Mustafa Khattab – Ramadan Gems 22

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the concept of achieving a certain level of union and faith, which is the foundation of Islam's relationship with men. The speaker gives two stories about a couple who were married and had issues with their relationship, and discusses the idea of achieving a certain level of union through a combination of faith and marriage. The speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding the rules of Islam and leaving any controversial issues at the end of the conversation.

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			So the believers will go to Jannah and
		
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			along He will take along with them their
		
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			wives
		
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			and their children and their parents. This is
		
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			what Allah
		
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			says in the Quran.
		
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			So how can you reach this level that
		
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			you and your wife inshallah will be to
		
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			Jannah
		
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			your joy and pleasure in Jannah cannot be
		
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			complete until you are joined with your loved
		
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			ones. So Allah subhanahu wa'ala there are 2
		
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			things to do. He will either use some
		
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			to go down to be joined with the
		
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			others
		
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			or Allah subhanahu wa'ala where they're some in
		
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			rank so all of them will be together.
		
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			So what do you think that Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa'ala will do? He is kari would raise
		
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			everyone up elevate
		
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			up there.
		
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			So
		
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			to do this, inshallah will talk next slide
		
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			about how to reach that level and to
		
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			go to Jannah together
		
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			and to have to be united in faith
		
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			because, as we're told, before even the marriage
		
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			begins,
		
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			the foundation of the relationship in Islam has
		
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			to be on the Deen.
		
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			Look for the religion,
		
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			look for someone who is practicing
		
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			the faith. So, when you are married, you
		
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			feel like you are 1 person, you complete
		
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			each other. Okay?
		
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			I'm gonna give you 2 stories to explain
		
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			what I mean. The first one, Abdul Malik
		
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			Alaylam.
		
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			One time he was sick
		
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			and he was lying when his wife's lap
		
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			and he was wearing his head on his
		
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			wife's
		
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			lap
		
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			This is a decree by Allah Subhanahu Akbar.
		
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			So he said, I'm not too sure if
		
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			I'll be on those who will pass safely
		
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			to the other side or those who will
		
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			fall down. This is why I cry.
		
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			Some of you, if you have an incident
		
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			like this all of a sudden you are
		
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			sitting there eating or watching TV drinking tea
		
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			or something and all of a sudden you've
		
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			started to cry what will the other side
		
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			say?
		
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			I knew from day 1 you want to
		
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			see a doctor. You're a mizda. You know,
		
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			there's something wrong with you. I said it
		
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			from day 1 that they forced me to
		
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			marry you. Something like this. Now, I'm comparing
		
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			this to another story. I think it's a
		
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			true story.
		
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			There was a couple, which is the opposite
		
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			of Abdullah Lawa of the law and his
		
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			wife. So this man was married to a
		
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			lady that they hated each other. She hated
		
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			him and his family, and he hated her
		
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			and her family. There's no love, law and
		
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			her family. There's
		
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			she said, mom, you know, we started today
		
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			at the, you know, the logic class, the
		
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			origin of man. So where do you think
		
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			we came from? She said, honey, it's very
		
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			easy. It's in the Quran. Allah subhanahu wa'ala
		
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			so if you know where in just the
		
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			word
		
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			is mentioned, you may leave it for tomorrow
		
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			as soon as you know to come to
		
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			the second one.