Mustafa Khattab – Muslim Manners 23 Grace I Ramadan 2012

Not a single word in English that conveys

the whole meaning of the word khalil.

What is khalil? Khalil is when you control

yourself and there is someone that deserves to

be punched in the face

and you could tell yourself this is Halib.

Sometimes when your kids drive you nuts and

you don't throw them outside the window this

is Halib.

And sometimes when you feel like I'm talking

to the sister. Sometimes when you feel like

you wanna shoot your husband in the head

and you control yourself, this is heavy. So

this is the meaning. Okay?

Sometimes people, Yeah, I mean, they they they

push you to the extreme and still you

control yourself. This is the meaning of patience

and grace.

The patient one, the gracious one among you

is not the one who knocks people down

but the person who controls himself

at the time of extreme anger.

And I'm aware there are some games,

on the Internet

beat up your boss.

And sometimes, they're recommended for someone who is

under a lot of, stress at work. What

you do, you download this game, you install

it, and of course, you get a picture

of your boss and you start smashing his

face and punching him in the face, then

you relax after 2 hours of beating on

your boss. They have this game, it's it's

very, popular.

And if you like it, thanks and

and the Khalifa stretched from India all the

way to North Africa to Spain

and you know, upper Africa.

A very huge land, vast land. So we

entered the masjid before fast it was very

dark. So he stood on the head of

a man who was asleep in the masjid.

So the man woke up and he was

very

very nice. He said, are you blind?

He was talking to Umar ibn Abdul Aziz.

He didn't see him in the dark.

So Umar ibn Abdul Aziz said, no I'm

not blind.

The servant of Omar ibn Abdul Aziz wanted

to rip off the head of the of

the guy who was sleeping in the bush.

How dare you talk to the Khalifa like

this? So Omar ibn Abdul Aziz told him,

leave him alone. He asked me a question

if

And

the So Adhan ibn Nuqai was very,

patient and they they use him as an

example for patience and grace. One man he

was walking in the street and this man

walked behind him and he started to cuss

and and insult him.

And Anab was patient, he didn't answer him

back. He walked him a long distance behind

him. So when he, Anab got close to

his house and then, you know, the valley

the the area where he used to live,

he told the man, if you have something,

if you have more insults

to say, please say them before you go

to my street. Because if my family hears,

they will destroy you. So whatever you have

against me, say it before we go there.

Okay?

And he and he hung his sword in

the tree.

So this man who was gathered came and

took the sword and put it in the

nick of the prophet sahalehi wa sallam. So

the prophet sahalehi wa sallam woke up and

there the man was standing with a sword

in his hand. So he said to the

prophet

who can protect you from my hands now?

So the prophet says Allah.

So the man,

you know, he trembled and his hand shook

and the the sword fell off his hand.

The prophet took it and put it in

his neck and said who can't protect you

from me now? Then

so the man said, oh, Mohammed, have mercy

have mercy. Then the Sahaba came, and the

prophet, salawat alaihi wa sallam, told him the

story. And at the end of the hadith,

the prophet, salawat alaihi wa sallam, forgave him

and set him free.

So the Hadith about the creation of Adam

from dust, mud, and clay, it's the same

thing, the same stage,

but different

developments. Just like when you say, I made

the that, loaf of bread from corn

is wheat or wheat. It's acceptable if you

say, I made it from flour. It's acceptable

if you if you say, I made it

from dough. It's the same thing, but different

status. The winner for today is brother Sayed

Usid.

It's all I'm gonna say.

He is the only one who answered the

question. No one else. And the suari of

the Quran The Quran

talks about the curse

tree in the Quran. What is that tree?

If you know the answer, immediately before tomorrow

as soon as I see I'd say Imam,

and you hold the.