Mustafa Khattab – Ramadan Gems 22

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the concept of achieving a certain level of union and faith, which is the foundation of Islam's relationship with men. The speaker gives two stories about a couple who were married and had issues with their relationship, and discusses the idea of achieving a certain level of union through a combination of faith and marriage. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding the rules of Islam and leaving any controversial issues at the end of the conversation.
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So the believers will go to Jannah and

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along He will take along with them their

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wives

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and their children and their parents. This is

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what Allah

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says in the Quran.

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So how can you reach this level that

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you and your wife inshallah will be to

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Jannah

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your joy and pleasure in Jannah cannot be

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complete until you are joined with your loved

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ones. So Allah subhanahu wa'ala there are 2

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things to do. He will either use some

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to go down to be joined with the

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others

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or Allah subhanahu wa'ala where they're some in

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rank so all of them will be together.

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So what do you think that Allah subhanahu

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wa'ala will do? He is kari would raise

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everyone up elevate

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up there.

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So

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to do this, inshallah will talk next slide

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about how to reach that level and to

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go to Jannah together

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and to have to be united in faith

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because, as we're told, before even the marriage

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begins,

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the foundation of the relationship in Islam has

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to be on the Deen.

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Look for the religion,

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look for someone who is practicing

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the faith. So, when you are married, you

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feel like you are 1 person, you complete

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each other. Okay?

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I'm gonna give you 2 stories to explain

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what I mean. The first one, Abdul Malik

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Alaylam.

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One time he was sick

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and he was lying when his wife's lap

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and he was wearing his head on his

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wife's

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lap

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This is a decree by Allah Subhanahu Akbar.

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So he said, I'm not too sure if

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I'll be on those who will pass safely

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to the other side or those who will

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fall down. This is why I cry.

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Some of you, if you have an incident

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like this all of a sudden you are

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sitting there eating or watching TV drinking tea

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or something and all of a sudden you've

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started to cry what will the other side

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say?

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I knew from day 1 you want to

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see a doctor. You're a mizda. You know,

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there's something wrong with you. I said it

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from day 1 that they forced me to

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marry you. Something like this. Now, I'm comparing

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this to another story. I think it's a

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true story.

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There was a couple, which is the opposite

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of Abdullah Lawa of the law and his

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wife. So this man was married to a

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lady that they hated each other. She hated

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him and his family, and he hated her

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and her family. There's no love, law and

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her family. There's

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she said, mom, you know, we started today

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at the, you know, the logic class, the

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origin of man. So where do you think

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we came from? She said, honey, it's very

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easy. It's in the Quran. Allah subhanahu wa'ala

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so if you know where in just the

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word

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is mentioned, you may leave it for tomorrow

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as soon as you know to come to

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the second one.

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