Mustafa Khattab – Do The Right Thing Khateeb Ibn Stanley

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker shares her experience of learning Islam through a study and emphasizes the importance of learning and respecting teachers. She also talks about her desire to help students regain momentum and learn from non- Muslims. She mentions her recent trip to see the Sheikh and a church, and encourages others to be aware of the importance of learning from non- Muslims and studying science.

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			Okay. So,
		
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			today we have a very special guest speaker,
		
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			brother Ibni Stanley,
		
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			aka
		
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			Abu Shahada.
		
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			He doesn't need an introduction, but, basically, Mashallah
		
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			is one of the pioneers of Dawah,
		
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			in, Canada, in the GTA.
		
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			Okay. So I want everybody here to take
		
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			a quick look at my ribthobe.
		
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			So my thobe is ripped. This is my
		
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			work, though.
		
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			Okay? But forget the thobe. We'll just check
		
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			out the socks.
		
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			Say it, MayshaAllah.
		
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			Awesome, Sala.
		
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			Socks are on point, aren't they?
		
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			In the streets right now, and I'm going
		
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			to take my daughter somewhere.
		
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			But in life, sometimes you'll get certain opportunities
		
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			to do something,
		
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			and if you don't take that opportunity, it'll
		
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			pass.
		
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			Goodbye.
		
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			And that's it.
		
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			My god. So
		
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			with the few minutes that I have today
		
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			here,
		
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			I wanna ask a question.
		
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			Who here's parents or a Muslim? Put up
		
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			your hand.
		
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			Parents. Or everybody can take a look. Who
		
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			here's parents or Muslim? Put up your hand.
		
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			I ain't here.
		
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			Participating system.
		
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			Who here's parents or Muslim? Put up
		
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			your hand. Put up your hand. Put up
		
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			your hand. Put up your hand. Put up
		
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			your hand.
		
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			I'll throw my feet away.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			How many people's parents aren't Muslim? Put up
		
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			their hand.
		
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			If your parents aren't Muslim.
		
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			If your parents aren't Muslim, your dad's not
		
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			Muslim, your mom's not Muslim, put up your
		
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			hand.
		
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			Put down your hand. Put down your hand.
		
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			Put down your hand.
		
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			Put down your hand.
		
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			Put your parents aren't Muslim?
		
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			Not yet. How many people's parents in here
		
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			and their parents that aren't Muslim? Count them.
		
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			Your parents aren't Muslim?
		
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			Okay. So be and this sister.
		
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			Okay. So here's the thing. Masha'Allah, this sister,
		
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			she had the chance to go to madrasah,
		
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			but I never did.
		
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			Nobody ever paid for me to learn Islam.
		
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			Nobody ever cared for me to go to
		
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			school.
		
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			My parents didn't send me to go to
		
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			Islamic school and to benefit from the great
		
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			teachers here. See the great teachers that you
		
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			guys have here, and the great imam. I
		
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			never had that growing up. I never had
		
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			that opportunity to grow up.
		
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			So here's my question.
		
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			Here's my question.
		
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			Here's my question to you guys.
		
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			Yeah.
		
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			I just played Masjid.
		
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			You listening?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Are you listening?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Shame, are you listening? I'm not listening. I
		
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			don't think they're listening.
		
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			Who was it that cared for me to
		
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			become a Muslim and help you learn Islam?
		
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			Oh, Allah. Allah.
		
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			Allah.
		
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			It's only Allah.
		
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			Truly, all the praise is due to Allah
		
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			who guided all
		
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			of us to this Islam.
		
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			If Allah didn't guide us to this Islam,
		
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			we would not be from amongst those that
		
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			were guided.
		
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			How many people here chose Islam? Put up
		
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			your hand.
		
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			I would choose. Put down your hand. You
		
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			guys didn't choose Islam. You were born in
		
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			Muslim families. I did. You didn't choose Islam.
		
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			Islam chose you.
		
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			Islam chose look look look look guys. When
		
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			I went to the store when I went
		
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			to the store last week, you brother, you
		
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			know,
		
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			and I seen these socks here. Sisters, check
		
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			out my socks. Brothers, check out my socks.
		
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			Take them out. Pretty rude. Yeah? Yeah. Lozenges.
		
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			See that? See those socks? My socks.
		
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			I chose these socks. These socks didn't choose
		
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			me.
		
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			Do you understand?
		
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			Yeah. So you guys have a great opportunity
		
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			and a great chance
		
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			to learn
		
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			I'm almost done, guys.
		
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			Listen. From See all these great teachers that
		
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			are here?
		
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			They all have knowledge that you guys don't
		
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			have.
		
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			Bossy.
		
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			And here's the point.
		
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			Here's the point. Here's the point I want
		
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			you guys to understand.
		
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			This point here
		
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			this point here will save your life.
		
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			Oh. Okay? Alright. You guys gonna listen? Yes.
		
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			Out of all the things that I said
		
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			today and teachers, I want you to write
		
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			this down. I want you to regurgitate this
		
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			to them all throughout the year.
		
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			Okay. Just one of my brothers there. Okay.
		
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			I love that brother very, very, very much.
		
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			You know you love it. I know him.
		
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			You know your brother. I know him longer
		
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			than you guys are born. That's what I
		
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			wanna know. Know. I know. And I know
		
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			the imam longer than probably most of the
		
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			you guys over here. I know. I know.
		
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			That's great.
		
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			I know. What's happening? So here's the point,
		
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			guys. You wanna hear the point or not?
		
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			Yeah. Yeah.
		
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			Yeah. Jerry.
		
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			Here's the point. Teachers, I really want you
		
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			guys to pay attention to this. This struck
		
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			a chord in me some years ago. I
		
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			read in a book
		
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			and it's a fact.
		
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			Okay? Say these words with me, guys.
		
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			Yes, sir. No one cares Until they how
		
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			much you know How much you know. Until
		
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			they know Until they know. How much you
		
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			care. How much you care. No one cares
		
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			how much you know. For me, will lie
		
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			I so much you know. Listen.
		
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			Here's the point, guys. Here's the point.
		
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			Some years ago,
		
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			one of my favorite writers came to the
		
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			city. He wrote lots of books Sheikh. If
		
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			I mention his name, Sheikh, you're going to
		
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			say, yes. I've heard of the Sheikh before.
		
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			Very, very great scholar in Islam and he
		
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			wrote The way he writes the books, teachers,
		
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			is that when he writes, it hits your
		
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			heart and it makes you feel like you're
		
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			not a good Muslim.
		
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			And you need to try to become a
		
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			better Muslim. That's how good the Sheikh, his
		
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			books are.
		
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			So for many, many years they invited the
		
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			Sheikh to many conferences in the States. And
		
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			me and a lot of new convert brothers,
		
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			we used to travel to the States by
		
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			car,
		
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			thousands of miles to go and hope to
		
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			see that we see the sheikh because his
		
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			books are so good.
		
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			So all those times that we went on
		
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			those trips to sheikh, he couldn't get the
		
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			visa, or he didn't show up.
		
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			Years later, one particular organization, they finally brought
		
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			the sheikh to the
		
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			city. And we were so happy. We actually
		
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			called our brother and the Sheikh said, the
		
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			brother said, yes, the Sheikh is here. I
		
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			picked him up personally. You can imagine how
		
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			much we were hoping to sit and meet
		
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			the Sheikh because he wrote books that really
		
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			changed our life as new Muslims.
		
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			That's the good part. Tells me. Shh. I
		
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			can't say it. No. Because it's not nice.
		
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			You don't you don't make your teachers look
		
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			bad.
		
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			Oh.
		
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			Oh. Oh. Oh. No. You don't make your
		
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			teachers look bad.
		
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			And your teachers shouldn't make you look bad.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			I
		
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			got
		
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			you. I got you. Okay. Well, that's okay.
		
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			Let me finish my point, guys. Let me
		
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			finish my point.
		
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			Let me finish my point.
		
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			But you have to respect your teacher, and
		
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			if you show respect to your teacher, then
		
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			you'll be good. And the prophet said,
		
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			He does not thank the people, does not
		
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			thank Allah.
		
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			The prophet said,
		
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			said,
		
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			that he is not from us who does
		
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			not show respect to the elders
		
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			So let me make the point. Then I
		
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			gotta go. I have I have an appointment,
		
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			guys. Here's the point. Here's the point. We
		
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			went for 3 days
		
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			to go and see the Sheikh at this
		
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			particular question. Okay? We went to go see
		
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			me and a group of brothers that are
		
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			just like me. We went to go see
		
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			the Sheikh.
		
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			And the Sheikh gave beautiful ashes.
		
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			It touched our heart. But when the Sheikh
		
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			went down to go make wudu for different
		
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			salats, we kept trying to go up to
		
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			the Sheikh.
		
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			We're sitting with the Sheikh. We're in his
		
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			classes taking notes. We have a question to
		
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			the side,
		
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			and we wanted we really came here to
		
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			try to learn from the Sheikh. And the
		
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			Sheikh said, my Indi walked. I don't have
		
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			any time.
		
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			The next day we came, same scenario.
		
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			Sheikh, Sheikh, Sheikh. Don't ask. We have a
		
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			question. We have a question.
		
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			90 what?
		
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			The 3rd day we went.
		
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			Same thing. Sheikh,
		
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			let him know Mujood. We're here, Sheikh. We
		
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			have a question.
		
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			It's about his book.
		
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			Sheikh said,
		
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			90 what?
		
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			90, 90. I have no time. No.
		
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			It hurt our heart so much
		
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			that when the non Muslim said,
		
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			no one cares how much you know until
		
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			they know how much you care. I didn't
		
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			understand that phrase, that slogan,
		
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			until I actually seen it practiced amongst our
		
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			leading scholars.
		
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			Yes, I mentioned his name, you're gonna go.
		
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			You're gonna be surprised.
		
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			You're gonna be surprised.
		
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			One of the leading scholars. So the question
		
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			is, brothers,
		
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			can we learn from the non Muslims? Yes,
		
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			we can. Can we learn from our teachers?
		
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			Yes, we can. Not only do we learn
		
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			the right things from our teachers, but we
		
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			learn sometimes the wrong things on what we
		
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			shouldn't do. It's a time of study. Now,
		
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			I don't have I'll tell you guys this.
		
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			I have
		
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			What time do we have, Shiv? What time
		
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			is left? It's hours. It's What time is
		
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			it? What time? I mean, 1:50 or something.
		
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			Okay. We have 2 more hours. I don't
		
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			have
		
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			You know the knowledge that I have, guys?
		
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			No one in this room has this knowledge
		
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			but me.
		
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			Okay. Listen. Maybe one day you'll get enough
		
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			knowledge and respect that people will let you
		
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			come and give the lecture. But until then,
		
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			the chef, he's given me permission and all
		
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			the teachers here, they gave me permission to
		
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			come. And I like to come because I
		
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			care.
		
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			Nobody's bringing me any bechamel or any fancy
		
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			samosa or anything. I didn't get nothing.
		
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			I came here because I love you guys.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			Who knows?
		
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			I know you. Are you a Muslim?
		
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			Yes. Do you mind from you're from my
		
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			family?
		
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			Okay, guys. You guys made me you guys
		
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			are making me forget my point now because
		
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			I have to come home. Yeah. You said
		
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			you have some knowledge that no one has.
		
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			Okay. So here we go.
		
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			The prophet said
		
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			Islam in a faqihum.
		
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			He said the best of you in the
		
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			days of ignorance
		
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			will be will come the best of you
		
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			in Islam if Allah gives you knowledge of
		
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			the religion, religion. Also, Al Khattabi said,
		
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			He who doesn't know jahaliyah, meaning the days
		
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			of ignorance,
		
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			they won't know Islam
		
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			I got it. Too slow.
		
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			I got to go. Too slow. I got
		
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			to go. So here's the thing, guys. I
		
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			want you guys listen to me. Listen to
		
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			me. I'm gonna leave right now. I want
		
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			you guys when you come to this school
		
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			when you guys come to this school,
		
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			I want you guys to try your best
		
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			to pay attention for as long as you
		
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			can because there may be a life lesson
		
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			there that if you learn it the first
		
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			time, it may save you down the road.
		
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			I made lots of mistakes and when I
		
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			was in when I was your age, I
		
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			didn't pay attention to school.
		
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			I in high school, when I was in
		
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			grade 11,
		
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			Sister,
		
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			I would fall asleep in the science class.
		
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			Okay?
		
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			And when it came time to write the
		
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			exam, I would still get 75%
		
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			in the science.
		
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			So imagine, Shay, if I actually would have
		
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			studied science, I might have been one of
		
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			the leading scientists in the world
		
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			because I got the groovy socks and I
		
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			got the cool hairstyle. Awesome. And I'm just
		
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			cool that I'm smart like that. Yeah. Is
		
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			that right? Yeah. Alright. You can be smart
		
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			too, but you gotta do the right thing.
		
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			You gotta be here as well. Yes. Okay.
		
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			Yes. Okay. Yes. That's alright.