Mustafa Khattab – Key To Success Br. M. Rabah

Mustafa Khattab
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The importance of learning from experiences and being good for oneself is emphasized in Islam. The speaker emphasizes the importance of listening to people and being patient. The pillars of Islam include being a good person, being patient, being good to oneself, being patient, being good to parents and everyone else, being a good teacher, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being a good person, being
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So,

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I think you know already that I'm a

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farmer. I grew up on a farm in

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Egypt.

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And, one thing I learned from my parents

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and the people in the village,

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that I should always

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sit with people who have experience and learn

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from them.

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And I remember one time I was in

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Cairo, I was with a cab driver, a

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bit older than me, and I asked him,

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if there's one thing that you need to

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teach me, what what should it be?

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And he said, if you put

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala over your head,

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it would put people under your feet.

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If you put people over your head, Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala will put you under their

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feet. In other words, if you have respect

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for Allah, everyone will respect will respect you.

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But if you're only if you're only worried

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about what people will say about you, Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala will put you under their

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feet. They have no respect for you. This

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is something to think about. So today, inshallah,

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our guest speaker is brother Abu Ali, Muhammad

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Rabah, originally from Lebanon,

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And, he has been in Canada now for

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28 years.

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So,

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when he came, I think the, First Nation

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were stamping his passport because he came a

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long time ago.

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So,

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I invited him to speak to you about

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his experience.

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He's a friend of mine. We always like

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to go out and and talk. I like

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to learn from his experience.

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There's not much of an age difference between

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us, only a few months as you can

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tell.

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So I hope inshallah you can learn from

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his experience,

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and so please pay attention. He's going to

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say some important things based on his experience

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in Canada in the last 28 years. So

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pay attention inshallah.

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Brothers and sisters,

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as,

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brother Mustafa was saying, I am a farmer

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as well,

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and I learned a lot from

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the ground, from the trees, from

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the animals we used to deal with, like

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donkeys, horses,

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and that stuff.

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So I learned a lot, and I learned

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a lot in my stay in Canada as

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well. Like, it's a big experience and a

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long experience.

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I'm gonna speak today about,

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like, one thing,

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especially for you young guys,

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young children.

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And I'm gonna ask some questions

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in between.

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Who can answer the question first

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will get a

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nice

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sugar free candy?

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I got lots of them.

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So everyone answers will get a candy immediately.

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Now, what I'm gonna talk about is

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who you want to be

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in the future

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and

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where you want to be.

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I'm not saying you want to be a

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doctor or an engineer

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or something like that. This is not not

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the subject.

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Who you want to be?

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Do you want to be a good person

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or a bad person?

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Who wants to be a good person?

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Everybody does. Who wants to be a bad

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person?

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Oh my god.

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I like that. I like that.

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Now

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now

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the second or the second part of the

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of the subject is where you like to

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be?

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Do you like to be

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up with the stars

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or you like to be down with the

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stones?

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Who likes to be with the stars?

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Oh my god. That's good. I like that.

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Who likes to be down with the stones?

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You like to be down with the stones?

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You like to be with the stones? Why?

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That's Another likes to

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be with swords. Very cool. Thank you. Now

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my second question is,

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can everyone

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be a good person?

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Yes.

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Who says yes?

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Yes.

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Very good. Who says no? No.

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Okay. Well, I think everybody can be a

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good person

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if he qualifies

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and applies

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the 5

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pillars of a good person.

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Which thing has 5 pillars as well?

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Okay. Okay. Just hit.

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No foreign prizes. No foreign prizes. No No.

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Let's Let's talk about how we're gonna behave

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in the masjid.

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Don't move. Don't say anything.

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Thank you.

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So everybody can be a good person if

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he qualifies and applies the 5 pillars of

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a good person.

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Who is this?

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This I'm not asking you. Now

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what are the 5 pillars of this?

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Not the staff. What are the 5 pillars

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of a good person?

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This what I'm gonna talk about now,

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and you have to listen carefully.

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First one,

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you have to be good

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for yourself,

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first of all.

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How to be good for yourself?

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To be honest,

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straightforward,

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don't lie,

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don't cheat, don't steal, don't do bad things.

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This is what the Muslim does. Right?

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So this is already you have it. Yes.

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You already have this one.

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Second thing, you have to be good to

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your parents.

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This is

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a given. This must be. You have to

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be good to your parents.

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Listen to them.

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Do what they ask you to do

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all the time.

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Don't argue too much with your parents. Don't,

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let them, hear your bad words or so

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forth. You have to be good to your

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parents.

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3rd one,

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you have to be good

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to all the people with no exception.

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All the people with no exception. If you

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find a weak person, you have to help

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him.

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If you if you see something bad,

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on the street, you have to remove it

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so nobody can get hurt of it

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and so forth.

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So who can tell me what was the

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first one?

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That if you wanna be a good person,

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you always have to do good things.

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The first one I said. The first one

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I said. Yeah. I didn't mention.

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Good for yourself. Listen. The second one, remember,

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you have to be good to your parents.

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The third one, you have to be good

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to all the people. Now

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the fourth one,

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you have to be good

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to everything

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Allah created.

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Animals,

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plants,

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trees,

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birds,

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insects,

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everything.

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So you have to be good. If you

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find a broken bird on the street,

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it's very good to help her.

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If you find, anything wrong with any animal

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on the street, dog or cat or donkey

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or anything else,

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also, you have

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to be good to it. Don't hurt.

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Don't hurt what Allah created.

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The 5th pillar of a good person

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is

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patience.

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You have to be patient.

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So if somebody offered you a dish

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full of hot food,

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can you eat it immediately?

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No. You have to wait. Right? You have

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to be patient

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so the food will get a little bit

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colder, nicer, then you have to start eating.

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Alright? So the 5th pillar of Islam, what

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was the 5th pillar?

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Yes. Good.

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Guys, listen. Listen. Listen. Listen. Listen. Listen.

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I did not expect that you are so

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smart. I am surprised.

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Very good.

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I am really, really

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surprised. Very good, guys.

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Now

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the second question, can everybody be a good

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person? Yes.

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Yes.

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How?

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If he qualifies

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and applies the 5 pillars that he has

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vowed. I believe. And

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and

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because you are Muslims, alhamdulillah,

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you have

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most of these things.

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So you already passed

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more than half of the way to be

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good persons.

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You already passed

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half the way to be good persons.

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So this means

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not every Muslim is a good person.

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Right?

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Yeah.

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Not every Muslim is a good person, but

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a Muslim can be easily a good person

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if he applies those five things that we

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spoke about.

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What was the first one?

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What was the first one? Speak to yourself.

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Yes. Good. Sir, I want to say

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it. What was the second one?

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What was the second one? What was the

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second one? What was the second one? What

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was the second one? Heads. Heads. Heads. Heads.

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Keep sitting, please. I don't give you a

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few make noise. Okay?

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What was the third one?

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I don't be honest. I go to everyone.

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Very good. Beautiful people.

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What was the last one? I love the

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food.

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Make sure make sure. Patience.

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Be patient. Okay.

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So that's good. Guys, excuse me. Excuse me.

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You're making a little bit of noise. Sorry?

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As I said, you have to be patient.

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So

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always raise your hand without making any noise,

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and I will come to you.

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So where do you like to be?

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Up with the stars

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or down with the stones?

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Up with the stars. Definitely, everybody will say

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up with the stars. But how can you

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reach there?

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Oh, I don't know. You should be How

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can you reach there? How can you be

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up with the stars? I do. Brother, can

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we First of all

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what did I say? Be patient. Do not

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make noise.

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This is your condition.

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Okay?

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To be how can you be up with

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the stars?

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You have to be up with the stars.

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You have to be up with

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the stars.

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That's it?

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How to be up with the stars? 5

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doors of sun.

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Plus?

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How can you be up with the stars?

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With everybody and with all what Allah created.

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Very good girl.

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How can you be up with the stars?

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Patient as well. Yes. Not only that, there

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is still more.

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To be up with the stars,

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you have to be

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applying

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the 5 pillars of a good person,

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being a good Muslim,

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plus

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you have to be well

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educated.

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Listen.

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You have to be well educated.

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So you have to take care of your

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lessons of your school and listen to your

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teachers

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and listen to everybody

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who,

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teach you anything.

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Anything. You listen,

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know how to listen to people,

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know how to read, know how to teach

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yourself and to learn more,

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plus the 5 pillars and be a good

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Muslim, then you will

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be up with the stars.

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Thank you.

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Thank you.

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And everyone was together in the gym, 500

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students, 700 students.

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And he asked him, what would you like

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to be? And each one said, well, I

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wanna be a doctor, a teacher,

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an engineer.

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Whatever. Then after 20 30 years

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he wrote, SubhanAllah, and I asked him every

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single one said they wanted to become something

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important. Right?

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And he said, how come if everyone wanted

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to be someone good,

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you know, a teacher,

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an imam,

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a doctor,

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an engineer, any job. He said how come

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that we have so many thieves

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in the community, so many drug dealers in

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the community,

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so many corrupt people in the community.

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If everyone started off with this good intention

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that I want to be a good person,

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how come they end up being bad people?

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Because they don't apply apply the 5 things

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that the brother was talking about.

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Talk is cheap.

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It is very good to have wishful thinking,

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but what matters is if you apply the

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5. Without the 5 you will not achieve

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anything. So we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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to make you successful, to make you role

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models for the community. We'll see you tomorrow

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inshaAllah.

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