Mustafa Khattab – Taraweeh Gems 13 Forgiveness

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses mistakes made by Muslim men during their Islam practice, including forgiveness and recklessly mistakes. They also mention mistakes made by their partners and their own representatives. The speaker provides examples of mistakes made by their representatives, including setting out for work and drinking by mistake. They also mention a study on the topic of fasting and the importance of avoiding mistakes.
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You have to forgive your brothers and sisters

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as well. You have to forgive your children.

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You have to forgive your wife, your husband,

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your colleagues, and so on and so forth.

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Speaking of that, I remember my brother

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told me one time that

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he invited his friends to come over for,

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for lunch after work, and when he came,

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the food was burnt. Okay? So okay.

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Big fight.

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Then he, told his wife, next time I'm

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gonna cook. Okay? So sit back and watch.

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Right? And learn.

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He told me he forgot to turn the

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oven on. So by the time his friends

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came, the the food was not even cooked.

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Right?

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You know, we make mistakes all the time.

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None of us is perfect.

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So why why do you expect other people

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to be perfect? Right? So we have to

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forgive one another.

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This beautiful Ayat is Surah in this ad.

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The floor,

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the women, it talks about forgiveness.

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Ayat number 7 17.

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Allah says,

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Qarib, Qarib, Ma'ala, Qarib, and Yamuz.

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Right? So those who come back to Allah

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Subhanahu Wa'ala after doing something wrong,

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out of ignorance ignorantly or recklessly. We'll talk

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about this in a second.

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Then

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they make Taobah soon after.

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This soon after in the ayat or that

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math say it means anytime before you die,

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which means 30 years, 50 years. As soon

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as you say, yeah, Allah forgive me, before

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you die, he he is willing to forgive

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you. Right? So we see how much patient

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is with us.

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There are at least a couple of ayaats

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in the Quran where Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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says, if he were to punish us immediately,

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if we do something wrong,

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no living people,

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no living being will will be left on

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earth.

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Everything will be destroyed if if he were

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to punish us immediately,

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every time we do something wrong. But Allah

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subhanahu wa'ala alaykaim, he gives us time to

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repent.

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So the part of the ayah that says

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that Allah subhanahu wa'ala forgives us if we

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do something wrong, ignorantly or recklessly.

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Ignorantly, like you didn't know.

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Recklessly, like you knew, but you didn't care.

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Every Muslim knows

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that setting forth who are dealing with reba

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is calm. Right?

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So they know the ruling, but they don't

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care. So this is recklessly.

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And there are those who do sins ignorantly.

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They either don't know the ruling or they

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know the ruling, but they make a mistake.

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Right?

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We do that all the time in a

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gada for example. How many times have you

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prayed the salah, rakatay salah at the end?

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To salah.

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Like you say a kiya when you are

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standing and instead of fatha,

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then you are sitting down, you do alfatha

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instead of tashaw. A lot of people do

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it. Right?

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Or you are thinking about exams, you do

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salamataktukah

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and salatul voodoo. We do it all the

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time. Right? But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala forgives.

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There are so many other mistakes that we

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do in the salaat, and we don't know

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about it. We just move on, and the

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prophet says salaatul soon and before and after

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we'll take care of that.

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So mistakes in Siams, we can give we

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can talk to all of us about mistakes

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in Siam. Right?

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The easiest one of them is you eat

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or drink by mistake. And the prophet says

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Allah will forgive you because Allah forgives us

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if we do something wrong by mistake.

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I am not sure if last year I

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mentioned the story of the sister,

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who I've been Muslim for a couple of

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years. And one time I I was visiting

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their fashion and she came to me and

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said, well, I've been fasting for 2 years,

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but I wanna see if I'm fasting the

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right way. So I said, how do you

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fast? So she said, well, I wake up

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in the morning,

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as the book says,

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and I have a good meal, then I

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continue my fasting till sunset, then falafsifthar.

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So I said, what time do you wake

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up in the morning? See, she said, well,

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10, 11, it depends. Right? So she did

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this for 2 years,

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like, 2 hours before the book, she would

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she would wake up and eat and continue

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her fast. And I told them, you have

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to do it before Falah, but she didn't

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have to make up the 2 months in

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the 2 past years because she didn't know

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the rule that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will

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forgive.

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There is a story of the

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it happened to me about 3 4 years

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ago. I was in Edmonton at the time.

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I set up I set my alarm and

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I went to the masjid as I normally

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do, so the alarm rang.

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Me and my wife, we have the, the

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sahur. I have I I eat a small

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sahur, like, small yogurt and half a oramil.

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Right? Then

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I went to the Masjid on time as

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I always do. I found only 2 cars.

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Normally, for Masjid Masjid Rashid, you get at

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least a 1000 people or 1500 people. For

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Salat al Tuma, you get at least 5,000

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people. 8, 15,000. Right? So I went

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only 2 cars, and that was, like, the

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10th, 11th day of Ramadan. I said, okay.

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Ramadan Muslims, they come all in the 1st

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few days, then no one comes for salatul

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teshit. Right? Then I went inside, only a

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couple of guys were sitting there reading Quran.

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No one is doing adhan. No one is

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doing a qaman. No one is praying. Suna,

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what is this? So I told

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not gonna mention the company, had a problem

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with their phone, and every single one in

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the masjid who is with their company came

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asking the same question. I had Sahkod,

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one hour of confession. And I told them,

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I mentioned this, if you make a mistake,

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then Allah will

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forgive you because you didn't know, and ignorance

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or mistake is, is is,

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an excuse in Islam.

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Another brother, and this is the last thing,

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from Egypt, he said, we know the tradition

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in Egypt. 5, 10 minutes before Adad, you

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sit around the table looking at the, you

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know, you can't move. Right? The soup, the

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chicken, all the food. Right? So he said

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that his son,

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Alfred. Right? He got inside the the room,

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the bedroom,

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and he imitated the voice of the Moakan

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in the nearby Hashem. Everyone started to eat.

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10 minutes later, they realized that the, the

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Moakan is making the Avan now. Right? So,

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they ate before the thing. So, in this

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case Allah forgave them. Same thing happened at

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the time of the prophet, Hassan

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went down. They ate inside Muslim and

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5, 10 minutes later the sun came up

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again. It was a cloudy day, so they

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didn't know. They thought it was sensitive and

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the prophet said continue your fast. No problem.

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That was a mistake and Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala will forgive you. We ask Allah

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to forgive us all in this one.

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Question for last night was,

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what is the largest number mentioned in the

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Quran? And the largest number is

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a 100,000

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or more

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