Mustafa Khattab – Friends 1

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The speaker discusses the use of Allah's subhanahu wa'ala in various WhatsApp WhatsApp WhatsApp messages, including advice on choosing the right friends and setting up prayers. The message also includes a reference to a book called Surah Al Qas, which is said to have been honored by Allah's soldiers and hamam. The speaker provides examples of WhatsApp messages that use the same meaning, including one about a dog and a promise to a dog.

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			Allah Subhanahu Wa'ala
		
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			guides,
		
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			so choose your friends very carefully.
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa'ala speaks about choosing the right
		
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			friends and there are so many stories in
		
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			the Quran there are many stories in the
		
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			hadith of the Prophet
		
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			So even though Allah subhanahu wa'ala speaks about
		
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			your spouse,
		
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			your husband or wife, he calls them companion
		
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			or friend.
		
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			So not only Allah subhanahu wa'ala talks about
		
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			choosing a friend, but he also talks about
		
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			choosing
		
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			their fingers out of regret and remorse. And
		
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			they will say, we wish that we followed
		
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			the prophet and the his suina, we follow
		
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			him closely,
		
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			and we wish we didn't follow these evil
		
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			people who kept us away or drove us
		
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			away from a straight path.
		
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			And the most common law says at the
		
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			end, Shaitan
		
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			will lift his face on the day of
		
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			judgement. He will lift it down.
		
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			Friends will be enemies to one another
		
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			except with friends, the righteous
		
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			friends.
		
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			So the good, the bad, because there are
		
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			some in between.
		
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			He was a good Muslim. So he said,
		
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			no. I'm not going there.
		
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			He looked through a window
		
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			between Jannah and Hellfire, and he saw a
		
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			string in the basement of Jannah.
		
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			To following you and falling in the hand
		
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			of light. So this is an intelligent
		
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			friend. So he cut off his companionship with
		
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			him because he was taking him to the
		
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			wrong place.
		
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			I didn't know that. You know that the
		
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			difference between the 2.
		
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			So, you go to school with some people
		
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			or you are acquainted with someone or you
		
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			said with them, you work with them, you
		
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			tell them for example, let's go and pray
		
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			in the mission. There's a lecture in the
		
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			mission. The brother will tell you, well, you
		
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			know, I have a problem. I hear, I
		
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			can't hear, you know, I can't go. You
		
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			know I can't
		
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			then we'll tell them okay let's go and
		
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			let's go out and chase girls okay let's
		
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			go what about you here I'm okay now
		
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			okay so let's start with going to the
		
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			message then let's go and chase the women
		
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			out
		
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			I can't hear you like, you know the
		
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			problem I have a problem right here. So,
		
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			whenever you want to do something good
		
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			if they leave you away then they are
		
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			not good friends. If they motivate you and
		
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			encourage you these are the friends who take
		
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			you and they show you a Surah of
		
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			Mustafiq.
		
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			So these are the types of prayers that
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala means about the end
		
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			of Tu'ba.
		
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			Also,
		
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			you are as good or as bad as
		
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			your friends as the prophet
		
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			says in the hadith.
		
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			In dunya al Adal. You will get the
		
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			same treat that they get in dunya
		
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			and the same in Adal. Okay. So for
		
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			example, we are sitting in the masjid or
		
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			you are sitting somewhere with the righteous
		
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			you and your friends.
		
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			You are reading Quran together, you are studying
		
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			together, and someone came to the masjid and
		
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			decided to give food or give gifts to
		
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			everybody sitting in the masjid.
		
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			What if you are sitting there in the
		
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			side, you're not doing anything, and you are
		
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			just listening to them, you will get the
		
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			exact same reward.
		
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			Okay. Then the Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala Alaiqeed
		
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			if you are sitting with them you are
		
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			one of them. But
		
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			if you have friends
		
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			they are sitting in somebody in the apartment
		
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			and they are doing drugs or they are
		
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			doing something wrong
		
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			and the place is raided by the police.
		
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			Whether I'm just sitting with them you're not
		
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			doing anything,
		
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			we just go with it to the nightclub,
		
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			you sit on the side or play with
		
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			your phone or not actually doing anything wrong
		
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			with them
		
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			and the place is raided by the police.
		
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			Do you think they will leave you and
		
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			they take the rest?
		
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			Oh, I was not doing anything. I'm just
		
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			logging the floor, you know. I was not
		
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			doing drugs with them. Of course, they will
		
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			take you with them.
		
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			Why? Because if you are sitting with them,
		
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			you are one of them. And the same
		
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			way happens on the day of judgment, in
		
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			the stories until today in the next sight.
		
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			An example for the first,
		
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			example we gave, because I am Fad
		
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			so in this beautiful kadeem, the Zayin al
		
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			Fayed and Nusun narrated by,
		
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			Abu Bay Allahu Anhu, the prophet
		
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			says there are honorable Barak angels
		
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			they fly out
		
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			So when they return to the
		
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			What if they have seen it? Then the
		
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			Al Aqsa will say, you Allah, Allah, if
		
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			they will be more keen
		
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			to ask for
		
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			it. They will be more keen to ask
		
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			for it in pursuit of Jannah, then Allah
		
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			will ask, what are you asking protection law
		
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			from me? So the Malaygo will say, you
		
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			are asking protection from Jahannam, the hellfire.
		
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			Then Allah subhanahu wa'ala, obviously, have they seen
		
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			the empire? They haven't seen them, but have
		
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			they seen it, Jannah?
		
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			Then it'll also kind of, I will say,
		
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			their name is that I have forgiven all
		
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			of them. This group of people who were
		
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			sitting together, glorifying me, and praising me, and
		
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			remembering me.
		
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			So Lot of people will say,
		
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			You Allah, but wait. There's someone who is
		
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			sitting with them. He's not actually one of
		
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			them. He was just sitting in the to
		
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			his side waiting for Muhammad to finish because
		
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			he wants to borrow money, to buy a
		
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			car, or something. He didn't come exclusively to
		
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			remember Allah or people out of anything. He's
		
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			just sitting to the side. He's just listening
		
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			to it. He's not one of them. So
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa'ala will say if he's sitting
		
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			with them, he is one of them. He
		
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			is also forgiven like them.
		
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			So this is Sabir al Khaim You are
		
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			as good as the people you are sitting
		
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			with and you are as bad as people
		
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			you are sitting with.
		
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			Inshallah,
		
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			salukh
		
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			the Surah Al Khashqah,
		
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			the Surah you read on Friday, you will
		
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			see that Allah subhanahu wa'ala honored
		
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			a dog 4 times on the same page.
		
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			The Zohi is mentioned 4 times
		
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			because he was in the company of the
		
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			righteous, good people. So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			honored him just like He honored them. So
		
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			on the same page, the word die is
		
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			mentioned 4 times.
		
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			Of course, the most common and I will
		
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			give us a bit of honor than this.
		
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			When you read in Surah Al Qas
		
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			where Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala speaks about the
		
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			companions of the Faire, his soldiers and hamam
		
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			and his people,
		
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			Allah, khanahu, a'la, disgraced him twice from the
		
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			same page at the beginning of Surah Al
		
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			Qasas.
		
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			Be God they were always in the company
		
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			of someone who is a just, someone who
		
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			is a tyrant.
		
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			So I always say at the beginning, you
		
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			are as good or as bad as your
		
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			friends, so select and choose your friends carefully.
		
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			We'll continue next slide inshallah.