Mustafa Khattab – Tafsir Sura Yusuf 6 Part 1

Mustafa Khattab
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The speakers discuss the use of "monster" as a catch phrase used by politicians in the United States. They also talk about the mentality of killing people in the dark and the importance of not letting them lie. The conversation also touches on the use of "monster" as a catch phrase used by politicians in the United States and the importance of avoiding "monster" in political situations. The transcript describes a situation where a woman was killed by a wolf and the younger one was cut in half, leading to a judge's opinion that the woman was a mother and her child was a father. The story is not very smart and the son's father is not a good person.
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So,

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now we'll continue the story of Yusuf Alaihi

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Salam.

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Last time we described how how he was,

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thrown in the in the well,

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and what his brothers

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did to him, and all these appeals and

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and tears and stuff, and they didn't,

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sympathize for him.

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So,

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before we begin, inshallah, more recap,

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last time we spoke about one of the

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techniques

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that the brothers of use of used to,

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convince him to let their brother go with

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him. And the technique was,

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offense is the best defense.

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So instead of going to him and say,

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will you please

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let our brother come with us? They said,

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what is going on? You don't trust us

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or what?

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So they attacked him. So to prove to

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them that he trusted to them, he trusted

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them. He said, okay. You can take him

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with you. So that was the technique

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they used. And we gave the example that,

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the sisters,

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our wives, they use the style all the

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time. Like, say, for example, you're going to

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a party. She will attack you. She will

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say, okay. You're going by yourself.

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I mean, you're going to talk to women

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over there. You don't trust me. You don't

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want me to go with you. So to

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prove that you still love her, that you're

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not going to do anything wrong, that you're

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not going to hang out with women in

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the party,

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you to prove this, you will say, okay,

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come with me.

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So she started with attacking you. So offense

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is the best defense.

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Also,

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we see one of the techniques that the

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brothers of use of used to convince his

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father

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to, let him go with them. Was to

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use a lot of emphasis like indeed, certainly,

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surely, truly

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will take care of him. We love him.

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Whatever.

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So the words

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truly, certainly, certainly, which are equal to wallahi.

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Like when you, when you do something wrong

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or you or when someone is lying, this

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is what they do. They say, will lie,

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will lie, will lie all the time.

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So if someone does something wrong, this is

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one of the techniques they use

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to, to free themselves from the guilt

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or to distract the tension from them themselves.

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So they will use a lot of swearing.

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Will lie will lie will lie to prove

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that they didn't do it. Okay,

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so that was one of the techniques.

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Of course, we know in Islam that the

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the only thing that you can use to

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swear is to say by Allah,

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If you say

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by the life of my father

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or by this or by that, anything,

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that you use except Allah as an oath,

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it doesn't count.

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And it's a sin because the prophet says

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that you only swear by Allah.

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You either swear by Allah or you don't

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swear at all.

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So what if you swear at something?

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Then,

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like, you broke your oath. So he said,

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for example, wallahi,

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tomorrow I'm going to give you the book.

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Right? So you made an oath, then you

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broke your oath

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intentionally.

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Okay?

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And you have the intention to break your

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oath. Right?

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So in this case, kafaratul

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Yamil.

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Okay. So what if you say, for example,

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tomorrow inshallah, I'm going to the school,

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and you don't go.

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And the other option is to say, wallahi,

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I will go to school and you don't

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go. Okay. So there's a difference between the

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2. The first one is what we call.

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Is when you say something

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and you don't swear.

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Right? Or if you say, for example,

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I went to school this morning. And you

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think you went, actually, or I put the

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money in the box or in the bag.

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Well, you're not lying because this is what

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you thought. Sometimes,

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we have these senior moments even if you're

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20 years old because your mind is busy.

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Right?

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You have work, you have family, you have

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kids, you have a thousand things going on

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in your mind. So you have, like, a

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a blender in your head.

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So you say you did something and you

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actually didn't do it. This is what we

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call in Arabic.

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The Surah till Mayeda Allah

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speaks about both.

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But when you say I will do something

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or you know for sure that you didn't

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do something and you say, well, I did

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it. And you know you know for sure

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you are lying. This is called a lie.

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So in this case,

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you have to, you have to make, like,

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a far to I mean, in this case.

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Allah says

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Allah does not hold you accountable

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for for the, unintentional,

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oath or the things that you you say

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without thinking. Right? But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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will hold you accountable for intentional

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oath that you make an oath and you

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break it intentionally,

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or you say something you swear by Allah

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and the person is lying. So in this

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case, you have to, make a far to

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yameen, and the kafar is not to fast

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for 3 days. Because Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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puts them in order in in Surah Al

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Maida. It says

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It

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says,

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If you break an oath intentionally,

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then there are some certain things you can

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do to make up for for this, false

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oath. Number 1,

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you can make up for this by feeding

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10 poor people,

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right? 10 poor people

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or clothing them

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like you buy them, jelly or I thought

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you don't buy them gloves.

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This is not called kiss. What in Arabic

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kiss? What is when you get them close

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like a garment shirt

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pants,

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something, a rope.

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This is called Kiswah in Arabic, but gloves

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or socks, this is not called Kiswah in

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Arabic. Right? You're just playing games.

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Or freeing a slave, which is not an

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option anymore.

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And if Allah says, if you're not able

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to do any one of these, then in

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this case, you can fast for 3 days.

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Right? But you start with the feeding first,

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according to this order.

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In some places like Egypt

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and Somalia,

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we use the word Wallahi

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just like you use the word,

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a

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in in Canadian English, right? You're coming tomorrow.

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A

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we use it in that sense in Araby

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when we say, well, light is not even

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an emphasis is not even an oath. We

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just say

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it in our like a catchphrase,

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right? We don't mean any oath. We don't

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mean anything, right?

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Just like the brothers

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in, Egypt,

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they swear by divorce all the time.

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If I'm not coming tomorrow, my wife is

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divorced. They say it all the time. Right?

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Of course, this does not count as divorce

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because we know the culture in the culture,

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we use it a 1000 times every day.

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So it doesn't count as divorce. Right? If

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you say, well,

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just as a catchphrase and you don't mean,

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like an oath, it doesn't count as an

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oath

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because

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the the cultural,

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practice that we do in our country. So

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people's life will be very difficult if you

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hold them accountable every time they say, will

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lie or divorce.

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I remember one of the brothers was talking

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to the imam,

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and he would say, I came.

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I

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prayed.

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He's swearing by divorce like a 1000 times.

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So the imam said, why do you say

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I swear by divorce all the time? He

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said,

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And that's why I swear by divorce. I

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never said it. Right?

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So he's saying without even thinking about what

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he's saying. So we don't * hold that

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person accountable because

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it's only a catch phrase. They don't mean

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it. Right?

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So inshallah, we'll talk tonight about I had

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from,

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Surat Yusuf. I had 16 to 20,

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and there are so many, beautiful a cam

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that we can take from these I had

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inshallah.

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First, we need someone to read the I

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had in Arbi.

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Maybe we'll get,

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loud.

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What

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time?

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What

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time? What time? What time? What time? What

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time?

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Now the English.

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Need one sister?

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Don't be shy. It's okay.

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Yeah. You did it last time. We'll get

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someone else tonight.

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Hey, sister.

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K.

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You decide. Loud.

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When you return to the father in the

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evening evening, they cried, oh, our father, you

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are increasing and left Joseph with our belonging,

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and awoke to devour him, but you will

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not believe us no matter how truthful we

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are. And they brought his

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shirt, stained with false blood. He responded, no.

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Your soul must have

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And then and there came some travelers, and

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they sent their water boy who went down

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his bucket into the well. He cried out,

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oh, what a great time. Here's a boy.

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And they took him secretly

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So,

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I had 16 and 17,

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then they returned to their father in the

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evening, weeping

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to the rest of the ayah. Why did

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they go in the evening? Because

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from what we understand, they left in the

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morning.

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They would go they take their animals to

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the field or they go away and they

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come in the evening.

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We know that,

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getting rid of Yusuf is the first thing

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they did in the morning. Why did they

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come in the evening?

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It's very interesting.

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Right?

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Exactly. Because

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do you know when you talk to someone

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and they did something wrong?

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And this is something you will notice about

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our politicians back home. They always wear sunglasses.

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So you don't see their eyes.

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This is very true. This is the fact.

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Right? Most of them, they wear sunglasses. Even

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if they are inside a building, they are

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making, like, breeze, release or they are making

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an announcement or something. They always talk and

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they have their sunglasses on. So you get

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you don't look at their eyes or you

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don't look them in the eye. So this

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is why they came late in the evening

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and they call their father outside the tent

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or the house

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and they broke the news to him so

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he doesn't see their eyes. So this is

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why they came,

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in the evening and they were weeping.

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We,

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we find something similar

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to this in another sort of sort of

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name

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when they said,

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So these 9 people, 9 thugs

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from the town of Salih alaihis salam, they

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wanted to kill him and his family by

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night, assassinate him.

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So this is what they did. They said,

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we'll go to him by night.

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We'll kill Salih and his family,

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because he was threatening them that the punishment

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was coming. So okay. We're gonna have him

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for lunch before he has us for dinner.

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This is the

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this is the what we say in Arabic.

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So that was the plan. We'll kill him

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in the dark.

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Then in the morning,

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when his, well, his guardian or his,

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closest heir will break the news, we'll tell

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him,

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well,

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we'll swear.

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We didn't see

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his family die.

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Why? Because they did it in the dark.

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And we will be truthful because we killed

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we killed them in the dark. So we

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didn't see them as they were dying.

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So we will not be lying. So that

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was the, that was the mentality.

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Right?

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That was the mindset that, yes, we killed

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them, but we didn't see their killing. They

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didn't say

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because it happened in the dark, we didn't

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see. So they were lying. They were playing

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with words

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to, you know, to free themselves from the

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guilt.

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So they came in the evening to their

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father

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crying, and this is what they call the

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crocodile tears.

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Back home,

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I'm not sure if it happens here or

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not.

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Usually,

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your wife, if they live together, even if

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they live, like, a 1000 miles away, they

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will always pick on each other. Right? Your

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wife and your mom will pick on each

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other.

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Because this is the mindset.

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Right? Your mom will say, well, I brought

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up my kid my whole life. I sacrificed

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my life to make him happy. And this

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girl, she comes and she takes him like

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this.

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Also, your wife would say, well, my husband

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is not a baby anymore. Why is she

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doing this to him? Why is she, you

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know, asking him all the time, what did

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he do, where he went, all that stuff.

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You know, he's he's a mature man now.

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She doesn't have to, to to be ordering

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him around all the time like this. And

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she doesn't have to take his money all

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the time like this. Right? Because he he

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he he has a family now. Why is

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she taking his money? So they keep picking

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on each other.

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Most of the time,

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whoever calls you at work first and cries

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over the phone,

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this must be the victim.

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We know this mentality from back home.

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The guy hit me first

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in the face

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and he went ahead and he complained before

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me crying

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because they know when you cry, when you

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make a scene,

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you the person will be supportive of you.

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Right? So whoever talks first, whoever complains first,

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this person would be the winner.

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Probably told you the story before about

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the guy and his

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wife and his mother-in-law. They were always fighting

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because,

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back home where, you know, in the village

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where I grew up,

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when someone gets married, they didn't move out.

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His wife moved in. Right? So they just

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take a room inside the house. So now

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you have, like, 4 or 5 families living

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in the same in the same house. Everyone

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has their own room.

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So what happens? There was this, building,

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like, 15 floors.

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So this guy and his mother and his

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wife, they were living together in the same

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house, like, on 14th

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floor.

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Like the condominiums in, in Toronto.

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So

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one day the wife

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was screaming. She went to the balcony and

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she was screaming and she was crying and

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she was in tears devastated.

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So the neighbors knew what was going on

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because they heard them fight every day.

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So one of the neighbors said, Okay,

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why are you crying?

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She said, Because my my,

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my mother-in-law,

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she is threatening to jump out of the

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window and kill herself.

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So her neighbor said, But you know, why

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are crying? Because this is this should be

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good news for you because once she is

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gone, you will be happy. She said, I'm

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crying because she she has been trying for

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half an hour to open the window and

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the window is not opening.

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That's why I'm crying.

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Right? My bad luck.

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So they came in the evening

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crying.

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And,

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and, of course, as I said,

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tears have nothing to do with facts.

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Right? The way people look, you don't judge

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people by the way they look or the

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their tears and stuff.

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One of the one time,

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there was a judge by the name of

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Shulai.

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Shulai was

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a big judge. He's he's very famous.

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So one time a woman came to him.

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She was at fault. She did something wrong.

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Right? She stole something. She did something, whatever,

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and she started to cry.

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So someone was there, and he said, look

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at her tears, man. She is cry she

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is she is innocent. You see her tears?

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So he said, keep your mouth shut.

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If we, judge things based on the tears,

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then look at the story of the brothers

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of Yusuf. They came at night in tears

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and crying, but they were guilty. Right? Tears

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have nothing to do with it.

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There's also the story,

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the woman were actually 2 women. There were

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shippers that would take their animals and go

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outside

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and graze and stuff.

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And the 2 ladies,

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each of them had a baby. Right? And

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they were very young, like a few months

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old. Each one of them.

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So one of the 2 babies was eaten

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by a wolf, just like in this story.

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So the one who lost her baby, the

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older one,

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she took the surviving baby and she said,

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Okay, this is my son.

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Back then, they didn't have the, DNA test,

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so they couldn't tell who, whatever.

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Right? So what they did, they went to

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the wood, Alay Salam, to make a judgment.

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Right?

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So

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what happened was that would Alay Salam judged

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in favor of the older one. Why? Because

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she was crying.

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She was making a scene. She was devastated.

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She was crying all the time. The other

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one was patient and everything. Right?

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So so they man are a salam. He

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heard the judgment. He said, you know, hold

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on. Hold on.

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I have a better judgment.

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Right? There's another similar story. If you saw

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that till the NBA

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when

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the,

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the sheep or the goats of 1 man,

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they came at night and they broke loose

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and they ate the, you know, the trees

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of someone and the hood, arias salam ruled

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in favor of the one, the farmer. He

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said, you take over the goats and the

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sheep and all this stuff.

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But, so I man Ali Salam, his son

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made another judgment. He said, no, we take

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the goats and the sheep. We give them

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to the farmer. He will take care of

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them and we will,

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take the farm and give it to the

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shepherd. He will fix it. And after 1

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year, everyone would take back whatever,

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that belonged to them. So the farmer would

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take his farm and the shepherd will take

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his animals.

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So in this case, Soleiman, alayhis salam said,

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well, it's very easy,

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to figure out who is the mother.

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He said, what we are gonna do and

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this, hadith is basically in, Bukhari and Muslims,

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so it's an authentic hadith. So Soleiman, alayhis

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salam, said,

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one of them lost her baby,

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and we don't know which one of them

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lost her baby.

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Both of them claim that this

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baby, surviving baby, belongs to both of them,

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and no one is claiming that one that

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was evared by the wolf. So what we

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will do,

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we will cut the baby in half and

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each one of them will take half the

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baby.

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So the younger one, the one who was

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not crying, she said, you know what?

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He is her son.

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Please take him, but don't kill him.

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The other one said,

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let's cut him in half. I have no

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problem.

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So he said, Soleim Alaihi Salam said, the

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baby belongs to the younger one. The one

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who didn't want to cut the baby in

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half because this is her baby. This is

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what a mother would do for her baby

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right to keep him,

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safe.

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So, as I said, they came and they

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made a scene

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just Thio,

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to escape the punishment.

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And they told the father.

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Well, we went outside

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racing and

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and this is what happened. The wolf came

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and

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and 8 use of

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and they said something interesting at the end.

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You

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will not believe us

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even if we're not lying,

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which means that the norm was that they

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lied.

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Okay,

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so they're saying, basically,

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if you didn't know about the history,

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even if you didn't warn us

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that the wolf was going to eat him

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because now we're guilty, right? Because you you

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you know, you gave us heads up, heads

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up, and we didn't listen to you. But

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now, even with all this in in our

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minds, we know that you will not believe

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us because now we should be guilty in

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your eyes even if we're telling you the

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truth. But this is what actually happened.

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But this story

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they were telling,

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yeah, cool. But I said, I'm didn't add

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up.

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Something was wrong with this story they told.

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And the only amount of tears here, the

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reason why the story didn't add up.

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Number 1,

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because your coup, are they salam knew

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by what he that his son use of

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array salam will live

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and he will become a prophet

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and him and his wife and his children

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will make Saturday to him. So if you're

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telling me now that my son died,

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this doesn't make any sense because Allah subhanahu

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ta'ala told me something else.

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Woman else that come in a lie Haditha

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who is

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more truthful in speech than Allah. So he

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has the proof that his son survived. His

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son was not killed.

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Number 1, by looking at the, facts and

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the, you know, the the the pieces that

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his son gave him, he put the pieces

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together and they didn't make any sense. The

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story didn't add up.

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So

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look at this example before we go into

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the points they gave their father.

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The example was

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you have a friend or a colleague, someone

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who goes to school with you and you

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don't trust that person.

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So you were planning to travel somewhere. You

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were going to Alberta for a week

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and you keep some gold in your in

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your house, in apartment. You're living there yourself.

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Right?

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Or maybe you're you have your family with

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you. You're traveling with your family. The house

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will be empty. So this guy you don't

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trust came to you and

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said, I want to stay in your apartment

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for a week until you come back.

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Well, you say, but

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I have some valuables in the house. Right?

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And,

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yeah, I have some valuables. I need to

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to have some privacy. He would say, you

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know what? Wallahi Wallahi Wallahi. I'm gonna keep

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your, privacy. I will not touch anything in

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the house.

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So you will tell him, well, but

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I'm afraid

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that

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you will take the gold.

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He said, don't worry. Don't worry.

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He will say, you know what?

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Actually,

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I trust you. But what happens is I'm

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afraid that someone will break in. You will

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leave the, the window open. Someone will come

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from outside

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and this person will take the gold.

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So he said, don't worry. Don't worry. So

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use the apartment for a whole week.

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Then you take the gold.

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And what do you do? Basically, you break

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the glass the window just like he told

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you. This is exactly what happened in the

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story, right? So you break the glass

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and when your friend comes,

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you cry,

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Right? And you tell him, well, someone came

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in, they broke the glass and they took

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the gold.

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Well, this story doesn't add up. Why? Because

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you told him exactly what he had told

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you, that someone will come and steal the

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gold. Right? And number 2,

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the glass

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was outside

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in the street. If someone breaks the glass

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from outside, then the glass will be inside.

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You see? So this is not very smart.

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When you broke the glass,

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you kicked it out, you know, like this

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and the glass fill in the backyard or

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next to the next to the house. So

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something is not right.

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So this is what happens in the story.

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There was this,

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story that happened I have to say this

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story before I go to the details

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they gave to the father.

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Like someone

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this guy was in the village and the

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village was full of thieves. Right? A lot

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of thieves chores in the in the village.

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So what happens?

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This guy had a fever. It was winter

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time. You got a, you know, cold

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fever, so he was very sick.

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So

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he always kept his house closed. There's no

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fresh air coming inside the house. So he

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went to the doctor. He gave him medicine

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and and whatnot. So he took the medicine

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after 2, 3 days. Nothing happened.

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So the doctor said,

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did you take the medicine? He said yes.

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So he said, but what happened? He said,

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I still have the fever. Nothing happened.

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So the doctor said, do you get fresh

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air in your house? He said no, because

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I keep all the doors, all the windows

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closed. It's cold outside.

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He said,

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you know,

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open a window a little bit so you

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will get some fresh air and inshallah, this

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will help you.

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So the guy said, but we have a

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lot of thieves in my neighborhood. This is

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a very dangerous area. He said, don't worry.

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Just open the window at night. Some fresh

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air will come in. You will wake up

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in the morning. You'll be okay. Right?

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So 2, 3 days later, he went to

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the doctor and he said,

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Alhamdulillah,

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is your,

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fever

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gone. Said Alhamdulillah, my fever is gone.

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My laptop is gone.

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My iPad is gone. Everything is gone. Alhamdulillah.

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So

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now you look at the evidence or the

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things they told their father. Number 1, he

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didn't ask them to take their brother with

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them.

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They asked him to take him. Right?

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It could have been

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much easier if you told them, okay, you

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can take your brother with you. And this

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happened accidentally.

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No. They told him we need to take

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him with us. Right? And their father was

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against

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it. Number 2,

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they shouldn't have done it the first time

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they took him. Right?

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So he told them, you're not, you know,

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I'm afraid the wolf will eat

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him. You know,

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next day, the next day, exact next day,

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right?

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Less than 24 hours, they came to him.

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The wolf ate him. They should have taken

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him the first time. Right? Nothing happened. He

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had fun because they told him he will

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come with us. He will have fun. He

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will enjoy himself and jump and run, you

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know? But the same day, the same thing

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happened. They should have let him come with

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them or go with him like 2, 3

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times in a row. Then the 4th or

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the 5th time.

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You know what happened? You see the last

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2 or 3 days. The last week he

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has been having fun. And you see, now

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it's an accident. But it was the 1st

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day they took him. So he was very

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suspicious.

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Number 23.

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The reason they took him was they told

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his father, we're going to take it because

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you are keeping him in the house all

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the time. We're going to take him

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to play with us.

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Right? But now they told their father in,

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the have 9 of staipu.

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We lift him with our stuff and we

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went to play. He was not playing.

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What is it? So the only reason they

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took him was to play.

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And the only thing they didn't let him

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do was to play.

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Right?

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So this didn't make any sense.

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So they took him to play, but they

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didn't let him play. Right?

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So it didn't make any sense to other

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father.

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