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Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the challenges new Muslims face, including struggles with family and eating, and the importance of acceptance in Islam. They emphasize the need for them to take Islam seriously and offer advice on how to handle these challenges. The speaker also criticizes some new Muslims who try to be understood and try to be understood. They discuss the importance of acceptance in Islam and share favorites in the Quran, but also mention difficulties in researching certain numbers.
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Your Zakah to whichever cause you prefer to

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the masjid or something else.

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Alhamdulillah we had a fundraiser last Jumah and

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Filayatul Taq on the 26th of,

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Ramadan

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will have a small fundraiser inshallah if you

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would like to contribute.

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Over the last couple of nights we have

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been talking about Tawba and Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala's forgiveness

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and tonight we'll talk a very special group.

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And this group in the Quran is the

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group of new Muslims, Reverts.

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So tonight we'll talk about new Muslims.

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There's this ayah I recited in Suratul Asha

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from Surah 25 Suratul Furqat

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where Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says

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then for sure Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala not

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only will He forgive their sins, their past

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sins before Islam but He will also change

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or transform their evil deeds into good ones.

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Which means when someone accepts Islam maybe

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they did some things before Islam they were

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not supposed to do but they didn't know.

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So once they take shahada all their past

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sins will be forgiven and they will be

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transferred into good deeds which puts them ahead

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of many of us who were born and

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raised Muslim.

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There are so many Hadith in the Prophet

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SAW Alaihi Wasallam that support this, this ayah

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in the Quran.

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For example, this Hadith in the Tabari,

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a man,

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he was

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one of the Sahaba. He came to the

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Prophet SAW Alaihi Wasallam

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and said, You Rasool Allah I did every

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terrible thing you can think of before Islam.

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Right? Everything in the book. Right? I was

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not supposed to do I did it. Right?

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Will Allah ever forgive me? So the prophet

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SAW Salam said, Did you accept Islam? He

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said, yes, I'm a Muslim. Then the prophet

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said, yes, Allah will forgive you. So he

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said, are you sure Allah will forgive me

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everything?

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Everything? So the prophet

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said, yes, Allah will forgive you.

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He left,

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and he was making takbir

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all the way until he was out of

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sight. Right? So he was so happy and

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there are so many other hadith.

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There is something interesting about the Sahaba, maybe

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you haven't noticed we read the tafasir

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and everything.

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All the Sahaba

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or almost all of them, except those of

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them who were born to Muslim parents,

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almost all the Sahaba were reverts, new Muslims.

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Right?

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All the great Sahaba, they accepted Islam starting

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with Khadija,

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Radhi Allah Anha, and the other great Sahaba

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and so on and so forth. New Muslims.

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Right?

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And Allah

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promises them this reward in the Quran because

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of where they came from. There's no one

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forcing them to become Muslim. No one is

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putting a gun to their head to accept

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Islam, right? And Islam is the fastest growing

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religion in the world.

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Why would anyone

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living a life of freedom? They do whatever

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they want, they eat whatever they want,

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they hang up with whatever they want, they

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drink whatever they want,

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they leave all of this behind their backs,

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and they take Shahada,

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and they become Muslim and they adhere

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by the guidelines or the teachings of Islam.

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Why would they why would they do that?

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Right?

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Because of their sincerity, their hlas. Right?

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I'm not saying that born and raised Muslims

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are not sincere, but most of the time

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we do it just because our parents are

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doing it. Right? You fast Ramadan, you pray,

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you go to Jummah because your parents want

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you to do that. Right?

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Because you have to, sometimes.

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But new Muslims, they do it just because

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they want to, right? And this is why

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala turns their evil deeds

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into good ones, right?

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Also,

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the challenges they face after they become Muslim

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starting with their family, right? And this is

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not the biggest challenge, I'm gonna talk about

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the biggest one at the end, right? I

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got only 2 minutes.

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So with their families,

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I've I've heard from a lot of new

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Muslims, right? Before Islam there were some of

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them, not all of them. There were drunkard,

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you know, drunkards,

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you know,

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boyfriends, girlfriends, whatever, all of these things, right?

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Drugs in some cases.

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Their parents didn't have a problem with them,

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right? But after they take shahada,

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Alhamdulillah, they are mending their ways,

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their life is clean now, Alhamdulillah, they pray,

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they're very respectful, they're very good to their

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parents, Alhamdulillah.

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Now their families have issues with them, they

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don't, you know, they have problems with them,

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right? There is a hadith from the Prophet

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Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, whenever I hear these stories

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I remember this hadith. It says, the hadith

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is questioned by some of the ulama but

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the meaning is acceptable.

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It says before the day of judgment

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common sense will be perceived as nonsense and

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nonsense would be perceived as common sense.

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And if you look around you see what

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is going on, you feel like common sense

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is not very common anymore. Right?

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So if Islam makes them a better person,

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so not what is the what's your problem?

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Ab gisad koi moshkilhe.

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Right? What is your problem? Islam makes them

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a bitter person so leave them alone. Right?

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And they have to struggle with food,

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they have to struggle all by themselves. If

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you missed,

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you know, sahur one night, your family will

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wake you up. If you're late for Jum'ah,

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they'll tell you, hey, Jum'ah.

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Right? But there, there's no support system.

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Maybe there is pork in the house, there's

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alcohol,

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no one cares about their salah, if they

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don't go to the Masjid or they don't

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go, nobody cares, nobody wake them for Sahoor

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or nothing, right? The support system is not

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there.

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We born and raised Muslims, we don't have

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issues with these things. We received Islam the

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easy way, they received it the hard way,

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right?

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So this is why Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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promises them this reward.

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Now, we got only 1 minute left.

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The biggest challenge that faces new Muslims is

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the Muslim community, not the non Muslim community,

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right?

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Because

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in some cases we are very judgmental,

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right? We're always questioning them,

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well you made a mistake in your salah

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and you know, where is your beard

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the next day when they come to the

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masjid? Oh, your hijab is not proper, what

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is wrong with you? All these things, right?

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Don't be judgmental. They just took sha'ala last

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night and you know it takes some time.

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It took the Sahaba, the great Sahaba several

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years to be the persons, the great persons

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we know of, right? It takes some time

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and they take Islam seriously but it takes

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some time. The greatest dua in North America

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and Europe are not born and raised Muslim,

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they are new Muslims.

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People like Suraj Wahaz,

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Yusuf Istas, Hamza Yusuf, Abdul Hengri, and all

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the people who are leading

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the in dawah, they are rivers, they're not

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born and raised Muslim, right?

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So they they take it seriously more than

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us because they tried both lives and they

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know that Islam is what saves them, Islam

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is what makes them a better person.

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I always have this problem

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and I've seen it in so many communities,

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when some Arabers, especially a brother, sisters who

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accept Islam no problem. But brothers in many

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cases,

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they talk to me, they want to propose

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to

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a born and raised Muslim, right? So we

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go to the family, the guy is very

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good Masjidlah, he comes to the Masjid all

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the time, he's practicing,

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very sincere,

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volunteering all the time in the Masjid, right?

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We go to the family, we propose, they

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say no because he's not from our culture,

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right? So even if the Sahaba come today,

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like Salman al Farisi or Suhaib al Rumi

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or,

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Bilal radiAllahu Anhuaha,

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they are not from my culture, right? Yeah,

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they're good but they're not from my culture,

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right?

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So why is this? In many cases that

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I've seen

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some of the brothers reverse, they're not accepted.

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Yes.

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The the moment they take shahada,

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we make takbir the whole day, we hug

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them, we give them a 1,000 kisses, when

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they propose to our daughter in marriage, we

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kick them out. Right? What is this? Right?

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In some cases, some families

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that would draw their marry their daughter to

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someone from their own culture who is a

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sucker and he doesn't pray or he doesn't

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he doesn't come to the masjid,

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you know, a failure.

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So they would marry their daughter to a

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guy like this and they wouldn't marry their

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daughter to someone who is a new Muslim

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who comes to the masjid. Very good Muslim,

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masjid. I would marry them my own sister,

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but they don't care. Right? So Alhamdulillah, if

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala accepts new Muslims, and

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he loves them.

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And he turns he forgives their sins, and

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He turns their evil deeds into good ones.

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Right?

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So why are we not as accepting and

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as understanding? Right? So we have to show

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care and we have to show acceptance to

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these brothers and sisters and we ask Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to give us the best

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in this life and the best in the

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life to come.

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The question for last night was about Surat

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Al Ahmad, Fabi'ayi Alayi Rabbikumatu kadhiban, which of

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your Lord's favors will you deny?

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The Ayah that talk about Jahannam, right?

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So how is that a favor?

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There are two ways to understand this. Number

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1,

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when Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is giving you

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the reward for doing something good or if

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He's talking to you about the creation and

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His favor is upon you, this is a

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good thing. But if He's warning you against

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Jahannam so you don't go to it, right?

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It's a good thing, it's a favor. Like

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you are driving on the highway and they

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tell you there's an accident or there's a

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fire ahead,

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it's a good thing because they are letting

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you know so you don't get in trouble.

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So it's a good thing.

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The second reason when you see that the

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troublemakers,

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the tyrants in this duniya that will be

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punished in hafra, it's a good thing, it's

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a favor from Allah to us. The people

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who have been oppressed, the people who have

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been abused, for them this is also a

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nama from

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Allah.

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So

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Allah

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considers it as a nama.

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The winner is sister Akbari Abdul Tadr.

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Akbari Abdul Tadr. Is there anyone to take

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the prize on her behalf?

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We spoke a couple of nights ago about

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the largest number in the Quran a 100,000,

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right? In the story of, Yunus alaihis salaam.

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There is number 11, then 11 brothers of

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Yusuf alaihis salaam, the 7 heavens these are

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some of the numbers in the Quran. What

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is the smallest

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the tiniest number in the Quran?

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It's a difficult question you have to look

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and research and if you know the answer

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Insha'Allah

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email me but tomorrow asa at inflamustallafutta.org.

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