Mustafa Khattab – Funeral Etiquettes

Janazah, and we spoke about what happens

when someone dies, what happens if we die

today, what what would happen in the next

life, and what would happen to the family.

And, today, in shulah, the second and the

last part of this series, we'll talk about

the ada of Jamazah. What happens in the

Jamazah when we do this funeral,

in the masjid, or what happens in the

house, and what happens in the graveyard?

And number 2, what about giving? Can they

pray the funeral of prayer, and can they

follow the janassah and go to the graveyard

with the janassah? And they can go to

the graves generally

to make and so on and so forth

to pray for the deceased? And one of

us giving them the shahada saying, let them

the love of the deceased in the grave

and walking on the graves.

And what's the woman who lost her husband

due after the

So on the first one, which is related

to delaying the funeral, the burial,

of course, Islamic, you have to they try

to lay unless there's a reason to delay.

Say, for example, someone died in an accident,

is a good person, then you are sending

him to general, 1st class. So take him

right away. But if he is a miserable

soul, then it's something evil that you put

off your shoulder. You remove him from your

shoulder. So do it right away unless there

is a reason to delay.

So do it right

away unless there is a reason to delay.

So this is the first point. The second

point, which is related to women praying salaf

al janaz,

like coming and praying the funeral prayer and

Islam are

the same. Acts of worship are the same

for men and women.

Care of the funeral. But if women come

and they pray in the bible, of course,

they have the right to pray. And at

the top of the cross offering, the women,

pray in their mouths look for the deceased

just like the men. So there's no difference

between the 2.

Yeah, there is there is a difference among

scholars. The majority of them, they say

that women shouldn't go with this funeral because

it doesn't fit them as gentle

like this picture, like this picture. Like this

picture. Like this. Like a.

And he said, one of them fell down

because she lost her consciousness. She was devastated.

The the brother said, well, it was like

a zoo in the graveyard. It was like

a zoo. He said, you know what? I'm

not gonna go again

out. This is the acceptable opinion of Allah,

blah, blah, blah.

The third one,

The last point is for someone who lost

her husband

or a lady who was divorced. Especially the

lady who lost her husband.

Is 4 months 10 days. And she go

out.

Well, the scholar said it is very important

in in this period, the waiting period, before

she can hit somebody else after 4 months

and 10 days to show sorrow

and sadness for the passing of her husband.

She shouldn't be dressed in colorful clothes and

put makeup and walk in the

who come

and stay with her because she feels lonely

on her passing with her husband. She can

visit her family if there's a need. She

can go to shopping

or go to work with the school. If

there is a need, if there's no one

who provides for the lady and she has

to work,

then she can't go out. Otherwise, she has

to stay in the house

and she have she has also to sleep

in her house at night. She shouldn't sleep

outside based on authentic Hadith. There's also another

Hadith from Jair Al Nabi that we're good

with this inshallah. It's a Ayatul Hadith

that her aunt, she

was divorced 3 times. So the divorce was

finalized.

So

she went to her farm to work, take

care of her palm trees. So I realized

that her saw her going to the farm

and work in the end of the waiting

period.

And he said, what's wrong with you? You

go in the end of the farm. What

is this?