Mustafa Khattab – Etiquettes of Scholars 2 2
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The history of Hawat Assyouou Al Salih, a new Muslim who claimed to correct people privately, highlights the importance of practicing Islam and learning to be an humble person. The speaker discusses the reputation of the prophet Sunqur Ali Ali Ali, who was the only man to obtain all degrees and all degrees, and describes the experiences of a man who was a drunkard and a womanizer, a man confident in his own abilities and was given a price for buying hadith from the prophet Q acti, and a woman who was confident in her own abilities and was given a price for buying hadith from the prophet Q acti.
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So we mentioned the story of Hawat Ibn
Jubayr al Sal. He was a new Muslim
in Medina. He was from Medina.
And the reason I'm giving you this example
is the scholars, they should not correct someone
in public. Okay? Okay? If someone did something
unintentional or out of ignorance, they shouldn't correct
this person publicly.
And the prophet sala al salam used to
correct people privately,
and the only
way that we know that he corrected someone
is by the fact that this person after
the death of the pro would come forward
and say,
I did this and this, and the pro
told
me this and this. Nobody else knows.
So the only person himself who come forward
and say, this happened, and the pro did
this and this.
Okay? But otherwise, if this person died without
telling us what happened between him and the
prophet
we wouldn't know.
So Fawaz ibn Jumayil Al Salih, he was
a new Muslim. He accepted Islam recently.
And he went with the prophet
to a camp.
Then he was walking outside the camp, and
he saw some girls, beautiful girls, sitting and
chit chatting and stuff. So he went running
through his tent. He put on his nice
and clothes,
And he said, all of a sudden, I
saw the the prophet, sah alaihi wa sallam,
in front of me.
So the prophet, sah alaihi wa sallam, said,
what are you doing here with the ladies?
He said, the prophet, sah alaihi wa sallam,
was
I have a wild camel.
It runs away all the time, and these
ladies, Pasha, love me about a board and
all that stuff. They are making a rope
for me, so I tie the camel so
it doesn't run away.
He
said a couple of days later, and this
is an authentic kali. He was he said
a couple of days later, I was walking.
Then
I heard the prophet was coming behind me.
People greeting the prophet salaam alaykum. So he
heard the the prophet salaam.
So he started to walk faster so that
the promo sauce element wouldn't catch up with
him.
The promo sauce element started to walk faster
than him and he caught up with him.
So he said,
So the prophet
stopped
until I caught up with him. And he
said,
by the way, what happened to Yirgen? The
wild one you were telling me about. He
said, Allah, I didn't know what to tell
him.
I have nothing except you.
I got all day. Make it
long. So I said,
Then he said,
The prophet, salallahu alaihi wa sallam, will answer,
they will put this harp at ease.
So after he finished, he came to the
prophet
said, oh, prophet allah, the good news is
my camel has accepted this man. It doesn't
run away anymore. So the prophet
smiled and he left me alone.
So he corrected him without humiliating him in
front of the people.
The scholar has to practice what he preaches.
Okay?
If you talk all the time and we
always make this mistake at home, by the
way. Those of us who smoke
and you don't if you tell your kids,
if you smoke, you will kill yourself and
you'll be an idiot.
They will always say, okay, look at this
hypocrite.
If the mother tells her kids not to
back bite,
and still she goes and she back bites
her neighbor neighbor's wife. Okay. The suck up
doesn't know how to cook.
Okay? Now, the kids will look at their
mom and say, okay. She is ahead of
her. We would not bathe it. The same
is also true for the spouse.
If they don't practice what they preach, nobody
will listen to them.
In the story from Abu Ghani, some of
these slaves, they came to him and said,
we want you to give an an emotional
motivational
lecture about freeing the slaves and the virtue
of freeing slaves in Islam.
So he said that Shoaib would do. 3
weeks later, he came again a very
emotional lecture about freeing the slaves
and the people innocently in the Afar Jumah
is going to free their slaves in the
masjid. So
the freeing slaves came to Imam al Hanifa
and said, jazakAllah Khayla,
As color has to be
sincere.
They said, what is your proof? He said
in Surat Al Hash Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
says to Ibrahim alaihis salam and proclaim
or declare to the people and they will
come to you Ijal.
The word Ejal, it has 2 meanings. 1
of them is
and number 2, on foot on foot.
They will come talking.
So they understood the first one which is
the clear meaning and he didn't understand the
second one and he made his cut.
In,
the prophet, the prophet of Sesali of Lintikhadid,
regarding sincerity,
that
on the day of judgement, one of the
first people who would be judged
and punished is someone who learned in
this life and got degrees
and was teaching people and Allah subhanahu wa
ta'ala was asking, what did you do with
the knowledge I gave you?
He said, oh, Allah. I went to the
best schools.
I got my PhD, and I was teaching
people,
and I I I did my best. So
Allah subhanahu wa a'ala said, you are alive.
You studied and you got all the degrees,
and you're teaching people so they will say,
oh, he's a scholar, and people will have
respect for you. So that was your only
intention. You didn't do it for me, Satan.
In the
This is in fact, we just saw about
one of the
guys. He appeared out of nowhere in Los
Angeles, California. I read it in the papers
back in 2009.
He was sleeping in the machine making and
together and all that stuff, and people trusted
them him with their lives.
So Ashtariel Al Fitr, he gave to them
and said and said, insha Allah,
in a month and half, Ayl Abu Bakr
is coming. You have to buy udaya. And
you know, them guys who were buying udaya
from them, they were thieves
charging you double the price, giving you bad
quality of meat. They're giving you all cheap
and goats. You cook them for 2 or
3 days, they never cook.
The meat is like
the the the tire in your car.
No matter how much you buy it or
you you cook it, it doesn't cook. These
are tools. Okay?
So he collected the money from that masjid,
and of course, his reputation
spread to other Masali. So thousands of people
trusted him with the money. They paid $250
for every goat or sheep.
The day of it came and the people
started to look for mister x,
So he was notorious. He was the biggest
chief in town.
In conclusion, Shabaab will talk only about
from the people and from Allah
He has to have this sense.
The prophet
says that shame, the sense of shame,
is a part or a branch of iman.
I conclude with this in the story of
al Qadabi. Al Qadabi is one of the
biggest scholars of this land that you probably
never heard of.
Okay?
Only with scholars of Adi, they know this
person, al Qadabi.
In his youth years,
he was a drunkard,
a womanizer.
He was on drugs,
smoking weed, and crack, and dope, and all
that stuff.
Okay?
And one day, he was sitting in front
of his house, drinking,
and he had a small knife in his
hand. All of a sudden, he saw this
man
with a donkey.
He didn't know this guy,
and he saw like,
hundreds of people walking in front of the
donkey, behind the donkey, pulling the donkey, and
almost they they would carry the shape. This
man on the donkey.
So
He said, what what Shar? What does this
guy do? Why are these people walking around
like this?
They said that this is the most knowledgeable
person of hadith on earth. He is the
scholar of this time when it comes to
hadith.
And it's a shame if someone at that
time didn't know Shoaib in the Hajjesh. He
was number 1 in hadith. And this is
like I said,
like someone asking someone in the Succar,
field
So the people around
this scholar, Sharpen, they said,
the people that traveled to him
tens and hundreds of miles to come to
sit under his feet and take hadith from
him, and you are coming to him with
a rip close
like bad people
and with a wide people in one hand
and a knife with another, and you are
asking him to tell hadith from the prophet
what's wrong with you?
So he said, wallahi, if he doesn't mean
one hadith. If he doesn't tell me one
hadith right now, I'm gonna kill him.
So,
Imam Shorba was afraid for his life. And
I always say
that the highest score of bravery sometimes is
to be a coward.
And sometimes the most eloquent thing you can
say
is silence to be quiet. And those who
are married, they know what I'm talking about.
Okay? If you want to be a hero
for a couple of minutes and say everything
you want, than to be a man who
delayed. After 2 hours, then say whatever you
want.
Think of the
consequences.
So he gave him the hadith of the
prophet, he said,
Mansur
told me
his Sheikh.
That
the prophet
said, if you are not ashamed, if you
don't have a sense of shame from Allah
and from the people,
do whatever you want.
So
Qa'anabi said, Allah, he he hit me in
the heart when he said those words. And
I started to think,
did he mean that I don't have shame
of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala?
Then he went home. He broke all the
wine glasses, and he told his mom, when
my friends come, told him, I'm not your
friend anymore. He shouted to
this man, Qad Abi, later became the teacher,
the imam of imam
of imam a Muslim and imam Qadhi. He
is the teacher. If you get
the books of Bukhari and the books of
Muslims, they will tell you the introduction
that we studied the
the