Mustafa Khattab – Gold for Men

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses some practices that some brothers and sisters do in theover, including sh tariff shirts and dressing up with sh trading and jewelry. They also mention people who come to the----
The speaker discusses some people who wear clothing without covering themselves properly, and how they may be excuse seeking money from the culture. They also mention a brother who threw a piece of fire on a piece of gold at a church. The speaker emphasizes learning from these practices and continuing on with the discussion.

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			In the past
		
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			3 or 4 Sundays, we spoke about some
		
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			of the practices that some brothers and sisters
		
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			do in the masjid.
		
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			And our intention is not to offend,
		
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			someone or make someone look bad. But our
		
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			intention is to educate ourselves
		
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			because sometimes we do some things without the
		
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			knowledge. Unless we know that they are haram
		
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			or it's a slight, we we just avoid
		
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			doing them.
		
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			We spoke about
		
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			some people coming to the masjid with, shi'id
		
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			e file on their shirts,
		
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			and we said that this guy is captured,
		
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			so shouldn't be proud of him. You know,
		
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			this guy is a communist. He didn't believe
		
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			in God in any way. Why would you
		
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			honor them?
		
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			We also spoke about some people who come
		
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			with statements
		
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			ripping on their clothes and sometimes these statements
		
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			are vulgar and they are indecent or unacceptable
		
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			Islamically.
		
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			We also spoke about some people who come
		
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			with short clothing to the masjid.
		
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			So, when they pray, you can see the
		
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			or,
		
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			you know,
		
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			you know, they don't cover themselves properly probably.
		
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			So when they make a course, they do
		
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			what you can see or know. So and
		
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			it is not a problem.
		
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			Today, inshallah, we'll talk about some people
		
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			who wear,
		
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			bracelets and chains and,
		
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			and
		
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			the other things,
		
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			especially jewelry,
		
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			especially gold.
		
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			Yeah. And for silver, we know that, Islamically,
		
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			it's acceptable for a man to wear some
		
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			silver like
		
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			a ring or something,
		
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			But you don't have to cover yourself in
		
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			in in silver.
		
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			You see?
		
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			And some people when they do it, Yani,
		
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			the problem with it, Islamically, is imitating
		
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			the kafar. Because
		
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			The problem with me is sometimes I've seen
		
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			several people in the Masjid and I'm not
		
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			pointing fingers at anyone
		
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			or trying to offend anyone.
		
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			They sometimes
		
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			have golden bracelets
		
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			and,
		
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			you know, different things, rings and and all
		
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			that stuff.
		
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			And every time I speak to someone, and
		
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			of course, I speak to them in a
		
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			nice way, because I'm a nice guy,
		
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			they always come up with excuses.
		
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			And this is something we humans are good
		
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			at. We always come with come up with
		
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			excellent excuses.
		
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			Like, one time I was talking to this
		
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			guy
		
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			about the golden bracelet
		
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			and he said, you know,
		
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			listen, Shay.
		
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			This is the gift from my mom, this
		
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			chain or this bracelet.
		
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			And it has a verse from the
		
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			It's not even a hadith. But anyway,
		
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			yes. Safay will say, another one, another brother.
		
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			I mentioned to him,
		
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			you know, why are you wearing this gold?
		
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			We I used to work for an Islamic
		
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			channel in Egypt, and this brother,
		
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			was covered with
		
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			gold from head to toe.
		
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			If
		
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			if you kidnap this guy and ask for
		
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			a $1,000,000 hassle,
		
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			you will live rich your whole life. You
		
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			don't have to wear a private thing.
		
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			And he said,
		
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			listen, Sheikh. And I showed him like,
		
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			that wearing gold is haram for men. And
		
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			he looked at the list. Yes. Yes.
		
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			I have read this before. Thanks.
		
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			Then he said,
		
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			well, like, listen to me. Every time I'm
		
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			not wearing gold,
		
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			I can't breathe. Like, something is missing in
		
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			my life, man.
		
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			I said this is the ugliest
		
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			excuse I've heard in my life.
		
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			Is is there oxygen or something in the
		
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			gold? I don't know.
		
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			They argue even when when they are wrong.
		
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			They argue
		
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			for their own reasons.
		
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			So the prophet, salaam,
		
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			came to the Sahabi and he was angry
		
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			and he said, some of you,
		
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			they bring a piece of fire
		
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			and they put it in their fingers.
		
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			And he took the the golden ring from
		
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			the Sahabi and he threw it on the
		
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			floor. Then the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam
		
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			left. But after he left, the other companions
		
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			and this is an Ufandid Khadir, a Muslim,
		
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			the other companions came to his companion and
		
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			they said, why don't you take this
		
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			grain and sell it and use its money
		
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			to provide your family with salafat? So he
		
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			said, by Allah, I will never touch something
		
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			that the Quran threw
		
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			on the floor. Tell us that's haraf, I
		
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			will never touch it.
		
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			So we have to learn from these things
		
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			and inshallah we'll continue this time.