Mustafa Khattab – Tafsir Sura Yusuf 7 Part 3

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the prevalence of women being rape in the US and describes the physical appearance of women. They also mention a woman who was harassed by her brother-in-law and sister, and how her clothing was seen by the Muslims. The speaker also talks about a woman who was punished by her brother-in-law and her sister, and how her clothing was seen by the Muslims.
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So I think I shared

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the some numbers with you before

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that the,

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the numbers of

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women were raped in the U. S.

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It's very staggering. I don't know about the

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figures in Canada.

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So they say

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a woman is raped in the U. S.

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Every 2 minutes somewhere in the U. S.

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Every 2 minutes. Most of the time, like,

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65% of the time, it is by someone

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that the lady knows.

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Like her brother-in-law,

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her father-in-law,

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sister, someone that the person knows. Why? Because

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they sit together in the house,

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you know, masha'Allah,

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no hijab,

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shorts,

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tights, and all that stuff. So this is

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when the shaitan comes in. And you give

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if you put khamr in the equation,

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liquor and alcohol,

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Khalas.

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Yeah. Yes. Actually, I think, you know, this

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video about the lady, the hijab. Yeah. She

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was wearing a very plain hijab. Right? Yeah.

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But I met, like, yesterday my mom, she

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went my mom. Okay. She went out with

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her friend to FreshCo.

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And a Libyan guy came up to my

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mom and her friend and said, you guys

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are Muslim.

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I swear I'm

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and she swore my dad got so angry.

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He's strong. He's just appreciating the name of

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Allah. You

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You know what? Shit. I don't care, like,

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how how even even today, like, the hijab

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at Brock University, even the girls get harassed.

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Like, sometimes they send the NSA and they

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say, like, how they get harassed.

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But on the I think because the hijab

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she's wearing though, it's very plain and black.

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Sorry.

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In some cases,

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the hijab,

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is very attractive.

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On some women, they look more beautiful than

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hijab. Some of the sisters, they wear the

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hijabs, you know, with

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color. It's very attractive. You can spot them

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from a mile away. Right? Because And then

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the other girls. Yeah.

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And the jeans and the tights and the

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little hijab. Right? And the second mother.

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The alien

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Yeah.

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I wanna say my I I wanna expand

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my comment. I don't I'm not blaming the

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woman at all, but I'm saying, like, the

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society that we live in today, that's just

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how bad it's bad. Like, even if you

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cover up, even if you cover up, you

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still get her up. Sorry. The blessing from

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the mess you? Well,

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human beings

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this is the thing about human beings. Some

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people they follow, some people don't.

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And in some cases, know how matter how

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matter the sister covers up and she's decent

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stuff.

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Somebody was sick even

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in the Surah Al Ahab, the Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala is telling the wives of the

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prophet

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that maybe we'll come across someone who has

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sickness in their heart and they will and

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these are the wives of the prophet.

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Right? And they know that they are not

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allowed to marry the wives of the prophet,

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but still

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is giving them precautions

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like

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Allah is keeping away the

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causes of evil from the family of the

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prophet. So

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all of this is to protect the Muslim

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sisters

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from doing something Haram and the brothers also

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from coming close to this.

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But as I said at the beginning, this

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is the natural inclination that we as human

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beings,

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we're attracted to women

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and women are attracted to men. This is

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the I mean, this is the human nature.

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Otherwise,

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if Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala didn't put this

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thing inside us, this in instinct,

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then the human,

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the human race will be instinct

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in only 1 generation. Like, the men are

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there, the sisters are there, nobody's getting married,

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nobody cares.

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Come on. Tell us. Situation that we need

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to be misled.

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Abdullah Abu Dhabi,

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there was a fight between the Muslims and

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Arun, the Romans.

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And the Muslims were winning. Although they were

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outnumbered

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by the Romans, so the king

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wanted to know why Muslims are winning. So

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he said, if you catch a woman, if

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you take a sorry. If you take a

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Muslim captive, bring him to me. So they

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brought him Abdullah ibn Muadaffa Sahami, you are

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the Sahabi

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and some of the Muslim moon, and they

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brought him to him.

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So he said, okay, I'm gonna offer you

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money

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and, you know, you just join me or

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stay with me. He refused.

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He kept him in a room and

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he he sent him, they say in the

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hadith, the most beautiful woman, she went there

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and she, you know,

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she took off the clothes and all these

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things in the story.

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So he closed his eyes and he started

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to cry and and he said, maaadallah. The

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same thing that Yusuf alaihis salam said. Eventually,

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the lady started to knock at the door

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and said, okay. He is not a man.

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He's a stone. Like, you know, I'm walking

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in the street with my clothes on and

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the people run after me. Here I, you

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know, I'm like this, and he doesn't even

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look at me. What kind of man is

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this?

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So eventually,

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he offered

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he said, I'm gonna kill you. He said,

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well,

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Abdullah ibn Mustafa said he started to cry.

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So he said, why are you crying? He

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said, because you're going to kill me one

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time. I wanted to die, like, a 1000

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times.

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So

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eventually, he said, okay. I'm gonna let you

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go on one condition

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that you kiss my head.

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I said, Khallas, I will kiss your head,

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but you let me and all the Muslims

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go. He said, no, you only. He said,

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no. All of them. Either I go and

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all of them with me or I'm not

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leaving. I'm not leaving my friends here. So

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he kissed his head and they left when

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they went to Umar Radiallahu Anhu and he

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took all of them with him.

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So

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some of the Sahaba blamed him and said,

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how can you kiss the head of a

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Kafir?

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So Umar Radhi Allah Anhu said, he is

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a good woman. He did this to save

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the Muslims.

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No harm done. Right? Maybe he didn't kiss

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his head. He just kissed in the air.

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He didn't touch it. Whatever. It doesn't matter.

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That he said, Omar Al the land, he

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said,

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He said, it's an obligation on every Muslim

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here to kiss the head of Abdullah Al

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the Afghan. And all of them, they stood

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and they kiss this head for saving

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all the Sahaba.

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We'll continue,

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next time inshallah.

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Ayat 24.

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Any questions?

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Can we turn off the camera?

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Yeah. Nasir. Nasir, camera. Bye bye. Okay. And

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you want me I can give you the

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camera.

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Yes.

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One question.

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Okay. Whatever someone

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