Mustafa Khattab – Jumah Mistakes 1 1

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses mistakes made by people on the day of Jum'ah, including not showing up for events like the final hour or Day of Jannah. They stress the consequences of missing events and the importance of following the ADAD and avoiding accidents. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of staying ahead of events and avoiding missing rewards and accidents.
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I bear witness that there is none worthy

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of our worship except Allah

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And I bear witness that Muhammad

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is the seal of the prophets and the

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final messenger

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to all humanity.

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Whomever Allah

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guides, there is none to His guide, and

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whomever Allah believes to go astray,

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there is none to guide.

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So today, inshallah, we'll talk about some of

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the mistakes

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that some people do on the day of

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Jum'ah, when they come to the footbath or

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salat of Jum'ah.

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We will not talk about recommended things

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or the things that the scholars disagree on

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because it's

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it's disagreed on. But we will talk about

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pure mistakes that everyone

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knows, everyone with common sense knows that these

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things are wrong.

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So before we start, we'll give just one

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hadith about the virtue, the greatness of the

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day of Jum'ah. It is the best day.

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So the prophet

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says in an authentic hadith narrated in Sahih

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Muslim by Abu Bulaire that

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that the prophet says

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that the best

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day on which

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the sun has ever shined is the day

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of Jummah.

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On this day, Adam alaihi salaam was created.

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On this day, he was admitted to Jannah.

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On this day, he got out of Jannah.

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And the Day of Judgment, the final hour,

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will begin on the Day of Jannah. It's

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a very important day.

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So Muslims are classified into 2 groups as

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far

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as Salatul Jum'ah is concerned.

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Number 1, those who never come,

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and this is a big number of people,

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and those who do come, and this is

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also a sizable, a big number.

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So the people who don't come are classified

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into 2 groups. The first group, those who

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don't come for a legitimate

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excuse.

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They are too old, they can't walk,

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or they have a contagious

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illness,

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or a viral,

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condition, if they come, they will spread the

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illness in the Masjid.

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And when people see them, they don't feel

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comfortable sitting next to them. People sneezing, they

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have bird flu, wild flu, and all these

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kinds of flu.

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So it is better for them to stay

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home because they are too sick and they

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will spread the illness to other people.

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Or if someone can't move because

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they have broken legs, a broken neck, someone

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was run over by a truck, they can't

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move, so

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how can they come? It is not possible

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for them to come. Or if someone is

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a traveler,

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and there's no Masjid in the area, so

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in these all these cases, they pray for

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Raq as Duku, they don't have to come.

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And Allah

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says in Surat Al Baqarah in the Mas'a'id

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A'id that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala does not

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entitle anyone

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to do anything beyond their means.

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So this is the first group.

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So those who don't come,

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either because they are shopping or because they

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can't, you know, they have to do some

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homework or something, they play soccer, they play

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video games, they don't have time to come

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to Jummah, man. They they're not free, they

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are busy.

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And everyone knows that the Aamat work is

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Ibad, okay, and they have a pure heart,

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mashaAllah, they don't have to come to Jum'ah.

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Plus, everything the imam says in the football,

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we already know. So why should we go

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to Jum'ah?

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So the Prophet

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says in an authentic hadith that if someone

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does not come to Jum'ah,

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3 Jum'ahs,

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with no legitimate

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excuse like the ones we mentioned, Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala will line this person among the

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hypocrites, Munafar.

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The Prophet also says, if someone does not

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come to Jum'ah for 3 times,

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with no legitimate

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excuse, taking Jum'ah lightly, then Allah

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will seal their hearts.

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So their hearts will be basically

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like will be like a glass that is

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put upside down. No matter how you put

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iman or nasiyyah or anything with it, nothing

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will go in because it's upside down. The

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heart is sealed. Nothing is going inside.

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If you give them advice, they will never

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listen to you.

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The second group are those who do come

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to Jum'ah, and they are also classified into

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2 groups.

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Those who follow the adab of Jum'ah, the

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etiquettes of Jum'ah,

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and the second group are those who miss

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some of the adab or they long give

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or pay attention to adab altogether.

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With regard to the first group, and they

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are the majority,

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people follow the adab of Jum'ah,

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including

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purifying yourself,

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alhamdulillah, looking good for Jum'ah and coming early

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and paying attention during the Khutbah.

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And the reward for this is mentioned in

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an authentic hadith narrated by Aus ibn Aus

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in Sahih Atul Midi. The prophet

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says that whoever purifies himself properly

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on the day of Juhr,

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then comes early to Khutbah and to salah,

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then sits close to the imam and pay

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his very

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attentive or pay his attention to everything the

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imam says, then this person will get for

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every step that he or she takes to

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the masjid, the reward of a whole year,

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standing in prayer during the night and praying

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during the day.

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Standing prayer at night and fasting during the

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day, fasting

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and prayer at night.

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So this is the reward, and it's an

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authentic hadith.

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With regard to the second group, those who

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missed some of the adaab or those who

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do some of the mistakes, we'll mention 7

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of them very quick because of the time,

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then we may continue some other time, inshallah.

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The first one,

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So the first mistake, some people, alhamdulillah, they

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do come early to Jummah,

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but to kill the time, they talk about

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different things. They don't invest their time in

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recite the Quran or making liquor or making

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salah. No. They kill the time. But, of

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course, the first thing they always talk about

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is politics,

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and one thing will lead to the other.

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Then eventually, they will backbite other people. Oh,

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look about this guy. Look how tall he

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is. Look at his nose. He got long

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ears. He looks like shrimp, and all these

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things.

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So backbiting is not acceptable. If you do

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come early, Alhamdulillah,

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thank Allah for making it easy for you

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to come early, but don't backbite other people.

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Think about yourself. Reflect on your own shortcomings

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and mistakes.

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And some of the scholars say, if I

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think and if I reflect on my own

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mistakes and defects and shortcomings,

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I will never have time to think about

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other people.

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So the second type of people are those

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who come very late for Jum'ah.

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They miss coming early to Salah, they come

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late for Jum'ah, and you get a reward

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for coming early. Number 2, they miss the

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football. They don't listen to the football. And

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number 3, some people even will lie, in

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some cases, they come after the football, after

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the salah, to salat al Jum'ah. So why

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are you coming?

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Why are you coming? If you if you

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are not coming early, if you're not coming

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to football, if you're not coming to salah,

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why are you coming?

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So you have to come, otherwise, you will

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be missing a lot of rewards.

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The third mistake, some people, when they come

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late,

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of course, there's no spot for them to

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park their car. So the easiest thing to

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do is to park your car anywhere. You

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just literally throw your car anywhere,

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blocking other people, thinking that they don't mind.

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Actually, they do. Oh, you park your car

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in front of the fire hydrant,

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and some people think that the government doesn't

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mind. Actually, it does. So you have to

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come early, at least, to be able to

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park your car properly.

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And don't park in front of other neighbors,

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non Muslim neighbors, because some of them complain.

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Why are these people parking in my, you

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know, in front of my house? So come

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early for this.

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So some brothers, when they come late,

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and, of course, they don't find a good

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spot

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to see or hear the imam from the

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back,

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or the imam is too short, they can't

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see him properly, they have to come to

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the front, to the the first row, so

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they can't get a good look at the

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imam. And, of course, they have to walk

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with people's necks

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necks. They have to step over

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the rows and the lights to sit in

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the front just because they love the imam

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so much.

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If you love the imam so much, please

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come early.

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One day, the prophet was given foodba. Someone

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came at the end of the foodba, and

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he didn't sit in the back, he came

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all the way to the front. So the

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prophet has reported that Sahih Khajama

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said, Sit down wherever you are. You came

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late, and you are bothering people. You're harming

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people, stepping on their necks, and this is

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not acceptable.

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So the 5th type

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is people who, when they come late, of

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course,

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when they see other people that they haven't

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seen, for example, in a few hours or

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in 2 days,

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they shake their hands, they give them hugs,

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they kiss them, how are you doing, ma'am,

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masha Allah, my brother from another mother. What?

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What's going on? How are things?

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And they talk about different things. How's your

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dad? Did he come back from the hospital?

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How about your mom? Did they did she

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come back from the Hajj? How about your

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neighbor? Did he come out of jail, man?

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And they started to talk about side talks,

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and the imam is talking, man. And when

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people remind them, listen to the Khutba,

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they will say, oh, come on. We know

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everything the imam says, so forget it.

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Or some of the brothers, Wallahi, told me

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that in the gym,

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some brothers were sending text messages in the

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khutbah.

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This Khutbah is so boring. Lol, l o

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l.

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Oh, they're playing video games.

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With the sisters, it's even worse. Some of

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them, and this is from eyewitnesses,

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they talk about different things. They start with,

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what did you cook for dinner tonight?

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And they talk about other ladies or they

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start talking to their kids.

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Come here. Go there. Do this. Don't do

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this. And by the end of the food

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bar, if you ask them what was the

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topic of the food bar today,

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not the details. You're just asking about the

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topic.

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They don't know. So we have to pay

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attention to all these things.

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Number 6.

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Number 6. Some of the brothers, when they

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come late,

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they come after the imam raises his hand

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from ruku in the second rakah. Pay attention,

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they come after the imam raises his head

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from ruku in the second rakah, or they

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come in sujood in second rakah, or in

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tashanhut in second rakah, and they just stand

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up and pray 2 rakahs as if they

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get early for juhah.

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No. If you come anytime after the Imam

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raises his head from the 2nd rakah, it

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doesn't count as a Jummah for you, you

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have to stand up and pray for rakat.

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And this is a very common mistake.

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Some people even come after Jum'ah, like, half

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an hour after the imam is done, and

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they just stand and they pray 2 rakats.

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No. If you miss Jum'ah, you pray for

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the prophet

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says, whoever catches a rakah from Jum'ah, this

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is counted as Jum'ah for them. But if

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they miss Alaka, it is it is lower

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for them.

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To leave early right after salah. They are

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the last to come, and they want to

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be the first people to leave through the

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door. So what they do, they rush to

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get their shoes, and they start pushing people

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and pushing their way through the crowd. And

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I remember in July 1st,

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some people had a, you know, they almost

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started a fight because somebody was pushing them

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to get out very quick. So be careful,

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and, Alhamdulillah,

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stick to these,

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akhlaq or the adham of coming to Jum'ah,

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And remember, the foodba lasts for 20 minutes.

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10 minutes Arabic,

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10 minutes English and Somali.

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Then you have foodba in 5 or 7

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minutes, so maximum is 25 minutes. So calculate

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your time, you know that we start Jum'ah

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at the time of Khadav for Jum'ah, then

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after this, you have 25 minutes, then you

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will you will be done. In 3rd in

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in half an hour, everything is done.

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Then, inshallah, try to come as early as

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you can, take a shower, put your glasses

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closed, put some oil and perfume,

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and also pay attention to the imam speaks

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and make for sure in the salah. This

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is the the only way inshaAllah you can

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get all these hasanat. That's Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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