Mustafa Khattab – Q&A Session With Maingate Students

Mustafa Khattab
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The speakers discuss the importance of having the right to pray in public schools and training students to pray in a certain way. The use of sunGeneration for various purposes, including drinking alcohol and offense, is discussed, along with the use of w beds and twists for dressing and offense. It is emphasized that the sun is not related to one's faith or success and should not be used for anything other than helping those who try to avoid it. Prayer is crucial to overall success and the importance of dressing in certain situations is emphasized.
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So today's Wednesday is a question and answer

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day.

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The questions will be read by,

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mister Ibrahim right here.

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But before we go to the questions and

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answers,

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last night

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we had a fight.

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I like the rhyme.

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At the, Peel District

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School

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Board or Board of Schools, whatever they call

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it.

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So we're basically fighting

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for the students to have the right to

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play salatuljumah

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in public schools.

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Right? You don't have the problem alhamdulillah, because

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you come to the masjid, salatuljumah here, no

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problem.

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But the problem is they have issues with

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the khutbas and,

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students praying in jamaah together, and we have

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been doing this for,

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3 about 3 months now. So hopefully, inshallah,

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the issue would be resolved. But I just

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wanted to let you know that, alhamdulillah,

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has favored you guys.

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You come to the school here. You have

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no issues. No problem. No one has to

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fight for you to have the right to

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pray. Salatul Jum'ah.

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Now we're gonna move to the questions inshaAllah.

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Why are there imams?

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Why are there imams? Why are there imams?

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Imams are important because,

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they lead prayers,

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they marry people, they divorce them, they counsel

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people, and they teach.

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So this is a very important job.

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So the same goes for why are there

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any teachers, or doctors, or cab drivers? Because

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we provide the service to the community just

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like everyone else.

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So we try to make people's lives better,

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we try to make people's lives easier,

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so hopefully we are successful at that inshallah.

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Is it her own to have more views?

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Well

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it's a good question.

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50% of the time, this is my answer.

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No. Which is very true. Thank you. Which

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is very true.

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Beers.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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It's logical because

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if someone comes to me and and says,

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what is the ruling? Listen up. What is

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the ruling when wearing a beard? And I

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say, you have to be very specific because

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you have to say, what is the ruling

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on wearing a beard for a brother? Because

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sisters don't have to wear a beard. Right?

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What? So you inform the brothers,

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the ulama'a have different different opinions.

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Some say it's

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a warajib. It's it's a must,

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and some of the scholars say

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it's a sunnah.

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Okay.

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Where did we get this from? There are

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several hadith from the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam in Bukhari and Muslim where the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam says, grow your beards.

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Right.

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We're gonna go to

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a different point, which will explain to you,

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why the Radamesh say,

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you have to have it, and some say,

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it's okay. It's sunnah.

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Okay.

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Every time the prophet

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says, do something in a hadith,

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it could mean that it's a recommendation

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to do it, or it could be a

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must that you have to do it. If

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the prophet

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says, pray, they say, the way you saw

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me pray. Is this sunnah? You can do

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it if you want, and you can pray

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in a different way if you want, or

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you have to do it this way?

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You have to do it this way. What

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if the prophet

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says,

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use

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before you make salah?

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Is this something you have to do? Your

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salah is not valid, or

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this is a recommendation?

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It's a recommendation.

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And if the Prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam

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says, don't do something,

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it could be a prohibition,

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you're not allowed to do it, or it's,

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the prophet

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dislike it this way, but it is accepted.

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So say, for example, if the prophet

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says that you are not allowed to eat

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* or drink alcohol,

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Is this something he disliked, or this is

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haram, like you're not allowed

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to? Haram.

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Haram. For something that is

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for something that is disliked

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I'm trying to think of

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a good example.

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Like, there's a hadith

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from the prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam that

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says,

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okay. If the prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam

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says, if you eat

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onions and garlic, don't come to the masjid.

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Right? There's an authentic hadith. If this is

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a a prohibition or something that he disliked?

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He disliked this milk. He's tried. He's like

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this milk. So if you eat onions and

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garlic,

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and is there a way you can brush

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your teeth or do something about it? Then

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come to the masjid, it's not a big

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deal. So this is a disliking, something that

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you disliked.

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Also,

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we have to make the distinction

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between,

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two types of sunnah of the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam.

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Sunnah

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was sunnah alaihi wa sallam. And this is

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where the confusion comes from.

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Sunnah alaihi wa sallam is something that the

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prophet sallam did because everyone else was doing

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it.

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So the prophet sallam had a turban,

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and if how many of you saw the

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movie, the message?

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Miss what? Message.

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The movie.

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Thank you. Sabaakat, Antony Quinn. Right? My message.

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So if you saw the characters in the

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movie,

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like Hamza, Bilal, and Bilal, and everyone else

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had a turban

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on their head, like a kufi or something.

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And the same is also true for Abu

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Jahl and Abu Lahab and the Kufal in

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the movie. Everyone was just in the same

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way. Right?

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One of the scholars was a gay was

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giving a lecture in in the UK.

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So this speaker is from Saudi, I think.

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I think it was Sheikh Mohammed Al Arief.

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So and he was dressed in a suit

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and tie.

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So someone protested,

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and said, why are you dressed like the

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kuffar, in a suit and tie?

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So the shaykh asked him,

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how did the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam dress?

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So the man didn't know what to say,

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and the Prophet salallahu alayhi wasalam said, he

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dressed

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like everyone else,

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like Abu Bakr and Umar, and also like

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Abu Jahl,

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and

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Abu Lahab, and because everyone had the same

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fashion, the same style of

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dress. Right?

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So the sunnah of tradition.

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If the prophet was

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presented with a dress from Yemen, which was

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a slightly different type of clothing,

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the prophet accepted the gift, and he wore

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it for Jumah and Farid. There is no

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problem because it covers the body and it

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looks nice. No problem. This is sunnah.

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I remember I was in North Carolina.

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We had the imams meeting, and one of

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the brothers came to me, and he said,

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when I go to college, I always get

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in trouble. He's a new Muslim.

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I said, okay. What is the problem? And

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he says, when I go to college, I

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dress in something like this, in,

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and I have my

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turban, my sword, and I park my horse

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my horse in the parking lot

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because

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because I want to try, you know, to

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copy the example of the sahaba, and they

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give me a hard time. Right?

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Because he thought he has to do it

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this way.

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And I told him, this is sunnah al

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Adar. This is something that everyone did at

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that time.

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But it doesn't make you a better Muslim

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or a worse Muslim. It has nothing to

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do with you being a good Muslim. You

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can wear suit and tie, you can take

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your car, or take the bus,

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and you don't have to wear a turban,

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you know, this is something that is, you

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know, sunnahalahara.

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But sunnahalahidada

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is something that the prophet said,

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do it this way. If he says for

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example,

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face the pebla when you pray.

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If he says for example, make wudu before

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you pray, or pass this way.

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He says it in the hadith. So we

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know that we are required to do these

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things. But sunnah al-'aala,

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if the prophet

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dressed in a certain way, or the prophet

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liked certain foods or disliked certain foods. We

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know from, narrations that the prophet

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liked,

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watermelons.

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He called them tarbos and urdu. Right?

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And the the prophet SAWS Alaihi Wasallam liked

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squash and zucchinis. We know this from some

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traditions. Squash. He didn't like,

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abab meat. Abab is is basically something like

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a lizard

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that lives in the desert.

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Some of the sahaba ate it in front

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of the prophet salaw alayhi wa sallam, but

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he didn't eat with them because,

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he didn't feel like eating it.

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But he didn't stop people from doing it.

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Now we see the differences here, And if

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the prophet says in the hadith, grow the

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beard,

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some of the scholars say to me it's

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a must,

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and some accept it

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as sunnah, which is something recommended, something good

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you do. And personally, based on all the

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hadith that I know of, I think it

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is sunnah. If you do it,

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you get the reward.

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If you don't do it, then

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I recommend you to do it, just a

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copy of the example of the prophet

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and get the reward. But if if I

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see someone without a beer, I'm not gonna

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question their sincerity or their being a good

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Muslim. This is something between them and Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Can you cut any shirt off a mirror?

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Why?

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Can

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I left?

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Well,

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I I don't see any reason why anyone

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would pray in front of the mirror because

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I think this would be a distraction for

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you.

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But if, say for example, I work in

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a store,

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and the only place

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that I can have some peace

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and quiet, where I can pray, is like

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like a space in the back, but there's

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mirror in front of me, you you just

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look on the floor where you make, and

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you you do your salah.

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Again, anything done by mistake is forgiven by

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. If you move to

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a new place and you try your best,

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our phone apps on, on on your phone,

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you you install the phone app, and it

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gives you the direction of salah. But sometimes

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it is not accurate because of the electric,

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circuit, whatever they call it in the building.

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It affects the compass, and it affects the,

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your phone, the way it functions.

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Yeah. So either you can go outside the

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building and put it on the floor, this

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will be giving you the right direction. The

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easiest way is actually we're praying northeast.

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So if you look outside of your window,

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you know that the sun rises in the

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East. So West is this way, North is

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this way. You pray this way.

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North, East.

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So you can't actually figure out the tabla

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without your phone, without the compass. It's it's

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easy inshallah.

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But let's say you move to a place,

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and you have been praying for 3, 4

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months, you've been figured out the qiblah, and

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it turned out you were praying toward, Vancouver

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or, Los Angeles, not Mecca. It's not a

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big deal. Allah

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will forgive you. Just move on and face

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the new Qidla once you know the right

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direction. If you are aware that they're saying

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Allah on it, and you won't need the

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washing before it's taken off, where'd you get

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a bad idea?

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Okay. For

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gold that has ayah from the Quran.

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Or if you have your cell phone and

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it has a Quran app inside, you don't

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have to leave it outside.

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Because if you leave it outside, then most

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likely some will take it. Right? So the

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best way is to keep it in your

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pocket. Whether we're talking about gold or the

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cell phone, you just put it in your

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pocket, or if you have a necklace, you

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just put it inside your clothes, that's good

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enough. If you made a mistake and you

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go inside,

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it's not a big deal, you forgot. And

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everything that is done by mistake

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or forgetfulness,

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Allah

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will forgive you, and this is mentioned in

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an authentic hadith.

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Those are done for today. We'll see you

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next week

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bless you and your family and give you

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tafik success.

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