Mustafa Khattab – Closer to Allah 19 Deeds Not Raised Ramadan 2011

Mustafa Khattab
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The speaker discusses the importance of cutting people and their biological relatives, and how cutting a family is a violation of man's will. They also mention a story about a man who had a conflict with his wife and would have to wait for 3 months before getting married to another woman. The speaker encourages viewers to email them before tomorrow to win a prize of $25.

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			So sometimes
		
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			you do all different Ibaals. You go to
		
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			the masjid 7 times a day.
		
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			You circle the Kaaba
		
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			9 times
		
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			in the home.
		
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			You fast
		
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			set 37 days in Ramadan.
		
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			You do more than what is necessary,
		
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			but your actions are not raised to Allah
		
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			Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. And the reason is
		
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			the Prophet SAW Alaihi Wasallam is telling us
		
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			Allah
		
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			Subhanahu
		
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			Wa
		
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			Ta'ala.
		
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			So
		
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			Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala will accept them and
		
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			forgive your sins except for those who are
		
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			boycotting one another.
		
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			They're cutting off each other.
		
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			They don't have good relations. They're not talking
		
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			to one another. Then Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			will say, turn back
		
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			the deeds of these 2 until they reconcile,
		
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			until they make peace with one another.
		
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			So if you are by cutting someone,
		
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			usually for no reason, try to make peace
		
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			with them. And the prophet says
		
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			that the best of the 2 who are
		
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			by cutting one another are those who start
		
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			making peace.
		
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			This is the best of the 2.
		
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			By cutting
		
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			your brother, I'm talking about your biological brother
		
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			and biological sister, or by cutting your aunt
		
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			and uncle, and you never talk to them
		
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			for something
		
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			trivialities.
		
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			So if you are by cutting someone for
		
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			a good reason, like someone
		
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			is is a thief, you are by cutting
		
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			them or someone is not praying, there is
		
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			a good reason to boycott them. But if
		
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			you are by cutting someone
		
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			for refusing to pay for your Tim Hortons,
		
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			I didn't disrespect come on, man.
		
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			So by cutting your uncle, your aunt, your
		
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			brother, your sister, this is even worse. And
		
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			the worst of my cutting is
		
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			The people who care for
		
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			you when you were young, you were helpless,
		
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			and they took very good care of you.
		
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			And you are good to your friends,
		
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			and you are very nasty with your parents.
		
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			Allah, this is not good. This is not
		
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			good.
		
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			Somebody will come to me and say, I'm
		
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			by cutting my father. I'm not talking to
		
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			my father. Why? I don't like his haircut.
		
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			What is this, man? Or I'm not talking
		
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			to my mother. Why? Because she refused to
		
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			buy me a fan in the winter.
		
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			So Al Arab is this guy. It's a
		
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			very famous story in Islamic flood literature. He
		
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			had a conflict with his wife,
		
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			so he brought an idiot to make peace
		
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			between him and his wife.
		
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			So the guy
		
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			came with his hands in his pocket, like,
		
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			he's very confident.
		
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			And he said, okay, this your husband is
		
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			a very good guy. Don't worry about his,
		
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			mental problems and about his psychological problems and
		
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			about his health problems, and
		
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			etcetera, etcetera. So he kicked him out and
		
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			he beat him Abdullahi, said, May Allah kill
		
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			you. You told her about some of my
		
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			problems that she never knows about.
		
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			I'm bringing
		
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			He said, I claim had told me that
		
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			Abdullah Abbas told him that he heard the
		
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			prophet
		
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			say that if a Muslim has two qualities,
		
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			he will go to Jannah first place.
		
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			Then
		
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			he was quiet. Then they said, what are
		
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			these 2 qualities? He said, I couldn't forgot
		
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			1, and I forgot the second. Go home.
		
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			Jazak bin Lawfare. The question for yesterday was,
		
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			When I give either is sad to Amr,
		
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			but if someone intentionally does not give Zakab
		
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			al Fitr, he would have to give it
		
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			after Daid, and it will be a charity
		
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			for him, not Zakab al Fitr.
		
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			One of the brothers was acting was asking,
		
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			why do you give us very easy questions?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			Don't complain later.
		
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			Okay. Before I give you the difficult question,
		
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			the question
		
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			for yesterday, the winner is brother Mustafa Mohammed.
		
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			Why aren't these guys so nice?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			The question for today.
		
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			If you can.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			If a woman gets a divorce, she will
		
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			have to wait for 3 months before her
		
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			before she can get married to someone else.
		
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			If she is pregnant, she will have to
		
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			wait until she delivers.
		
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			In some cases in the food, that man
		
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			has to wait for 3 months before he
		
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			can get married to another woman, or he
		
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			will have to wait till his wife delivers
		
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			the baby. It It is not permissible for
		
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			him to get married in 3 months or
		
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			until she delivers. There are several cases, give
		
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			me one if you can.
		
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			If you know the answer,
		
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			good luck. Email me before tomorrowas@[email protected],
		
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			and the prize is not $20, it's $25.