Mustafa Khattab – Hayaa Sense of Shame

So we call this.

The person feels ashamed

or this is a shame that a person

has when they do something they're not supposed

to do.

For example,

on the personal level, when someone is proud

of something wrong they have done. Oh, I

did this.

I drank this or hang out with that.

And

people, a long time ago, because they didn't

have technology

or anything, they used to boast or to

be

in the bedroom.

People who are not educated, especially the villagers

where we came from. Some of them, they

used to be proud. You know, I'm a

hero. You see? This is why I did.

And I'll also have them out of the

process. Let them close that person shaytan.

She has to wait for life in England

before she can get some marry to somebody

else. So his friend said, why did you

divorce your wife?

What what happened? Why did you divorce your

wife? He said, well, technically,

she is still my wife, and we're not

saying anything about her.

He flew like like a bird. Wow.

Oh, he flew. He took off. This means

he traveled to another place, maybe another city

or another country.

He got all ties with us. We don't

know where he is, and he got married

to somebody else.

I mean, you have to keep in your

mind that one day you will come to

the this masjid and people will pray for

Nazar for you. Will you be happy when

people come and half of them stay outside

and they won't even pray for you? What

is this?

The least we can say about that stance

is that it is shameful.

Compare this reaction or stance

to Latin American countries like Argentina,

Brazil, Venezuela.

And if you stand out and speak out

against the butchering of innocent children and women

in Gaza, this is not gonna make you

grow at us. It will all it will

only make you human. That's it. Okay?

So Muslim countries, we have to stand out

and say something,

In the Quran, you read this. Whoever says

a new life is equal to saving humanity.

And whoever takes a new life is like

taking the lives of all humanity.

This is what the Quran teaches.

Now, in

So they say this hadith, the promised said

that,

sent to the sahaba one day that the

most common Allah has a hadith. He feels

ashamed

to punish someone who grows old in Islam.

His hair grays,

gray in Islam.

Was more

shy than virgin. This is what Habib says

in.

Also, Musa

alaihi salaam had this qualities.

Kashab on the salah. So if they put

me on that board, people are gonna see

the shame of my body, so I feel

ashamed. So Asma'a Alayhi Aloham said, well, I

saw something in Havasheh in Ethiopia. They put

size

And you have that sense of shame after

you do it, so it makes you go

back to Allah and they tell them. The

second one, when you do something that people

see you and you feel ashamed,

it's not your reputation is at stake, you

are afraid that people say things about you,

then you don't do it. This is Haya

from Adness.

The second or the third time is Haya

from yourself.

When you do something that doesn't suit you.

Let's say for example a brother with a

film or or,

miss Black and long beard is walking in

the street and he's smoking cigarettes and he's

flirting with women. Well, it doesn't solve to

suit the person because of who he is.

He's trying to be a good person

then congratulations.

You have been turned into a donkey. With

all due respect to doctors. Okay? So inshallah

with you next time.

Because the priest gave a lecture and didn't

allow people to interact or say anything. At

the beginning, he said a couple of good

things, which I gave him credit for. And

I went with, brother, and we sat there

together. So the first thing he says, don't

believe everything that the media says about Muslims.

Muslims are not as Muslim. Muslims are not

as Muslim. Muslims are not as Muslim.

Muslims are human beings like us, we need

to be good to them. You have to

treat them nicely.

And the reason was, he said, well, if

you treat them nicely, it will be easy

to give them dua to convert them.

Well, every one of us, whether we're Muslim

or Buddhist or

Sikh

or Christian, everybody wants the whole world to

follow their own faith, and there's nothing wrong

with this. Right?

But the problem is when you try to

take advantage of people's needs and

And he says this is enough reason for

us to make dawah to Muslims

because all peoples of the world, they receive

dawah from the church except Muslims. They're not

open to dawah.

And he said that the best they need

to do is to approach Muslims, Muslim immigrants

who are coming to this country,

and they don't have anyone to help them,

they don't have any place to go, they

don't have a place to work, then this

is our chance to approach them and get

them done. So this is our reminder to

all of us to to teach ourselves and

our families about our own faith

and to make dua to other people whether

they accept it or not in. But it's

an obligation on us to reach out and

teach people what Islam

Some of them will speak the language, some

of them they don't know the culture, some

of them don't have a job, some of

them don't have a place to stay. So

reach out to them, tell them. Show me

the message. Please come and let the Muslim

community help you.