Mustafa Khattab – Love For Others What You Love For Yourself

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker is giving advice on how to handle conversations with guests from Turkey. They suggest giving out a small InshaGeneration before starting a conversation, and encourage others to be nice to themselves. They also mention a test and encourage others to share good things with their loved ones.
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So,

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we're gonna keep it very short InshaAllah because

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we have some, guests from Turkey. So they'll

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probably come and say, give you Salaam InshaAllah.

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So I have, like, 2, 3 minutes before

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they come to the later time. Before we

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begin, there are a couple of copies of

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the Quran to, give out. One of them

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goes to, this brother here.

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This guy? Did you get one of those

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before?

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Yeah, this is for you.

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You're a good guy.

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Thank you. Thank you. And the other one

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is for the sister.

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Did you get one of us before? MashaAllah.

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Very good.

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So I'm observing you guys all the time,

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the way you behave, the way you talk,

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the way you pray, and so on and

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so forth. So, keep up the good work.

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Basha'Allah.

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Speaking of the good work and the good

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image, yesterday was not a good day for

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me. Right? The Piranha style, when the brother

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had the candy, that was not nice at

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all. Especially the brothers who were sitting here.

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The sisters were good, some of the brothers

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who were sitting here,

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they were not as good. This is not

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nice. And we spoke about this before.

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So if someone is asking a question and

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they said they have some candy,

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like 10, 15 candies, they can't give candy

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to everyone.

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And even Subhala, I noticed if they ask

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a question,

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like say for example, an impossible question, a

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difficult question, like how many drops of rain

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are there in the ocean? Everybody over at

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Instagram.

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What are you talking about? You don't know

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the answer. You have no clue. He said

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yesterday,

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there are some 5 things that I will

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tell you. If you know them, you'll be

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successful.

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Five tips or 5 things, and you don't

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know what he's going to talk about. And

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as soon as he said 5 things, now

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everyone is there. What are you talking about?

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I myself

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did not know what he was going to

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talk about, although I invited him. You know,

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I invited him to give some Naseeha, but

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I didn't know the specifics. How would he

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know?

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You know? So take it easy inshaAllah and

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give them a break. Right? And if you

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know the answer raise your hand. If you

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don't,

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then Khalas.

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Right?

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So,

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Sorry to interrupt, we had a very long

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talk. So from now on you're gonna see,

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inshallah, a big difference. And if anything else

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happens,

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like, someone will be in trouble. So let's

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see, brother. So they're not just to let

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you know, they're not supposed to pass. So

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these two red lines is your space and

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the guest speaker.

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And that

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lot

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you know second

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line for the boys?

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That's they shouldn't pass, not even the green

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spot. So let's see. Jazakkah.

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So as we said before, in the next

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few months inshallah we'll be trying to expand

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the school. We'll be asking the community for

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support. So we need to give them a

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good image. So please help me. When they

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come, show them some respect and be nice

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to them inshallah. Don't drive them nuts.

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We'll answer the questions next time,

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next week inshaAllah.

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Very quickly. As I said yesterday, talk is

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very cheap. It is very easy to talk,

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you know, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna

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do this, I'm gonna do this, And when

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it comes to action,

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nothing happens. Right?

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I remember I gave a talk in,

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in one of the Masajid

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to, school students.

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And I said, I gave half an hour

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talk about the Hadith of the Prophet SAW.

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Alaiwum

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minuakdukum khathayuhibla'ahiafil

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mahekulimus.

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None of you truly believes until they love

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for their brother or sister what they love

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for themselves. Half an hour I was talking.

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What the Sahaba did, what the Prophet SAW

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wasalam did, and Muhajirun,

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Al Ansar, all that stuff. And mashaAllah, the

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kids are excited, and I said, are you

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able to do this?

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Can you share something good with someone you

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love them like you love yourself?

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If both of you apply for a job

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and your brother ends up getting the job,

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would you be happy for him just like

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you would be happy for yourself? And they

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said yes.

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And they said if Allah gave you something

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nice, would you share some with your brother

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or sister? No problem.

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And I said okay, here is the test.

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I got some candies in my pocket,

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I'm gonna throw

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them up,

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1 by 1.

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And if you catch 1, give it to

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the person to your right.

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Very simple. It's a very simple test. They

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said, okay, we'll take the test. Masha'Allah. We

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love for everyone what we love for ourselves.

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Through the first one,

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it landed in someone's hands,

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and I said, give it to the person

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to your right, and the person to the

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right happened to be their own brother.

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Biological brother.

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You know?

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And he said, Okay, you know what?

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I'm not gonna share You're brother. Like,

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you live in the same house. You have

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the same father saying, no.

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Shoot me first. Right? And the same with

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the other ones, they almost killed each other.

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So talk is very cheap. Right? I'm gonna

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be nice, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna

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What proves

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if you are a good person or not?

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Your actions.

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Right? Your actions.

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So this is my message today inshaAllah. Let

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your actions

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speak louder than words. Right? So we ask

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to give you the

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best in this life, and the best in

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the life to come, and give you tawfiq

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and success, and give you happiness and sa'ala

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insha'Allah.

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So insha'Allah we'll see if the guests are

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ready so they can talk to you for

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a minute or 2. Let

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me see.

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