Mustafa Khattab – Closer to Allah 19 Deeds Not Raised Ramadan 2011

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the importance of cutting people and their biological relatives, and how cutting a family is a violation of man's will. They also mention a story about a man who had a conflict with his wife and would have to wait for 3 months before getting married to another woman. The speaker encourages viewers to email them before tomorrow to win a prize of $25.
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So sometimes

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you do all different Ibaals. You go to

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the masjid 7 times a day.

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You circle the Kaaba

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9 times

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in the home.

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You fast

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set 37 days in Ramadan.

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You do more than what is necessary,

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but your actions are not raised to Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And the reason is

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the Prophet SAW Alaihi Wasallam is telling us

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Allah

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Subhanahu

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Wa

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Ta'ala.

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So

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will accept them and

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forgive your sins except for those who are

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boycotting one another.

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They're cutting off each other.

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They don't have good relations. They're not talking

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to one another. Then Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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will say, turn back

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the deeds of these 2 until they reconcile,

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until they make peace with one another.

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So if you are by cutting someone,

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usually for no reason, try to make peace

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with them. And the prophet says

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that the best of the 2 who are

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by cutting one another are those who start

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making peace.

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This is the best of the 2.

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By cutting

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your brother, I'm talking about your biological brother

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and biological sister, or by cutting your aunt

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and uncle, and you never talk to them

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for something

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trivialities.

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So if you are by cutting someone for

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a good reason, like someone

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is is a thief, you are by cutting

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them or someone is not praying, there is

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a good reason to boycott them. But if

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you are by cutting someone

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for refusing to pay for your Tim Hortons,

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I didn't disrespect come on, man.

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So by cutting your uncle, your aunt, your

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brother, your sister, this is even worse. And

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the worst of my cutting is

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The people who care for

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you when you were young, you were helpless,

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and they took very good care of you.

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And you are good to your friends,

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and you are very nasty with your parents.

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Allah, this is not good. This is not

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good.

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Somebody will come to me and say, I'm

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by cutting my father. I'm not talking to

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my father. Why? I don't like his haircut.

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What is this, man? Or I'm not talking

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to my mother. Why? Because she refused to

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buy me a fan in the winter.

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So Al Arab is this guy. It's a

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very famous story in Islamic flood literature. He

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had a conflict with his wife,

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so he brought an idiot to make peace

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between him and his wife.

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So the guy

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came with his hands in his pocket, like,

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he's very confident.

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And he said, okay, this your husband is

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a very good guy. Don't worry about his,

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mental problems and about his psychological problems and

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about his health problems, and

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etcetera, etcetera. So he kicked him out and

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he beat him Abdullahi, said, May Allah kill

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you. You told her about some of my

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problems that she never knows about.

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I'm bringing

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He said, I claim had told me that

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Abdullah Abbas told him that he heard the

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prophet

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say that if a Muslim has two qualities,

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he will go to Jannah first place.

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Then

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he was quiet. Then they said, what are

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these 2 qualities? He said, I couldn't forgot

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1, and I forgot the second. Go home.

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Jazak bin Lawfare. The question for yesterday was,

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When I give either is sad to Amr,

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but if someone intentionally does not give Zakab

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al Fitr, he would have to give it

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after Daid, and it will be a charity

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for him, not Zakab al Fitr.

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One of the brothers was acting was asking,

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why do you give us very easy questions?

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Okay.

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Don't complain later.

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Okay. Before I give you the difficult question,

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the question

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for yesterday, the winner is brother Mustafa Mohammed.

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Why aren't these guys so nice?

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Okay.

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The question for today.

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If you can.

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Okay.

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If a woman gets a divorce, she will

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have to wait for 3 months before her

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before she can get married to someone else.

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If she is pregnant, she will have to

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wait until she delivers.

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In some cases in the food, that man

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has to wait for 3 months before he

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can get married to another woman, or he

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will have to wait till his wife delivers

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the baby. It It is not permissible for

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him to get married in 3 months or

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until she delivers. There are several cases, give

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me one if you can.

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If you know the answer,

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good luck. Email me before tomorrowas@[email protected],

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and the prize is not $20, it's $25.

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