Mustafa Khattab – Muslim Manners 9 Wisdom II Ramadan 2012

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the importance of learning from mistakes and learning from them to avoid wasting time. They give a story about a man who claimed to be his brother, but later claimed to be his brother from Adam and Eve. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning from mistakes and learning from them to avoid wasting time.
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So the Prophet

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says in Hadith

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that a Muslim is always in pursuit of

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wisdom.

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So whenever he finds wisdom, he takes

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it. So this is something a Muslim does.

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So a Muslim, an intelligent Muslim, a wise

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Muslim,

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he knows or she knows why they are

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here on this globe, on this in this

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world.

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They are here to worship Allah

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glorify

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him, stick around for a few years, then

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they leave this world and move to the

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next world.

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Most of the people won't realize this fact.

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And every time people come to me for

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counseling,

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I tell them, brother and sister,

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you have 2 options. Number 1

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and here's the thing. Before I give them

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2 options, I tell them there's if you

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are 40 years old

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or 35 years old, there's no guarantee that

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you are going to live another 40 or

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another 35.

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Now you have 2 options, either to live

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a miserable life

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or

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to live a good life till the end

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of your life and go to Jannah, alhamdulillah,

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everyone is happy.

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And I remember a few months ago, I

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was doing dawah and somebody came wanting to

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know about Islam so I sat with him

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in the office and

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I was giving him the introduction about Alkhanu

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Islam, Alkhanu Ilman and all that stuff and

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all of a sudden, there was

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a terrible knock on the door. I opened

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the door. There was this lady in her

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forties,

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45,

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and she was devastated.

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She was in tears, and she had her

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husband and their daughter.

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She came from an African country. Okay?

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So

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the lady said

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my husband wants to divorce me because I'm

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dark. I'm black.

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I said La Hawlul, He is dark. She

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is dark. Their daughter is dark. The whole

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family is dark. I'm dark too. Okay?

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So I said La Hawa Allahu Was

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he blind when you guys got married then

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he, you know, was able to see after

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that? Or you were white at the time

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of marriage then you got a tan so

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you lost your color. What?

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Go home. They said what time should we

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come back? I said,

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come back in 2017.

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What is this man? Al Muslimul

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Al

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Haqqim.

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A wise person is the one who doesn't

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make the same mistake twice.

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They learn from their mistakes. And we have

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this saying back home,

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a wise person is not the one who

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doesn't make mistakes,

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but the person who doesn't make the same

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mistake twice.

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Al Muslim Al Hakim.

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So a wise person is the one who

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thinks about the things he or she is

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going to say. And believe me, if you

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do if you do this,

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75% of the time, you're not going to

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say anything because it's either not beneficial

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or is going to harm someone

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or there's some harm that come from it.

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So they keep their mouth shut, And this

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is what the prophet says

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in the authentic hadith,

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let those who believe in Allah in the

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last day

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say something good or be quiet.

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So you have to process everything you're going

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to say. You have to think about the

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things you plan to say. And, again, as

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I said, most of the time, you're not

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going to say it because there's no benefit.

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It's a waste of time. It's a waste

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of resources.

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And I gave the story a long time

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ago, but I like this story, and it

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has to something to do with a scent.

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Sayyid

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so a man came to the guards and

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said, I wanna talk to Muhammedalai. They said,

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who are you? He said, tell them I'm

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his brother.

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They went to Muhammedalai, your brother is by

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the door, he wants to come in. So

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he said, okay, but brother, Alhamdulillah, come in.

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So when he went inside,

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Muhammad, I'm looking at him, and this is

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not my brother. Who are you? He said,

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I'm I'm your brother from Adam and Eve,

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Adam Hawad.

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He said, okay. What do you want?

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He said,

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you are great. You are my brother from

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Adam and Eve. I want my share in

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the money of my brother from Adam and

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Eve. He said, okay. That's that's nice.

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A cent. He gave him a cent. So

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he said, what is this? A cent? What

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am I gonna do with a cent? So,

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Waawhi, lallahu, he said, wallahi, if I start

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giving away my money to my brothers and

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sisters from 'almati, if you will not even

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get a cent, you are lucky. Alhamdulillah.

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Al

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the Quran that have, all the alphabet. The

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last verse is Surat, Al Fati,

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verse 29 and in Surat Al Imran chapter

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3 verse 154.

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And the winner for today is brother Salih

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Adi.

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Brother Salih Adi.

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So you got this seerah of the prophet

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in Arabi in Somali. And you got Surah

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Yaseen and Surah Al Rahman recited by Sheikh

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Abdul Qasid.

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You know the answer, imil they eat bananas

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every day, believe

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me. If you know the answer, imil me

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before tomorrow, asa@[email protected].

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