Mustafa Khattab – Why Some Muslim Marriages Fail part 1 1
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The speaker discusses the importance of Islam's commitment to marriage, which is a strong and valid commitment. They also mention the importance of having a strong excuse or reason for divorce, as it is a common experience for mostiterals. The speaker emphasizes the need to have a bond between the husband and his wife to achieve a successful marriage, as it is crucial for healthy marriage.
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To keep the relationship
between the husband and wife, and Allah subhanahu
wa'ala calls marriage in the Quran Bihatul
Baniwa,
a very tremendous commitment,
a huge commitment.
So therefore,
Islam does not allow divorce for no reason.
You have to have a valid,
a strong excuse
or reason for divorce.
The majority of these scholars,
they say that they divorce
during a month of experience for a lady
or right after childbirth during the bleeding
and the divorce by someone who is angry
is not mad. This is the opinion of
the majority of the scholars. If someone divorces
his wife 3 times or more in one
session,
So the first reason why,
the
same meaning in another adim narrated by the
Qurayo, volitioned by the Fati. That if a
person
with or a righteous person
and
a person with good manners and good imam
hunts you for marriage, don't turn you down.
You have to marry him, otherwise, there'll be
freedom and corruption in the land.
So the prophet
says that the hadith manage righteous feeding.
The money maybe the person will lose his
money. The beauty, some people will lose their
beauty as they grow old.
Or a man marries a lady because of
her beauty,
then this marriage in some cases or many
cases is doomed to fail.
So you have to have the hidden equation.
I'm not saying that you should marry a
ugly lady
Allah in the house.
If you have no connection with Allah
if you put everything before Allah, you put
your money, your job, your car before Allah
how come that you experience that Allah will
bless you and bless your marriage? And all
of the
So the third reason
is when there is no industry between the
husband and wife,
If he is visited,
she is part of divorce.
If he is little, she is conservative. They
have nothing in common way before they got
married. So how to expect to live a
low life to have a successful marriage if
you don't have anything in common.
He prays, she doesn't pray. He fast, she
doesn't fast.
There's no no chemistry in the relationship, so
you have to have that bond. You have
to have the common ground between you and
your husband or your spouse so that you
have a successful marriage.