Mustafa Khattab – Muslim Manners 8 Wisdom I Ramadan 2012

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the qualities of Islam, including wisdom, common sense, and the use of hesitation in praying. They also mention a woman who talks about her husband waking her husband at 2 in the morning to discuss bills, and the importance of learning from mistakes to get sharper in acquisitions. The speaker also emphasizes the need to avoid deviances and offers resources for learning.
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So, 1 week is gone from a month

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of Ramadan that is 1 quarter of the

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month is gone.

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And

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believe me, it goes very fast.

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The first couple of days are very tough

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and they're very long, but

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once the first 2 days are gone, the

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whole month is gone. And this is why

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we call it fasting because it goes very

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fast.

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Islam.

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So today, inshallah, we're talking about one of

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the qualities of a Muslim and that today's

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quality is wisdom.

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Not everyone has wisdom,

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and common sense is not very common.

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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it calls it Hikma in the Quran. So

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if you wanna learn Hikma, you have to

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study the life of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam and try to follow his example

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and this is the way to get Hikma.

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And Hikma Ta'rafha al kasarbuwakawal

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alfir al shaylmunasib

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So hikmah means to say or do the

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right thing

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and say the right thing to the right

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people in the right way at the right

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time.

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But this is not the right time.

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So if a lady

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wakes up her husband at 2 in the

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morning to talk about the bills,

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this is not the right time, and this

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is not the right way.

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And I remember last year, one of the

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brothers I was getting ready, I was on

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the way to the Islamic school to pray

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salatulay,

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and he stopped me, and he said, I

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wanna divorce my wife today. Should I come

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before Ra'id or after Ra'id?

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So I said, okay.

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I'm gonna give you my number. Call it,

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and we can discuss it over the phone.

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1800

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Go, Imam.

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This number doesn't exist.

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This is not the right time. Okay?

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Well,

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to learn Hikma, you have to try and

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you if you make mistakes, you will learn

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from your mistakes and this is one of

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the ways to get Hikma.

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To reflect on the signs of Allah

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is another way to get Hikma.

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So one of the people came to Dawood

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Alaihi Salaam and said I have chicken

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in the basement and every morning I wake

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up in the morning and 2 chicken are

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gone. I have a thief, one of my

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neighbors is is a thief. So how do

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I know the thief? So the woman

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called the people to come to salah in

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his house, and he started to give them

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a talk. And he said in his talk,

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why on earth would some of you stay

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up all night stealing chicken and ducks from

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their neighbors and they come to my house

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to pray with their heads covered with feathers?

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So one of them started to remove the

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fit like this from his head, so the

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Uddhara said, hey, this is the guy. This

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is the guy.

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Moscow stand, Madrid stand. Oh, it's all Muslim

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land. Go to, to Canada, it's full of

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Muslim. So they looked at their the Muslim

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was sitting next to them and said, hey,

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if you wanna work in a place that

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doesn't have Muslim, where should we go? So

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the Muslim said, go to Jahannam. It's the

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only place that doesn't have Muslims.

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So we said that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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always talks about light in the Quran in

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the singular because it's 1. The straight path,

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it's only 1.

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But

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Allah talks about darkness in the plural

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because there are many ways that people can

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deviate. Some people worship other humans like and

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they worship the holy cow in India and

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so on and so forth. So there are

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so many ways to deviate.

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From a to z. If you know the

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answer, email me at [email protected].

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