Mustafa Khattab – Types of Hearts

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the importance of having a good heart to soften one's life and prevent suffering from evil. They suggest ways to improve one's heart, including reciting the Quran and praying for the upcoming month. The importance of knowing one's intentions and planning ahead is emphasized.
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We'll get a very special guest,

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a distinguished guest.

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And this guest comes once a year.

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And this guest is the month of Ramadan.

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The Sahaba

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used to make dua that Allah would give

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him life

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So we all ask the most

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to give us the life,

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the strength

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to live up to the month of Ramadan

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to be able to fast this month and

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to get all the blessings of that great

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month.

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So whether you want or you wish or

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not, the month of Musa'i is coming

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if it is the will of Allah

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But what about you? Are you ready

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for this month?

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If you recite the Quran or if you

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hear the Quran recited

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and the imam is reciting

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some person to talk about the hellfire

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or jannah,

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if you receive both of them the same

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or you don't care or you don't feel

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anything in your heart,

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then you have a frog in your heart.

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If you see the Janazah and the Russian

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people praying Janazah for someone who died, and

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you even go with them to the graveyard,

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and you sit to the side, you stand

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to the side joking with the guys who

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are chit chatting,

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then you have a problem in your heart.

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If you see Muslims being killed every day,

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and the Muslim blood is the cheapest on

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earth,

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And you don't feel very sympathetic for them.

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They may have a problem with your heart.

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And the easiest way, for example, is if

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you are watching a lecture with your family

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or nation about, for example, the suffering of

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the Sahaba or the death of the prophet

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and

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everybody around you is weeping and crying, and

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you are sitting there digging in your nose

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or scratching your head, you don't know what

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is going on.

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If you have all these things,

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then welcome to the club,

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the club of the stony hearted people, the

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hard hearted people.

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Or organ in the in the body that

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if it is sound in the whole body

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is sound, if it is corrupt, the whole

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body is messed up.

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And this organ is the heart.

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It's one of the smallest organs in your

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body, but it is the most important one.

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The prophet

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in another authentic hadith narrated by Abu Ghayyas

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says 3 times in this authentic hadith

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does not judge you by how handsome you

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look or how tall you are or how

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big muscles you have, but Allah

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will judge you by the purity of your

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heart and the sincerity of your actions.

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And we ask

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the

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The second type of hearts is the dead

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heart.

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Nothing is dead completely.

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Allah

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talks about some people in the Quran, and

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He says,

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then your hearts

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became so hardened

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to the point that they became as hard

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as stones or even hard.

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You are dead complete nothing.

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The first type of hearts are the people

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who have sick hearts.

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Their heart is alive, but it is sick.

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If Allah

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gives them someone to advise them a good

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company,

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then they listen.

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But if Allah

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gives them a bad company,

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a bad influence in their life, they just

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go astray. They fall off the wagon

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and so on and so forth.

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Okay.

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Is a transition,

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and this life is very short.

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Hayafi adid munyaqaziyal.

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Or as I say in Somali, nulosho wayat

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halal,

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life is very short.

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So what kind of a lie with this?

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If you are an Ramadan like an owl,

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you sleep all day and you play all

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night. And if this is your last Ramadan,

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how can you meet Allah

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with with this kind of fasting?

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And we know that through experience, the first

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couple of times, you commit a sin, you

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feel very remorseful,

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you cry,

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and you feel very regretful.

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But the 5th time, and the 7th time,

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and the 15th time, you do the same

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sin,

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you wanna put a charity in Hashem or

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give charity to the board, they tell you,

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no. Come on, man. You will go broke.

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Your kids will be homeless.

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Just go play, you know, play something. Do

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something crazy.

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Direct your attention, distract your attention from Allah

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and they guide you toward evil.

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So to revive your heart, you have to

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have a good company. That's Allah

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There are so many ways, omission and reason,

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and how to revive your heart, how to

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soften your lives.

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That first one is to be mindful of

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Allah

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to keep Allah

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in front of you,

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to speak to Allah

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all the time, as the prophet

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did.

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And Allah tells us in the Quran,

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those who believe

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and are mindful of Allah subhanahu

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wa'ala, they mention him all the time,

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and those who mention Allah subhanahu wa'ala, they

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have tranquility

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in their hearts.

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So the second thing that you can do

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to soften your heart or why your heart

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resuscitate

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your heart Islamically

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is to always think of Adil, to think

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of the brain. And all that you will

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do or say when you stand before Allah's

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punishment.

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The prophet

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tells us in the Usid e kaneer,

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I used to forbid you

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from going to the graves, visiting the graves,

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but now you can visit them because they

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will make you

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chin tears,

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and they will soften your hearts, and they

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will remind you of the next life,

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as the prophet prophet said in the 3rd

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place.

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You.

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Those people who will remind you of the

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lost hand of Allah, you forget.

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If you fall off the wagon,

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they will give you a hand,

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and they will support you, and they will

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put you back on track.

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You always question your intentions.

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Why did I do this? Why did I

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do this? What is the benefit of doing

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this? Am I doing the right thing?

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So number 4, and this is the last

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one for today, you have to judge yourself.

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Always blame yourself. Why did I do this?

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Why am I so foolish? Why did I

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wait until the month of Ramadan? I didn't

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have the right the right thing.

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You don't do the halal, but you do

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the halal. What kind of mentality is this?

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You often judge yourself. Judge your intentions. Am

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I doing this for the right reason?

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Will this bring me closer to Allah

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Will this take me to Jannah or otherwise?

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So be smart,

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be intelligent,

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plan ahead of time, and so you have

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prepare yourself for the month of Ramadan.

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