Mustafa Khattab – Ramadan Special Quran Gems 25

Mustafa Khattab
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The concept of Sahar is discussed, as people try to achieve happiness through actions like leaving their country or getting a divorce. Personal issues can lead to stress and sadness, which can lead to sadness and negative impact on personal and cultural fronts. The importance of finding one's own happiness and finding one's own happiness in life is emphasized, along with the need for people to find their own happiness and their own happiness in life. The speaker also touches on the negative impact of drugs and celebrities on people's happiness, and the difficulty of life for people with a difficult life. The Prophet's advice to not give money to anyone experiencing a difficult life is also discussed.
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So before we begin, inshaAllah, a reminder that

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according to the majority of the Alimat,

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there's no minimum time for Atikaf. So if

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you make the niyyah now until you leave

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the masjid, this will be your time for

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Atikaf tonight, InshaAllah.

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Today inshallah we'll talk about

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a relatively different topic, which is the concept

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of sa'adah. I know I gave a khutbah

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before here in this masjid a long time

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ago,

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but today inshallah we'll cover a little bit

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more aspects of this concept of Sahar.

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A lot of people always have this question,

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how can I achieve happiness in this dunya?

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This is a question on everyone's mind. Muslims

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and non Muslims. Everyone is asking the same

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question,

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everyone is trying to be happy in this

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dunya,

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through halal means, what haram means, everyone is

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trying their own, their own way. Before we

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talk about how people try to achieve happiness

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in this life,

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halal way or halam way, we'll talk about

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what makes people unhappy in this world.

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Well, if you follow the news, this is

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enough reason to be depressed for the whole

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year. If you were following the news yesterday,

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what happened in Turkey,

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41 people were killed,

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more than a 150

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were injured,

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and so on and so forth. Palestine,

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Syria,

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Iraq, Yemen, Libya, Darfur, Pakistan,

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all of them. All of them.

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Countries are totally messed up. Dixie Road, yesterday

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the explosion.

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It's it's messed up. You just take one

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look at the news in the morning, you

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are stressed out for the whole month.

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This is why I start looking at the

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news like 2, 3 years ago. I don't

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follow the news anymore unless someone brings something

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to my attention.

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Children,

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school children in Pakistan being shot to death

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at a school in Pakistan.

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What is going on in the world?

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Muslim women and children are being butchered by

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other Muslims in some Muslim countries. What is

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going on here?

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People are totally messed up. You know, this

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is why I don't follow the news. So

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the general

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atmosphere,

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the the situation in the Muslim world, peep

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people being killed

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in the tens of 1,000 or 100 of

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1000 for no reason. Like And the Prophet

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Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam spoke about this in

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the hadith, and he says that the day

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will come, people will be killing each other

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in the 100 of 1,000 or 1,000,000.

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Those who are being killed,

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they don't know why they are being killed,

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like the women and the children, the elderly,

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the innocent people.

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And those who are doing the killing,

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they don't really know why they are killing

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someone other than getting the order from someone

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to kill other people.

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So this is the situation now. So the

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general atmosphere, the political environment in our Muslim

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countries.

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The second reason why people are stressed out

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is because of personal issues. Especially when you

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leave your country back home, you move here,

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so you miss your parents,

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you were a doctor back home, Mashallah, you're

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living a good life, you moved here,

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now you're a cab driver.

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You need a lot of time and a

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lot of resources and money to get your

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equivalency,

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to start a job, to get the, to

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learn English, and you have to go to

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Alberta to get your equivalency and license, or

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Nova Scotia,

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and your wife will be living in one

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place, you'll be living in another, so families

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are broken up because,

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you know, you need to to to to

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make a decent living in this country.

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Or if something happens, and you cannot support

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your family, and all of a sudden your

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wife is asking for divorce,

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or your kids are running away.

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Right?

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So if your wife goes to the court,

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because some of them they don't want to

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come to the masjid

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to talk to the imam, because they know

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if they talk to the imam and divorce

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happens, she is gonna get the mamhar and

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bye bye. But some of them, they don't

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like that. They want to go to the

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court,

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they're happy with the law of the queen,

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but they're not happy with the law of

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the king of kings, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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because they think that the law here will

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give them more.

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Right? So what happens when they complain,

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they will give her half of your money,

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your bank account, they will give her half

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the car, half the house,

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half your email address, half of your Facebook,

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everything.

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Like, every single thing. Every single thing. So

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people are stressed out because of personal issues.

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You have problems at work, your boss is

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crazy, you go to school, your teacher,

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the homework,

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the report,

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the paper, all that stuff. Right?

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The the materialistic

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society we're living in, you have to work

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2, 3 jobs to be able to pay

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the bills and support your family, take care

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of your kids, give them good Islamic education.

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You have to pay. They go to the

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public system. They don't have to pay, but

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it's totally different system and culture, and, you

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know,

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whatever. So

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people have personal issues.

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Another reason why a lot of people are

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not happy in this world,

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mostly because they are not happy with the

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father of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Sometimes in a bad way, sometimes in a

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positive way. They always want change in their

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lives.

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They want to change all the time. This

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is why they take advantage of this in

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the media. They get you to buy a

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new phone every year, a new car every

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2, 3 years. They make you feel like

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if you don't buy iPhone 6, you're gonna

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be left out, you know, in the Middle

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Ages. If you don't buy this car, you

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know, people are gonna look down upon you,

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you'll feel like an idiot if you don't

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buy something. Where in fact, they're all the

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same. What is the difference? Tell me. What

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is the difference between,

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Microsoft Office,

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2,007 and 2,010

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and 2,013?

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Nothing.

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What is the difference between Windows XP,

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Windows 7 and Windows 10? Nothing. Not much

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of a difference. But you gotta pay $250

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to buy something new, to stay in the

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loop. And the more money you make, the

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more the happier you are. This is how

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they make you think.

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They make you think that the happiest people

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in the world are Miley Cyrus

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and,

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what is his name? Justin Bieber.

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Where in fact they are taking drugs, they're

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trying to forget about the world, they're stressed

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out, and most of these celebrities that people

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will look up to,

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they commit suicide.

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Robert Williams, if you know this story, he

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was a happy guy, comedian, he had millionaires.

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You know, people thought he was happy and

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he killed himself, or at least this is

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what they say in the news. Right?

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So if you ask someone who is young,

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like 3 4 years old, what will make

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you happy in life? They will say, man,

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I would like to become old, You know,

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I want to be in my thirties and

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forties, so I can buy all the toys.

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I'm gonna go to Toys R Us, and

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take a truck with me, fill it with

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with toys.

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Then I'm gonna go to a barn,

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and fill another truck with chocolate and all

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the good stuff. Ice cream, they don't have

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ice cream, but other things. Right?

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And when you ask someone who is old,

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like in their seventies or eighties, okay?

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You know, what will make you happy? They

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say, I wanna go back to childhood. Like

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3, 4 years old, I can run around,

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play basketball, I don't have to have doctor's

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appointment all the time. Right?

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If you talk to someone who is single,

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they're having they're having a difficult life.

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And if you talk to someone who is

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married, they want to shoot themselves in the

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head.

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Why did I ever make this mistake?

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If you talk to someone who has been

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married for like 5, 7 years, and they

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don't have kids, they live a difficult life,

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and if you talk to someone who has

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5, 7 kids, they wanna jump out of

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the window. They wanna throw themselves in the

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ocean, so their sharks will eat them.

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If you talk to a poor person, what

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would make you happy? Oh, man,

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I hope that Allah will give me a

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lot of money, 1,000,000 of dollars. I'm gonna

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buy a nice car, buy a house, I'll

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live a decent life.

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You talk to someone who is rich, they

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will tell you, man, I wish I can

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lose all my money, but get a a

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good night of sleep at night because every

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night I'm thinking the thieves, the hearses, and

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the and the toque are gonna come and

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steal my money. I can't sleep.

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Like and the stock market collapsed. What is

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going on? Like, this guy in Germany in

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2008,

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he had $11,500,000,000.

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Billion with a b, not an m. $1,000,000,000.

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11,500,000,000.

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And because of the economic system, he lost

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only $2,000,000,000

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So he was left with $9,500,000,000

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He got stressed out, and he threw himself

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in front of a train.

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Alhamdulillah, that train was okay.

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But the car was like,

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barbecue,

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like, destroyed, like, ground beef.

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$9,500,000,000

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What am I gonna do with $9,500,000,000

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This is what he was saying. Like, people

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are crazy.

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If you talk to someone who is having

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a difficult life, he's not happy with his

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life, if you ask them, what would make

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you happy? They'll say, you know what?

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I just wanna die. I wanna die. Right?

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And the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam also

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spoke about this in the Hadith before the

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Day of Judgment. People will be so stressed

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out that they will pass by the grave,

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and they will look at the person in

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the grave and say, I wish I were

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in your place, and you weren't in my

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place.

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And according to the Quran,

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when a person dies, the first thing they

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will say when they go to the grave,

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Lagbirjirawoonilaaali,

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Ahmadusaliyahamafi

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matarakt. And as soon they die, okay, you

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want to die? Die.

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As soon as they die, what will they

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say?

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You Allah, I don't want to die, I

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want to go back to Dunya. So no

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one is actually happy with what they have.

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So at the end of the day,

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you should be happy with the Qadr of

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, and you should do

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what is good. Because according to Surah Naha,

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I'll conclude with this insha Allah.

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Whoever does good, whether this person is a

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man or a woman,

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and they are believers, then I, or we,

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, will make them live

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a happy and a decent life.

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So there are clues in the Quran and

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the Sunnah to,

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to achieve happiness in this dunya. Most people

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think that happiness can be achieved through money.

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We'll talk about this tomorrow inshaAllah. We ask

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to give us the

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best in this life, and the best in

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the love to come, and give us Sa'ad

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and happiness in this dunya and

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Afra. Ameen alaabaalameen.

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So,

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the question for last night, there are 15

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sajdas in the Quran. Most of the scholars

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agree on 14,

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they disagree on the 2nd sajdah in Surah

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Hajj. According to Imam Shaffir, it's a sajdah.

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And, what do you say in sajdah? Basically,

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sajdah wajeeel lavi khalaqahu wa shakasamahu wa wazalabaahu

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wa wazalabaahu wa wati fatabaakallahuasamu

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khalaqin.

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My face

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makes sajdah to the one who created it,

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and created for it the ability to see

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and hear with his might and power, so

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blessed is Allah, the, the best of all

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creators. If you don't remember this long hadith

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or a long dua, then you just say

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Subhan'arabi'al

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'alaam Khalas. It will be enough inshaAllah. And

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the winner is brother Amir Bi Taar.

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Brother Amir Bi Taar. Mashallah. Taqbir. Congratulations.

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So the question for tonight is super difficult,

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and as usual don't Google it, because there

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you will get the wrong answer.

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We know Surah Al Rahman is a beautiful

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Surah, and Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala speaks about

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his favors in 31 places, and he uses

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kabi'aayi Allaha and Rabukumat together. Which of your

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Lord's favors will you deny? So after every

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single favor, Allah will say, which of your

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Lord's favors will you deny?

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But there is one ayeh that talks about

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Jahannam.

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Yawafunmujlimunabisi imamu fa'ukhaddubin nawasiwalakhtaaahfabi ayeh Allahi Rabbukuma

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It talks about punishment and torture in Jahannam

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and Kufa, then it says, which of your

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Lord's favors will you deny?

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How come that the talk about Jahannam is

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a favor in the Quran?

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