Mustafa Khattab – The Full Half Of The Glass

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the importance of appreciateation for everything received from Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala, including blessings on one's health, family, and family. They also mention a famous story about a king being chased out by his wife and his children. The speaker emphasizes the importance of not complain about things received from Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala, as they are missing from one's life.
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Hey.

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Can everyone,

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pay attention please and stay in this place?

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Good.

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InshaAllah, we're gonna continue

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the topic from yesterday.

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So,

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as I said that Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala,

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gifted each and every one of us in

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a different way.

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Some one of us,

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have a beautiful voice,

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some are blessed with money, some are blessed

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with a good health, some are blessed with

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a good family,

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good job, and so on and so forth.

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But sometimes Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will take

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something away from you. We spoke about this

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a long time ago. Now let's say for

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example, if someone

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has a

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good wife or someone has a good husband

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and a good job

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and they have a car,

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they don't have kids.

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If someone has kids, they have a good

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job,

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maybe they don't have a good health.

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If someone has a good health, they have

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kids,

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no money.

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Why?

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Because

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if Allah

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took something away from you, you will always

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be saying, You Allah, help me.

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So those who don't have a job, they

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will say, You Allah, give me a job.

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Those who don't have a good health, they

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pray for a good health.

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Those who,

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are not married, they say, You Allah, give

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me a good spouse.

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Right? So you always make dua of Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala. Now imagine

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if Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has given you

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everything.

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That you have money, 1,000,000 of dollars,

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you have a good job, you have a

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good family, a good health, a big house,

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fancy car.

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Most people when they reach this point,

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they never pray.

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They turn their back on Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala. And it is mentioned in the Quran,

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,

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So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says, When I

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shower

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my blessings on people,

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they turn their back

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to me. Like they don't pray to me

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because they don't need me. This is how

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they think.

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But when they are in a difficult time,

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they go through difficult times,

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they feel sick, they are going through surgery,

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they go to jail, someone dies in their

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family, they get laid off, they come to

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Allah crying and asking for help.

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This is the human nature.

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So what we need to do, this is

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my advice,

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if something is missing from your life,

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like you need help, then ask Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala, but also in the meantime,

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you have to appreciate whatever Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala has given you. Most of the time,

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as I said, we always compare ourselves to

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other people. Now let's say for example Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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gifted you in a different way. He gave

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you a beautiful voice or you can memorize

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quickly or something, and your friend,

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his family is blessed with a lot of

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money.

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Now you compare themselves to to to them,

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and I say, okay, why me? I don't

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have money. Everyone has money except for me.

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You compare yourself to them,

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forgetting that Allah

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blessed you in a different way. Maybe He

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gave you a good health, a good voice,

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people love you. You are gifted in a

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different way. So you should always appreciate

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whatever Allah

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has given you. As I say, look at

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the full half of the cup.

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If you look at the example of

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for example, I'm going to mention a couple

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of quick stories, and I'll let you go

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Insha'Allah.

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His story is very famous.

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One day,

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they cut off his his foot. He had

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a problem in his foot.

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He lost his foot. They had to take

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it they they had to cut it off

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or the illness

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or the sickness will spread to his body,

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the rest of his body, so they had

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to cut it off. The same

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day, his son fell off the house, the

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roof, and he died.

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And he was saying Alhamdulillah. And people said,

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okay, why are you saying Alhamdulillah?

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He said, because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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has given

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me 4 limbs, 2 arms, and 2 feet,

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he took one of them, he took one

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leg.

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He couldn't have taken all of them, he

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left 3 limbs for me, he took only

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1. And Allah

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has given me 4 children,

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he took 1, and he left 3 for

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me. So I appreciate Allah

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for what he has left for me.

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Another example, you probably heard this example before,

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they call it the 99

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rule.

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So basically, there was a king,

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and the king was chased out, he had

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a servant, he used to cook for him

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and clean and do everything.

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And the servant was happy.

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So the king asked his adviser,

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Why is my servant happy all the time?

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I'm not happy.

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So the king, the adviser said, Okay,

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Let us see if he is really happy

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or not.

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Let's try the 9 to 9 rule. So

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what happens,

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at night,

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they took a bag of money

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and they put on the bag

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100 dinars. This is what they wrote on

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the bag of gold. 100 pieces of gold,

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this is what the sign says on the

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back.

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So they put it in front of the

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house, they knocked the door, so the servant

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came out, he found the bag with the

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note that says 100 dinars.

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Here, 100 dinars. 100 dinars. 100 dinars.

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Okay.

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100.

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It's

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just

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100. Yeah. The s is missing. My bad.

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19, 19 are not 100, as the sign

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says.

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The whole night they were counting the money.

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They started the loafer several times,

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and they were not happy. Where is our

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100 golden pieces?

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Now, the servant started to,

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blame his wife for the missing dinar.

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Where did this dinar go? You must have

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dropped it somewhere. And the wife started to

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fight with her husband, I didn't drop it,

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maybe you put it in your pocket.

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And the parents started to blame the kids,

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and the kids started to blame their parents.

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And in the morning when the servant went

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to the king,

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the servant was so stressed out like he

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couldn't sleep the whole night, they were fighting.

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Over 1 dinar.

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So the Wazir said to the king,

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you see the problem? The problem is the

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whole night they were fighting over 1 dinar

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and they forgot an important thing, that they

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already have 99.

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They shouldn't fight. Allah gave them 99

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and now they are stressed out, they are

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miserable because they are missing 1. So if

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala gifted you in different

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ways and one thing is missing from your

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life, say say for example you have a

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good health, you have a good house, a

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good place,

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but you don't have a good voice. When

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you make Adnan you sound like Donald Duck.

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No?

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You shouldn't complain

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because Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala gifted you in

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many other ways, and you need to say

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So this is the lesson for today. We

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ask Allah

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to bless you and your family, and give

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give you many gifts and blessings. Ameen to

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you tomorrow.

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Thanks for coming.

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