Mustafa Khattab – Ramadan Reflections 16 The Kings 3 Servants

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The importance of working during the day and sleeping at night is discussed, including a story about a king calling all citizens to ask for food, a woman who failed to meet expectations and died at 4 days, and a woman who ate everything she wanted except for shoes, video games, and a belt. Three types of death, including parable, believers in the month of tet, and mixed good and junk deeds, are discussed. Fasting and praying to increase sleep and prevent mental health issues is emphasized, along with information on the deaths of a sister in the month of Guinea and a brother in the month of Guinea.

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			One of the favors of Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala listed in the Quran is our ability
		
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			to work during the day and to sleep
		
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			at night.
		
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			And sometimes,
		
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			like in some cases in the month of
		
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			Ramadan, our sleeping schedule is totally messed up.
		
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			An activity nazbit
		
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			So you basically turn into an owl in
		
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			the month of Ramadan. You will wake up
		
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			all night, you try to sleep during the
		
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			day,
		
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			and if you have to go to work
		
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			or take the kids to school, it's a
		
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			big problem.
		
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			I I didn't get enough sleep over the
		
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			last couple of days, and this is why
		
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			I feel like a zombie right now.
		
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			So I asked Allah
		
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			to give us all the reward for our
		
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			jihad in this month by fasting and praying,
		
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			and we ask Allah
		
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			to make it easy for us. Ameen arabaralami.
		
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			So basically, there's this story.
		
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			There was a king and the king had
		
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			3 assistants.
		
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			And one day he called them and they
		
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			came to his palace and the king said,
		
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			I want
		
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			all of you, the 3 of you, you
		
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			go to a store, take a cart,
		
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			and all you need to put in the
		
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			cart is food. That's all you need.
		
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			And he said you have 3 hours. You
		
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			go to Walmart, you take the cart, go
		
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			inside, put nothing in the cart, but food.
		
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			That's all.
		
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			So they went to the store and the
		
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			first one of them said
		
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			Yeah, the king said food, it has to
		
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			be food. So he went to the grocery
		
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			area and he put fruits, vegetables,
		
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			cheese,
		
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			cookies, dates, all the good stuff, nuts, cashews,
		
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			all the good stuff that he needs for,
		
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			you know, to to bring to the king.
		
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			The second one, he said, well, the king,
		
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			maybe the king is not serious about this
		
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			whole food thing because he already has food
		
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			in the palace, he doesn't need food.
		
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			But I'm gonna take a 5050 chance.
		
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			So he filled half of the cart with
		
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			food,
		
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			the rest he filled it with junk.
		
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			Basically,
		
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			clinics,
		
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			fidget spinners.
		
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			He put belts, and suits, and laptops, and
		
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			iPhones, and video games, and so basically half
		
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			food, half junk.
		
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			The third one, he said, okay. What is
		
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			the king is talking about? Like, it doesn't
		
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			make any sense. He already has food in
		
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			the palace, he doesn't need food from me.
		
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			So he said, you know what, I'm gonna
		
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			fill it with all the stuff I I
		
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			like, he already has food, I don't need
		
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			food, then I'm gonna fill it with whatever
		
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			I want. So he filled it with clinics,
		
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			suits, thighs, belts, shoes,
		
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			you know, fidget spinners, video games, laptops, iPhones,
		
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			and, Nintendo, Nintendo, I don't know. I hate
		
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			this word. Yeah. So he filled it with
		
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			all the stuff that he loved. PlayStation. PlayStation,
		
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			Jazak Al Hakayran.
		
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			So basically, after the 3 hours, they returned
		
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			to the king.
		
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			And the king said that was a task
		
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			for all of you. And he called the
		
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			guards, and he said take each one of
		
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			them with his cart
		
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			and lock them up in a room for
		
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			2 weeks.
		
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			So, for the first one, he had no
		
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			problem because he already he listened and obeyed
		
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			Sabaynu wa Ta'ala He had the food and
		
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			the food was enough to keep him alive
		
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			for 2 weeks. And after the 2 weeks,
		
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			he walked out, he's healthy, Everything is amazing.
		
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			Everything is good.
		
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			The second one,
		
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			Mashkila Kabira, like, you know, what is this?
		
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			Like, he took a 5050 chance. 1st week,
		
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			he ate all the bananas, all the biryani,
		
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			all the shawarma, all the nuts, all the
		
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			fruits.
		
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			So he survived the 1st week. 2nd week,
		
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			there was nothing to eat,
		
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			so he started to eat the shoes, the
		
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			belt, you know, the fidget spinners, the clinics,
		
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			the suit and the tie, the iPad, the
		
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			video games.
		
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			He barely made it. He was about to
		
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			die, you know?
		
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			But he barely made
		
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			it. And as for the 3rd one, Mushkilakabira,
		
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			like, big problem, like, he didn't listen,
		
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			so
		
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			he couldn't find anything to eat except the
		
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			shoes, and the, you know, the video games,
		
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			and the fidget spinners. So he basically died
		
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			after 4 days. Right? He couldn't make it.
		
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			So this example, a parable, is
		
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			the example of the believers in the month
		
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			of Ramadan. Allah
		
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			says,
		
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			that my servants, you, cannot get closer to
		
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			Allah
		
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			except with what that which He has made
		
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			fard on you, like salah, fasting,
		
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			and so on, zakah, and so on and
		
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			so forth. So basically, some of us will
		
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			listen.
		
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			They say, yeah, these deeds are pleasing to
		
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			Allah
		
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			We fast properly, we pray,
		
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			on time, and we give salatah, we respect
		
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			everyone. This is the stuff that Allah
		
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			is asking us to do. And there are
		
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			example in the Quran,
		
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			Those who have faith in Allah, they listen,
		
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			obey, and they do good, Jannah is there
		
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			for them, they will survive.
		
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			The second type, they mix good with junk.
		
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			So they listen to Allah 50% of the
		
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			time, they listen to their nafs, their desires
		
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			50% of the time, and their example in
		
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			the Quran,
		
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			as Allah
		
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			says in Surah Tawba, their example
		
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			is that of someone
		
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			who mixed good deeds with junk, with evil
		
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			deeds. Hopefully that Allah would forgive them, and
		
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			they will they will barely survive at the
		
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			end.
		
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			And the third type,
		
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			those who have nothing except for junk, they
		
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			just follow their desires
		
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			100% of the time. They never listen. They
		
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			never obey. And their example is,
		
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			They think
		
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			they're doing what is best, but their deeds
		
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			are misguided, they will not get anything at
		
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			the end.
		
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			So we ask Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to
		
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			make us among the first group who listen
		
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			and obey, and we ask Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala to give us sincerity in everything we
		
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			say and do, and to give us a
		
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			clause in dunya, and to give us Jannah
		
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			to firdaus in Afrah. So on the way
		
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			home, inshallah, think about yourself. Which of the
		
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			3 servants are you? The first one, second
		
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			one, third one. And if you are the
		
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			first, alhamdulillah. If you are the second, you
		
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			try to do better, if you are the
		
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			3rd, be careful,
		
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			and half of the month is gone.
		
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			So what is left in the month is
		
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			better than the 2 weeks that are past.
		
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			So we still have the 10 the last
		
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			10 nights, and we still have laylatul kar,
		
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			you still can make up. If you fall
		
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			in the second group, third group, you still
		
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			have a chance to make up, inshaAllah o'
		
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			time.
		
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			So the question for last night, if someone
		
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			throws up intentionally in the month of Ramadan,
		
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			does this invalidate the fasting? And the answer
		
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			is yes.
		
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			The prophet says if someone throws up intentionally,
		
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			they have to make up the day. If
		
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			someone throws up unintentionally,
		
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			then they don't need to do anything. Their
		
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			fasting is acceptable. And as I said, some
		
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			people do it, they eat everything they want,
		
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			but they don't want to exercise or they
		
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			don't have time. So after they eat,
		
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			they throw up intentionally, so they don't gain
		
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			weight. Some people do it this way. It's
		
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			a medical condition, basically.
		
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			So the winner for tonight is brother of
		
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			Omar Mohammed.
		
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			Omar Mohammed. Is that you? Maruk? My god.
		
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			Congratulations. Fasam Takbir.
		
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			So I could give some to your death,
		
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			please. Yeah.
		
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			The question for tonight, if a sister is
		
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			pregnant in the month of Ramadan, she cannot
		
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			fast, and the doctor said you cannot fast.
		
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			Right? So she has to listen to doctor,
		
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			the doctor is the Mufti in this case,
		
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			so she couldn't fast in the month of
		
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			Ramadan, she broke the fast. What should she
		
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			do after the month of Ramadan? Does she
		
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			have to make up the days? Can she
		
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			give food?
		
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			Does she have to, does she have to
		
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			do, like, both make up the days and
		
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			feed the 4 person per day? What is
		
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			the chosen opinion in this case? So if
		
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			you know the answer, you may know me
		
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			before tomorrow. [email protected].