Mustafa Khattab – Taraweeh Gems 19 Follow Ibrahim

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the use of the "meditation" concept in Islam, emphasizing the importance of following the logical approach and not practicing at the expense of one's parents. They also mention the use of "meditation" in the face of negative behavior and the need for gentle and compassionate leadership. The speaker warns against leaving negative comments on social media and encourages the use of the "meditation" concept in a spirit of peace and gentle leadership.
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Right?

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You are a believer.

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And Allah

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is giving us both of these stories to

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show us that Hidayah does not come from

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Nuh alayhi salaam

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or Nuh alayhi salaam or Ibrahim alayhi salaam

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or Muhammad

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oath. Right? Just like he's dealing other people.

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Right? Because we know Islamically,

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you're not supposed to say oath to your

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parents. Right?

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So you see the way he talks to

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his father, he's not calling you by his

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name as we mentioned last night. He's calling

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him, yeah, Abedi, oh dear father, 4 times

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in the same passage. Right?

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O father, first he's done with his logical

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approach.

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Right? And he said, how come you worship

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something that doesn't benefit you and doesn't hear

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you? If you want if you need help,

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he's gonna help you. All these idols, they

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cannot help you. This is the logical approach.

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Like, when you talk to your father and

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he doesn't pray, you tell him, dad,

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it's only 3, 4 minutes. Right?

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Smoking.

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There's no benefit in smoking. You are just

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wasting your money. You're destroying your health. This

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is the logical approach.

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Then he moves to another level of doubt.

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He says, oh, father. I received something from

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Allah that you have not received.

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And he mentioned last night that this is

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the nicest way of putting it because somebody

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else would have said,

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I'm knowledgeable.

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You are ignorant. Right? But I you would

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have said it in a different way. Right?

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But he said it in the most beautiful

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way. He said, I have received something from

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Allah that you have not received. So if

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you follow me, I will guide you.

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So I'm concerned for you.

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I don't want you to go to Jahannam

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or anything. He's saying, I I I don't

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want you even to be touched

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by the Torah. You see how much compassion

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he's giving to his father. Right? And in

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the meantime,

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If your father is not practicing, he doesn't

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pray, he's doing bad things,

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he's yelling at your mom, he's, you know

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or if your mom is doing the same

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thing, she doesn't pray,

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you know, whatever. Because as I said, sometimes

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the children are practicing, but the parents are

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taking a longer time to practice.

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And this makes it very difficult for the

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kids. Right?

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So if you talk to them, try to

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be nice with them. But in the meantime,

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ask Allah to give them Hiday because Hiday

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is not from you. So you see Lehi

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said, I'm always making God to Allah to

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get his father. Then what was the response

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of the father?

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Number 1,

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he didn't respond in a similar way. You

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see, Rahim say, dear father, oh dear father,

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oh dear father, oh dear 4 times.

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Then he said, so he didn't call him

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by his name

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or he didn't say, oh my dear son,

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he called him by his name and he

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said, how dare you reject my gods?

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And then if you don't stop talking about

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my gods, I'm going to kick you out

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of the house

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or I'm gonna stone you to death and

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get out of my face. I don't want

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you to see you for a long time.

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Right? So this is what he's saying. You

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see, you are talking to your father in

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a very nice way, calling to your father,

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Sa, please come to Jummah. Right? You are

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very nice and you are very humble with

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him. And all he said, you know what?

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Get out of my house. You are not

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my son. I'm gonna shoot you. Right? Don't

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come back to the house. This is how

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he's talking to you. You know, his father

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responded.

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And after all of this, after your your

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dad responds in such

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a terrible way, you tell him, okay. Peace,

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man. Cool. Right? This is how the alayhi

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salaam

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responded, peace be upon you. Peace.

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Right? I will keep making dua to Allah

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to guide you. So this is how the

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alayhi salaam was making dua to his father,

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and he's always seeking dua from Allah, and

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this is something we need to do. Remember,

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take the from the right time, take your

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words, be gentle and compassionate.

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Idaiah is from Allah, not from you. Right?

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The question for last

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