Mustafa Khattab – Key To Success Br. M. Rabah

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			So,
		
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			I think you know already that I'm a
		
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			farmer. I grew up on a farm in
		
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			Egypt.
		
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			And, one thing I learned from my parents
		
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			and the people in the village,
		
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			that I should always
		
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			sit with people who have experience and learn
		
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			from them.
		
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			And I remember one time I was in
		
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			Cairo, I was with a cab driver, a
		
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			bit older than me, and I asked him,
		
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			if there's one thing that you need to
		
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			teach me, what what should it be?
		
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			And he said, if you put
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala over your head,
		
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			it would put people under your feet.
		
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			If you put people over your head, Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala will put you under their
		
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			feet. In other words, if you have respect
		
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			for Allah, everyone will respect will respect you.
		
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			But if you're only if you're only worried
		
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			about what people will say about you, Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala will put you under their
		
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			feet. They have no respect for you. This
		
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			is something to think about. So today, inshallah,
		
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			our guest speaker is brother Abu Ali, Muhammad
		
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			Rabah, originally from Lebanon,
		
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			And, he has been in Canada now for
		
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			28 years.
		
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			So,
		
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			when he came, I think the, First Nation
		
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			were stamping his passport because he came a
		
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			long time ago.
		
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			So,
		
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			I invited him to speak to you about
		
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			his experience.
		
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			He's a friend of mine. We always like
		
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			to go out and and talk. I like
		
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			to learn from his experience.
		
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			There's not much of an age difference between
		
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			us, only a few months as you can
		
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			tell.
		
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			So I hope inshallah you can learn from
		
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			his experience,
		
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			and so please pay attention. He's going to
		
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			say some important things based on his experience
		
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			in Canada in the last 28 years. So
		
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			pay attention inshallah.
		
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			Brothers and sisters,
		
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			as,
		
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			brother Mustafa was saying, I am a farmer
		
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			as well,
		
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			and I learned a lot from
		
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			the ground, from the trees, from
		
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			the animals we used to deal with, like
		
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			donkeys, horses,
		
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			and that stuff.
		
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			So I learned a lot, and I learned
		
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			a lot in my stay in Canada as
		
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			well. Like, it's a big experience and a
		
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			long experience.
		
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			I'm gonna speak today about,
		
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			like, one thing,
		
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			especially for you young guys,
		
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			young children.
		
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			And I'm gonna ask some questions
		
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			in between.
		
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			Who can answer the question first
		
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			will get a
		
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			nice
		
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			sugar free candy?
		
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			I got lots of them.
		
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			So everyone answers will get a candy immediately.
		
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			Now, what I'm gonna talk about is
		
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			who you want to be
		
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			in the future
		
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			and
		
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			where you want to be.
		
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			I'm not saying you want to be a
		
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			doctor or an engineer
		
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			or something like that. This is not not
		
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			the subject.
		
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			Who you want to be?
		
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			Do you want to be a good person
		
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			or a bad person?
		
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			Who wants to be a good person?
		
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			Everybody does. Who wants to be a bad
		
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			person?
		
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			Oh my god.
		
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			I like that. I like that.
		
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			Now
		
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			now
		
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			the second or the second part of the
		
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			of the subject is where you like to
		
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			be?
		
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			Do you like to be
		
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			up with the stars
		
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			or you like to be down with the
		
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			stones?
		
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			Who likes to be with the stars?
		
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			Oh my god. That's good. I like that.
		
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			Who likes to be down with the stones?
		
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			You like to be down with the stones?
		
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			You like to be with the stones? Why?
		
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			That's Another likes to
		
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			be with swords. Very cool. Thank you. Now
		
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			my second question is,
		
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			can everyone
		
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			be a good person?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Who says yes?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Very good. Who says no? No.
		
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			Okay. Well, I think everybody can be a
		
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			good person
		
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			if he qualifies
		
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			and applies
		
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			the 5
		
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			pillars of a good person.
		
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			Which thing has 5 pillars as well?
		
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			Okay. Okay. Just hit.
		
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			No foreign prizes. No foreign prizes. No No.
		
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			Let's Let's talk about how we're gonna behave
		
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			in the masjid.
		
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			Don't move. Don't say anything.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			So everybody can be a good person if
		
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			he qualifies and applies the 5 pillars of
		
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			a good person.
		
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			Who is this?
		
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			This I'm not asking you. Now
		
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			what are the 5 pillars of this?
		
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			Not the staff. What are the 5 pillars
		
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			of a good person?
		
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			This what I'm gonna talk about now,
		
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			and you have to listen carefully.
		
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			First one,
		
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			you have to be good
		
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			for yourself,
		
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			first of all.
		
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			How to be good for yourself?
		
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			To be honest,
		
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			straightforward,
		
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			don't lie,
		
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			don't cheat, don't steal, don't do bad things.
		
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			This is what the Muslim does. Right?
		
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			So this is already you have it. Yes.
		
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			You already have this one.
		
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			Second thing, you have to be good to
		
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			your parents.
		
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			This is
		
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			a given. This must be. You have to
		
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			be good to your parents.
		
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			Listen to them.
		
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			Do what they ask you to do
		
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			all the time.
		
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			Don't argue too much with your parents. Don't,
		
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			let them, hear your bad words or so
		
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			forth. You have to be good to your
		
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			parents.
		
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			3rd one,
		
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			you have to be good
		
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			to all the people with no exception.
		
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			All the people with no exception. If you
		
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			find a weak person, you have to help
		
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			him.
		
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			If you if you see something bad,
		
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			on the street, you have to remove it
		
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			so nobody can get hurt of it
		
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			and so forth.
		
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			So who can tell me what was the
		
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			first one?
		
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			That if you wanna be a good person,
		
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			you always have to do good things.
		
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			The first one I said. The first one
		
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			I said. Yeah. I didn't mention.
		
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			Good for yourself. Listen. The second one, remember,
		
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			you have to be good to your parents.
		
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			The third one, you have to be good
		
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			to all the people. Now
		
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			the fourth one,
		
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			you have to be good
		
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			to everything
		
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			Allah created.
		
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			Animals,
		
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			plants,
		
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			trees,
		
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			birds,
		
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			insects,
		
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			everything.
		
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			So you have to be good. If you
		
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			find a broken bird on the street,
		
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			it's very good to help her.
		
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			If you find, anything wrong with any animal
		
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			on the street, dog or cat or donkey
		
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			or anything else,
		
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			also, you have
		
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			to be good to it. Don't hurt.
		
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			Don't hurt what Allah created.
		
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			The 5th pillar of a good person
		
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			is
		
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			patience.
		
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			You have to be patient.
		
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			So if somebody offered you a dish
		
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			full of hot food,
		
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			can you eat it immediately?
		
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			No. You have to wait. Right? You have
		
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			to be patient
		
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			so the food will get a little bit
		
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			colder, nicer, then you have to start eating.
		
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			Alright? So the 5th pillar of Islam, what
		
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			was the 5th pillar?
		
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			Yes. Good.
		
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			Guys, listen. Listen. Listen. Listen. Listen. Listen.
		
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			I did not expect that you are so
		
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			smart. I am surprised.
		
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			Very good.
		
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			I am really, really
		
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			surprised. Very good, guys.
		
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			Now
		
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			the second question, can everybody be a good
		
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			person? Yes.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			How?
		
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			If he qualifies
		
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			and applies the 5 pillars that he has
		
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			vowed. I believe. And
		
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			and
		
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			because you are Muslims, alhamdulillah,
		
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			you have
		
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			most of these things.
		
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			So you already passed
		
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			more than half of the way to be
		
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			good persons.
		
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			You already passed
		
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			half the way to be good persons.
		
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			So this means
		
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			not every Muslim is a good person.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			Not every Muslim is a good person, but
		
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			a Muslim can be easily a good person
		
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			if he applies those five things that we
		
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			spoke about.
		
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			What was the first one?
		
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			What was the first one? Speak to yourself.
		
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			Yes. Good. Sir, I want to say
		
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			it. What was the second one?
		
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			What was the second one? What was the
		
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			second one? What was the second one? What
		
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			was the second one? Heads. Heads. Heads. Heads.
		
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			Keep sitting, please. I don't give you a
		
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			few make noise. Okay?
		
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			What was the third one?
		
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			I don't be honest. I go to everyone.
		
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			Very good. Beautiful people.
		
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			What was the last one? I love the
		
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			food.
		
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			Make sure make sure. Patience.
		
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			Be patient. Okay.
		
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			So that's good. Guys, excuse me. Excuse me.
		
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			You're making a little bit of noise. Sorry?
		
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			As I said, you have to be patient.
		
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			So
		
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			always raise your hand without making any noise,
		
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			and I will come to you.
		
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			So where do you like to be?
		
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			Up with the stars
		
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			or down with the stones?
		
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			Up with the stars. Definitely, everybody will say
		
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			up with the stars. But how can you
		
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			reach there?
		
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			Oh, I don't know. You should be How
		
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			can you reach there? How can you be
		
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			up with the stars? I do. Brother, can
		
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			we First of all
		
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			what did I say? Be patient. Do not
		
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			make noise.
		
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			This is your condition.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			To be how can you be up with
		
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			the stars?
		
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			You have to be up with the stars.
		
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			You have to be up with
		
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			the stars.
		
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			That's it?
		
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			How to be up with the stars? 5
		
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			doors of sun.
		
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			Plus?
		
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			How can you be up with the stars?
		
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			With everybody and with all what Allah created.
		
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			Very good girl.
		
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			How can you be up with the stars?
		
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			Patient as well. Yes. Not only that, there
		
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			is still more.
		
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			To be up with the stars,
		
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			you have to be
		
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			applying
		
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			the 5 pillars of a good person,
		
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			being a good Muslim,
		
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			plus
		
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			you have to be well
		
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			educated.
		
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			Listen.
		
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			You have to be well educated.
		
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			So you have to take care of your
		
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			lessons of your school and listen to your
		
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			teachers
		
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			and listen to everybody
		
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			who,
		
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			teach you anything.
		
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			Anything. You listen,
		
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			know how to listen to people,
		
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			know how to read, know how to teach
		
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			yourself and to learn more,
		
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			plus the 5 pillars and be a good
		
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			Muslim, then you will
		
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			be up with the stars.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			Thank you.
		
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			And everyone was together in the gym, 500
		
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			students, 700 students.
		
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			And he asked him, what would you like
		
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			to be? And each one said, well, I
		
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			wanna be a doctor, a teacher,
		
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			an engineer.
		
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			Whatever. Then after 20 30 years
		
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			he wrote, SubhanAllah, and I asked him every
		
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			single one said they wanted to become something
		
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			important. Right?
		
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			And he said, how come if everyone wanted
		
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			to be someone good,
		
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			you know, a teacher,
		
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			an imam,
		
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			a doctor,
		
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			an engineer, any job. He said how come
		
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			that we have so many thieves
		
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			in the community, so many drug dealers in
		
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			the community,
		
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			so many corrupt people in the community.
		
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			If everyone started off with this good intention
		
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			that I want to be a good person,
		
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			how come they end up being bad people?
		
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			Because they don't apply apply the 5 things
		
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			that the brother was talking about.
		
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			Talk is cheap.
		
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			It is very good to have wishful thinking,
		
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			but what matters is if you apply the
		
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			5. Without the 5 you will not achieve
		
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			anything. So we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		
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			to make you successful, to make you role
		
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			models for the community. We'll see you tomorrow
		
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			inshaAllah.