Mustafa Khattab – Muslim Manners 23 Grace I Ramadan 2012

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker explains the meaning of khbok, a single word that means "will" in English, and how it is used to signal frustration or attitude towards a situation. The meaning is also discussed, including the use of a person who controls himself at the time of extreme anger and the importance of patience and grace. The speaker also mentions a story about a man who uses his sword to set a victim on fire, and how the same person uses it to set a victim on fire.

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			Not a single word in English that conveys
		
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			the whole meaning of the word khalil.
		
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			What is khalil? Khalil is when you control
		
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			yourself and there is someone that deserves to
		
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			be punched in the face
		
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			and you could tell yourself this is Halib.
		
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			Sometimes when your kids drive you nuts and
		
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			you don't throw them outside the window this
		
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			is Halib.
		
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			And sometimes when you feel like I'm talking
		
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			to the sister. Sometimes when you feel like
		
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			you wanna shoot your husband in the head
		
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			and you control yourself, this is heavy. So
		
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			this is the meaning. Okay?
		
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			Sometimes people, Yeah, I mean, they they they
		
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			push you to the extreme and still you
		
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			control yourself. This is the meaning of patience
		
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			and grace.
		
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			The patient one, the gracious one among you
		
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			is not the one who knocks people down
		
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			but the person who controls himself
		
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			at the time of extreme anger.
		
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			And I'm aware there are some games,
		
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			on the Internet
		
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			beat up your boss.
		
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			And sometimes, they're recommended for someone who is
		
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			under a lot of, stress at work. What
		
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			you do, you download this game, you install
		
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			it, and of course, you get a picture
		
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			of your boss and you start smashing his
		
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			face and punching him in the face, then
		
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			you relax after 2 hours of beating on
		
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			your boss. They have this game, it's it's
		
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			very, popular.
		
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			And if you like it, thanks and
		
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			and the Khalifa stretched from India all the
		
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			way to North Africa to Spain
		
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			and you know, upper Africa.
		
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			A very huge land, vast land. So we
		
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			entered the masjid before fast it was very
		
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			dark. So he stood on the head of
		
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			a man who was asleep in the masjid.
		
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			So the man woke up and he was
		
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			very
		
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			very nice. He said, are you blind?
		
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			He was talking to Umar ibn Abdul Aziz.
		
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			He didn't see him in the dark.
		
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			So Umar ibn Abdul Aziz said, no I'm
		
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			not blind.
		
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			The servant of Omar ibn Abdul Aziz wanted
		
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			to rip off the head of the of
		
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			the guy who was sleeping in the bush.
		
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			How dare you talk to the Khalifa like
		
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			this? So Omar ibn Abdul Aziz told him,
		
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			leave him alone. He asked me a question
		
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			if
		
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			And
		
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			the So Adhan ibn Nuqai was very,
		
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			patient and they they use him as an
		
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			example for patience and grace. One man he
		
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			was walking in the street and this man
		
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			walked behind him and he started to cuss
		
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			and and insult him.
		
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			And Anab was patient, he didn't answer him
		
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			back. He walked him a long distance behind
		
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			him. So when he, Anab got close to
		
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			his house and then, you know, the valley
		
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			the the area where he used to live,
		
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			he told the man, if you have something,
		
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			if you have more insults
		
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			to say, please say them before you go
		
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			to my street. Because if my family hears,
		
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			they will destroy you. So whatever you have
		
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			against me, say it before we go there.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And he and he hung his sword in
		
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			the tree.
		
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			So this man who was gathered came and
		
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			took the sword and put it in the
		
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			nick of the prophet sahalehi wa sallam. So
		
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			the prophet sahalehi wa sallam woke up and
		
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			there the man was standing with a sword
		
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			in his hand. So he said to the
		
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			prophet
		
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			who can protect you from my hands now?
		
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			So the prophet says Allah.
		
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			So the man,
		
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			you know, he trembled and his hand shook
		
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			and the the sword fell off his hand.
		
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			The prophet took it and put it in
		
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			his neck and said who can't protect you
		
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			from me now? Then
		
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			so the man said, oh, Mohammed, have mercy
		
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			have mercy. Then the Sahaba came, and the
		
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			prophet, salawat alaihi wa sallam, told him the
		
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			story. And at the end of the hadith,
		
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			the prophet, salawat alaihi wa sallam, forgave him
		
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			and set him free.
		
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			So the Hadith about the creation of Adam
		
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			from dust, mud, and clay, it's the same
		
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			thing, the same stage,
		
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			but different
		
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			developments. Just like when you say, I made
		
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			the that, loaf of bread from corn
		
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			is wheat or wheat. It's acceptable if you
		
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			say, I made it from flour. It's acceptable
		
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			if you if you say, I made it
		
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			from dough. It's the same thing, but different
		
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			status. The winner for today is brother Sayed
		
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			Usid.
		
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			It's all I'm gonna say.
		
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			He is the only one who answered the
		
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			question. No one else. And the suari of
		
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			the Quran The Quran
		
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			talks about the curse
		
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			tree in the Quran. What is that tree?
		
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			If you know the answer, immediately before tomorrow
		
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			as soon as I see I'd say Imam,
		
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			and you hold the.