Mustafa Khattab – EidulFitr Part 1 Anatolia Islamic Centre

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The speakers discuss the importance of praying for the month of anniversary, which is a busy month for Muslims. They emphasize the need to be mindful of one's life and not just for their own sake, and provide examples of people who have children and do not want to discuss Islam. The speakers also give advice on managing work and personal life, emphasizing the importance of worshiping Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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			Start, if you agree. Is everyone okay with
		
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			that? Yeah.
		
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			So we're gonna start with the salah. As
		
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			you know that, the salah has 7 taghbirat
		
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			in the first rakah after taghbiratulihram,
		
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			and we have 5 in the second one
		
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			after taghbiratul pm. Different madhhabs have different taghbirah.
		
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			So in the Hanafi madhhab, they have 3
		
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			in the first and 3 in the second.
		
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			So the taghbirah are sunnah. Even if the
		
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			imam adds more or less or in some
		
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			cases, some of the imams they forget, because
		
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			they have been praying taraweed the whole month.
		
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			They say, Allahu Akbarat, khamjulillah, abilaamin. And people
		
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			fight with them after and we have to
		
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			do salah again. No. You don't even have
		
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			to make such the salwa at the end.
		
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			Right? So this is totally acceptable, inshaAllah.
		
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			Taghbiratul
		
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			al Eid yani they are allama are flexible
		
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			with the Taghbirat. So the one you are
		
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			doing today, this is the one approved by
		
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			Imam Shafi'i.
		
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			And and the different scholars have different ways
		
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			of Takbiraat. It is dikrullah, so alhamdulillah, it's
		
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			all good. Alhamdulillah.
		
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			The prophet
		
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			from his sunnah is to read Surah in
		
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			the first raka,
		
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			in the second one. Sometimes he changed a
		
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			little bit. He would recite kaf in the
		
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			first rakah, and Alkamr in the second one.
		
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			But most of the time he did,
		
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			which we will do today inshallah.
		
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			Salatulayil
		
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			sunnah, which means it doesn't have sunnah before
		
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			or after.
		
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			Unless you come before salah, you would like
		
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			to pray salatul Fajr before sunrise,
		
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			or after you wanna pray, salatul dua, or
		
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			before you want to pray tahiyatul masjid. It's
		
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			all accepted,
		
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			alhamdulillah.
		
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			Then after the salah inshallah, I'm gonna give
		
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			a talk for about 5 to 7 minutes.
		
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			I keep the I keep the footba very
		
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			short. The prophet didn't talk too much when
		
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			he gave footba especially pray. He just reminded
		
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			the people because they need to go to
		
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			work or they need to go to school.
		
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			So I'm gonna keep it, average 7 minutes
		
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			InshaAllah.
		
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			English, a little bit of Arabic, and maybe
		
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			in the future we're gonna add some Urdu,
		
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			some Somali, but today because of the time
		
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			limit we'll keep it to our English and
		
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			Arabic inshallah.
		
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			Make sure in make sure in that you
		
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			take your kids out, make it a special
		
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			occasion for them, because as you know, if
		
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			they go to the public school, their, their
		
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			colleagues and friends, they are always celebrating Halloween,
		
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			Christmas, Valentine's, or every other day they have
		
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			something celebrating.
		
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			We only have Eid ul Athai and Eid
		
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			ul Fitr. So make them very special. Buy
		
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			them gifts, take them out,
		
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			go to the movies, but good movies like
		
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			Finding Dory, there are some good movies for
		
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			the kids. Why not?
		
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			Make it a special occasion for them. I'm
		
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			not telling you what to do, but I'm
		
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			just giving you some examples.
		
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			Go to the park, you know, go fishing,
		
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			do something special with your kids, make the
		
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			Eid memorable for them. So they will say,
		
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			yeah, we have Eid al Lat Haifa,
		
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			you know, we don't have to look at
		
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			other things, inshaAllah.
		
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			Give a price to your or a gift
		
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			to your wife or to your husband. A
		
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			flower will make them happy, will put a
		
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			smile on their face. The Prophet
		
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			always put a smile on people's face. Right?
		
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			So this is something we need to do
		
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			inshaAllah, and also, keep your brothers and sisters
		
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			in the Muslim world in your dua. Some
		
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			of them don't have the luxury of being
		
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			able to go to the masjid and pray
		
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			salatulayd, because the masjid has been destroyed, or
		
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			they are being attacked from the drones and
		
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			planes, and so on and so forth.
		
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			Some of them are homeless, some of them
		
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			lost family members, they they can't enjoy the
		
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			aid. You know, about what happened in Iraq,
		
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			in in Turkey,
		
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			in Madinah, in Somalia,
		
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			the last, few days in the month of
		
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			Ramadan. So we keep them in our dua,
		
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			and we enjoy Eid, and we pray to
		
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			Allah to accept our iqbal in the month
		
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			of Ramadan,
		
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			to, allow us to enter journal through the
		
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			door of Arayyan, inshallah. InshaAllah
		
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			a couple of, more tech bira then we'll
		
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			start inshaAllah.
		
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			You can't get everyone to move up a
		
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			little bit, and,
		
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			So we're going to pray salatul Bayd. And
		
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			as I mentioned, 2 raha, 7 taghbirat in
		
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			the first one after taghbiratul Hawa, and 5
		
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			in the second one after
		
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			between every 2,
		
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			you say you think
		
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			of And, when you finish inshallah, go home,
		
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			if you meet someone who, who missed the
		
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			salatul Eid or they slept through, then you
		
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			can tell them that they can, make up
		
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			the salahini time today. And this is totally
		
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			acceptable in someone else's.
		
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			7 minutes inshallah.
		
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			So
		
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			as I mentioned, inshallah, I'm
		
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			gonna be here short, send them this. So
		
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			please go and leave. And, even if you
		
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			try to leave, the roads are closed anyway.
		
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			We call it Middle Eastern,
		
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			democracy.
		
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			I begin by praising Allah
		
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			Allah for giving us this great opportunity to
		
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			witness the month of Ramadan,
		
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			and to fast and pray and give sadaqa
		
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			and zakat to the best of our ability.
		
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			Alhamdulillah, we had a wonderful Ramadan this year.
		
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			And you have a whole year to pay
		
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			as I mentioned, when we're doing the fundraise.
		
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			If you are able to pay now, alhamdulillah.
		
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			If not, then you have a whole year,
		
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			you can pay something monthly inshaAllah, and you
		
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			will get a tax receipt at the end
		
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			of the year. May Allah
		
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			accept from all of us, Ameen. Allah subhul
		
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			as salam, inshaAllah.
		
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			Today inshaAllah, I'm gonna talk about 2 types
		
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			or actually 3 types of Muslims.
		
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			Full time Muslims,
		
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			and part time Muslims,
		
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			and freelance Muslims.
		
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			And
		
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			don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to
		
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			offend anyone inshaAllah.
		
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			And close to the end of my talk,
		
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			the, freelance Muslims,
		
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			have something to do with, Tim Hortons. This
		
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			is why I got the cup with me.
		
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			So pay attention insha'Allah, if you normally fall
		
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			asleep in the Khutbah, pay attention for just,
		
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			2, 3 minutes insha'Allah.
		
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			The full time Muslims are those who worship
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala all year long. They
		
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			do the basics.
		
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			They pray 5 times namaz, 5 times prayers
		
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			every day,
		
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			they fast in the month of Ramadan, they
		
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			pray a couple of rakats at night, they
		
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			give sadaqa here and there, they give their
		
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			zakah, if they have the ability, they go
		
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			for Hajj. They're wonderful people. They have a
		
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			good relationship with Allah
		
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			and a good relationship with the people. They
		
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			keep the balance. Inna ladheena abanu
		
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			waabilu salihat. Those who have faith in Allah
		
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			and they serve Him, and they do good
		
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			deeds, and they serve humanity.
		
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			They try to make a difference, and they
		
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			are good to everyone.
		
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			When they worship Allah, these people, the full
		
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			time Muslims,
		
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			they worship Allah with hope and fear.
		
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			The fear that they have not done enough,
		
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			and the hope that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			will forgive them, and forgive their shortcomings,
		
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			and they make a pledge to Allah
		
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			Allah If he gives them the chance, they
		
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			will do better next year, and next time.
		
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			The second group, I call them the part
		
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			time Muslims. Right? So the whole year they
		
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			hibernate.
		
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			They don't pray,
		
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			they don't do nothing. Right?
		
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			Nothing.
		
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			But when Ramadan comes, they have what I
		
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			like to call the Southern Ramadan Syndrome,
		
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			SRS.
		
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			Right? I made this up. Right?
		
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			Southern Ramadan Syndrome. So when Ramadan comes, you
		
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			don't see them before Ramadan, but when Ramadan
		
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			comes, mashallah, they are all over the place,
		
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			They come to every salah, which is not
		
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			wrong. At least they come, if they are
		
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			sincere in Ramadan, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will
		
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			forgive them. But you have to keep in
		
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			mind that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala is the
		
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			Lord of Ramadan, and He is the Lord
		
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			of the rest of the years. Do a
		
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			little bit after Ramadan, a little bit before
		
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			Ramadan, when Ramadan comes, do a little bit
		
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			more. Nothing wrong.
		
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			How much does it take you to pray
		
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			5 times a day? 5 minutes or 4
		
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			minutes for every salah? Allah
		
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			has given you 24 hours. All he's asking
		
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			is 24 minutes every day. That's 1 minute
		
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			per hour. And some people still think that
		
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			this is too much for Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala.
		
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			To these people,
		
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			we love them,
		
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			but I have a message for them today.
		
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			I tell them, that if you worship Ramadan,
		
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			Ramadan is dead now. Ramadan died, khalas. But
		
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			if you worship Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is the living, and he
		
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			never dies.
		
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			These brothers, again we love them, but they
		
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			do more in Ramadan, nothing outside of Ramadan.
		
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			MashaAllah, they always comfort Taraweeh, which is a
		
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			good thing.
		
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			And when it is time to close the
		
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			doors at the end of the day, they
		
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			don't want to leave, you have to call
		
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			the police to take them out.
		
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			They are the same people
		
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			who, after Ramadan, you have to call the
		
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			police again to bring them to come for
		
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			Jum'ah.
		
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			Right?
		
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			So you have to keep the balance. Do
		
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			a little bit outside of Ramadan, but in
		
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			Ramadan do more alhamdulillah.
		
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			The 3rd group, the 3rd group,
		
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			Al Ghafilun.
		
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			They don't care
		
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			if it's Ramadan, before Ramadan, after Ramadan, it
		
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			doesn't really make any difference for them. They
		
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			don't pray in Ramadan, they don't fast in
		
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			Ramadan, outside of Ramadan, no sadaqa, no tarawiyah,
		
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			no qiyyah, nothing.
		
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			And this is what we call ghafilun, the
		
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			heedless people.
		
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			They, they are not mindful of Allah
		
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			And as I mentioned in one of the
		
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			Khutba's, the purpose of rebadah in Ramadan
		
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			is to generate taqwa. Yeah,
		
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			So the whole purpose of Ibadah
		
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			is to instill taqwa in your heart and
		
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			your your mind, to be mindful of Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, and to know the purpose
		
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			of your life in this world. We're not
		
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			just here to make money. If you think
		
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			about your purpose here, and I'm not talking
		
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			about Mississauga or Canada. I'm talking about this
		
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			world. Why are we here? We are here
		
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			for a short period of time.
		
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			70 years, a 120 years, 20 years, eventually
		
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			we're gonna go and leave this world.
		
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			Hayat Shukkasar, or Zendaghi Bahar Muftasarei, as they
		
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			say. We're not here to stay, inshaAllah. It's
		
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			a short visit, eventually we will leave.
		
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			So, what does this, the ghafla, the heedlessness
		
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			have to do with, Tim Hortons?
		
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			Now is the time for the story.
		
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			There was a brother, a Tim Hortons,
		
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			and it was like 10 in the evening,
		
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			and someone came him inside, another Muslim brother
		
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			came inside, and he said, You Abdulla! Your
		
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			wife is giving birth!
		
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			So the brother was drinking his coffee, just
		
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			threw the cup, and you know, and he
		
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			ran away. He left his coffee, and he
		
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			ran in the street. My wife is giving
		
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			birth! SubhanAllah! And he started to run. He
		
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			couldn't wait for the bus, he didn't have
		
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			a car, so he started to run.
		
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			His house was like 10, 12 minutes away
		
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			from a walk from from the Tim Hortons.
		
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			So he started to run. After 2 or
		
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			3 minutes, he said, okay, wait a minute.
		
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			My wife is only 3 months pregnant. She's
		
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			not 9 months pregnant. Then he said, okay,
		
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			let me, you know, see what is going
		
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			on in the house. And he started to
		
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			run again, 3 4 minutes, you know? Then
		
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			he said, okay, wait a minute. I'm not
		
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			even married.
		
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			He said, SubhanAllah, but again, let me go
		
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			and see what is going on in my
		
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			house. And he started to run again.
		
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			After 2 minutes,
		
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			he stopped and he said, Okay, what's wrong
		
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			with me? My, my, my name is not
		
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			Abdullah. Like the guy who came in, he
		
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			said, you Abdullah, your wife is giving birth.
		
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			My name is not Abdullah. What is going
		
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			on here?
		
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			So,
		
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			when people hear this story, they laugh. Okay?
		
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			How foolish is this? Sometimes we do the
		
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			same thing.
		
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			When we know that the purpose of our
		
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			life in this dunya is to worship Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, wa ma'khalaqoturjeemna
		
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			waalimsa
		
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			ilaaliyahbudun.
		
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			This is the purpose of your creation, is
		
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			to worship Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Yes, nothing
		
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			wrong if you make good money, have a
		
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			big house, a fancy car, no problem, but
		
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			your first job in this dunya is to
		
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			worship Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. But if you
		
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			turn your back on Allah, and you don't
		
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			do your job, then you have Rafla radiq
		
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			Abdullah in the story.
		
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			If I ask any single one of you,
		
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			every one of you, who is married,
		
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			and they have kids, what is the most
		
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			important thing in your life? They will say,
		
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			my kids.
		
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			But still,
		
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			we pay all attention to work,
		
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			we busy ourselves with different things, and we
		
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			barely have any time for kids, for our
		
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			children. We barely give them any attention, and
		
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			we barely teach them anything about Islam.
		
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			We send them to the public school, and
		
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			they are not getting any Islamic education at
		
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			the end of the week, and you expect
		
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			them, mashAllah,
		
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			when they grow up they're gonna be like
		
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			Abu Bakr, Nawar, and Uthmanan Ali. I mean,
		
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			you are fooling yourself. You have to do
		
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			your part, you have to teach them Islamic
		
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			adab and tarbiyah, and inshaAllah Allah Subhanahu Wa
		
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			Ta'ala will take care of them. We can't
		
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			give so many examples, but the last I
		
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			got only 2 minutes ago.
		
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			This reminds me of
		
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			Ibrahim ibn Adham,
		
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			he was walking in the streets of Basra,
		
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			and the people stopped him, and they said,
		
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			You Imam, Imam.
		
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			So Ibrahim ibn Adam was walking in the
		
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			streets of Basra, and people said, Yeah Imam,
		
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			we don't have fushurah and salah, we make
		
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			dua and Allah does not answer. When we
		
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			see a janazah, we never picture ourselves in
		
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			that casket one day. So what is going
		
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			on? And he said, This is called raflah,
		
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			heedlessness, like the 3rd group I mentioned.
		
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			And he said, you have Ghaflah because of
		
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			10 things. So I've gotta give you the
		
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			10 things, and I will let you go
		
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			inshaAllah.
		
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			He said,
		
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			Araftumullahaha,
		
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			You Rizaam tu Mahabata kum lillahi wa'asaitumu.
		
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			Number 1, you claim that you love Allah
		
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			with all your heart, and you disobey Him
		
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			day and night.
		
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			Waaakaltum
		
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			merizkihi walaabdashkuru.
		
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			You eat from the rizk, the provision of
		
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			Allah
		
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			Everything you have, everything you own is from
		
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			Allah, but still you don't have a few
		
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			seconds to say You Allah, thank you.
		
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			You never do.
		
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			And number 3, you read the Quran, You
		
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			read the Quran,
		
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			and you never apply the Quran to your
		
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			life.
		
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			And number 4, Zaaamtum Mahabata kumlin Nabi
		
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			You
		
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			claim that you love Muhammad and
		
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			you disobey him all the time. If he
		
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			tells you go to the right, you go
		
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			to the left. Go up, you go down.
		
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			So how do you claim to be a
		
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			good Muslim if you don't listen to Muhammad
		
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			Number 5,
		
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			you claim that Shaitaan is your enemy. You
		
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			hate Shaitaan from the bottom of your heart,
		
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			and you obey him all the time.
		
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			Everyone would love to go to Jannah, but
		
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			are you really,
		
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			doing your part to deserve to go to
		
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			Jannah? Ask yourself.
		
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			You know that Jahannam is the truest, and
		
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			those who are not obeying Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala will go there.
		
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			What have you done to protect yourself from
		
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			it?
		
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			Everyone knows that one day they will die,
		
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			but what have you done to prepare for
		
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			that day? It can be after 2 minutes,
		
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			it can be today in the evening, it
		
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			can be tomorrow after a month, who knows?
		
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			All the time people die, we do for
		
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			them, we take them to the graveyard, and
		
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			we never think that one day we will
		
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			be in their place.
		
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			You think all the time about people, their
		
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			mistakes, their shortcomings,
		
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			this guy is tall, this guy is ugly,
		
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			this sister is this, this is