Mustafa Khattab – Ramadan Special Quran Gems 11

Mustafa Khattab
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The importance of keeping in mind the fact that Islam is a new page and everyone has the chance to decide whether to quit smoking is emphasized. The speaker also advises the audience to keep their minds on their relationship with Allah and the people, to not delay their decisions and to not give money to people who don't do fasting. Additionally, the speaker discusses a story about a man who died at 17 years old and never made a profit from a mother, as well as a woman named Al Hajj who was given a w residential w residential w residential w residential w residential w.
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So,

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today's topic is kind of, emotional so we

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don't have funny stories tonight and jokes and

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stuff. But, tonight's talk is kind of serious.

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But this is needed, inshallah.

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So I'm going to talk to the youth

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tonight, inshaAllah.

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A few days ago, I was giving a

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talk at one of the masajid. They had

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a conference,

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so they invited me to speak. So, after

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the talk, this brother, your age, 20 years

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old, he came to me and he said,

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he's doing drugs,

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and it is difficult for him to quit.

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And he doesn't know if Allah

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will accept his fasting or salah or not.

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Of course, I hugged him, and I told

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him when I was young, I

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I I made mistakes.

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I didn't do drugs, but I was doing

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some bad things as well. So all of

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us are human beings, and we make mistakes.

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But the thing is, Ramadan is a good

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time to start a new page with Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And Allah will help you.

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If you cannot smoke for 17, 18 hours

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during the day, it means one thing to

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me. That if you have the determination,

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the commitment, you'll quit smoking by the end

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of the month. And Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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has given you a proof because you didn't

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do it during the day. And if you

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are able to play 5 times a day

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Ramadan, you stand at night in salah, if

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you can't fast in Ramadan, it means one

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thing to me that you are able to

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do it after the month. And I gave

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him some examples that I'm going to share

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with you in the 5 minutes I, I

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have with him.

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And, I reminded him of this ayah from

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Surah Hash, ayah number 18, where Allah

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says, almost everyone here knows the ayah.

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O who believe, O you who believe, be

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mindful of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and let

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every soul look at what deeds it has

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set forth for tomorrow. Means the Day of

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Judgement. So if you give the Day of

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Judgment

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in your mind, you know that one day,

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sooner or later, you're going to stand before

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala for judgment.

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So it's up to you either to quit

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here, and when you go there, your board

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is clean, or if you insist on doing

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what is haram,

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then you have to prepare some good answers.

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We know that life is very short, and

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I don't have to remind you all the

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time. If you don't know the story

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of, Brother Burhan, he was a student at

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the, Meghan Academy. 12 years old.

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In 6th grade. So about a month before

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Ramadan, he was on a trip with his

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family and he died. He had no medical

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conditions.

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12 years old. Nothing.

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So this is a warning to each and

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every one of us that you don't have

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to be 95 years old. Yeah. Some will

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say, oh, my father was 95. Well, there

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is no guarantee that you are going to

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live 95. Come on. Wake up. Right? And

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you have to keep this in mind all

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the time.

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Even if you live 200 years, so what?

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Eventually you will leave. You say, in Urdu,

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zenda gayba habaktasare.

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Right?

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Those who are Turkish, Hayat suktasare.

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Right?

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I know there are some Somalis here, I

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don't want to, make them mad. Nolosha ar

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Tahai? Right? Life is very short. So if

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you live 10 years, or 200 years, eventually

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you will leave this world. So what do

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you need to do tonight?

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Number 1, you have to keep in your

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mind that this is a new page for

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you, and Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is giving

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you another chance to repent.

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There are some people in our community who

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were here last year, I didn't see them

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because I was not here, but they are

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not with us anymore.

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And next year, who knows, maybe next Ramadan

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some of us will not be here.

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So whether I will die, you will die,

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the sister in the back will die, who

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knows? Right? So you have to keep this

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in your mind. Maybe this is your last

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Ramadan.

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Maybe this is gonna be your last taweeh.

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So wake up!

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Right? We are not here to stay in

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this world. We are Musafir, as the Prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said. Whether you stay

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for a long time or a short time,

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eventually we will leave. So you have to

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look at 2 things

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to check whether you are doing the right

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thing or the wrong thing.

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Your relationship with Allah and your relationship with

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the people. This is what Islam is all

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about. Inal adhinaaamanoo

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They have faith in Allah. Wa ami ilas

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saliha They are good to the people, and

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they do good things. This is what Islam

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is all about. Ibadat,

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your relationship with Allah. Muhammed alaat, your relationship

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with the people.

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So in regards to your relationship with Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala, salah is the most important

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thing. I cannot emphasize

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how important salah is.

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So, don't tell me you are 35 or

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40 and you don't pray.

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For you delay salah. Because the Prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam says on the day of

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judgment, if your salah is missed up, you

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have no chances. You'll be in big trouble.

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And if your salah is accepted, everything else

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is a piece of cake.

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So don't delay your salah. Don't delay your

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salah. I remember

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there was I was in Edmonton for a

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number a couple of years. Then,

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there was a brother, 17 years old, healthy!

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So, his mother used to tell him Go

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to the Masjid and make salah. He always

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said, Tomorrow, tomorrow.

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Go for Jum'ah with the Imam. He said,

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Next week. Go to the Masjid in Tawiyyah.

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He said, Next year. So SubhanAllah, that next

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day, that next week, that next month never

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came. So eventually, he came to the Masjid

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for salah,

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not to pray, but people to offer janazah

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for him.

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He was involved into an accident, and he

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died at the age of 17, and he

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never made a sajdah for Allah. Right? And

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his friend told me. I didn't know the

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brother, so his friend told me. And he

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told me the whole story, and I felt

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sorry for him. In another case, one brother

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called me.

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He said, I want to pay money for

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not fasting in Ramadan.

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So I said, Okay, this is kafaa, because

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I normally

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ask people what condition they have,

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because I want to see if they're doing

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the right thing or no. Maybe they're not

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fasting because of a reason that does not

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require kafar.

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So I said okay,

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that was over the phone. Are you sick?

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He said no. I said okay, are you

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Musafir? He said no. Are you old? No.

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25 years old.

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And I gave him all the different options

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for not fasting in the month of Ramadan.

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And

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I told him everything, No no no no

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no.

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And I told him: Man, the only thing

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left in my list is pregnancy!

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What is your problem?

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He said: Well, I'm 25 years old, but

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when I was young, my parents were not

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practicing, they never told me how to make

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salah, they never told me how to fast

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Ramadan, and now I can't fast. I don't

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know. I just want to give them money.

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And I told him, No, you have to

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try to learn to fast. If you feed,

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you are young and healthy, Allah will not

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accept from you. And this is based on

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a hadith. You have to try to fast.

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You can't just go and feed people for

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not fasting.

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This story is going on and on and

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on, so I got only 2 minutes to

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go, insha'Allah.

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Your relationship with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is

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very important. The salah,

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the fasting, if you are rich, Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala has given you money, you didn't

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do your hajj, or you don't give zakah,

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you need to think about it. We're not

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taking anything with us. Right? Now your relationship

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with the people, and we'll start with your

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parents.

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I know stories.

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I do counseling, and parents come to me,

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and they tell me that their kids talk

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back to them.

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They talk to back to them. Oh, whatever.

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I hate you.

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Right? Because they wanted them to buy something

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like a laptop or whatever, and the father

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subhanAllah is doing 2 or 3 jobs. He's

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trying to pay the bills, and the rent,

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and shopping, and all these things. And if

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they don't buy them the stuff they want,

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I hate you.

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I'm miserable in this world because of you.

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You don't make me happy.

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Come on, man. Come on.

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So you don't talk to your parents like

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this. Wallahi, no one loves you in this

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world more than your parents. And there is

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a reason why every time Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala talks about the hid in the Quran,

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he talks about the parents right after. Waqaddaabooka

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Allah Ta'udu Illa yahu wa'aminuwalalayhiksam.

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So he always talks about the fact that

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He created you, worship Him alone, and you

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have to honor your parents, and you have

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to be good to them.

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Talking back to them is not nice.

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Telling them you hate them is not nice.

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So you we have to respect our parents,

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and inshaAllah, I'm running out of time, but

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we'll continue tomorrow inshaAllah, your relationship with Allah

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and your relationship with the people, starting with

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your parents. We ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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to help us become good Muslims in this

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month, Ameen Ameen.

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The question for last night was,

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala gives wahi

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to Prophets in the Quran, but there is

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one woman in the Quran that Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala gave her wahi, and this lady

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is the mother of Musa. Wa'hayna ila lumi

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Musa. The word wahi in the Quran comes

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in two meanings. One of them to give

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revelation,

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like, wawhihi ilahaan murhin wawhayna ilahaam Musa. We

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gave revelation, like Quran,

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to Muhammad or,

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Musa and the other Prophets, revelation from Allah.

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And the word wahi comes,

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in the meaning of inspire.

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To do something.

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Whether we're talking about human beings, we're birds,

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we're animals, and so on and so forth.

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Wa hayna ilaha'ummi Musa, we inspire the mumusa

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to nurse a baby.

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Your Lord inspired the bees

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how to build their hives, and so on

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and so forth. And the winner is Al

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Hajj Muhammad al Bizri.

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Yes.

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We're doing a lot of research.

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So tonight's question is, is easy.

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There are so many men mentioned in the

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Quran, especially Prophets. There's only one woman mentioned

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by name in the Quran. If you know

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her name, email me insha'Allah by tomorrow at

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imamustafatnatoyacenter.ca.

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Exactly nothing.

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