Mustafa Khattab – Heedlessness

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The concept of GAGGla, a disease caused by the heart's actions, is discussed. regret is a normal part of the body, and people may experience regret in their body and actions. The speaker uses various examples to test their beliefs and emphasizes the importance of practicing and not regretting. GAGGya, a belief that one has a routine and routine every day, is discussed, and the speaker uses various examples to test their beliefs. The speaker emphasizes the importance of learning to live life and practicing hadn't to avoid regret.

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			I bear witness that there is no worthy
		
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			of our worship except Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And I bear witness that Muhammad Sallallahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala is the seal of the prophets and
		
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			the final messenger
		
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			to all of humanity. Whoever Allah
		
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			guides, there's none to misguide.
		
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			And whomever Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala leaves to
		
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			go astray, there's none to guide.
		
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			So in the last kutba, we spoke about
		
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			Arluwul Ilhamdulillimna, to have a goal in life
		
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			and you try to achieve it. You try
		
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			to improve yourself,
		
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			to think big
		
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			in this life, to achieve happiness and salvation
		
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			in the next life.
		
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			A few weeks ago, a new Israel year
		
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			began,
		
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			and in a few days, a new Gregorian
		
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			year will begin.
		
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			So this is a good time to think
		
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			and reflect on your life, to see whether
		
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			you're doing good in this life or not.
		
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			We spoke about this a long time ago,
		
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			last year.
		
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			But today, we'll talk from a completely different
		
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			perspective.
		
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			The opposite of Arluwul Hima that we spoke
		
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			about last time is a disease
		
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			that infects the heart, and it is called
		
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			Ghafla,
		
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			heedlessness.
		
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			So if someone lives in this dunya and
		
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			they're not paying attention,
		
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			this is called Ghafla.
		
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			The prophet, salaam, says in the authentic hadith
		
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			al Bukhari and Muslim that the most important
		
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			organ in the body is the heart.
		
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			So the prophet, salaam, says that there is
		
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			a peace in the body.
		
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			If it sound and healthy, everything else is
		
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			healthy.
		
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			But if it is messed up, everything else
		
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			is corrupted. And the prophet
		
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			says, this is the heart.
		
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			To change and to flip. And the prophet
		
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			says in the authentic hadith inside Muslim
		
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			that the hearts of the people are between
		
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			the fingers of Allah and he flips them
		
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			as he wants.
		
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			The second type is the sick heart, and
		
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			this is the heart of a disobedient
		
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			Muslim.
		
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			And number 3,
		
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			the dead heart, and this is the heart
		
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			of a Kapil or someone who does not
		
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			obey Allah
		
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			in a way.
		
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			So if you read in the Quran, Allah
		
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			tells us
		
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			that it is not the eyes that are
		
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			blind, it is the hearts. The hearts that
		
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			are blind.
		
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			In another verse, Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says
		
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			that some people have hearts, but they cannot
		
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			think with their hearts.
		
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			So it is not only the brain that
		
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			does the same thinking, it is the heart
		
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			too that does the thinking and the reflection
		
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			as Allah
		
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			says in the Quran.
		
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			So the scholars say, why our hearts become?
		
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			They say there are different reasons. Number 1,
		
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			when you do remember Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,
		
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			you don't think of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			And number 2,
		
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			when you don't think of death, that one
		
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			day you will die and you stand before
		
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			Allah
		
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			for judgment.
		
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			So if you have this thinking,
		
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			your heart will always be alive.
		
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			And number 3,
		
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			because
		
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			sins have become a routine to you. A
		
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			routine.
		
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			And they say the first time you do
		
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			a sin like anything,
		
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			drinking or anything you are not supposed to
		
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			do, the first time you do it,
		
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			you have sleepless nights. You feel remorseful and
		
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			regretful.
		
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			But after you do the same thing for
		
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			7 or 10 times in a row, it
		
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			becomes like a routine to you. You you
		
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			don't feel anything. You don't feel regretful.
		
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			So a few examples to test yourself to
		
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			see if you have buffalo or not, heedlessness.
		
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			Number 1,
		
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			if the time of Salah is over, say
		
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			for example, you didn't pray above you're doing
		
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			something else. You're
		
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			playing,
		
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			you're studying, you're at work, and you didn't
		
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			pray, Lord, and the time is over. What
		
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			do you feel in your heart? Do you
		
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			feel regretful or it's okay to you? If
		
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			it's okay to you, then you have a
		
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			problem.
		
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			Also, when you are standing in the line
		
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			behind the imam, and he is reading emotional
		
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			verses about death, about punishment, or anything,
		
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			and some people are crying in the line,
		
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			and you wonder why why are these people
		
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			crying? What's wrong with them? No. The question
		
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			is, what's wrong with
		
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			you? And also, if you are standing in
		
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			the masjid and there is a Janazah passing
		
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			by,
		
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			and you can tell you talking to your
		
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			friends, and I see this sometimes,
		
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			and you start cracking jokes
		
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			as if death does not mean anything to
		
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			you.
		
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			So this reminds me of a story that
		
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			I heard about a guy who is sitting
		
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			at, Tim Hortons drinking tea, fresh vanilla. Okay.
		
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			Sorry. Fresh vanilla.
		
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			So somebody came to him and said, what
		
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			do you have to like? Your wife is
		
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			giving birth. She's in her 9th month. He
		
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			doesn't have a car, and he couldn't wait
		
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			for the bus to come, so he started
		
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			to run to the house.
		
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			And after 3, 4 minutes of running, he
		
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			stopped and he started to think, what's going
		
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			on here? My wife is not in the
		
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			7th month. She's in the 3rd month of
		
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			pregnancy.
		
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			Then he started to run again. Then after
		
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			a few minutes of running, he stopped, and
		
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			he said,
		
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			my wife is not pregnant.
		
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			Then he started to run again to the
		
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			house, and he started and he said, what's
		
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			going on here? Am I getting old or
		
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			what?
		
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			I'm not married.
		
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			Then he started to run again, then he
		
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			said,
		
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			My name is not Abdullahi.
		
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			Then he went back. So this is the
		
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			kind of ghafna that I'm talking about.
		
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			If you are now
		
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			what you were 5 or 7 years ago,
		
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			this is nothin. This is heedlessness. What do
		
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			you you call as student in the 9th
		
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			grade who remains in the 9th grade for
		
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			5 years?
		
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			What do you call
		
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			it?
		
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			I don't know. But
		
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			there's something wrong here. So if you are
		
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			now what you were 5 years ago, then
		
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			there's something wrong. If you still make the
		
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			same mistakes in salah or wudu or you
		
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			still read Quran and you are Arab
		
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			So we conclude with this story to explain
		
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			the meaning of Ghafya.
		
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			Imam,
		
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			Ibrahim ibn Adam was walking in the streets
		
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			of Basra in Iraq one day, so people
		
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			stopped him. And they said, what is wrong
		
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			with our hearts?
		
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			We read the Quran and we don't feel
		
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			anything. We make sense and we don't feel
		
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			regretful. So what is wrong with us?
		
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			So he told them, your hearts died, your
		
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			hearts have because of 10 things.
		
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			Count with me.
		
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			Number 1, you claim that Allah you love
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala that you disobey him
		
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			all the time. If you truly love him,
		
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			you have to obey him. If Allah tells
		
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			you to go to the right, you go
		
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			to the left. He tells you to go
		
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			up, you go down. So what kind of
		
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			love is this?
		
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			Number 2, you eat from the risk of
		
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			Allah
		
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			every day, and you never thank him.
		
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			And number 3, you claim that the prophet
		
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			salaam is your guide, and you never follow
		
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			his soonness.
		
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			And number 4, you read the Quran all
		
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			the time, and you never listen to the
		
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			Quran, you don't obey it, you don't practice
		
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			it.
		
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			And number 5, you say that Shaytan is
		
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			your enemy, and you take him as a
		
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			friend.
		
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			And number 6,
		
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			you say with your times that
		
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			Jannah is the truth, it is coming, and
		
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			you never do anything to deserve Jannah.
		
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			And number 7, you claim that the hellfire
		
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			is the truth, and you never do anything
		
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			to protect yourself from it.
		
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			And number 8, you claim that number 7,
		
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			you claim that or 8 8,
		
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			that death is the truth, and you never
		
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			get ready for it. You never prepare yourself
		
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			for death.
		
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			And number 9, you bury people every day,
		
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			and you never Yeah. And you put in
		
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			your head that one day you will be
		
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			in that place too. So you bury people,
		
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			but you never think that your day will
		
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			come too. And the last one, you're busy
		
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			with your yourself thinking about the problems of
		
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			other people, their defects and shortcomings and problems.
		
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			You criticize them, and you never get the
		
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			time to think about your own problems.
		
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			So this guy used to say, well, life,
		
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			I think about my problems and I try
		
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			to fix them. Well, like, I will never
		
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			have time to think about other people's problems.
		
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			So we said that one of the reasons
		
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			why people have Ghafla is that they don't
		
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			think of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. They don't
		
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			remember him as if he doesn't exist.
		
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			So part of the solution is to think
		
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			of Allah
		
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			and reflect on him.
		
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			And by remembering Allah, you don't necessarily mean
		
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			that you just mentioned the names of Allah.
		
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			No. You have to live them, and you
		
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			have to practice them. So if you know
		
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			that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is the provider,
		
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			this is the name of Allah, so you
		
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			have to practice it.
		
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			Always put in your mind that Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala is the provider,
		
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			not your husband,
		
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			not your
		
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			boss, not the government. Allah
		
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			is the provider. Anything else is just that
		
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			means
		
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			the FedEx people that Allah
		
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			sends you the risk through them. Okay? So
		
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			Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, is the provider. If
		
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			you know that Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, is
		
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			Al Basir, he knows everything.
		
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			So every time you do something wrong, you
		
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			have to keep in your mind that Allah
		
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			is watching right there. And if you can't
		
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			see him,
		
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			he sees you.
		
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			If you know that Allah
		
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			is the forgiving and he is the stern
		
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			in punishment,
		
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			so you have to act accordingly.
		
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			So this is the meaning of remembering Allah.
		
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			And number 2,
		
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			So Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says,
		
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			obey Allah obey Allah and his Prophet, and
		
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			this will give life to you and to
		
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			your hearts. So the answer is in the
		
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			Quran.
		
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			And the scholar said, why should you listen
		
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			to Allah and his Prophet?
		
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			Because every time Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells
		
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			you to do something good,
		
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			it is good for you. You are not
		
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			going to benefit Allah in any way, you
		
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			only benefit yourself.
		
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			So every time
		
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			you make wudu, what is wrong with this?
		
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			Every time you read the Quran, every time
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala asks you to give
		
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			a salah or say good words to people,
		
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			what is wrong with this? Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala, his prophet never asked you to do
		
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			something that is harmful or something bad.
		
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			And also, every time Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			and his prophet
		
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			ask you to refrain from something because it
		
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			is bad to you.
		
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			When Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala tells you not
		
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			to drink
		
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			or to
		
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			to to drink alcohol or to eat pork
		
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			or to commit adultery
		
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			or to hashish and so on and so
		
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			forth. Every time Allah
		
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			asks you to refrain from something because it
		
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			is good to you. Allah
		
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			will never ask you to stop doing something
		
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			good
		
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			or not to do something bad.
		
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			Whatever he asks you or commands you to
		
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			refrain from, it is always good for you.
		
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			That's Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala.