Mustafa Khattab – Wasiya or Barbeque Mustafa KHattab

Mustafa Khattab
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The importance of the final statement in Islamic will is emphasized, along with the need to forgive all died despite the loss of loved ones and leave children in reliable hands. The speaker also advises individuals to write down all financial information and not share it with anyone, as it is important to maintain clean and safe after funeral, burying family, and not giving money to anyone who already has been there. Additionally, the speaker emphasizes maintaining good deeds and keeping family members in check for upcoming events and graduation speech.
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I bear witness that there is none worthy

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of our worship except Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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and I bear witness that Muhammad, salallahu alayhi

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wa sallam, peace be upon you, is the

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seal of the prophets and the final messenger

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to all of humanity. Whomever Allah, Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, guides, there is none to misguide him.

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And whomever Allah

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needs to go astray, there is none to

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guide

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So today, inshallah, we'll be talking about

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a very,

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important and vital topic.

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The topic is a in the Islamic will

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and testament.

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So those of you who fall asleep in

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the footpath, please pay attention for just 10

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minutes.

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So when we talk about the last will

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and testament from a Muslim perspective or what

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we call wasiyyah in Arabic,

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So we mean the plan

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of action

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for what to be done after the person

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leaves this life in terms of the funeral,

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the debts, the money he owes or she

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owes, and so on and so forth.

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By, we mean the plan for what to

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be done after the death. We all hear

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about sudden death. Someone is alive and healthy

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and everything, and all of a sudden, the

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person dies. We heard a lot of stories

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of youth and brothers and sisters

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who work with us

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in the last 2 years. And today, they're

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not with us anymore. And the stories have

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so many. There's no need to give examples.

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We ask the most

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to forgive all of them.

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So once the person dies and he or

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she was not expecting death, nobody knows what

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to do. How to do this funeral, what

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to do with their debts and their money.

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And we don't know if they owe money

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or they owe somebody debts or anything. We

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don't know nothing.

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Because the brother or the sister, he was

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not expecting death, so he didn't make his

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maseeb.

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Also, some of us, they live here in

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this country

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by themselves.

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Their families live back home, 10000, 15,000

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miles away. So once the person dies, nobody

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knows anything about them. We don't know who

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to contact, who who to call back from,

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and where to call. Nobody knows anything.

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And also, those of us who live here,

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and they work

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anywhere or they work at Fort McMurray or

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what they call Fort McMurray.

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Okay? So they make lots of money,

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but when they die,

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who is gonna take their money? The Canadian

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government will take most of the money, and

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their families who live back home, they're not

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taking anything unless they have to to fight

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to take it to the court and fight

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to get your money.

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Also, the parents,

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they're going somewhere, they're shopping, whatever, they're driving

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their car and their kids at school and

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accidents happen. Who's gonna take care of the

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kids?

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Most likely, the government would put them for

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adoption and somebody would take them. Maybe a

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Christian family, a Hindu family. Nobody knows.

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So you have to make sure you leave

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your kids in reliable hands before you leave

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because you don't know this family. Nobody

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knows.

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But sometimes, and we hear about this all

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the time. Yeah. I mean, a lot of

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our brothers, they get married to non Muslim

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ladies, especially Christian ladies when they come to

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this country.

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So once the person dies, his wife, who

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is not Muslim, she doesn't know what to

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do. Then she might take the body to

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the church, and they cry over you, in

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the church.

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Or in some cases,

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and you probably heard of this, they cremate

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the body.

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Barbecue.

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Okay? So they burn the body to save

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some money. And this happens, and I heard

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a lot of stories. So you have to

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put in your will see what to be

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done after your death.

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So Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, says in the

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Quran in chapter 2, that Allah, Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, has ordained for you

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before your death that you make a wafin.

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If you leave something of value,

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or if

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you call it

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that the prophet says that every Muslim

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who has something of value

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should not stay for 2 days without having

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his wasi written with him.

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Something of value. So Abdullah Nohmar radhiallahu

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He said, my father came to me at

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night and he said, I will probably be

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the 1st to die tomorrow in the battle.

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And I don't love anyone in this world

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more than you except the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam. So I love the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam more than you. You're only

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second.

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I have a lot of debts, so you

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need to pay them if I die. And

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take good care of your brothers and sisters.

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So Jabez Adelai said, the first thing in

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the morning when the battle started,

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my father was the first one to die

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in the battle as he himself predicted.

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So he said, I buried him,

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and they brought another man, and they buried

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him next to my father in the same

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grave. So he said, I didn't feel good

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about my father being buried with, someone

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else, so I decided to undock or undig

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my father and bury him somewhere else. So

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when he said, when I opened the grave,

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I found my father 6 months later,

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in the same condition that I buried him.

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The whole body was the same exactly

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just like

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I buried him, like, a minute ago. It's

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the same thing.

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So the first thing to be written in

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the what

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to be done at your funeral? Who to

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wash you and who to bury you and

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who to leave the for you? And you

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should also tell people what to do

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in the Tell him to do good things

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and to give salam on your behalf

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and to forbid doing bidah or innovations or

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to do terrible cultural things that have nothing

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to do with the religion in your Janazah.

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And number 2, you put your belongings in

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terms of money,

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land, houses.

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If somebody owes you money, your bank accounts,

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you have to put all this in your

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you write down what you owe other people,

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like debts. So if you also buy some

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money, tell your family, I owe this person

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that much and I owe that person that

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much, so pay them your vows in the

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noon.

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And, also, if you haven't paid the dawah

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to your wife, make sure that your family

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pays the dawah.

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Two conditions here. Number 1, it has to

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be within 1 third of your money. And

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number 2, it should not be for someone

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who already takes a share from your inheritance.

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And the prophet

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says, there's no bequest for someone who already

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takes a share from the

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So it has to be within the 3rd,

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and again, there's no obligation to bequest

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money. It's optional if you want to get

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the reward. So in this authentic hadith, Salil

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Nabi waqalimbuqalim,

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he asked the prophet, he said, if he

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can't give all his money in charity, The

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prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, said no.

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2 thirds? No. 1 half? No.

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1 third? The prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

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says, yes. 1 third and 1 third is

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too much. So give 1 third or less.

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Then the prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, says,

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it is better

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to leave your ears, your children, and family,

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and your mother, and parents, and so on

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and so forth. It is better to leave

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them rich than to leave the poor begging

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people for money. That's Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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So you have to maintain justice when you

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do the wasiyeh. You shouldn't give some of

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your children more than others. You have to

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keep justice between them. The prophet says in

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this authentic hadith in Muslim of Abi and

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Muslim Imam Ahmad, it's an authentic hadith

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that some of you

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may live for 70 years, and they do

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righteous deeds all the time. They're good people.

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But before they die, they make a and

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they don't give everyone their rights. They give

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to some, and they withhold from others. So

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they give to some of their children, for

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example, and they prevent others. They deprive them.

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So this person within his life with an

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evil deed, then he will be punished as

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a hellfire as the prophet

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Where can I get the? It's available at

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the office here,

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over the past few weeks,

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I've taken care of the the form in

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Arabic and in English. So it's available in

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the office and also at the our website,

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rasheedmaz.ca.

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You can go. It's on the front page.

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You can download it either in Arabic and

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English.

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Fill it out. Get 2 witnesses

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and take it to a notary. You have

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to take it to a lawyer to make

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it binding legally.

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We ask

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Allah to forgive our sins and protect our

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good deeds and to give us the best

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in this life and in the life to

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come. Just Allah

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The next Khutba next week will be my

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farewell sermon because we are leaving to Egypt

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inshaAllah to finish my PhD. And in the

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next few weeks inshallah, 1 or 2 imams

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will be coming to serve this community. It

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has been an honor, so we ask Allah,

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, to forgive me anything I

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have done by mistake or forgetfulness,

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and to reward you and the administration of

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the Masjid for

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