and doing their
		
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			own thing. Okay? Any questions so far? Khadija
		
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			had yes. Khadija had kids before. What exactly
		
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			happened to them? We don't exactly know. You
		
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			know, maybe the, you know, family,
		
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			perhaps the tribe took them back because they
		
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			say they belong to the the the maternal
		
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			side. Sorry. The paternal side. That happens in
		
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			in many tribal societies. Maybe the kids passed
		
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			away, died in a war. We don't know
		
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			exactly what happened. How much does it convert
		
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			to in dollars? To be honest, I don't
		
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			know. But it's it's it's enough that he
		
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			couldn't afford it, and he needed help.
		
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			It's enough that he needed help. Yeah. So
		
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			and that's equivalent. It's either this or it
		
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			was it was in a certain amount of
		
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			camels that was given this equivalency. So exactly
		
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			how much it was, but just know that
		
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			it's a pretty large amount. Not an excessively
		
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			ridiculous amount that no one can afford it,
		
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			but it was it was
		
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			pretty pretty decent amount.
		
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			Alright. Okay. So someone can say, well, he
		
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			might have married her for money, and people
		
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			have made that accusation recently. Not in the
		
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			past, but recently they've made this accusation. Now
		
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			here's the thing, if you look at the
		
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			person's character.
		
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			Right? If he was interested in money
		
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			and he has the he's he has the
		
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			reputation for being the most honest and he's
		
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			getting a lot of business because he's trading
		
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			on behalf of other people. If he was
		
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			so concerned about money, he didn't know he's
		
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			gonna get this kind of opportunity. Right? You
		
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			could have taken all the merchandise, say, you
		
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			know, I'm the most honest person and everything.
		
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			Go to Syria and never come back.
		
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			If you're he could have done that. A
		
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			lot of people a lot of people will
		
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			do that, scam artists and all of that.
		
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			If he was interested in money, he could
		
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			have done that. If he was interested in
		
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			money,
		
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			he he he could have gotten money from
		
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			different means. He could have done other things.
		
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			The thing is you don't judge a person's
		
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			reputation.
		
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			Like, there's a there's a a Christian woman.
		
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			Her name was Annie Besant. She was writing
		
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			a book
		
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			for Christian missionaries and explaining to them that,
		
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			look. Before you start attacking the prophet,
		
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			why don't you why don't you, you know,
		
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			do a little justice to the man? And
		
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			she's writing and she says, you don't judge
		
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			people's lives this way. That a person who
		
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			you start attacking his reputation for being obsessed
		
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			with, you know, sensuality and all that. When
		
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			the guy doesn't exhibit
		
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			any interest in the desires of the world,
		
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			he doesn't exhibit any interest in other women,
		
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			any loose relationships, nothing like that. You don't
		
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			judge him, then all of a sudden he
		
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			takes a second wife and you say, oh,
		
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			he must be doing it only for, you
		
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			know, sensual reasons.
		
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			You don't judge people's life like that. The
		
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			same thing applies is that if you see
		
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			somebody,
		
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			great character, no immoralities, they're always honest, they're
		
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			always just, they're helping other people, they're doing
		
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			everything great. And then all of a sudden,
		
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			they go and they do one thing, they
		
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			marry someone who happens to who happens to
		
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			be wealthy. Number 1, he didn't propose. She
		
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			proposed to him. Right? A very important thing.
		
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			He didn't even go in or seek her
		
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			out. Right? He could have gone and sought
		
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			out and say, who's the wealthiest woman in
		
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			the city? Let me go and propose to
		
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			her. He didn't do that
		
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			in any sense at all. Right? So you
		
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			don't judge people's lives. That's that's basically what
		
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			it is. It's a very simple thing. You
		
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			could take anyone
		
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			and you can say, you know what? This
		
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			this happens in society.
		
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			You there's 2 ways to interpret
		
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			people's actions. You see a person's very, very
		
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			nice,
		
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			very kind, very friendly, and everything.
		
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			And then you see that he's sitting with
		
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			some children around them and you know he's
		
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			patting the kids on the back.
		
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			Right? If somebody from afar doesn't know this
		
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			person's character,
		
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			what can they accuse this guy of doing?
		
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			Child molestation.
		
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			Why are you putting your hands on that
		
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			kid? Get he can go to jail. He
		
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			can go to jail in this community. In
		
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			this society, he could go to jail if
		
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			he put his hand the wrong way and
		
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			the kid said, no. He touched me. He
		
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			moved his hand from here. He moved it
		
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			a little bit, you know, forward.
		
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			Can go to jail. But if you know
		
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			a person's character, you don't judge people like
		
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			that because the guy could either be doing
		
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			what? He could either be touching the child
		
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			out of love. So now you're not allowed
		
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			to touch children anymore. Because if you touch
		
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			them, you're gonna be accused of something like
		
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			that. We don't make judgments that way. So
		
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			it's very very important. I'm glad you asked
		
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			this question.
		
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			People can make all sorts of accusations against
		
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			anybody.
		
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			Right? If somebody goes
		
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			and you see somebody and you help you
		
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			see somebody helping another person take their groceries
		
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			out of their car and help them in,
		
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			You can make the simple accusation and say,
		
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			you know what? He probably wants something from
		
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			her. Right? The old lady, he probably wants
		
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			something from the old lady. Maybe he's hoping
		
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			that the old lady dies and leaves him
		
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			some inheritance.
		
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			Right? Yeah. You can make a story. Right?
		
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			But is there any basis to the story?
		
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			No. Because you have to have some solid
		
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			evidence for it. So if somebody makes accusation,
		
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			oh, he did it for the money. Okay.
		
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			Okay. Take that as a hypothetical
		
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			logical possibility.
		
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			Is there any other evidence that exists at
		
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			all that that would be the reason? If
		
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			he's a person who's not interested in money,
		
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			when they got married, he continued to work
		
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			for her. He didn't retire.
		
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			Right? He didn't retire. He didn't sit back
		
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			and go on vacation. Okay? He can he
		
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			moved into her household. He didn't go and
		
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			take her money. He in Arabian society, he
		
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			could have divorced her, gotten the money, and
		
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			ran away, but he didn't do that either.
		
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			So there's no basis to support it. It's
		
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			very important that we have a knowledge about
		
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			the surrounding circumstances
		
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			so that this logical possibility
		
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			doesn't start becoming like, oh, yeah. It could
		
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			be this and it could be that and
		
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			it could be that. So it's very important
		
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			the difference between
		
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			could be
		
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			and probably is. That's the way we judge
		
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			people. That's the way we judge people. Alright?
		
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			You could do that with everything, you know.
		
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			The guy comes and shakes your hand, he
		
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			shakes your hand hard, or maybe he's attracted
		
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			to me, you know.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Problem. Right? Muslim guy comes and hugs the
		
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			guy. He's probably he's probably coming on to
		
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			me.
		
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			You could say that but he said, no.
		
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			That's just his culture. He's trying to show
		
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			his love. That's not the way it works.
		
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			Right? So so we have to be careful
		
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			about these things. Any other questions on this
		
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			slide?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Rebuilding the Kaaba. Another very important, incident happened
		
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			when he was around age of 35.
		
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			The Kaaba was damaged by flooding.
		
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			Now think about why the Kaaba would be
		
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			damaged by flooding. First of all, you're in
		
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			a desert. There's not that much rain, but
		
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			when there is rain, it can get pretty
		
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			hard.
		
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			Now Makkah is a valley.
		
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			Right? What is the definition of a valley?
		
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			Surrounded by hills. Exactly.
		
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			What happens when it rains
		
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			and the water goes down the hill and
		
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			your your happen to be here and all
		
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			the mountains are like this? The hills are
		
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			like this. The water is gonna rush down
		
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			the mountain and hit it direct impact.
		
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			Right? This what actually it happened to me
		
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			when we were in Mecca. It started flooding
		
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			one time because the water just comes down
		
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			really fast. That's the way it is because
		
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			of the valley. And at that that's before
		
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			the demolition of the hills recently.
		
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			Imagine at that time when there were even
		
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			more hills. So water is coming down, it
		
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			started to damage the Kaaba. K? It began
		
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			to damage the Kaaba. The the Kaaba, you
		
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			know, had a little bit weaker foundation. And
		
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			remember the Kaaba at that time when it
		
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			was built by prophet Ibrahim,
		
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			you know, it was smaller and less stable
		
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			and less less
		
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			sturdy. Not less sturdy, but it was smaller
		
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			than what was, you know, what existed later
		
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			on.
		
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			It was built with stones and everything, but
		
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			there was some wood that was used as
		
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			well in the Kaaba. So there was it
		
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			was damaged.
		
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			So it needed renovation. They needed to be
		
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			repaired and it needed, you know, to be
		
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			fixed up. So what happened? This is coming
		
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			back to your question about how did the
		
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			Quraysh know about immoral vice vices and immoralities
		
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			in the in the community.
		
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			They decided
		
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			that we're only going to use pure money
		
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			to rebuild the Kaaba.
		
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			So they said meaning they had a concept
		
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			of pure and impure money. What is impure
		
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			money? Impure money is money from gambling,
		
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			money from prostitution,
		
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			and money from usury, meaning interest.
		
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			They knew that there was kind of something
		
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			wrong because people were doing these kind of
		
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			things. No stolen money. None of that. They
		
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			were only gonna use clean money because this
		
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			is the Kaaba. You know? They still venerated
		
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			it. It was still a very important thing
		
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			for them.
		
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			So they proceeded
		
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			to, you know, start reconstruction
		
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			and,
		
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			what ended up happening was
		
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			all the tribes got together. Everyone's rebuilding the
		
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			Kaaba. Everything is going fine up until
		
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			there's one point where the black stone where
		
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			there is a stone in the corner of
		
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			the Kaaba needed to be put back into
		
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			its place. And this debate, you know, arose.
		
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			This dispute broke out and everyone wanted to
		
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			have the honor of placing this black stone.
		
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			Now why is the black stone so special
		
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			at this point in time? Because it's the
		
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			marker
		
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			which which indicates where you start going around
		
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			the Kaaba from.
		
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			From their perspective at this point in time,
		
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			that's the marker. That's that's where you start
		
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			from and that's where you end.
		
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			So that's
		
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			that's the only thing that's kind of distinguished
		
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			in the entire building. The entire building is
		
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			just a bunch of bricks. Right? Bunch of
		
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			stones and everything else. It's got a cover.
		
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			There's nothing else in the building that you
		
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			could fight for. So they had to fight
		
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			for something. So what did they fight for?
		
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			They said, you know what? This is the
		
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			only thing that looks kind of is important
		
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			and it's, you know, something different. Let's go
		
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			ahead and fight for the honor of this.
		
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			So they started fighting for this, and they
		
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			said, you know what? Our tribe or our
		
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			clan should have the honor of placing the
		
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			black stone. And they said, no. No. No.
		
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			It should be our clan. Everyone wanted honor.
		
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			It's about respect, and it's about honor. So
		
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			each clan started demanding this. And one clan,
		
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			they were, you know, they were really determined.
		
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			Like, other clans are kind of like, yeah.
		
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			No. No. No. We should do it. Other
		
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			clans, no. No. We should do it. One
		
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			clan just kind of we really got excited.
		
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			So no. No. No. They brought a bowl
		
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			of blood. Say, we're gonna fight you and
		
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			we we will fight till the death. We're
		
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			ready to die just to put this black
		
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			stone. That's the way they were. They were
		
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			just kind of get riled up, you know.
		
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			So they got riled up and one clan,
		
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			they bought a bowl of they brought a
		
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			bowl of blood. They dipped their hands in
		
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			it and they had another they allied with
		
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			another clan, and they dipped their hands in
		
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			it as well. They say, we're we're together.
		
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			We're both gonna do it together. We'll fight
		
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			anyone who's gonna try and take this honor
		
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			away from us. So they're ready to fight
		
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			till the death. And so war was almost
		
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			about to break out in the reconstruction of
		
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			the cow. So this is this shows you
		
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			the kind of people that they were. Right?
		
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			They were they're this is their holy building.
		
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			Right? They venerated, they respected and everything, and
		
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			now they're ready to go and have a
		
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			battle right in front there just for the
		
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			personal
		
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			selfish honor of having putting the black stone
		
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			in place. So they they mixed religion
		
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			with selfishness and with culture and with honor
		
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			and with all these things. Things which happen
		
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			in every religion and things which happen today
		
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			in many societies still. So people will mix
		
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			even what they believe to be the correct
		
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			religion
		
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			with other things that, you know, selfish desires
		
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			and interests.
		
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			So what ended up happening?
		
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			They decided on arbitration. So one of the
		
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			eldest members
		
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			of the, you know, of the Quraysh there,
		
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			he said, look.
		
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			We've had enough wars. We don't need another
		
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			battle. We don't need another war. There's no
		
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			point in shedding blood. Let's resolve this in
		
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			another
		
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			way. But every is competing. So how do
		
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			we resolve this? We need a third party.
		
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			So let's go and select. Let's go ahead
		
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			and say the next person who comes to
		
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			visit the Kaaba
		
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			will decide which one of us gets to
		
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			gets the honor. Right? So now how does
		
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			this work? So this works in in this
		
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			way.
		
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			Why would they agree on this? Because they
		
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			felt
		
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			that whoever comes to visit the Kaaba on
		
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			a regular basis
		
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			is a special person, is a person who's
		
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			who's worshiping, who's following the religion. Right? Everyone
		
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			else is at the marketplace and doing everything.
		
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			So they say, you know what? The next
		
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			guy who comes to visit, you know, he's
		
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			coming to pray. They assume for the idols.
		
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			Right? He's coming to pray at the Kaaba.
		
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			We're gonna select him. So from their mentality,
		
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			they're saying, you know, that's great. That's perfectly
		
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			fine. You know, the next guy, he's a
		
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			pious person because he's coming to the Kaaba
		
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			at this at this time of the day.
		
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			We'll go ahead and say whoever it is,
		
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			we'll we'll go ahead and allow them.
		
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			Another thing in their mind was that we'll
		
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			let this person decide. Meaning,
		
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			that that person who comes, whatever tribe he's
		
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			from or whatever clan he's from, he's obviously
		
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			gonna pick his own clan.
		
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			So basically, what it means is the next
		
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			clan member to walk in gets to decide
		
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			who it's gonna be. So what do they
		
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			see? They see the prophet coming,
		
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			and he's walking. And immediately, they start shouting
		
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			Al Amin Al Amin. The trustworthy, the trustworthy.
		
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			His nickname was Al Amin,
		
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			which means the trustworthy, the one you can
		
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			trust. The one that people put their trust
		
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			in because he's so reliable, he's so honest.
		
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			So they started shouting that because they were
		
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			so happy. Why were they so happy? Because
		
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			they were hoping and they were thinking that
		
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			he's not just gonna pick his own clan.
		
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			Because they said this guy's honest. You know?
		
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			This guy, he's gonna he's gonna come up
		
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			with something good. You know? So they waited
		
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			for him. So what did he do? He
		
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			heard the situation,
		
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			and he said bring me, a cloth or
		
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			a cloak or something like that. And he
		
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			said, he placed the stone on top of
		
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			it, and he said, every single clan is
		
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			gonna pick up one side of the sheet,
		
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			and we're all they're all gonna carry it
		
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			together to the place where it's gonna be,
		
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			and I'm gonna pick it up and put
		
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			it in place myself. And they had no
		
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			problem with that because he was selected
		
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			to place it, but he allowed all of
		
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			them to participate. So everyone got the honor
		
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			of participating.
		
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			Everyone was happy. So this shows you
		
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			that he took a policy of compromise rather
		
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			than choosing his own clan or rather than
		
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			saying that this person has the right to
		
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			do it. He was supposed to decide
		
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			which one of them gets to do it,
		
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			and he had to make a judgment call
		
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			and he did it in a way that
		
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			all of them got to do it. Showing
		
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			you the importance
		
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			or the ability, his ability to unite
		
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			people
		
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			rather than divide them. So everyone was happy.
		
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			Everyone was, you know, this is great. Everything
		
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			is going great. Everyone was happy. Now
		
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			what are some of the lessons from this
		
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			incident? It's we're trying to focus on the
		
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			life of the prophet. So one of the
		
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			lessons we have is it shows you his
		
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			status in Arabia.
		
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			How does it show his status? Right? Not
		
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			only was he known to be Al Amin
		
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			beforehand,
		
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			but even at the age of 35. So
		
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			he was he was known as the trustworthy
		
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			before his marriage, before the age of 25.
		
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			This was not just a period of,
		
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			you know, popularity.
		
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			A period of, like, he had a fan
		
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			club or something like that. This lasted up
		
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			until he was 35.
		
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			That's a very long time to be maintain
		
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			yourself in that reputation
		
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			where probably people were looking at you and
		
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			just waiting for you to mess up. When
		
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			you have a reputation that high, people are
		
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			just waiting for some kind of blemish on
		
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			your reputation so that you mess up. He
		
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			didn't mess up and he still had that
		
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			reputation among society. And number 2, it shows
		
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			you his ability to overcome tribalism. It was
		
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			not about tribe.
		
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			Why is that important again? Because again, you
		
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			know, I I've been reading a lot of
		
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			this stuff that's why I keep mentioning this.
		
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			There's a lot of stuff out there who,
		
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			you know, that people are writing
		
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			that the prophet was trying to put his
		
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			tribe back into power
		
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			when he received when he came with the
		
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			revelation of the Quran and when he came
		
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			with Islam.
		
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			And, obviously, if he was doing that, he
		
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			wouldn't be doing things like this. So it
		
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			it kinda gives you a little bit perspective
		
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			of how he really was. Now here's the
		
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			problem, though. The problem was the Kaaba was
		
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			shortened
		
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			because they ran out of clean money. So
		
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			they didn't even have enough money. So they
		
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			ran out and said, you know, we all
		
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			we got left is prostitution money. We got
		
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			this other money. They didn't even have enough
		
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			clean money to build the entire thing. So
		
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			the Kaaba was shortened. So it was more
		
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			rectangular in nature and now it became more
		
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			cubic in nature. And what did they do
		
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			instead? They built a short semi circular wall
		
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			going around because they couldn't build it all
		
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			the way to the top because they ran
		
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			out. They they didn't have supplies left. So
		
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			the wall but what they did was before
		
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			they did that, they thought everything was gonna
		
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			be fine. So they actually started building the
		
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			walls higher on 3 parts. The walls were
		
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			much much higher than before.
		
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			Double if not more than double.
		
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			They raised the door. So the door to
		
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			the Kaaba originally was on the floor
		
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			and they actually raised the door. So now
		
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			it's it's in the same way it is
		
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			today. The door is higher. Why did they
		
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			raise the door? So that they could control
		
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			who's allowed inside the Kaaba and who is
		
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			not allowed.
		
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			So they wanted they wanted some control so
		
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			they they made this modification.
		
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			Number 3, they added a roof.
		
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			Right? There was no roof in the Kaaba
		
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			initially. Why did they add a roof? Because
		
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			people used to come and put treasures and
		
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			stuff inside the Kaaba.
		
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			But if it has no roof and if
		
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			it's so short, just jump over and you
		
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			steal the treasure and you jump out. Very
		
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			easy. So they wanted to deter thieves from
		
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			going and stealing stuff inside the Kaaba and
		
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			all also for like, you know, they saw
		
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			that there was a flood. Imagine it goes
		
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			inside. Water gets trapped inside. It's a problem
		
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			for the structure itself of the Kaaba. K?
		
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			Any questions on that? So the question about
		
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			the semicircular
		
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			wall was originally part of the original Kaaba.
		
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			That's why when you're standing now, if you
		
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			go inside that area, you're technically inside the
		
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			Kaaba. That's why everyone wants to pray in
		
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			there nowadays because technically you're actually are inside
		
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			the Kaaba.
		
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			The the real dimensions of the Kaaba.
		
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			Most wars were fought between tribes, not between
		
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			clans. But this was a case where they
		
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			wanted the honor, so they were ready to,
		
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			you know, they were ready to go. And
		
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			there were some other tribes. There was not
		
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			only one tribe in Mecca as well. Was
		
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			some probably some other tribes were involved as
		
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			well here. Yes. So the question is, was
		
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			there something
		
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			else special about the black stone? So there
		
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			are some reports about the black stone being
		
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			from heaven, and there are some reports about
		
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			the black stone having sins and all of
		
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			that. The main report is that prophet Ibrahim
		
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			was looking for another stone to finish the
		
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			building, and he was not able to find
		
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			that stone. So he found this stone
		
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			specifically. So in a sense, it was sent
		
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			from it was sent by Allah
		
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			in a sense. So that's pretty much what
		
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			it is. So I know that there's a
		
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			lot of other, you know, biographies that talk
		
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			about the details of the black stone, what
		
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			it means, and since, and all of that.
		
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			But there's there's, some conflicting evidence regarding the
		
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			authenticity of that report.
		
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			Ah, okay. How does raising the door to
		
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			the Kaaba control who can come in and
		
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			out? Well, be because, you know, when the
		
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			door is open, if the door didn't have
		
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			a lock on it or the door is
		
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			open
		
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			and it's on the floor, everyone can just
		
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			kind of rush in and go in and
		
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			you can't it's very hard to control. If
		
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			the door is raised up there and you
		
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			have to kind of walk up the steps,
		
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			everyone can see that you're just kind of
		
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			walking in. So it kind of gave them
		
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			more of a sense of control. I mean,
		
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			a lock would do the same thing, but
		
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			a lock with a raised thing so that
		
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			people can't just walk in gives you a
		
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			better sense of control.
		
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			K?
		
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			Yeah. So I mean so from the time
		
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			of prophet Ismail, did the Kaaba stay until
		
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			the time of the prophet as is? There
		
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			could have been another modification as well.
		
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			It
		
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			it it it was not completely damaged and
		
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			then rebuilt. Yeah. This was not like it's
		
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			not like it's gone. It was just damaged.
		
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			They were rebuilding it, and they were making
		
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			some modifications to it. Maybe some other modifications
		
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			had taken place. I don't recall.
		
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			Throughout history afterwards, there have been more modifications.
		
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			Right? But in terms of before that, I'm
		
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			I'm not sure. I'm not sure.
		
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			So yes.
		
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			Okay. Continuing.
		
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			So now the prophet is
		
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			up until from the age of 35, we're
		
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			we're kind of around the area,
		
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			he's living a very simple life.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			There's no revolutionary
		
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			movements that he's,
		
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			you know, trying to, you know, instill in
		
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			the society. He's not trying to, you know,
		
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			get people riled up and, like, take over,
		
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			take control, or anything like that. He's not
		
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			interested in any of these things.
		
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			And he's not alone
		
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			in his worship, by the way. So he's
		
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			not the only person who's rejecting idol worship.
		
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			There are a few people.
		
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			K? Now keep in mind that the word
		
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			few
		
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			actually means
		
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			few.
		
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			Doesn't mean many. Unfortunately,
		
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			some people who are writing books today, they
		
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			think that the word few means many. So
		
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			they think they're writing actually that
		
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			if the prophet did not come
		
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			if the prophet did not come then Arabia
		
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			would have gone towards monotheism and idol worship
		
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			was already gonna go away anyways.
		
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			In fact, one of the former directors of
		
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			the CIA, he wrote a book called A
		
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			World Without Islam. Anyone read that book?
		
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			You heard about the the other book or
		
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			movie world without
		
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			what is it? Mexicans or something like that?
		
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			Latinos?
		
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			You heard of that one. Right?
		
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			Okay. So they he he wrote a book
		
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			based upon that called A World Without Islam.
		
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			And in the first chapter of the entire
		
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			argument and this is an intelligent man. I
		
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			mean, this is we're talking about CIA. We're
		
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			not talking about just a random person. But
		
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			he kind of picked up on some sources
		
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			and started arguing that no. No. No. Everyone
		
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			in Arabia was already on the way towards
		
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			monotheism. They were kind of going away from
		
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			idol worship anyways,
		
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			and that's exactly the opposite. So, actually, the
		
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			opposite was there was a few people,
		
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			a few exceptional people who actually had already
		
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			gone away from idol worship, and we're gonna
		
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			mention these few people. Okay?
		
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			Number 1, Waraka.
		
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			Waraka ibn Nawfal was one of them. He
		
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			was a Christian. He was one of the
		
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			few people in Mecca who had adopted Christianity,
		
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			and he was able to read the scriptures
		
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			as well. Meaning, he could read the the
		
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			the Jewish scriptures. He could read the Christian
		
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			scriptures. He knew Hebrew. He knew Greek.
		
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			And, obviously, he knew Arabic. He could read
		
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			and write all of these things. So Waraqa
		
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			was one of those people,
		
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			who could do it and he was known
		
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			to do that.
		
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			Zayd ibn Amr ibn Nufayl was another one,
		
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			and he was a person who,
		
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			was searching. How did he get to where
		
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			he was? He was a person who was
		
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			searching. So what did he do? He went
		
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			to Syria. He's traveling around and he says
		
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			something is wrong with my idolatry of my
		
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			people. So he goes to Syria and he
		
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			meets a rabbi.
		
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			And he asked the rabbi a number of
		
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			questions trying to figure out, you know, what
		
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			do you believe and what are your questions
		
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			and everything. The rabbi gives him some answers
		
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			and he says, you know, I can't accept
		
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			that. You know, that just that doesn't make
		
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			sense to me. So he continues searching,
		
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			and he goes and he meets a priest.
		
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			Right? And the priest, he starts asking him
		
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			similar questions. What is your religion about? What
		
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			do you guys do? All of these things.
		
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			And the priest gives him some answers as
		
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			well. And he says, you know, that's I
		
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			can't that's weird. I can't follow this religion.
		
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			This doesn't make sense to me. Right? So
		
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			he makes a statement and this statement was
		
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			remembered by some people later on. He said,
		
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			oh Allah, I declare that I follow the
		
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			religion of prophet Ibrahim.
		
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			That's what he said. He doesn't know. Right?
		
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			He knows that prophet Ibrahim was not worshiping
		
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			idols. So he's one of the people who
		
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			figured it out. Right? But he said, I
		
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			wanna follow these other things, but the way
		
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			they explain their religion, they said, this this
		
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			this can't be right. This can't be the
		
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			real religion. So something is definitely wrong. So
		
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			then while,
		
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			Zaid was at the Kaaba, he used to
		
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			announce and he used to say, none of
		
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			you follows the way of Ibrahim except me.
		
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			So he's one of the people who was
		
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			making a he was a vocal critic.
		
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			He was one of the few people who
		
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			used to speak out
		
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			and say that you guys are on the
		
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			wrong path.
		
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			The prophet didn't do this but he used
		
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			to do this to some people. He used
		
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			to speak out. And another thing that he
		
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			used to do is he used to rescue
		
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			the little girls
		
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			who are about to be buried alive.
		
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			So you have, for example,
		
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			you know, we talked about how children, how
		
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			fathers when they gave birth to a child,
		
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			a young girl, they wanted to bury that
		
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			girl alive. So what did he used to
		
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			do? He used to go and he used
		
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			to go to the father and say, look.
		
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			Don't bury her. Don't kill her. If you
		
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			want, I'll take care of her. So he
		
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			would go and he would become like this
		
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			adoption agency, and he would he would adopt
		
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			all of these different these little girls, and
		
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			he would bring them up.
		
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			Now beyond that,
		
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			he would go and he would once they
		
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			got raised up a little bit older, he
		
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			would go back to the parents and say,
		
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			now you see your daughter the one that
		
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			I saved? Your daughter is she's older now.
		
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			She's she can kind of work on her
		
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			own. She could do some work in the
		
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			house. She's not just a burden on you.
		
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			Would you like her back? If you want,
		
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			you can have her back. If you want,
		
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			I can keep her and continue to raise
		
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			her. A great guy.
		
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			A very, very important guy. And this guy
		
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			actually died
		
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			before the prophet received revelation.
		
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			But the prophet said about him that he's
		
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			gonna be in paradise.
		
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			He's gonna be in paradise. Why? Because he
		
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			figured out on his own. He was searching
		
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			for a religion. He was searching for the
		
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			truth,
		
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			but he couldn't he couldn't figure out exactly
		
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			what it was. So he started worshiping Allah
		
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			in any way in any way that he
		
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			knew. And one of the things before he
		
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			died, one of the statements that he made
		
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			before he died, he said, oh, Allah, if
		
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			only I knew how to worship you,
		
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			I would have done so.
		
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			If I knew how to worship you, I
		
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			would have worshiped you, but I don't know.
		
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			I don't know. What does it tell you?
		
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			A very important lesson
		
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			is that
		
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			I know this,
		
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			the hail or something is is bothering, but
		
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			it's it's not that
		
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			amazing to be honest. Alhamdulillah. It's happening, but
		
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			it shouldn't distract you away from the crust.
		
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			Right? This this I know I've lived in
		
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			the UK and France perhaps I'm used to
		
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			this, but don't worry it's not,
		
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			it's it's you you can concentrate Insha'Allah.
		
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			This is your test of patience, of subur,
		
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			concentration.
		
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			Insha'Allah. So,
		
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			this teaches
		
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			that
		
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			before the revelation had come, there were people
		
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			who figured out that idolatry and these these
		
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			things were wrong. Number 1. Number 2, there
		
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			were a few people who were searching for
		
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			the truth.
		
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			And the fact that they were searching and
		
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			the fact that they arrived to part of
		
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			the truth,
		
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			Allah rewarded them for that
		
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			and gave them paradise because the revelation had
		
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			not come yet. It's very interesting. And in
		
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			fact, his son became one of the first
		
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			Muslims, so we're gonna talk about that later.
		
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			We'll probably talk about that in next year's
		
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			class, Islamic history 3.
		
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			So he used to rescue little girls. At
		
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			the age of 40, the prophet salallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam, who's not a prophet yet,
		
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			he
		
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			begins to go on retreats.
		
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			Okay? He begins to go on retreats,
		
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			spiritual retreats by himself.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			This is very important in and of itself.
		
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			Okay. You're 40 years old.
		
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			You have
		
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			7 members in your family,
		
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			wife and 6 other people at home. Right?
		
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			You are from a very important
		
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			tribe.
		
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			You're from a very important clan.
		
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			Your uncle is one of the most respected
		
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			people in the entire city.
		
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			Finances are pretty good because your wife is
		
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			quite wealthy and the trading business and everything
		
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			was going good. Okay? Now imagine
		
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			what would most people do if they were
		
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			in this circumstance.
		
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			They would either get into
		
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			politics,
		
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			try to see how they could, you know,
		
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			move up the chain of popularity within the
		
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			clan and everything. He has a good reputation.
		
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			He can start running for, you know, future
		
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			chief or whatever it may be. It's very
		
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			very common things that most people would be
		
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			doing.
		
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			And instead, what does he decide to do?
		
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			He decides to leave his family for a
		
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			while and start going in the mountains on
		
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			retreats
		
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			by himself,
		
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			and he starts worshiping Allah because he believed
		
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			in Allah. And number 2,
		
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			he's kind of reflecting upon society reflecting on
		
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			things. But it's very important to understand
		
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			that he believed in Allah like all the
		
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			other Arabs but he did not
		
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			associate, you know, partners. He did not have
		
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			idol worship.
		
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			So he's not like
		
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			some people may take him to be like
		
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			a Rene Descartes, you know, philosopher going in
		
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			the mountain thinking things out. No. He's worshiping
		
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			and he's thinking at the same time. There's
		
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			a difference between the 2 of them. So
		
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			he's doing both. Okay? He's doing both.
		
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			And,
		
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			he goes, he's worshiping, and he's reflecting on
		
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			the purpose of life by himself. What ends
		
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			up happening is he, you know, he's doing
		
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			initially, he started doing this as a side
		
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			occupation. Right?
		
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			Side kind of break. I'm gonna go
		
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			take my time out there and get some
		
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			you know, figure out what's going on, worship
		
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			Allah, and come back.
		
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			This is while he's working.
		
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			Then he starts going and becomes regular and
		
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			regular. He starts doing this more and more
		
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			often,
		
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			then he leaves. His job is over now.
		
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			He stops working, and he's only focusing on
		
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			this. He goes.
		
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			He comes back, gets some more food, and
		
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			he goes for another number of days. He
		
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			comes back, gets some food, goes for another
		
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			number of days. This is seclusion that he's
		
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			in. He's in seclusion, and he's going on
		
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			these things. Another thing that's happening during this
		
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			time is now that while he's worshiping and
		
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			while he's praying and while he's reflecting,
		
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			he starts having dreams.
		
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			And these dreams that he has, they start
		
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			coming true exactly the same way that he
		
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			saw the dream.
		
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			Exactly what he sees in the dream, it
		
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			happens.
		
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			What does that mean to him at this
		
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			point in time? He doesn't know.
		
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			He doesn't know. He has no idea what
		
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			it means. He has no idea what's what's
		
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			going on, but he's searching for guidance.
		
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			This is the important thing.
		
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			He is there.
		
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			He's praying to Allah. And like Zayd, who
		
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			just died and said, oh, Allah. I don't
		
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			know how to worship you. He's doing the
		
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			exact same thing. He's asking Allah, Allah, guide
		
00:39:02 --> 00:39:04
			me. I don't know. I don't know what
		
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			to do. I don't know what to worship.
		
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			I don't know what I'm supposed to do
		
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			here. Guide me.
		
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			This is where we'll stop here, and we'll
		
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			talk about the revelation, Insha'Allah, in the next
		
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			session. Any questions
		
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			on this slide? Yeah. Alright.
		
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			Alright. So so the question is that,
		
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			there's a claim that the prophet studied with
		
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			the Christians,
		
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			right, or with some Christian scholars or something,
		
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			and that's why there's a lot of similarities
		
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			between the Quran and between the other thing.
		
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			Now they're referring to a journey
		
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			where he met a monk named Bahira when
		
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			he was 12 years old
		
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			in Syria with his uncle when he was
		
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			going on journeys with his uncle. Now if
		
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			that's true, then that means that at the
		
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			age of 12,
		
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			he mastered Christian theology,
		
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			which the church
		
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			themselves couldn't do because they were debating back
		
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			and forth about, you know, divinity of Christ
		
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			and council of Nicaea and council of this,
		
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			you know, Chalcedon and all of these councils.
		
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			And
		
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			from that period until the age of 40,
		
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			he never talked about anything.
		
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			Right? And he couldn't read and write, so
		
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			he couldn't transfer any of his thoughts anywhere.
		
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			And then all of a sudden, he comes
		
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			with all of that remembering back 28 years
		
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			prior,
		
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			coming back with all of that. The the
		
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			claim itself is extremely farfetched, number 1. Number
		
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			2, when you compare what the bible has
		
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			and you compare what the Quran has, you
		
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			find major
		
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			differences
		
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			in major things,
		
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			minor things and major things. And the fact
		
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			that there's major differences
		
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			and
		
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			the the theology is is consistent, the theologies
		
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			the stories are different, everything is different,
		
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			you find that there's no way it's you
		
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			cannot say it's a copy. Right? Because if
		
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			it's a copy, basically, most people who have
		
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			major issues with certain biblical narratives,
		
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			that's missing from the Quran. The problems and
		
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			the issues that most people have are gone.
		
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			So it would usually take, like, a professor,
		
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			someone with a PhD to kinda clean up
		
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			the entire story, to know the entire story,
		
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			to know the entire history. It's very unlikely.
		
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			Number that's that's one. And number 2,
		
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			the books of the priests and the rabbis
		
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			at that time were only in the possession
		
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			of the so if he's illiterate and he's
		
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			not in that priestly, you know, kind of,
		
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			you know, status.
		
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			He doesn't even he didn't have access to
		
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			these books. So there's a lot of different
		
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			ways to debunk this claim, but that's just
		
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			some of them. That's just some of them.
		
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			K. Any other question?
		
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			Okay. Perhaps in Mecca,
		
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			there were no bibles written in Arabic. There
		
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			is evidence that there were there were,
		
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			some scriptures of the bible in Arabic in
		
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			different parts
		
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			because the thing is remember that there was
		
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			Christianity
		
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			on the borders of the Roman Empire. So
		
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			it's very likely that some of it had
		
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			been translated into Arabic. Right? And in fact,
		
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			I forgot which date, but there is a
		
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			text which combine all four gospels together, and
		
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			it's in Arabic like language, if not Syriac
		
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			or something like that. So there was there
		
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			there was there. But in the in the
		
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			in terms of having the entire bible or
		
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			the entire gospels that other people had, not
		
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			likely to have the entire thing in Mecca
		
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			for sure. So that's definitely true. Definitely true.
		
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			Good question. So why is it that he
		
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			left his family behind and he's worshiping in
		
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			the cave? First of all, he spent how
		
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			many years with his family so far?
		
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			15 years.
		
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			Right? He's doing this at the age of,
		
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			like, 39 and 40. And in the beginning,
		
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			he's regularly going to visit them. It's not
		
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			like he's not going back and spending some
		
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			time with them. So spending time with family
		
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			is about quality time. It's not just about
		
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			quantity time. Right? So you can sit in
		
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			front of the TV with your family and
		
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			say, well, we spend all day together. That's
		
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			not quality time. Right? So he he was
		
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			a person obviously who who who spent quality
		
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			time with his family. And there were certain
		
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			times while he was gone. And when he
		
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			becomes a prophet, we're gonna find that he's
		
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			gonna be extremely busy. But it's the quality
		
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			time that he's spending with his family that
		
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			no one is complaining about it. That's the
		
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			way life was. People travel on business trips.
		
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			If he's traveling to Syria, he's not just
		
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			going for a few days and coming back.
		
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			It takes a long time to get to
		
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			Syria, long time to get to Yemen, trade
		
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			the merchandise, come back. That's the way life
		
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			was.
		
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			So so one is that he spent quality
		
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			time with his family, and 2,
		
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			families
		
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			perhaps were not so picky about, you know,
		
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			you have to be with me all the
		
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			time. You can't go for one day or
		
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			2 days or something like that.
		
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			So the question is is that Fatima was
		
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			the only daughter according to some people. No.
		
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			Fatima was the only surviving
		
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			daughter.
		
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			That's the difference.
		
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			Only surviving daughter
		
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			that outlived him.
		
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			That outlived that that out that outlived
		
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			her father.
		
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			Okay. We ask Allah to help us and
		
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			guide us to, learn the lessons from the
		
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			life of the prophet and
		
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			to be like him and to follow in
		
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			his example
		
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			and to apply what we learn.