Mustafa Khattab – Muslim Manners 10 True Iman I Ramadan 2012

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the concept of hate and the practical life, including the importance of brotherhood and loving for people. They also mention a famous Indian politician who called for change and threatened to kill anyone who would take his money. The speaker suggests that hate can be a disturbing factor in one's life and that one should never do anything that makes one feel sorry for someone.

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			For themselves.
		
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			And the prophet says
		
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			in the authentic hadith and Bukhari Muslim, none
		
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			of you truly believes
		
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			until he or she loves for other people
		
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			what they love for themselves.
		
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			And by the same analogy, hate for people
		
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			what you hate for yourself.
		
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			So on and so forth. So at the
		
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			end of the Hadith, the Prophet SAW Alaihi
		
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			Wasallam said,
		
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			if you are not able to benefit people,
		
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			at least don't harm them. And this by
		
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			itself is a good deal. If you're not
		
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			able to benefit somewhat,
		
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			don't harm them.
		
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			If you look at little kids, this is
		
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			something we grow up with,
		
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			greed.
		
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			For example, look at kids.
		
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			There's a toy thrown in the house for
		
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			weeks, no one is looking at it, and
		
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			as soon as one of them picks it,
		
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			the other ones, they just,
		
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			you know, jump over the one that has
		
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			it. Because now one of them has it
		
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			it has value, the greed.
		
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			One big apple, one small apple.
		
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			So the one who picked first took the
		
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			bigger one.
		
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			So the other one told him, subhanallah, what
		
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			is this great man? Why did you take
		
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			the big one? So the other one told
		
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			him, if you were to pick pick first,
		
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			which one would you take? So he said,
		
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			I'll take the small one. So he said,
		
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			you have it.
		
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			Keep your heart shut. You already got it.
		
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			Khalas, leave me alone.
		
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			I visited one of the schools to talk
		
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			to them about brotherhood and loving for people.
		
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			What do you love for yourself?
		
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			I spoke for over half an hour and
		
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			after we finished, I said, now we will
		
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			practice what I said in my talk. I'm
		
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			gonna throw some candy in the air. If
		
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			you pick a candy, give it to the
		
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			guy sitting next to you, to your right.
		
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			As soon as I started throwing the candy
		
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			in the air, they literally almost killed each
		
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			other. Oh.
		
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			Speaking about brotherhood and loving for people what
		
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			you love for yourself is something good, but
		
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			when it comes to the practical life,
		
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			it is not, you know, not everyone is
		
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			willing to share with other people.
		
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			So Abdullah ibn alayla
		
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			went to the store one day to buy
		
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			something and he got some money in his
		
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			pocket.
		
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			So as soon as he saw something that
		
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			he liked and he was about to take
		
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			out the money from his pocket, the money
		
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			was gone.
		
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			No money.
		
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			So when the people heard about the money
		
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			of the Sahabi, the companion of the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, it was stolen, they
		
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			felt so sorry for him, they started to
		
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			make dua against the thief. Oh, Allah, kill
		
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			him. Oh, Allah, do this to him. Do
		
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			this to him. So I would like to
		
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			Rasool Al Rahman who said leave him alone.
		
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			Oh Allah,
		
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			if he took this money because of his
		
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			need for the money, oh Allah bless this
		
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			money for him. But if he took it
		
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			without a need, oh Allah make it his
		
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			last theft.
		
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			Oh Allah give him trouble so
		
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			a famous Indian politician,
		
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			and human rights activist. He was traveling one
		
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			day. In his youth he was a lawyer
		
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			so he was traveling one day and he
		
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			called the train and the train was on
		
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			the move. So, while he was trying to
		
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			catch the train, one of his shoes fell
		
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			down. He couldn't get it because of the
		
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			speed of the train. So, he took the
		
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			other shoe and he threw it next to
		
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			the other one.
		
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			His companions said his friends said, why did
		
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			he do this? So, he said, so the
		
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			poor who will find it will make use
		
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			of the 2 shoes. If I leave one
		
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			for him, what he's gonna do with it?
		
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			No. He was Hindu.
		
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			Sometimes he swear by the sun, the moon,
		
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			the dua. And Allah,
		
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			never swore by the life of a man
		
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			except one. Who is that man that Allah
		
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			swore by his life in the Quran? If
		
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			you email me the answer, you mail me
		
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			the answer, shalom.