Mustafa Khattab – Ramadan Special Quran Gems 28

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The speakers discuss the importance of achieving happiness through various methods, including physical appearance, social media, and actions. They stress the importance of learning and choosing one's own path to achieve happiness, rather than trying to achieve others. The speakers also emphasize the importance of worshiping Allah and being a servant of him, avoiding protest, and accepting the Qadr of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. They end with a discussion of the meaning of "The length of the year" and a mention of a person named brother Muhammad Kookah.

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			And we said that, different people, they try
		
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			different things to be happy in this dunya.
		
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			So Muslims would like to be happy in
		
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			dunya al akhirah, and then Muslims, they also
		
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			try to be happy. People do bad things,
		
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			good things, haram things to to become happy.
		
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			We spoke about money last night, and the
		
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			night before, and we said that money is
		
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			not everything. Yes, alhamdulillah, it's good to have
		
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			money, to live a comfortable life, but this
		
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			is not the end. It is just money
		
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			is just a means to take you to
		
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			akhirah, but money is not an end in
		
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			itself.
		
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			Some people do crazy stuff to achieve happiness.
		
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			Sometimes when you walk around, you see people
		
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			with pink hair, blue hair, green hair,
		
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			it's up to them. Everyone is free to
		
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			do whatever they want, but this is their
		
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			way way of trying to achieve happiness.
		
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			The way people dress,
		
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			and, some people do haram stuff to achieve
		
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			happiness, some people drink,
		
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			some people chase women tattoos, and so on
		
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			and so forth. There are studies that show
		
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			that there are some people
		
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			who post on Facebook
		
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			an average of 35 pictures every day. They
		
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			take selfies like,
		
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			take selfies. They go to the washroom, they
		
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			take off their shirt, and they take pictures,
		
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			and they post them on Facebook.
		
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			Because it gives them gratification.
		
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			So out of the 7,000,000,000 people that Allah
		
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			created in this world, and out of the
		
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			billions of species, and the birds, and the
		
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			fish, the only thing that you choose to
		
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			take a picture of every day is yourself.
		
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			35 times. Okay? But again, this is their
		
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			way of achieving happiness.
		
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			I mentioned in the Khutba one time that
		
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			in 2010,
		
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			there's a guy in South Korea.
		
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			He got married to his pillow.
		
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			Well, I officially,
		
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			he got married to his pillow.
		
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			Last night, or actually, last night I saw
		
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			it on Facebook, a guy got married, I
		
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			don't know where he was, he got married
		
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			officially to his cell phone.
		
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			Seriously, official, they got an official document. So
		
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			So the guy who got married to his
		
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			fellow, the whole week I was blown away,
		
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			like,
		
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			why would anyone marry their fellow?
		
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			Then maybe I said, because fellows don't talk.
		
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			Maybe fellows, they don't ask for your salary
		
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			every month.
		
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			Something like this. But again, this is their
		
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			way of achieving happiness, and they think it
		
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			makes them happy. You know, people try to
		
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			achieve happiness in different ways. Some people achieve
		
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			happiness
		
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			by abusing other people.
		
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			Some of you have experienced this before, and
		
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			this is why I see all of you
		
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			in front of me here. Right?
		
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			Some of our rulers back home, they abuse
		
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			authority,
		
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			whatever.
		
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			And the good thing they have done is
		
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			they brought all of you together here so
		
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			we can see these beautiful faces and the
		
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			good people, alhamdulillah. So we're grateful for that.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And the happiest day for some people,
		
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			is when they see someone suffer. Right? They
		
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			abuse authority, they abuse money, and so on
		
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			and so forth. It gives them gratification, they
		
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			feel happy when they see people suffer.
		
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			So we ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala not
		
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			to make us among these people.
		
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			How do we achieve happiness through the Quran
		
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			and the Sunnah of the Prophet
		
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			Number 1,
		
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			you have to understand why you are here
		
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			in this dunya. This is the main,
		
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			way to achieve happiness. To is to know
		
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			why you are here. Why did Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala put you here? Right? Our purpose
		
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			in life, our goal and mission in life
		
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			is to worship Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to
		
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			do the best thing as Khalifa for Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala on earth. This is our
		
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			job. Your work, your money, your job, everything
		
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			else comes next, but your main job is
		
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			to be a servant of Allah.
		
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			Right? This is your main job.
		
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			You should always think, why did Allah
		
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			choose us to be the khalifa,
		
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			to be His servants, and He gave us
		
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			the honor of being above the rest of
		
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			His creation?
		
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			Because quite frankly if you watch National Geographic
		
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			and you, you know,
		
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			we know that when we look at the
		
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			Kingdom of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, the creation,
		
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			at least the visible word that that we
		
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			see, if you take a dive in the
		
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			ocean, you see the fish, you see the
		
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			whales,
		
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			if you see the peacocks, the parrots,
		
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			see the elephants and the lions,
		
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			we're not the strongest,
		
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			we're not the most beautiful,
		
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			we're not the fastest,
		
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			we don't have the biggest fangs,
		
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			we're the most powerful, we're nothing, man. Allah
		
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			says it in the Quran,
		
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			We are created weak,
		
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			right?
		
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			But how come that we made it to
		
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			the top?
		
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			Right? Because Allah
		
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			gave us free
		
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			choice. These things that I mentioned, the malaika,
		
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			the the elephants,
		
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			the sea world, the animal kingdom, the fish,
		
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			the birds, they don't have free choice. They
		
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			worship Allah by default. Right? And this is
		
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			why
		
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			you never see a bird, or a fish,
		
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			or any creation that made an idol for
		
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			one of their own, and they worship it.
		
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			Never happened.
		
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			Right? They don't worship each other.
		
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			Right? They worship
		
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			But in our case, we have free choice,
		
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			we can worship anything. We worship money, we
		
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			worship is Shawat, alaytamal tahhva ilaha, ahuawaat, those
		
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			who worship their desire. We worship other human
		
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			beings, 'Isa, bhuda, the example of so many.
		
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			We worship animals.
		
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			There are so many examples, I don't have
		
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			to get into details. Some of us worship
		
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			stones, some worship mice, some worship the moon
		
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			and the stars, and and and so on
		
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			and so forth. Some even worship shaitan. There's
		
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			the Church of the Devil in the US,
		
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			and they are in the tens of 1,000.
		
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			Some people worship shaitan.
		
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			Right? We have free choice. So if we
		
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			choose to worship Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, be
		
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			true servants of Allah, who are better than
		
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			anything else, some of the Lamad say even
		
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			better than malaika, because we have free choice,
		
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			they don't.
		
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			And if we disobey Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,
		
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			we worship dunya, we worship the dala, we
		
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			worship the stones, everything else, we are worse
		
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			than anything else.
		
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			So your job is to be a true
		
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			servant of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Allah comes
		
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			first.
		
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			Don't put your culture before Allah.
		
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			Don't put money before Allah. Don't put politics
		
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			before Allah. And this is why people suffer
		
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			in this world, because they put everything
		
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			before Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			The second reason to achieve happiness in this
		
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			dunya
		
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			is to be happy with the Qadr of
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Tell David Qadr.
		
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			The Prophet
		
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			says in the Hadith, means, Sa'adat ibn Adam
		
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			Radahu Bi Maqasam Allah. Wamin shata'wat ibn Adam
		
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			Sakhatoo Bi Maqaddala. The Prophet
		
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			says
		
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			that your happiness in dunya is to accept
		
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			the Qadr of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Don't
		
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			protest.
		
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			Don't question Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And your misery in this dunya is in,
		
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			questioning the Qadr of Allah. Why me? Like,
		
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			always. Why me?
		
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			Like your son is 15, 17 years old,
		
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			and he died. Qadr Allah. So don't question
		
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			Allah, and you say, Well, my neighbor is
		
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			95.
		
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			Why my son?
		
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			You know, my son was healthy, my neighbor
		
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			is always going to the doctor. He's alive,
		
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			he's playing around.
		
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			My son was healthy, he died, what is
		
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			this? Laay Usaru amayafagwawum
		
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			yisaru. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is not to
		
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			be questioned about what he does, but we
		
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			should be held accountable and questioned.
		
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			You should be satisfied with the Qadr of
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. If you know the
		
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			hikmah, the wisdom, why Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			chose you for this test, you should be
		
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			grateful.
		
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			No one
		
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			suffered more than the Prophet salAllahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam. I'll give you one example, there are
		
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			so many ways he suffered.
		
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			He had 7 children,
		
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			he lost 6 of them in his life,
		
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			and the Sahaba still, although he lost 6
		
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			of his 7 children, only Fatima Adilva'aina outlived
		
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			him. The Sahaba said, Wallahi
		
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			The Sahaba said, Wallahi, we have never seen
		
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			anyone who is more smiling than the Prophet
		
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			SAW. And this is one flavor of the
		
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			suffering that he had in his life. Arwad
		
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			Ab Nasubaira
		
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			He had 4 boys.
		
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			One day, they could you know, if he
		
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			had a problem in his leg, they cut
		
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			off his leg, and he was saying Alhamdulillah.
		
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			No problem.
		
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			The same day, one of his 4 children
		
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			fell off the roof and died.
		
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			He was saying Alhamdulillah, so people said, okay,
		
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			what's wrong with you? You lost your leg?
		
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			You're saying Alhamdulillah, you lost your son, you're
		
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			saying Alhamdulillah, what's wrong with you? He said
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala has given me 4
		
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			limbs, 2 legs,
		
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			2 hands, he just took one.
		
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			He could have taken all of them. And
		
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			Allah
		
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			gave me 4 boys, He only took 1,
		
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			He could have taken all of them. And
		
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			I'm not only looking at what Allah has
		
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			taken,
		
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			I'm looking at what He has left for
		
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			me, and this is from the grace of
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. So you should always
		
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			be grateful. You shouldn't question the Father of
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. On the other side,
		
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			some people when they suffer injustice,
		
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			like someone has done you something wrong, they
		
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			took your house or they stole your money,
		
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			you don't say this is Qadrullahi.
		
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			No, Qadrullahi is for you to fight back
		
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			and take your money. Right? Don't give away
		
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			your rights because you think it's Qadrullahi.
		
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			Like if you go tonight, 3 in the
		
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			morning, there's a burglary in the house,
		
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			and your wife says, Habas,
		
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			there's a burglary, he's stealing my gold. He
		
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			says, Don't worry, the Imam said, Qadr Allah.
		
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			No, no, no, no.
		
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			Allama Atbal, if you know Allama Atbal, India
		
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			Pakistan, right? One of the greatest poets of
		
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			the modern,
		
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			time.
		
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			He said the weak
		
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			will blame the Qadarullah. They will say, oh
		
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			it's Qadarullah, we're not gonna do anything.
		
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			But the strong, Al Qabi,
		
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			they think they themselves are Qadarullah.
		
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			So they do what is right, they take
		
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			their rights back. They're not weak, they're not
		
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			afraid, they stand up for what is right.
		
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			We'll continue tomorrow inshaAllah, we want to delay
		
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			you. We ask Allah
		
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			to make us, accepting of his Qadr and
		
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			to give us sa'aal in dunya al Adra.
		
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			The question from last night, what is the
		
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			longest ayah in the Quran? And the winner
		
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			is brother Muhammad Al Khuda.
		
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			It's Surah Baqarah, ayah 282.
		
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			Surah Baqarah, ayah 2 dayin. Where's brother Muhammad
		
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			Kookah?
		
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			Allah, so I'm gonna take it for myself.
		
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			The question for tonight is difficult. Surah Rahman,
		
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			Ayah 29th.
		
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			Surah Aman, Surah 55 Ayah 29th. What is
		
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			the meaning of that Ayah? Kulayamin Huwafi sha'atin.
		
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			Why sha'inullah?
		
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			Right? If you know the meaning, but you
		
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			have to search and read well to get
		
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			the right answer. If you know the answer,
		
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			you may leave before tomorrow Asa at Imam
		
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			Musa at the Natoya Center. That's a Jazakkum
		
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			Lafe.