Mustafa Khattab – Generosity 1 1

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the highest form of generosity, manners, and the Prophetios Alaihi Wasallam's example of being hungry for 3 days and not getting enough food. The speaker warns of the potential disgrace of being invited to eat with others and not being invited to eat with them. The speaker also describes how the prophet's behavior was similar to that of the world.
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So by generosity, we're not talking necessarily about

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financial generosity.

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And financial generosity of course is one time

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that it's one of the lowest types of

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generosity. The highest form of generosity is manners.

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The way you talk to people, the way

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you deal with them, this is the highest

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form of generosity.

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And the Prophet SAW Alaihi Wasallam

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said in the hadith that you cannot

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contain people and be generous to them with

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your money, all the people in the world,

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but you can give only so much. But

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you can be generous to everyone through your

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manners,

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the way you behave to work here.

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So we mentioned the story a long time

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ago. This guy, he went to some people

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to,

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ask them for food. He knocked on the

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door, they came out, and they said, what

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do you want? He said, I'm hungry. I

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need food. They said, we don't have nothing.

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Them out. So he said, you guys can

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afford food. At least you can afford some

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manners. Okay?

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Because you don't have to pay money for

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manners. You know, it's for free. Okay?

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Jabir Nkadat said, for 3 days, we didn't

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eat no food, nothing. And the prophet was

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the first among us, and he was suffering

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like us. He didn't eat nothing for 3

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days. He was digging with us, and this

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is how the prophet behaved with the sahab.

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If they went hungry,

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he went hungry like them. If they had

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to work to get changed, build a masjid,

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he was the first in the life.

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And when the food and the water came,

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he was the last to eat. He was

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not the first. He was always the last.

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So he said, I came to the prophet

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and I saw the stones on his stomach.

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Ayun was hungry.

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So he came to the prophet

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the prophet was digging in one side and

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then Jabber and his companions were digging on

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the other side. So he said, while we

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were digging, we came across

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that rock and we couldn't get around it

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because it was so huge, and it is

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very

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solid and very tough. You can't you couldn't

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get through it.

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And he saw I saw hunger on the

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face of the prophet. He was so hungry.

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So he said the prophet

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came and he took the axe and he

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he hid the stone

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So he went to his wife and said

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that the prophet

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had been hungry

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for 3 days, so we want to to

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make some food for him. He himself was

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hungry, jabbing the competitor to the prophet,

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but

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So invite the prophet

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and a couple of his friends, like 3

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or 4 of them to come and eat.

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And don't

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disgrace us in front of the prophet and

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his companions. She say, basically,

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don't invite a lot of people because if

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they show up and there's nothing to be

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this is gonna be a disgrace for us

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in in in the whole community.

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So when Jack grabbed the banana. I came

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to the process and I said,

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my wife has a little food and we

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have some barley. We would like to invite

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you over with, you know, 3, 4 of

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your companions.

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And he whispered to him. He didn't talk

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like, you know, in the microphone. No. He

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spoke to him in private.

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And I would imagine

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if I were in the place of the

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prophet and I've been hungry for 3 days,

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and somebody comes to me, we'd like to

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invite you over, and my wife took, you

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know, a little something.

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Would you bring, you know, 3, 4 of

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your companions to eat with us? And I

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say, why 3, 4 of my companions?

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You know, why don't I go with you?

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You and your wife, the 3 of us

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can eat

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the the goat little goat or chicken and,

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you know, the bread and kalas. We have

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a little party, then we'll leave. But no.

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What the prophet did

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was

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he called at the top of his mouth,

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you know, voice. And he said, oh, people

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who are digging the chinch. And there were

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over a 1000 of them.

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Brother Jack, you know, love, you know, bless

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him and his wife, they prepared foods for

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you, all of you. So please come over

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and eat. So Jeffers said I stood there

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and I was shocked. I didn't know what

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to say because my wife

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just told me that all the 3, 4

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guys. Okay? That's it. And don't put us

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to disgrace. And now the problem is, he's

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inviting everyone more. He says, what am I

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gonna do? So

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inviting everyone what he says. What am I

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gonna do?

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So the prophet

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told him, go. You know, prepare the goat.

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Slower it and cut it, and but don't

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cook it until I come and

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grind the barley and don't bake it until

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I come.

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On the way, he was talking to himself,

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Jabir Abdul Dan. How will I talk to

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you?

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So he was sorry to himself on the

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way, this is gonna be a big day

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of a day that we live

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in infamy. A day of disgrace for me

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and the family. Okay? So he he went

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to his wife and he told her, the

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prophet has been fighting that everybody.

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So she told him you are so and

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so. She she basically

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was not, too happy about what she heard.

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But he told her, well, I told him.

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I told him in advance. It's only a

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few guys. Please come and eat. You don't

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have to invite the the whole tribe, everybody.

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So he knows. So she said, if the

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prophet

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knows, he will take care of it. Okay.

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And they ate all the leaves of bread,

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and when they left, it came back. The

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whole goat came back and all the bread

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came back. And Jabber was swearing by Allah

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that this is what happened.

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And they came in twenties, and when they

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finished all of them,

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and every time I broke each, the whole

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meat and the bread came back.

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And this is not new.

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Musa Alaihi Salam had the same miracle and

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raised Alaihi Salam. Jesus, something similar happened to

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him. So it's not only the prophet,

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the blessing, the food, and the the fish

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and the meat that the people ate. So

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he said after everyone ate

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and they were happy, they ate to their

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full,

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they started to leave by the blessings of

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the prophet, salam, and the generosity of Jabir

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Abdul Nava Bilal Abu Anhu. And

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