Mustafa Khattab – Eid & Udhiya

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The speakers discuss three good days in the month of the year- AD, including tackling past mistakes and rewarding others for them. They stress the importance of showing one's love and appreciation for oneself during this time, fasting on Sundays, and giving gifts to show their joy. The speakers also emphasize the importance of showing one's love and appreciation for oneself during this time, and the use of the United States to give to the poor and their Muslim brother or sister. Additionally, they give advice on endingangry between Muslims and their Muslim brother or sister, giving gifts, and taking advantage of the holiday to show them their joy.

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			And I bear witness that Muhammad sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wasallam
		
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			is the serial of the prophets and the
		
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			final messenger to all of humanity.
		
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			So today, inshallah, we'll talk briefly about some
		
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			of the good deeds that can be done
		
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			in this week of the month of the
		
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			hija.
		
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			And we ask Allah
		
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			to accept our good deeds, and to reward
		
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			us fully for them according to the best
		
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			of our intentions.
		
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			So the first act of worship
		
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			in the month of the hija, of course,
		
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			is pilgrimage, Hajj. And the prophet
		
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			says that the reward
		
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			for doing Hajj without rebelling other people
		
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			and being indecent in the Hajj, which means
		
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			you shouldn't raise your voice or act violently
		
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			violently toward people. You will come back the
		
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			same day you were born. Sit free.
		
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			And this is in Sahih al Bukhari
		
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			So the prophet
		
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			gives you
		
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			the good news that if you are not
		
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			able to go for Hajj because you're old,
		
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			because you are not physically or financially able
		
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			to, then you still can get the reward
		
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			for going to Hajj even without going to
		
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			Hajj. So the prophet
		
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			says in the Uzzan al Hadid al Sayyat
		
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			al Midi
		
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			that whoever prays faj in jama'ah, in congregation,
		
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			then sits to remember Allah
		
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			until sunrise,
		
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			then offers 2 rakas, this person will get
		
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			the reward for Hajj and Umrah. Complete.
		
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			And the prophet
		
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			says this 3 times. So this is the
		
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			good news.
		
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			So, technically, if you do this, you will
		
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			get the reward for Hajj and Umrah,
		
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			but you don't get the official title of
		
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			Hajj. So if you stay in the Masjid
		
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			after Fazl and you do this, don't ask
		
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			people to call you Hajj because you're not
		
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			a Hajj.
		
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			It is only
		
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			a reward.
		
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			So the second good deal that you can
		
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			do this week is fasting with the day
		
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			of Arafah, which will be tomorrow.
		
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			So you can offer
		
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			this day in fasting. And as the prophet
		
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			said in the Ufinti Hadid and Sahib Muslim
		
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			that fasting on this day will make up
		
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			for all the minor sins committed in the
		
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			past year and in the coming year.
		
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			We know in the sunnah that it is
		
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			this life to fast on Friday or Sunday
		
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			or Saturday on its own. The scholar
		
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			said except on the day of Arafah. So
		
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			the day of Arafah
		
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			comes on a Friday or a Saturday or
		
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			a Sunday, you can't fast it on its
		
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			own without having to fast a day before.
		
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			So you can fast tomorrow without having to
		
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			fast a day before.
		
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			The third good deal that you can do
		
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			in these days is to make takbir for
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala as mentioned in Surah
		
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			Al Hajj.
		
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			And the scholars say and this is based
		
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			on the sunnah that you start the takbir
		
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			from the day of Alpha, which is the
		
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			9th of the hija tomorrow
		
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			until the 4th day of the Eid, 13th,
		
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			until sunset.
		
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			So this will include the Saturday,
		
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			Sunday, Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday until
		
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			sunset.
		
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			And this is the 3rd good deed that
		
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			you can do in these days.
		
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			So the 4th good deed that you can
		
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			do in these days is to go for
		
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			salatulay.
		
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			It's a salatulay.
		
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			Authenticated sunnah from the prophet
		
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			and Aisha alayllahu anha said in the illicit
		
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			hadith that everybody
		
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			everyone was asked to go for salatulayll,
		
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			including women and even the women who have
		
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			a monthly period or those who just delivered
		
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			a baby if they can't
		
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			go to witness
		
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			and to show everyone that the whole Muslim
		
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			community
		
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			is enjoying
		
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			So if someone misses salatul aid, they still
		
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			can make it up. So in this Eid
		
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			ul Haqqah, if you miss or if you
		
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			know someone who misses salatul 'Eid, they can
		
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			still do it on the day of Eid,
		
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			the second day, and the third day as
		
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			mentioned in the sunnah of the prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Muslims are encouraged to show happiness and joy
		
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			and to enjoy themselves and their families in
		
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			the day of Eid, especially the children.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because we live in a non Muslim society.
		
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			And most of our kids, they go to
		
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			public schools. And they show and they see
		
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			their friends,
		
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			celebrating
		
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			Halloween and Christmas
		
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			and Thanksgiving
		
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			and Valentine's Day. So some of them said,
		
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			okay, my question.
		
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			Why are they having celebrations and holidays all
		
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			year long and we don't have ones? We
		
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			do have ones.
		
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			We have Eid al Fitr and Eid al
		
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			Agha. So make your kids happy in this
		
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			occasion. Give them gifts. Take them to places
		
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			and make them enjoy
		
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			these days to the fullest without going overboard.
		
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			We Muslims
		
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			are happy. We are joyous for the Eid,
		
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			and we have to show them Muslims too
		
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			that we are enjoying these occasions. And we
		
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			Muslims, we enjoy our life, and we're happy.
		
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			The
		
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			second thing regarding Na'id, take advantage of this
		
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			time
		
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			if you are not talking to one of
		
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			your Muslim brothers or sisters.
		
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			Especially your biological brothers and sisters. You are
		
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			by calling them, you are not talking to
		
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			them. So take advantage of this Eid to
		
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			call them up
		
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			or to communicate with him and, you know,
		
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			wish him a happy Eid to end the
		
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			boycott between you and your Muslim brother and
		
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			sister. So this is a good occasion. Take
		
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			advantage of it. We mentioned before that in
		
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			the sunnah, if you are not talking to
		
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			your Muslim brother for 3 days or more,
		
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			then Allah will
		
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			not accept your good deeds.
		
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			So make sure you end
		
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			this
		
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			enmity or whatever you have between you and
		
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			your Muslim brother or your sister during this
		
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			occasion, so Allah accept your good deed.
		
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			So the first good deal, and we conclude
		
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			with this inshallah, is to offer the Uqeer.
		
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			And this is an authentic sunnah from the
		
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			prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam if
		
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			you can afford it.
		
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			But if you can't,
		
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			then you shouldn't feel sorry because the prophet
		
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			himself
		
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			made
		
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			on your behalf.
		
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			And this is a great honor.
		
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			It is mentioned in the Sahih of Muslim
		
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			Al Imam Ahmad that the prophet
		
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			offered 2 rams.
		
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			You have to give the best you can
		
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			afford. And Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, tells us
		
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			in the Quran in Surat Al Imran, you
		
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			will never achieve Taqwah,
		
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			which is the highest score of Islam, until
		
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			you give al in charity
		
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			from the best you can afford or from
		
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			from that which you like.
		
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			So when you give the
		
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			you have to choose the best.
		
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			And when you divide the animal, you keep
		
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			1 third for yourself, 1 third for your
		
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			neighbors and friends. Even if they are non
		
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			Muslims, you can still give the non Muslims
		
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			from the UHAY.
		
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			And the third one, to give to the
		
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			poor.
		
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			And this is how the UHAYA is divided
		
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			in the sunnah. Some people,
		
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			they keep the best part for themselves
		
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			and they give the junk to the poor.
		
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			They give them the legs, the head, the
		
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			inside of the animal, and they tell, okay.
		
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			They don't have nothing. If we give them
		
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			anything, they will eat.
		
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			You have to give the best because the
		
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			salafah with the ukhiyah goes to Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala first before it goes to the
		
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			faqir, to the poor.
		
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			So,
		
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			whenever she gave charity, she used to put
		
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			perfume or oil
		
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			perfume
		
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			on the money before she gave it to
		
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			charity. And when people ask, why did you
		
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			do this? She said, because the money
		
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			falls in the hands of Allah before it
		
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			falls in the hands of the people.
		
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			So the time to offer the ukhiyah is
		
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			right after until
		
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			the 4th day of Eid. And this will
		
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			be Sunday,
		
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			Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday until sunset.
		
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			Some people, especially back home, because there is
		
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			a so a shortage
		
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			of, people who slaughter the animals, the butchers,
		
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			so they offer the uttayyah
		
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			before salatulayyah.
		
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			And some of the butchers do this because
		
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			they are looking for the prophets,
		
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			p r o f I t, and they
		
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			are not following the prophet, p r o
		
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			p h e t.
		
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			So offer the utahya, inshallah, after salatulayim.
		
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			The last thing we mentioned,
		
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			So some people ask if I can't offer
		
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			the ukhaia here. Can I send the money
		
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			to another city or another country? Maybe they
		
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			need it more than we do here. Yes.
		
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			You can, and this is acceptable in the
		
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			sunnah. And it is done all the time
		
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			in the Hajj.
		
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			For the hadith and nah in the Hajj,
		
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			most of the people, they give their money
		
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			to institutions in Saudi Arabia, so they buy
		
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			the animals and offer them, and they distribute
		
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			the the, the meal to the meal.
		
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			That's Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.