Mustafa Khattab – Closer to Allah 24 Types of Patience Ramadan 2011

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses three types of patience: patience at difficult times, patience in not doing something evil, and patience in doing the good. The speaker also provides information on the importance of praying for others and not giving money to poor people. The speaker also mentions a winner for the day and a plan for the next day.
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And you can't make up for anything,

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that you did in the past. You still

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can make up. You have the time. 1

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week is is a good time to come

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back, to turn to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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and to make up for anything that you

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did in the past.

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So today's means to get it closer to

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala is patience.

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Sub.

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Patience.

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Not only does sub gets you close to

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala, but it also gives

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you the love of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will always be

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you with you with his support

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and assistance.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says in the Quran

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that indeed

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Allah loves those who are patient

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and Allah is with those who are patient.

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So Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will always be

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you with you and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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will love you if you are patient.

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So the scholars classify patients into 3 groups.

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So the first one is patience at difficult

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times.

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The second type is patience,

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not to do something evil. And number 3,

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patience in doing the good.

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So the first one,

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the patience at difficult times. And we all

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know this one.

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So for example, if you lose a beloved

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one,

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if you lose your job,

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if your cat dies,

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all these things, they are difficult times and

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hardships for some people.

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So Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala says that give

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blood tiding to those who when afflicted with

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the hardship,

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they say to Allah, we belong and to

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Him we shall all return. For them

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is the grace and the mercy of Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and they are the ones

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who are truly guided.

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These three rewards given in this ad are

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never given to anyone else in the

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The second type of patience

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is patience in not doing something evil.

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If you look at the story of Yusuf

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Alaihi Salam chapter 12 in the Quran, when

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the wife of the the Al Aziz of

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Egypt, she was making all the moves, try

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to get him to commit adultery with her,

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and he said no.

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He was he could do it, but he

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said, I wouldn't do it because he was

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afraid of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And this

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is the second type. If you get the

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chance to do something wrong, but you stop

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because of the fear of Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala, then this is another type of patience.

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In

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Nur

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So this the third type of patience is

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patience in doing Ibadat

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like praying Fajr for example or giving your

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charity or salatah and so on and so

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forth. So in the winter the shaitan will

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come to you

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and this is a shaitan with a master's

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degree.

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He always quotes the Quran and Hadith to

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stop you from doing good. So if you

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wanna pray fast in the masjid in the

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winter, He will tell you, oh, come on,

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man. Come on. It's very cold outside. You

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will die. And Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala says

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says in the Quran, don't let your hands

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contribute to your own destruction. If you go

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outside, you will die. There's no question about

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this. They said it in the forecast last

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night.

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Yeah. There's no question.

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Okay.

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And if you manage to go outside

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outside,

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then your your car will be stuck in

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the snow and you would die, you will

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freeze to death.

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Okay? Okay. I'm not gonna pray a fast

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in the winter.

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In the summer, the same shaitan will come

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to you and tell you, okay, come on

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man,

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You slept like 15 minutes last night. The

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night is very short. And the prophet, salaam,

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says in the authentic hadith, and he will

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give you the chain of narrations

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that,

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your body has a right on you.

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Didn't the prophet, sasai, said this? You don't

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believe the prophet? Come on, man. Get some

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come on. Get some rest. Okay. So you

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don't pray for us in the winter, you

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don't pray for us in the summer. Okay.

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For Zakai, the same shaitan will come to

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you and say,

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If you give Zakah, your kids will be

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homeless.

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You you will not be able to pay

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your bills. Okay? You'll be in the streets.

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The Shaitan

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will always scare you of poverty. If you

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give Fisabilillah,

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then the shaitan will tell you, you will

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be homeless. You will not find you will

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not be able to put food in the

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table.

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So this story is about the Shaitan himself.

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This old man who was blind, he was

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very close to the masjid,

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and he was on the way to the

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masjid one day, so he stumbled in one

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of the holes that we had back home.

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Okay?

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So he cut himself, he doesn't want, he

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changed his clothes,

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he, put a bandage on, when he's cut,

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then he made the they went to the

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masjid, and he fell another time. He stumbled

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on a rock.

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Then he went home, he changed his clothes,

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he put a bandage on the cut, he

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made Bulu, and on the way to the

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Masjid, he was about to fall. Then all

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of a sudden, this man,

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Iblis, when Shaitan came in the form of

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of of a man

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out of nowhere, and he took his hands

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and he took him all the way to

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the Masjid.

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So when they went there, the man the

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old man told the Shaitan, okay, why don't

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you come and pray with us? He said,

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I don't pray. Why? Because I'm Shaitan. I

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don't pray. Okay? So he said, why did

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you do this? Why did you walk me

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all the way to the Masjid? He said,

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the first time when you fell down, I

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was afraid. I was terrified that Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala will forgive all your past sins

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because you you you, you stood up and

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you wanted to go and pray. You were

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patient.

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The second time when you filled out, I

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was scared that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will

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forgive your entire family. The third time when

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you were about to fall down, I was

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terrified that Allah will forgive all the the

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whole town because of your deed.

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And

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I work

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overtime, all you blow and you come for

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a small deal like this, and Allah will

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forgive you. Come on, man. Come on.

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Al Aswad will answer the question was, can

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someone can a man give zakat to his

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poor mother, Huskinah? And the answer is no.

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For a man, there are certain people that

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he is not allowed to give zakat to.

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That is his wife, his children, his father,

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and his mother.

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The man has to provide for these people

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even if he is poor. You don't give

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them Zakat. This is the right on you.

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You don't give them Zakat. You give them

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you provide for them.

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So I'll go.

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Okay. The winner for yesterday is brother Yusuf

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Sharif. Where is he?

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It's all in the face.

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Uh-huh.

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It's got a too hard in South Africa.

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I know you. He sent me the,

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answer in an email. He sent the commasheb.

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Wallahi, he put a note on my door

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in my house.

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Has orphans,

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her husband died, and she has an amount

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of money that she should give the the

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Zakah out. She should she give the Zakah

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out, or should she keep the money for

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the little orphans? If you know the answer,

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you may have me before tomorrow. Asa at

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CIC, imanajun, will come to Zechul Mulkar.

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